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Divineluv14:
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Welcome to Nigeria.

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Yungin:
Girls are so mean. I'll give you instances.
I have a barber friend who was crushing on this big babe and he decided to approach her ( his doom ). So that day her friends and her walked past his shop and he stopped her, and said just one word "hello", and she turned with a sneer on her face, turned to her friends and stated laughing. My guy just shamefully turned back.

I was in a cab waiting for passengers to enter, this girl was sitting by the window side too. One guy walked to enter the car, he kindly asked her to scoot over so he could sit down, but she didnt respond, he asked her severely before she signalled with her fingers that he should turn around and pass through the other door. The guy ask her again ( the guy get patients sha ) and this time she said "pass the other way, i cannot shift".

I was in an unfamiliar street and decided to ask for directions, i saw this fine chick, and i said "hello, i'm new to this area... Before i could finish sef the babe turned looked at me like i was nothing and walked on hastily.

Some appear to be deaf when you speak them
Girls why are you mean what is it with your Almighty Ego?

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emusmith:
We are all different and as such our opinions are... we must to disagree to agree... it's OK, bro.

Am cool, be good

emusmith:
E do... Why small thing dey vex una?

My dear i wasnt vexed, i just sticked to my views.

Am aware ladies like acting as being victimized.

She took it personal, she is the one that said my views made her sick, and it was a mistake following me here.

I say the truth ,no matter how it sounds.
I dont tell people what they want to hear to present myself as a nice guy.

This is how guys deceive ladies, by lying to them and telling them what the wanna hear,

I insisted she could be different but it doesn't change the reality out there.

Have a blissful day

Herzumpther:
Abeg leave me.you have your opinion and I have mine so e don do abi you don hate me already

I don't need a GEJ for a hubby but trust me, hubby and I will make life together . I'm not working because of me but because of my family I will soon have so forget, I can't speak for all females but for myself. My dad was not a GEJ before mum married him and today we are cool with the little we have. I know what I want and I'm heading for it.

Your 95% Nigeria ladies accusation is not cool abeg, na only yourself you know. My 2 cent o.

Ideology you win, can we let I slide now

Am free dude and open minded, no biggie

Herzumpther:
To even think I followed you down to this thread you con dey carry the matter personal. That babe wet break your heart do you strong thing o. I won't follow you to any thread again @ ideology.

You are on your own and you are the one taking it personal

For the record,
Have not been in any relationship since I was born, take note.

am not the normal Nigerian guy you see on the street or around town.

I know what I want and at the right time everything will fall into place.

Herzumpther:





i have female colleagues whose parents especially mothers told them the guy must be rich and from a well connected family



That's your female colleagues and not 95% Nigerian Ladies.

Take it or leave it, it has gone as bad as parents encouraging it. You can have your statistics even in churches I know what Is happening.

Immediately a lady sees you, in few seconds she has assessed your worth, looking at you from the shoes you are wearing to your clothes, wrist watch, belt, cologne even hair-do.

If you are different just count yourself among the remaining 5%

Herzumpther,
This is Why I said I don't like talking about it.

I can list other points outside money.

Herzumpther:
For the first bolded, that why its your opinion bro, you have yours and i have mine so its cool.

For the second bolded, all i have to say/do is SMH.

BTW I don't stand for lies oga ideology..... Wow...in fact I give up.

My dear am saying from what I know, i have friends that Had ladies that said yes to them and were working towards marriage, another man came out from somewhere behold those ladies have gotten married to someone else.

Do you know what it means to say yes to a proposal, then getting married to another man because he drove a finer car and came up with excuses. If you know what you want you won't say "yes " to a man and even give attention to another man. Shikina.

That is why Men use money as baits.

I insist, you may be different but Am telling you the truth, you can hate me for it.

Saying the truth is what Makes me as it is ideology

This is one of the ways guys deceive ladies, by telling them what they want to hear.
I don't tell people what they want to hear

i have female colleagues whose parents especially mothers told them the guy must be rich and from a well connected family

This is the reality in Nigeria

Herzumpther:
The way you talk about money makes me sick. If we all are to talk base on our experiences you will realize that we have so many hungry guys outhere looking for babes with fat acct too @ ideology...

NB- I don't mean to speak ill of guys o before they eat me up. It's just my 2 cent o.

You can feel that way, but Am telling you the truth. I Stand for the truth, i say it no matter how it may sound even if it hurts.

Am aware of guys like you mentioned, but We know the statistics its rare. The man will still be the one paying the bride price and running the home in the end. Most men chasing women for money don't marry them but Ladies use money as a yardstick to choose husbands that is my point

And I will not change my opinion on this except the lady is not a Nigerian.

Herzumpther:
What do you mean by If he has future Menh I don't dig that one bit. ....originality rocks.

For the bolded I don't know about that.

I quoted you

Herzumpther:
If you say so although I don't think it's as bad as guys make it sound.

Well he who sees beyond today won't be all about money, where the world is going is too strong for the eyes to see

See the emboldened

emusmith:
Sorry to interrupt... Following you guys conversation keenly... What do you as a lady reaaaally want from a man? In all areas?

Bro, listen and quote me anywhere, in the subconscious mind of 95% Of Nigerian ladies, how much money the man has is considered more important than his pedigree.

Herzumpther:
If you say so although I don't think it's as bad as guys make it sound.

Well he who sees beyond today won't be all about money, where the world is going is too strong for the eyes to see.

Emmm I don't think guys are innocent too.

My dear even the ladies acting nice by saying if he has future, its not so In reality. Those ladies are just saying it to be seen as good babes.

If I should also add, it is easier to find a man dating one lady than to find a woman dating one man.

Only someone that knows what he wants that dates only one person

Herzumpther:
I'm not annoyed. Its just that the way guys talk about ladies and money is something else.

I'm a lady and will continue to be myself o.

That is why I said you might be different.
But the statistics out there says it all, esp Nigerian ladies


If I should also add, it is easier to find a man dating one lady than to find a woman dating one man.

Herzumpther:
Mtchew. I think say you get better point to backup wetin you talk.

No need to get annoyed, you may be different.
But Am telling you the reality.

Herzumpther:
So Ladies that are ready to settle down don't know what they want hun If you say so o.

Sorry I know, they want money, that is why If they see another person richer than you, you are a gunner except age is not on their side.

Herzumpther:
Most men too.

If you say so.
But I think men are just catching fun.
Even the bad guys, when it is time to settle down they know what they want.

Herzumpther:
Why do you feel they are not loyal?

I don't like talking about it.
But Generally most women don't know what love is neither do they know what they really want

Herzumpther:
Nice.
Na your kind babes dey look for.

That is what I have heard.

But Most of those babes are not loyal

Herzumpther:
Ideology I'm sure you can do all op stated above.

Well what op specifically mentioned wives, howbeit, a man can do all that as well. When romance is one -sided boredom sets in.

Herzumpther:
Lol. I nor sabi cook o.

I hear

Herzumpther:
Where you see madam homely?

Hehehe,
Wetin you cook this evening

Herzumpther:
Alright I will do them when I get married.

Madame homely

emusmith:
As in enh... the marriage gradually begins to crash because they neglect what drew them together in the first place...

What I have noticed, generally is that the women are giving attention to young men to derive romance that they are not getting from home.

emusmith:
Hmm.

That's the truth, romance is fading in most marriages. Sometimes it's one -sided, the man does everything, the lady always expects gifts, taken out to cinema, dinner etc.

Very few ladies reciprocate with the list you made above. Better still both return late from work.

naijaboiy:
I wonder how many girls these days can actually do this without having any ulterior motive behind

Most ladies are not even doing it all.
I don't blame them things are changing.
Some men return late from work, some work from Sunday to Sunday, no time for romance