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Prexxy1:
D babe is too classic for ugly broke dude lyk u

I saw your post on the gold digging thread and I respected you. But Seeing you call a guy broke and ugly is contradicting your post on that thread.

Maybe you should rephrase your statement.
#No offense, just passing

Elantracey:
hehehe


I guess so

See eh n, na him we suppose give reminder, at least make him no forget new year

Elantracey:
Nothing here o , they all disappointed me specialist especially.

Including Noval

Elantracey:
Which other option do I have than to wait

Hehehe,
Wait o o, the other gifts you were expecting from specialist and mummy never show

Elantracey:
Chai there is God o

this lies you're sharing

Hehehe, well said
Let's see next Christmas

tjones007:
Gold diggers dates a rich guy.
Rich guy propose to gold digger
Gold digger advance to a lady getting married to a financially stable dude.

Then you don't really know what gold digging is.
Here is a summary of who a gold digging is

Things You Do That Make Guys Refer To You As A Gold Digger

1. if you are quick to refer to guys as being jobless or broke at any slight attack 'cos an average gold digger will refer to guys as being broke especially in a thread like this. My dear, you are a gold digger

2. If a dude walks up to you and you embarrassed him but the moment you see him driving a car, you start being nice, thereby showing signs of remorse. My dear, you are a gold digger

3. When you visit a dude and you believe it's mandatory he always pays for your visit else you wont visit him anymore. You are a gold digger

4. If you are the type that always says you don't call guys with your recharge card. An atom of gold digging will definitely be in your veins

5. if you are lazy and you think you have to hustle less a lady thereby waiting for a dude that will come from nowhere and carry all your financial burden because you are a lady. You are a gold digger

6. When you are so concerned about receiving than giving, you are a gold digger

7. When a guy calls you and he avoids asking why you haven't called him 'cos he knows you will definitely say you've got no recharge card and that he should send to you after dropping the call. You are a gold digger

8. if you suddenly become being nice to a dude because your BIS will expire very soon. You are a gold digger

9. If you tax different species of guys for money because you want to replace your phone. You are a gold digger

10. If the only criterial for selecting your dream man is only based on the weight of his pocket and nothing more. My dear, you are a gold digger at PhD level

Written by- Tosyne2much

tosyne2much:
Bwhahahahahahaa lwkmd lwtmb

Chaiiiii I laf so tey everybody for house dey look me here ooooo

Which kind thread you create so ?

Cc:
Chibwike
Naijaboiy

Francistony
Op is contradicting himself.
There's a big difference between gold digging and a lady getting married to a financially stable dude

Mzflexydeeva:
the going is fyn.

Where have you been?

Have been around town just observing things,

Since you are the busy type

Elantracey:
With yam and palm wine? your own father Christmas nor be here o

Just wanted to do something different

Mzflexydeeva:
longg tym, merry Christmas

Yea dear, how is the going

Elantracey:
Na father Christmas you be pack all this one give?

how you be expect say make he carry am?

Father christmas, de do. Am before na.
Travelling around the world to drop gifts

Elantracey:
which gift was it?

Dry fish, 5tubbers of yam, 10litres of palm wine, ehmmm i don forget the other ones

Elantracey:
Have you seen a real father Christmas ?

Not yet but the gift I earlier sent is gone

Elantracey:
Which father Christmas ? Nor be true joor

Wait o obe like the guy duped me o
He's not really a Father Christmas.

Pls help me call 911

HFOG:
But we no get our share na

Check your fridge, i came around yesterday, i only met your hubby, but I dropped 4litres of palm wine

Elantracey:
I know say he too food especially chicken , where ma Christmas gift nau , I suppose open am today o

Hehehe, wait o o, choi.
I sent through father Christmas, him never show??

DjHypno:
That's why I hate some Naija girls... I've got one that each time she comes over, there's always a nag when she calls that she's now home. She actually takes a bike of #200 to and fro and I do give her #1000 for Tfare, still this biatch will still complain that it's too small, "don't you think I'm bigger than 1k".
What do we call this kind of girl nairalanders? Her matter tire me.

She obviously had money in mind while coming, its business. She invested 200 wants to make profits.

Hehehe,

tosyne2much:
May God bless you bro

I don't know why dudes here try as much as possible to hide the truth and start spewing poo just to portray an attractive person in the sight of the ladies.. There's a trending topic in the section titled" Why is gold digging more of a woman thing and I was amazed at the comments I saw.. A dude was just blabbing even when the truth is staring at him. That's one thing I will never do. Let any lady who wants to hate me for the truth hate me

Ladies should also be able to contribute in relationship rather than mounting financial pressure on the dude. However, I don't keep friends who are not ready to lose, so why would there be an exception to the ladies ? I've got friends in school who are not ready to lose one naira even as we call ourselves friend. They visit when they feel you will fill their stomach when they come visiting

I saw the thread, Gold digging must involve gold(money ) but Guys are trading that path too.

Leave those guys that wants to be seen as nice guys. They are fake and bad guys. They don't last.

tosyne2much:
What kind of silly replies am I seeing up there ? Is it that people lack question answering skill or what ?

Did the OP complain about the money ? He only said "does courtesy demand he gives her T-fare for every visit "

OP, it's not a bad idea giving t-fare each time she comes, it will only be a silly thing if she thinks it is mandatory you pay for every visit

Financial pressure shouldnt be one sided.. Both sides have something to lose in a relationship. Any lady who is not ready to lose in terms of finance has no business being in a relationship

Some guys are funny though.
they think supporting ladies all the time makes them likable better still nice guys or gentlemen.

In fact most of these dudes are bad guys, trying to attract ladies by supporting everything they do.

If I may say, guys are the ones spoiling ladies, by making them feel that is the way and Its their right to get anything they want, all guys need to do is to say "yes " to them.

In the OP's case the girl is thinking it's her right maybe because that appears to be the norm or because Op has been doing it all along.

Sometimes I marvel at the mentality/views of some folks on relationship matters. What is the role of a lady in relationships?? is it just to be a receiver??
What is 150 that she couldn't pay for herself if she's really loves the guy!!

back in university days, some ladies would say that they want to visit me, well, i'll reply my door is open, they could visit but Let me know when they are coming. Guess what, they will say that they are not coming till I invite them. I just told them that I don't invite people to visit me, because I don't get invited when I visit others including them, I visit because I care. I tell you none of them visited me till I graduated. that showed you the mindset of some ladies, probably because that's how They have been treated all along, they now feel its the norm or their right.

Even during NYSC, my no is no, a lady once said if not that She knew me she would call me gay because I don't give a damn, I can be jovial and nice but when it comes to serious issues I stick to my stand.

@ochilikoko, if you invited her, sorry bro you should at least appreciate for for coming, better still if you want to see her visit her, or she wants to see you let her visit you on her own.

There's nothing wrong with a lady preferring to get married to a financially stable dude

But That doesn't mean someone should come here to change the meaning of gold digging. …
unless you are trying to impress ladies and act like a nice guy. I hope you won't change your stand tomorrow. You won't last …

#No offense

When one talks of gold digging, gold must be involved, ie. Money.
Well I think guys are into it too of recent.

brito:
sure? I don't have access to it, u understand

Maybe …
Alright Dear, sweet dreams, see you around some other day

dazzlingPamela:
I am still single.and observing things for now.

You are right, boys. Not real men

brito:
ok, you win

Hahaha

Have I won any argument with a lady before

brito:
Hahaha, I be woman na, most women get mind

So I heard.

But i don try na.
Let's share by first January plsss

[quote author=brito post=29199729][/quote]You get mind o.

Expect you be my wife though

brito:
Ladies first, you ought to displease yourself to please a lady

Choi,
Anyway ladies first true, but Displeasure was not included

Or u mean buying sharwama and wine for a lady and drinking water at Kilimanjaro

Kikikikokoiiooo

brito:
Lolz, there's love in sharing you know

That is what Am Saying.

Let's share by January 1st. The remaining 1bottle

brito:
I want it now or never

Never
See as we don derail the thread

brito:
Lolz, you try, where's mine

They were just seven and I consumed all 7up,

Wait o o, there is 1bottle remaining for 1st January, if you don't mind, we will share by then.

mizjules:
I'm fabulous you?

Am thankful, how many plates you chop today?

davdandam:
Apcccccc chai see this mumuuu peeps. ....and pls has aregbesola paid staffs in osun state? I'm in osun right now and it's not funny o. ....politics is just plain deceit. Quote me and die by fire.

Fayemi left office owing 3months salary,
Apc with propaganda, now they are putting the blame on Fayose.

How could He pay 5months salary in 2months

brito:
Hmmmm......what?

I got drunk with 7bottles of 7up