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HNIC:
Szczesny!!!!

Requiem for Almunia

4llerbuntu:
the cheapest mac i'v seen costs 240, 000.00 naira here in naija.

This is maximum despoil. I got an Acer, Aspire 5117, Windows 7 two months ago at 100k. Why is the price diff. so huge? [quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=539942.msg7023273#msg7023273 date=1288172606][size=12pt][font=times]Personally, I like Apple.[/quote]Why so? I guess you might have used Windows too, what differences are there to make you want to go for an Apple? By the way, they call it Mac here like someone pointed out

nikkykay:
Potential line-up: Szczesny, Eboue, Koscielny, Djourou, Gibbs, Denilson, Rosicky, Diaby, Lansbury, Walcott, Bendtner. Subs: Shea, Squillaci, Clichy, Eastmond, Emmanuel-Thomas, Vela, Arshavin.

Not a bad line-up. I'm sure, though, that JET will be a part of the front three (starting)

follypimpi:
Wellington is a player am so looking forward to as well.

Heard they dropped him in Brazil. Something to do with his head not being right. Can't wait for January sha. But how come he must be eighteen before he plays? Fab came younger, if i'm right, or the rule changed?

Hitmann:
I need a maturity girlfriend with God fearing one to start a partnership.

which kin partnershiip? Limited liability?

190:
[color=deeppink]I know for sure that parachute pant belongs to queeneve!! [/color]

ROFL!!

I pine to see JET and Wellington start a game for the first team. Wellington, I can wait for until January. But JET I want to see today. I've seen enough of Vela

I would not really know why this is the case but Apple Lappies are really not prevalent in Nigeria. I have never used Apple and none of my friends or colleagues have either. Seen a couple though, brought in by my sis from the States but that's as close as I got

kokoye:
Good. Admission is a necessary first step towards a solution.

Roll your mat and DWELL on it

kokoye:
you got issues

Sure I do. Happy now?

If a girl is TOO comfortable with me I'll take off!!!

Lots of very revealing posts here. I always believe that anybody that makes a play for termites should not be surprised to attract lizards. Every woman is different for sure,  I do not have to pull that kind of Chioma stunt on my girlfriend to know how she'll react to a situ. No, that wud be an indictment on me for even dating her. Everybody should have reasonable expectations given their peculiar situations. That is why I do not subscribe to long distance relationships cos I do not have the discipline to "keep body" Now if my girl too cannot keep to herself when I'm not around in, a non conjugal relatioship,why should  I cry? It's a thing of the mind really, if any one has a long distance thing they should condition their expectations for the worst, if they get the best it's a bonus. A lot of people, male- female cannot survive a month without getting down yet they expect others to personify the pope, realistic? No. In my part of the world, I do not think peeps are loose or less loving when they give in to the yearns of the flesh in a dating situation where seeing one's beau is not definite. Now , except the  OP tells me he is living a celibate life in Spain why should he realistically expect such from the gurl? Because you pick her bills? Common!  If you guys are married, then she has a motivation for keeping still, not in what you have now that does not provide any security at all to her beyond your fine words and long promises. People have heard promises  so too have they seen same broken, so?
@ op i'd just say you should free that girl and stop being sanctimonious. Your method of "testing" her is inconclusive. A posse of women will fall for that. I do not think it'll make them less deserving of trust- love. Tone down your expectations and take things one at a time. Talk to your girl. If you want her to keep herself, impress it upon her why you think itz best for you guys and make her realise you are on the same page on the abstinence bit too.  Give her security beyond rhetorics. If she's convinced about your intensions then the pressure will be less for. Coming from a guy I know it's not easy at all for a girl to cope in a long distance situ. Most of my female friends on FB are like this and I know how maleable they are. Do not put too much pressure on her .you might just find out that girl is not the worst of a bad bunch. Regards

Difference between the wife and a girlfriend; A girlfriend touches your hair, your di.k stands. Your wife touches your di.k, your hair stands!

[quote author=Tink_sh link=topic=533493.msg6956617#msg6956617 date=1287300595]You cant build it yourself, he needs to earn it too.[/quote]Excellent one!

nateevs:
If posts like this don't pop up once in a while, it's still not a forum.

But did it?!

kokoye:
^^^

I thought you said earlier that I could be getting him irritated.

See now why I am concerned.

You didn't mention the bit about work did you?

This one don pass dont be silly!. Bros, the stage for mollycuddles has passed. You must coerce him to sit up and live. What is he thinking? If he's not on compassionate leave and has not resigned, he MUST go to work. Drag him if u have to. He'll hate u now but later, he'll thank you. He can't wake the dead if he loses his subsistence can he? Drag am!

The society does not encourage nor reward love. Any body that loves the they should turns out with egg on their face. Nowadays it's easier to have a GOOD relationship as opposed to a LOVING relationship, (go figure!) We are a nation of managers and we manage our relationships. A girl turns pariah because she's in love with a hard working "nobody". A guy gets stick because he's in love with a "nameless" but virtuos woman. Where comes the reward? We dey manage jor!

^^ sure we're different. Some people love working out probs in isolation away from the crowd. Maybe thatz the kind of person he is. Without trying to undermine your friendship, i think his answering in monosyllables is a sign of growing irritation. Just stand by him and let it flow. You r a good man

kokoye:
The person lost a loved one. He's kept to himself for over 3weeks now.

Ha. I dint see this. Please lay off him jare. You know his wahala and you r still crowding him to talk. What do you want him to say? Leave him alone. Only time can heal him. You can only be concerned if he hibernates for too long. But three weeks? The wound's still fresh na. Haba!

If he really trusts you and he's truly hurting, he'll open up. Work on buying his confidence. If you fail, take him out and get him sozzled. Alcohol really sets some bells chiming, never fails!

[quote author=e-pentium link=topic=531605.msg6937401#msg6937401 date=1287043926]What do you men really want in us - Ladies? I am socially adjusted, academically excellent, morally sound , yet single. Most guys who date me just want to taste my honey well[/quote]Seriously if you're as "adjusted" as you claim, you should have gone beyond the level of asking what a guy wants in a relationship to what X or Y wants in a relationship. At the risk of sounding condescending, I think a lot of women are dumb. When you do not have any other thing to offer except sex, what do you expect to get?( don't mean you)
Personally I find it insulting for a gurl to feel I'm coming after her for just a roll in the hay. . . I mean!. . . Even today's teenagers have more levels higher than that.
You have to re evaluate the crowd you keep. Men do not just date for crave of the flesh so if your crowd are otherwise then itz time to giv them a berth.
Personally I'm looking for Personality in a girl. Love, Respect and support comes from this. Intelligence is the core and any other, a bonus.
You must first of all identify what it is YOU want in your man. That is the firt step in setting up a relationship.

@Op. . .Itz either you're a very brilliant WUM (wind up merchant) or you need instant help

Zimbabwe with their myriad economic and hunger issues seeking comparism? Hmmm, go to South Africa and inquire why Nigerian men were the target of hate by southy males a while ago. Then you go figure!