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Sports / Re: "I Will Leave Barcelona at the end of the season" - Xavi Hernandes by idtiwo: 11:11pm On Jan 27
Am trying to put one and two together. Hope this is not where Klopp is coming after Liverpool

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Sports / Re: I Will Leave Liverpool At The End Of This Season - Klopp by idtiwo: 12:40pm On Jan 26
Jovi10:
If pep no resign too, omo thats bye bye to competitive epl o. Mancity go just dey win am back to back to back


You are absolutely correct. Infact, I wont watch EPL again because those two coaches are the ones that make EPL competitive . They always fight to the end of the season for a winner to emerge. Once he leaves and PEP remains, that means Man City will be winning the league 8 months before the league ends.

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Sports / Re: I Will Leave Liverpool At The End Of This Season - Klopp by idtiwo: 12:35pm On Jan 26
Klopp was the one that made me fell in love with LIVERPOOL.

Obviously, one of the best managers in the world of football.

Guess, he is taking up an appointment to coach the German national team.
Sports / Re: AFCON: Aliou Cisse Hospitalized After Cameroon Game by idtiwo: 12:06pm On Jan 21
BOSSkesh:
Best African coach and I’m not even joking


GBAM !!!
No controversy about that.
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Tested AA For Genotype When Young, Now She's Testing AS by idtiwo: 5:34pm On Jan 20
Genotype changes for reason unknown to me. Before i got married, my fiancee and I went for genotype test in a reputable lab recommended by her church as that was the first condition given to us by her church before we could start marriage counselling. When we finished counseling in her church, it was the turn of my own church to do another round of counselling and they also referred us to do a genotype test which we also complied with.

Both labs sent our results directly to the two churches and the results were AA for both of us. Five years into the marriage after we've had two kids already, she had a medical issue and they had to do medical test for her and behold, her genotype result was AS. This shocked me and both of us had to go do another test in another lab again to confirm the new test result and while mine remained AA , her was confirmed again as AS. When the marriage clocked 15 years, myself and her and all our kids went for a fresh round of genotype test and all of us except my wife are AA with my wife as the only AS.

So genotype does change but i don't know the medical mystery behind it.

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Family / Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by idtiwo: 12:18pm On Jan 11
Stevenbright:


You said your wife told the brother she has 1.5m, that is where the issue is. The right thing for her to say is that we have 1.5m (you and her) from the sale of our car. By so doing, the brother will know you have contributed to the purchase of the car.

So, you don't really have to interface with the guy. Just tell your wife to clarify the issue with her brother.

Infact, if she wants to respect her husband before her brother, the statement shouldn't even be we have 1.5m, the statement should be my husband promised to give me 1.5m to buy a car. By saying that, the brother will now that the husband already played his role , its his sister that want something bigger.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Why Do Nigerian Employers Request Irrelevant Information? by idtiwo: 11:28am On Dec 13, 2023
Curiouscity:
Why do Nigerians expect things to change, yet we still do things the old way?

Someone just sent me a link for one of the states' organized Entrepreneurship Accelerator Programme (EAP). A quick look at the form, I noticed that the request the following:
* Marital Status
* Number of Children / age of children
* Religion and Denomination

What on earth is the usefulness of these information for a training program?

This is also of all employers in Nigeria. In fact, most CV (resumè) formats in Nigerian public and private sectors have space for above information. Please What is the usefulness of these usefulness information?

If its an international job, the information are needed for planing purpose on the part of the employer.
Family / Re: Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by idtiwo: 12:05pm On Dec 05, 2023
Its really unfortunate there is no longer trust in marriage.

The society is completely messed up such that trust is now fully eroded.

Too bad.

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Career / Re: Coping After A Major Setback by idtiwo: 12:12pm On Dec 02, 2023
femi4:
family n friends....run to them, they are your hope of survival now

Even the family and friends you want to run to are going through same hard time.

Honestly, the country is tough and people are not smiling at all. It is well.
Career / Re: Coping After A Major Setback by idtiwo: 2:40pm On Nov 30, 2023
Hmmm, let me give you my story to encourage you. I finished school in 2003, got a good job in one of the telecom firms, worked hard, did my masters, got married and saved lots of money sufficient to start a business. Then in 2008, I felt i wasnt fulfiled with paid employment again.Dangote was always my role model, so I resigned and decided to go into business. I went into a good business, did well for few months and along the way, a staff connived with my supplier in a state in nigeria ,my capital vanished overnight and the rest is history.

By 2009, i was back to ground zero and every attempt I made to revive myself in business failed and full time HARDSHIP set into my life (probably like what you are facing now). To make matter worse, my wife who was a youth corper when i married her just had my first baby around this time . So the baby arrival, wife not working and myself not working againg made matter worse. We were practically living from hands to mouth. It was a hell but that was the beginning of my hell. By mid 2010, my wife had to go take a teaching job in a nusery school near our house in lagos then with a baby of less than one year at hand. The salary was 10K and that was the only money coming into the family.

When depression was knocking at my door, one day, i left the house and worked kilometers away from home with no destination in mind. I was just going, weeping inward and praying in ward for God to show me mercy for the sake of my new baby. Then, all of a sudden, having worked kilometers, i saw a shop where they were selling phone accessories and i walked in. I told the young guy there (younger than me by years), i told him i would want help him to be marketing his accessories daily around the neighbouhood and he would be paying me commission on every sales I make per day.

The young man looked at me and asked if he could trust me and i assured him that i wont dissapear him. I was speaking good english and I think the guy just feel in love with me. So, he asked me to start that day.He didnt know me, no guarantor, no application, nothing whatsoever. He just trusted me .He gave me 3 pieces of charger, phone batteries, MP3 charger, power bank etc and i left his shop. I started moving from streets to streets and anybody i saw on the road, i would be marketing to them to buy charger, power bank etc. I would add a little mark to the price the guy gave me.
By 6pm, I would return to his shop and hand over my sales to him and return the unsold goods and he would pay me commission on what i sold and i would go home with about N700 or N800 commission and that would be our diner money for that day. It was a tough season that i never prayed for my enemy to go though. This was what i did from 2010 to 2013.

While i was doing this mobile sales job, I was applying for jobs daily with my 2.1 first degree certificate and my masters degree (I thank God i was smart enoughto do my masters when I was working in the telecom firm). I applied for uncountable number of vacancies but never got a job.

Fast forward to 2014,I was owing 2 years house rent and my landlord gave a quit notice to pack out. At that stage, God Almighty had mercy on me and one of the aptitude test i did came back with an invitation for interview. The challenge was that the interview was going to be in Abuja. I borrowed 5k from a friend to enter night bus to get to Abuja to attend the interview and behold God gave me the job. The starting salary was 560k (an international NGO) . From there, my story changed. That was how i relocated to Abuja and God saved me from landlord eviction embarrasment. Today, i work with a global organisation with multipe 6 digits fat salary, got houses of my own and other great achievements of life BUT with all that, I can never forget the years 2009 - 2014. Those were the darkest years of my life. I SUFFERED.

Op, i have been there before and i can relate with you that its a terrible place to be for a man. If you are not married, its still better for you. All you need to do is to start anything that you hands find to do,even it its labourer, please do it. Dont ever stay at home thinking because your problems will just be compounded. While doing anything you can lay your hands to do, please keep applying for jobs daily in hundreds and one day, I mean one day, the Good Lord will open that door for you and your life will never be the same again.Its a season and it will soon pass over. Wishing all the best.

Please, when you eventually get that God's favour and your story changes, kindly share the testimony here to motivate other. Aurevoir

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Sports / Re: 2023 FIFA Women’s World Cup: Round Of 16 Fixtures Confirmed (full List) by idtiwo: 5:24pm On Aug 04, 2023
Wish Nigeria came 1st at the group stage, we would have been paired with columbia in this round of 16 and would be sure of beating that weak columbia team but we threw away that opportunity by not beating Republic of Ireland and came second in the group which now make us to face England. Facing England is technically end of the road for Nigeria because that English team will thrash Nigeria Falcon
with nothing less than 4 - 0.
Travel / Re: Where Can I Legally Relocate To In 6 Months Time? by idtiwo: 4:06pm On Jul 20, 2023
After campaigning and voting APC and Agbado man, you now want to run away abi

No way, you must face the shege banza you brougt upon nigeria ooo grin grin grin

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Health / Re: My Experience In A Public Hospital In FCT by idtiwo: 10:32am On Jul 14, 2023
The best prayer we all need to be praying in this country is for God to bless us to be able to afford good private hospitals when in need of medical attention. Our government hospitals are nothing but places where human beings are left to die when sick. Years back, I lost my mum and a son due to bad medical services being provided in nigerian public hospitals. Thereafter, i vowed never to allow any body i know to go to government hospital when they fall sick because if they go,you can never guarantee that they will come back alive.

That is why i dont get bothered when those useless government doctors go on strike becuase even when they are not on strike, all they do is to kill patients in their hospitals.

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Family / Re: How To Cope When Your Spouse Doesn't Listen: Seeking Advice by idtiwo: 1:13pm On Jul 09, 2023
Is your wife above 40 years ?
If she is, then its normal. In marriage, once a woman gets to the age of 40-45 years, it becomes difficult to control her.Some even stops spending time in the kitchen for cooking for their husband at that stage. They become abit more difficult to control at that age compare to when they are in their late 20s or 30s.
In fact if she earns more than you at 40+, then it gets worse and her disrespect to your instruction will increase. It has nothing to do with spirituality because even the so called born again house wives are worse.

All you need to do is to adjust to reality because of your children and just overlook many of those things you wouldnt overlook in your earlier stage in marriage. That is how they are bro. Only few of them are different.

May God give you more wisdom to be able to handle her exces stubborness becase it could be so frustrating to men.

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Sports / Re: PSG President Al Khelaifi On Mbappé: “Sign A New Deal Or Leave The Club". by idtiwo: 10:20pm On Jul 05, 2023
He had the biggest opportunity to leave PSG last season when madrid was desperate to have him but he blew up the opportunity by listening to the counsel of France president to stay in PSG. Madrid still need him but they are not as desperate as they were last year. Truth of the matter is that if he fails to join madrid this season,he is not likely to join again next season because Madrid already have their eyes on Haland against next season.

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Family / Re: Help Me With Budgeting.... My 400k Salary No Longer Takes Me Home. by idtiwo: 3:04pm On Jun 01, 2023
Hmmm

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Help Me Decide On This Present Job Offer by idtiwo: 9:29pm On Feb 04, 2023
There is no point going there on Tuesday. Dont make yourself too cheap for any potential employer. You are not jobless. You currently have a job,hence, there is no need for the desperation of going to their office. Communicate your terms to them via email and leave them to accept your terms or not.

I currently work in a multinational firm, last month i got an invitation for another multinational company that i knew was going to pay me higher because i applied for a higher position there. In the invitation, they requested me to come for the written test in their head office in Abuja, i replied that i was not based in Abuja and would prefer to write my test electronically where am based. They replied and said no that they would want the test to be done under their direct physical supervision. I replied them again that since they wouldnt allow online test, i would prefer to go to their branch office in the state i am and write the test in their branch office under the supervision of their staff, they still refused and said its a must i must come to Abuja for the test.
After that, I just replied them that i was declning the invitation and told them that this is 21st century and phisical test and interview in offices are no longer fashionable. I adviced their HR to be more flexible in their approach to tests and interviews.
They replied and accepted my rejection and both parties went their seperate ways.

Bros, you are working, dont be too desperate for a job whose terms of engagement are not okay by you. Send them email and make your terms known. You dont need to go there. Email communication is a formal mean of communication that is documented and its better than one on one communication that is not documented. SIMPLE

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Education / Is Fully Funded Scholarship Adviceable For A Married Man With Children by idtiwo: 3:12pm On Jan 11, 2023
Guys, are there married people hear that have secured fully funded foreign academic scholarship before Were you able to cope with your study abroad and still have enough to take care of your wife and kids back home ?? How easy was it ??.

I got a fully funded PhD scholarship and am wondering if it will be a wise decision to quit my job and go for the full time scholarship. Will I still be able to meet up with my obligations to wife and 3 children back home while studying abroad
Investment / Re: How Legit Is Cryptowoto Investment? by idtiwo: 8:22pm On Jun 23, 2022
Please,dont enter one chance ooooo. I invested $100 in it ,the second day,they asked me to pay another $100 before i could be paid the 50%. I called this nairaland guy that gave us the ebook and i told him. He assured me that I should pay that they will pay me the second day.The second day after I paid,they asked me to pay another $500 and I refused. I then called this our nairaland guy and he said i should still go ahead and pay,I told him i have no money to pay again and he told me there is nothing for me again if I dont pay the $500. That was how they ate my $200.

Let me tell you the truth, that guy giving out free ebooks here on nairaland is the guy behind crptowoto. He is a fraudstar. Please stay away from crptowoto.Its a scam

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Finally Gotten A Job by idtiwo: 4:49pm On Jun 21, 2022
Congratulations.
More blessings coming.Amen
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Liverpool Vs Real Madrid UCL Final (0 - 1) On 28th May 2022 by idtiwo: 9:03pm On May 28, 2022
See as Liverpool dey use Madrid dey do training for champions league final. I dont see Madrid winning this match with the way Liverpool is dominating the game.

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Liverpool Vs Real Madrid UCL Final (0 - 1) On 28th May 2022 by idtiwo: 9:01pm On May 28, 2022
See as Liverpool dey use Madrid dey do training for champions league final. I dont Madrid winning this match with the way Liverpool is dominating the game.

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Investment / How Do I Get My Money From A Registered Cooperative In Lagos by idtiwo: 12:20pm On Mar 07, 2022
Friends,
Please, I need help and guidance.

I saved some funds in a cooperative registered with lagos state government and i have written the cooperative of my intention to witdraw my membership since last year but the cooperative executives have refused to refund my savings. I have written the president severally and he has refused to refund my savings. He and the treasurer are not even picking my calls again nor respond to my watshat messages.

Please, what options are left to explore to get my funds from the cooperative. Am tired of begging them for my funds. Thanks
Family / Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by idtiwo: 10:03am On Feb 19, 2022
Hmmm, Nigerians and English composition. Which one is cousin sister? Your cousin sister is also your cousin. So,simply put,just say my cousin staying with me. smiley
Family / Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by idtiwo: 9:56am On Feb 19, 2022
Hmmm, Nigerians and English composition. Which one is cousin sister? Your cousin sister is also your cousin. So,simply put,just say my cousin staying with me. smiley smiley smiley
Education / Re: How Sylvester Oromoni Died: The Inside Details By Premium Times by idtiwo: 11:26pm On Feb 12, 2022
I think the father also had alots of fault. How could he have driven a boy in very bad shape for hours from Lagos to Warri when he could have allowed the boy to receive good treatment in a good hospital in Lagos and then take him to warri after recovery.

The father's religious believe in the fake Bishop hasten the boy's dealth.Religion kills black people faster than dealth.

RIP to the innocent boy.

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Education / Information On Atlantic International University (AIU) In America by idtiwo: 1:15am On Feb 12, 2022
Guys, please has anyone here studied at Atlantic International University (AIU) in US before now?
Contemplating running a PhD program there but wants to know how valuable their certificates are out there with international employers of labour. Thanks
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: MS OFFICE 2007 & SPSS TRAINER URGENTLY NEED FOR 2MONTHS - HANDSOME PAY by idtiwo: 12:50pm On Aug 15, 2013
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Jobs/Vacancies / Assistance Needed On Salary Question by idtiwo: 12:10pm On May 29, 2013
Hi guys,
I have a close friend who has an interview with society for family health next week for a managerial position.Please does anyone has an idea of the salary for such a post.Want to avoid him asking for too much or too low in case he is asked for salary expectation.Also would appreciate it if any one know the kind of questions that he might be asked or how there interview also look like.Urgent please
Education / Pastoral Business School by idtiwo: 3:34pm On Nov 16, 2012
BOWEN UNIVERSITY N650,000 per semester, COVENANT UNIVERSITY N640,000 per semester, BENSON IDAHOSA N500,000 per semester, BABCOCK UNIVERSITY N450,000 per semester, REDEEMERS UNIVERSITY N450,000 per semester, AJAYI CROWTHER UNIVERSITY N350,000 per semester, MADONNA UNIVERSITY 350,000 per semester. ALL OF THESE UNIVERSITIES WERE BUILT FROM TITHES AND OFFERINGS OF THE COMMON PEOPLE WHO NOW CAN'T AFFORD TO SEND THEIR CHILDREN THERE! where is the morals of the church going? These schools were all built with the sweats of their church's members who kept sowing seeds; special offering seeds, first fruit seed, redemption seed, thanksgiving seed, harvest seed, tithes, pastor's birthday seed, church building seed, evangelism seed, father's day seed, mother's day seed, children'day seed, pastor's cake seed, olive oil seed, etc. These schools are now elite schools, only for the rich politician children who were never part of the congregation that contributed to project. The gainers then use the profits to buy private planes $ jets to fly up high in luxury while their members sleep hungry and next Sunday, they will read Malachi 3:6-12. If you think this is unfair, then these pasors need to be told so.This is reality and we should start the change now...: Mtcheeeeeeeeeee w!now REV Ayo Oritsajafor don buy jet hmnnnn...........!I think its a sweet thing to be a CAN president.Nonsenseeeeeee
Car Talk / Re: 2 BRT Buses Vandalized At Berger Bus-stop by idtiwo: 12:57pm On Nov 07, 2012
Fashola VS Okada
Let's see who will blink first.
Am watching oooooooooo

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