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Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by advanceDNA: 8:18am On Jan 11 |
gidjah: So becos of society.... and religion...u will live with someone depressing ur life on top ur own money...welldone sir...na so una dey kill una self |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by ford101: 8:35am On Jan 11 |
advanceDNA:oya use 3.4m and see if you ll get that car tokumbo. |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by advanceDNA: 8:43am On Jan 11 |
ford101: What is ur point sef....?? What are driving at?? U showed me advert... U showed u a better one.. U are telling me I should see if I can get the car It's like u just want to argue ....I tell u say I wan buy car now?? |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Authur729(m): 11:09am On Jan 11 |
Na wa man go dy fear to talk to woman oga tell am |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by UcheforGod(f): 11:15am On Jan 11 |
Tell your wife to tell her brother that the 1.5 million naira that she told him that she has is actually her husband's own and not hers. 2 Likes |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by idtiwo: 12:18pm On Jan 11 |
Stevenbright: Infact, if she wants to respect her husband before her brother, the statement shouldn't even be we have 1.5m, the statement should be my husband promised to give me 1.5m to buy a car. By saying that, the brother will now that the husband already played his role , its his sister that want something bigger. 2 Likes |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by asapeola(m): 12:20pm On Jan 11 |
As a married man to another: Sometimes you have to learn how to resist pressure from women! There are some fundamental wrongs with your story: 1.) You are not that close with your in-law which has made it quite difficult to gauge his behaviour and what is attitude would be if he pays such a significant sum in buying the car. 2.) You cant gauge his intentions or thoughts cos u were not initially a party to the discussions between your wife and her brother. Is he thinking that he wants to help his sister get a car or the car is for the family which of course puts it in your possession? 3.) Do not think that your wife is naïve, there might be a plan behind it. Even though you desire comfort for your family, you must also think about future events incase the ownership of the car becomes an issue. You are a man and its on record that you did try to provide a car but it was an unfortunate venture, so its not as if you couldnt. Depending on the strength of your self-pride, you may look at the following advices: 1.) Tell your wife to transfer the conversation between her and her brother to you, so that the guy can get a true picture of what is on ground. 2.) You may accept the 3.5m as loan to be paid to you with very liberal repayment plan. 3.) Tell your wife to inform her brother to use the 3.5m to get a car for her but then your claim to that car will be very limited (lest advisable option). In all you do, do not give your in-law the impression he's buying a car for her sister. Shalom 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by ghettochild(m): 1:30pm On Jan 11 |
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Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Montaque(m): 3:28pm On Jan 11 |
Opmic:If you need freedom, why marry? 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Montaque(m): 3:28pm On Jan 11 |
ifihearam: You won't understand |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Montaque(m): 3:29pm On Jan 11 |
olril17: Hehehe. We will wait for when you mature to discuss the topic |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Stevenbright(m): 4:18pm On Jan 11 |
idtiwo: You are very correct |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Chinny024(f): 5:22pm On Jan 11 |
Call the boy and have a conversation with him concerning the car, it specifications and whole function. ..You can as well chip in how you made the 1.5m...Be at the front line of the buying so Tomorrow it will not look like ur wife bought u a car..🤣🤣🤣..E get why! 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Lifeinlight: 9:10pm On Jan 12 |
AchrafHakimi:You be broke nigga so we understand your frustrations |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Lifeinlight: 9:20pm On Jan 12 |
ezewealth:Then you're not ready for marriage if you cannot make sacrifices for your family. Happy home do not come from the sky. It is built by two couples. |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Lifeinlight: 9:24pm On Jan 12 |
StrongAlphMale:broke nigga we sight you o |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Lifeinlight: 5:51am On Jan 13 |
StrongAlphMale:Broke man, we know your type |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Evolutionism: 10:56pm On Jan 13 |
Kids in adult body. Stupid news just full everywhere these days. Nonsense!!! |
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