₦airaland Forum

Remudiagan:
As a man, don’t do 50/50 with your woman if you want to maintain your respect

So, the men that are doing 100%, are they getting respect in their houses

This has nothing to do with respect but submission. The truth of the matter is that 21st ladies don't want to submit to men again. They just need marriage to have children. They don't want to be under the control of any man. Their loyalty to men is practically zero. That is why marriages are collapsing daily.

How about all these people that call themselves "professors" teaching people how to buy foreign stocks with high yields and trading for them, are they legit

Where you stay in Nigeria is a major factor that needs to be considered to be able to answer the question.

What you will need to survive in Abuja is not the same as if you live in Maiduguri.

Aunty, 99% of those men and not interested in any marriage to you. They just want to KNACK you and move on to their next customer.

Krankhead:
I DON'T KNOW WHY PEOPLE RESIDE IN NIGERIA WILL JUST BE ANALYSING USA ISSUES. THEY EVEN BELIVE THEY KNOW MORE THAN PROPLE THAT RESIDE IN USA

Same way you guys in the US always analyze Nigeria issues as if you live in Nigeria.

Another pastor has used tithe money to enrich a disguised olosho

This is what Pastor chris Okafor erstwhile nollyhood girlfriend of 7 years is demanding for as compensation.

Tithe money is doing wonders in this country.

Olat4421:
Arteta maresca alonso kompany xavi even ten hag all learn from guardiola

If Tinubu were to be Guardiola, by now he would have started boasting that he built global football and he built FIFA.

Savenigeria2023:
No need asking them, when it’s time to vote again, they will remember they belong to an ethnic group.

Nigerians are terribly damaged

All the ban they all placed on Putin over war with Ukraine, in what way has it affected Russia. I'm surprised that the world is talking about genocide against Palestine when Palenstine have been carrying out genocide against Israel for decades and nobody talked.

There is double standard everywhere in the world

Was shock when i saw the picture of her at the gym. And this is the person some men will be shouting whaoooo....whaoooo for on social media when she displace her artificial pan cake face. Women and deception sha. Men, be careful not to go buy FAKE product on social media oooo. This girl na real FAKE.

[/b]"Yari must be heavy for president Tinubu's eyes. Unusual of him attending wedding"[b]

Not really, he just need Kaduna votes. Hence, he will do everything to please the governor.

emmansus:
Babe don’t worry we will get married as soon as my parents consent to our relationship
Up till now since 15 years plus,him parents never consent
Parents wey I no take my two neked eyes see for ones.the idiotttt they use me quench conji that year.thank God I wise pass tortoise eversince.

That your boyfriend na BAD GUY

Oga, this surest way to make it as a lawyer in nigeria is to become an overnight human right activist and start protesting on the streets of lagos and Abuja for vulnerable citizens. From there , you easily become visible and clients start chasing you as a human right activist (Though FAKE activist). There after join politics and if you fail, join any government in power to make it big.

Example of such overnight activists abound everywhere in Nigeria like Keyamo, Olisa Agbakoba, Femi Falana, Wahab Shittu, that GEJ government lawyer from Edo (I have forgotten his name now) etc. Deji Adeyanju is currently doing same.

That human rights activist strategy works like magic.

Why did he now run out of his hotel room to call for help when the substance started reacting in his body ?
Thought he wanted to die.

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Everyday247:
Big breasts - ₦500
Big Nyash - ₦500
The rest are irrelevant. 😏

HenryWilliams:
From Wealthy to well off.
Family owned fleet of trailers back in the 80s transporting products for Lever Brothers, Flour Mills etc across Nigeria. Very lucrative.
Very prosperous, UK, Jand every summer. Best schools ..the works. The whole wahala started when Pops delved into politics in the Abacha era with DPN contesting. After that fiasco ended, he turned to PDP in Lagos..was considered a moneybag..was drained financially..truck business wasn't booming as before..sold.his trucks to nurse political ambition..all those sleazy people just sucked him dry..
Well know..kids are all grown up ..married and doing good individually and collectively.
Not Wealthy but well off.

Hmmm, Nothing drains wealth faster than politics.

Ballzproblemm:
I won't say rich per say maybe middle class,dad own two cars, multiple shops, didn't go to school but trained his brothers.

Business stopped prospering,his last shop got demolished.

Did the brothers he helped come to his rescue when things went bad for him ?

We might learn something from here.

Man city is currently doing black Friday promo. No winning for them until they after the promo

pyyxxaro:
She go use the mattress for more knacking


She would be like , I have an orthopedic bed , if you pay extra we can use it , it’s more comfortable

Oga, that mattress is not orthopedic bed ooooo

Vintage001:
My wife just gave birth to twins

CONGRATULATIONS

BABANGBALI:
She no even fine self. See her mouth like pussy

shortgun:
There's nothing wrong with a contractor getting payment for his work

Everything is wrong in collecting those huge sums of money in cash.

Am trying to put one and two together. Hope this is not where Klopp is coming after Liverpool

Jovi10:
If pep no resign too, omo thats bye bye to competitive epl o. Mancity go just dey win am back to back to back

You are absolutely correct. Infact, I wont watch EPL again because those two coaches are the ones that make EPL competitive . They always fight to the end of the season for a winner to emerge. Once he leaves and PEP remains, that means Man City will be winning the league 8 months before the league ends.

Klopp was the one that made me fell in love with LIVERPOOL.

Obviously, one of the best managers in the world of football.

Guess, he is taking up an appointment to coach the German national team.

BOSSkesh:
Best African coach and I’m not even joking

GBAM !!!
No controversy about that.

Genotype changes for reason unknown to me. Before i got married, my fiancee and I went for genotype test in a reputable lab recommended by her church as that was the first condition given to us by her church before we could start marriage counselling. When we finished counseling in her church, it was the turn of my own church to do another round of counselling and they also referred us to do a genotype test which we also complied with.

Both labs sent our results directly to the two churches and the results were AA for both of us. Five years into the marriage after we've had two kids already, she had a medical issue and they had to do medical test for her and behold, her genotype result was AS. This shocked me and both of us had to go do another test in another lab again to confirm the new test result and while mine remained AA , her was confirmed again as AS. When the marriage clocked 15 years, myself and her and all our kids went for a fresh round of genotype test and all of us except my wife are AA with my wife as the only AS.

So genotype does change but i don't know the medical mystery behind it.

Stevenbright:
You said your wife told the brother she has 1.5m, that is where the issue is. The right thing for her to say is that we have 1.5m (you and her) from the sale of our car. By so doing, the brother will know you have contributed to the purchase of the car.

So, you don't really have to interface with the guy. Just tell your wife to clarify the issue with her brother.

Infact, if she wants to respect her husband before her brother, the statement shouldn't even be we have 1.5m, the statement should be my husband promised to give me 1.5m to buy a car. By saying that, the brother will now that the husband already played his role , its his sister that want something bigger.

Curiouscity:
Why do Nigerians expect things to change, yet we still do things the old way?

Someone just sent me a link for one of the states' organized Entrepreneurship Accelerator Programme (EAP). A quick look at the form, I noticed that the request the following:
* Marital Status
* Number of Children / age of children
* Religion and Denomination

What on earth is the usefulness of these information for a training program?

This is also of all employers in Nigeria. In fact, most CV (resumè) formats in Nigerian public and private sectors have space for above information. Please What is the usefulness of these usefulness information?

If its an international job, the information are needed for planing purpose on the part of the employer.

Its really unfortunate there is no longer trust in marriage.

The society is completely messed up such that trust is now fully eroded.

Too bad.

femi4:
family n friends....run to them, they are your hope of survival now

Even the family and friends you want to run to are going through same hard time.

Honestly, the country is tough and people are not smiling at all. It is well.

Hmmm, let me give you my story to encourage you. I finished school in 2003, got a good job in one of the telecom firms, worked hard, did my masters, got married and saved lots of money sufficient to start a business. Then in 2008, I felt i wasnt fulfiled with paid employment again.Dangote was always my role model, so I resigned and decided to go into business. I went into a good business, did well for few months and along the way, a staff connived with my supplier in a state in nigeria ,my capital vanished overnight and the rest is history.

By 2009, i was back to ground zero and every attempt I made to revive myself in business failed and full time HARDSHIP set into my life (probably like what you are facing now). To make matter worse, my wife who was a youth corper when i married her just had my first baby around this time . So the baby arrival, wife not working and myself not working againg made matter worse. We were practically living from hands to mouth. It was a hell but that was the beginning of my hell. By mid 2010, my wife had to go take a teaching job in a nusery school near our house in lagos then with a baby of less than one year at hand. The salary was 10K and that was the only money coming into the family.

When depression was knocking at my door, one day, i left the house and worked kilometers away from home with no destination in mind. I was just going, weeping inward and praying in ward for God to show me mercy for the sake of my new baby. Then, all of a sudden, having worked kilometers, i saw a shop where they were selling phone accessories and i walked in. I told the young guy there (younger than me by years), i told him i would want help him to be marketing his accessories daily around the neighbouhood and he would be paying me commission on every sales I make per day.

The young man looked at me and asked if he could trust me and i assured him that i wont dissapear him. I was speaking good english and I think the guy just feel in love with me. So, he asked me to start that day.He didnt know me, no guarantor, no application, nothing whatsoever. He just trusted me .He gave me 3 pieces of charger, phone batteries, MP3 charger, power bank etc and i left his shop. I started moving from streets to streets and anybody i saw on the road, i would be marketing to them to buy charger, power bank etc. I would add a little mark to the price the guy gave me.
By 6pm, I would return to his shop and hand over my sales to him and return the unsold goods and he would pay me commission on what i sold and i would go home with about N700 or N800 commission and that would be our diner money for that day. It was a tough season that i never prayed for my enemy to go though. This was what i did from 2010 to 2013.

While i was doing this mobile sales job, I was applying for jobs daily with my 2.1 first degree certificate and my masters degree (I thank God i was smart enoughto do my masters when I was working in the telecom firm). I applied for uncountable number of vacancies but never got a job.

Fast forward to 2014,I was owing 2 years house rent and my landlord gave a quit notice to pack out. At that stage, God Almighty had mercy on me and one of the aptitude test i did came back with an invitation for interview. The challenge was that the interview was going to be in Abuja. I borrowed 5k from a friend to enter night bus to get to Abuja to attend the interview and behold God gave me the job. The starting salary was 560k (an international NGO) . From there, my story changed. That was how i relocated to Abuja and God saved me from landlord eviction embarrasment. Today, i work with a global organisation with multipe 6 digits fat salary, got houses of my own and other great achievements of life BUT with all that, I can never forget the years 2009 - 2014. Those were the darkest years of my life. I SUFFERED.

Op, i have been there before and i can relate with you that its a terrible place to be for a man. If you are not married, its still better for you. All you need to do is to start anything that you hands find to do,even it its labourer, please do it. Dont ever stay at home thinking because your problems will just be compounded. While doing anything you can lay your hands to do, please keep applying for jobs daily in hundreds and one day, I mean one day, the Good Lord will open that door for you and your life will never be the same again.Its a season and it will soon pass over. Wishing all the best.

Please, when you eventually get that God's favour and your story changes, kindly share the testimony here to motivate other. Aurevoir