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Maaamaaa:
Thank you Ma. He can't move out because he has no where to go and he is broke. It's a two bedroom apartment and we have separate rooms.

Should I stop cooking? For both of us

Good .

Does he give you allowance for food? If yes, I see no biggie,You need to live amicably with him so cook as usual(when you can) .

So long as they get when they cook up their stooopid stories, they'll keep trying.

Wait till their sympathizers come here, they'll make up even more stoooopid excuses for them. shioor.

But who replaced the Opening post with a bible verse?

Maaamaaa:
We still live together and we just paid the rent. I don't have any money to move out and I don't want to ask my parents for any money.

I still want to stay here till my rent expires. Is it a good idea?

I'm just going to focus on me and my work. I don't want to tell my parents anything for now.

Well, you can plead with him to move out seeing as you now disgust him. If he ever loved you and is humane enough, he should do that atleast for you but if he refuses, tough luck, try to co-exist as a room mate with him and please NEVER give him the cookie jar again.

You cannot save the relationship or claim the man, sorry. Love can not be forced, loved , coerced out of or prayed into anyone especially men. You knew there was another woman yet you decided to hold on so dear, nothing do you.

You're not the first single mother nor will be the last. Just brace yourself for the journey ahead; motherhood beckons. . .

Are we back to the Savage series ?

I blame your sister for telling you. . .

Onye asiri.

LadyMercedes:
My sister, no vex.

What question did you want to ask before it was closed?

I think i'll let the question slide. Not very important.

Ask God for forgiveness, for the sake of posterity, ask the (ex)wife too to forgive you and move on.

No need to create anymore threads or explain to anyone. Shut that door and move on.

All the best girl.

I'm a Ryde or dye babe to my husband and family and will NEVER do what Aisha did. loyalty to fam is everything.

Not that she's right or wrong anyways. However, I think she must have tried, tried and tried to sort this indoors but the hubby didn't listen. Never underestimate a scorned woman.

Her expose is good for wailers sha and I wail sometimes The tragi-comedy of this current administration. Two pieces of miserable looking Titus fish na 1000 ngn.

LadyMercedes thread don disappear just now? I was about to drop one more question, shuo

What's up with all the thread hiding? Thing is like an open secret already, everyone should chillax, we've read, seen and Know worse.

Nice, nice Lizzie.

I'll review when I check out the app

Beef, shaki and co, cow leg Specify the type of meat ke.

Meanwhile, 1 kilo of Titus (2 medium sized ones) is now 950.

Booooooooohari

copiescopy:
I have a profitable business venture i'm running here in naija .. u know what it means to leave all that to someone ...I cant just leave my 14 years old business in the hands of somebody no matter the best hands i have .once they even know u r off for a week they start messing up .and yes I plan to come back..not everyone has the mind to disappear into thin air once they land in UAE .my intention to travel is to look into what i could be able to go into and start marketing here back in naija . I can as well make the $1,000 deposit as proof of my coming back since i have a family to come back to . If you can settle this for me then we can be better off to do this .i'm all open to new ideas.

If this is all true and dandy then why not apply through Ethiad, Emirates or VFS?

Sammy888:
nnewi and to some extent her environs

Thank you. I've never heard of this name before.

The craze and rush for Dubai.

Why was the name of the company not mentioned?

damidamsel:
Thank u so so much. Just what i needed to know. God bless

You're welcome and all the best.

eshic:
the comments above though,south Africa twitted and all believed him and concluded that it was true.what if it's not and he says that to ridicule Nigerian.I know that so many things has gone long in Nigeria but that doesn't warrant anybody to ridicule our dear country at any little opportunity.though I don't blame the commentors because our President hasn't done anything different to give Nigerian a better image.

Why have our mission in SA not refuted the claim if it's not true?

@Topic, not surprised really. A carpenter is made an ambassador, what do we expect?

EUGENE846:
LOL...
Is he spoiling business for you?

Lol.

Nope actually. He quoted the price na and claimed everyone else is jonzing.

E don be, road don red.

For this recession?

Vorpal:
This comment is hilarious, a scenario just came to my head *the hubby trying to initiate sex with her, she begins her nagging, he then turns to his laptop flips it open and begins to self-service with so much glee staring at the laptop, completely forgetting his wife beside him*

Lmao.

Girl was jumping on me on top innocent questions I asked her instead of cleaning her down below, jump on hubby's dyke and banng the evil spirits outta him.

UnstoppableOla:
Sorry I don't do visa

But you know the "right" cost from the comfort of your keypad?

Aiight.

kokosari2:
No one is forcing anything. It's clear you don't have the ideas I requested so why comment? I should stop watching when I wake up on him doing it or I walk in on him while in the act. Mtchew

No wonder the poor man prefers mastuurbation as opposed to dealing with your contentious self.

Abeg carry your seexual frustrations commot for my front. I no send you o.

Shioor.

O dikwa egwu. Where did he die ?

Dyt:
Where's my $50 share?

Iya, from where oo?

This Monday fa? My eye shine and shook pass ya own.

No peace for the wicked

damidamsel:
@justwise....big thanks for your response. However i guess i did not phrase my question well.....my husband and I are applying to travel with our baby (american). My husband is the sponsor and yes he can afford to sponsor the trip without my financial input. We put the total budget in his application already. On my application, i am also being asked what the trip will cost me....do i still put the total figure or put 0 since my husband is the sponsor and the figure is already inhis application.
If i put the total figure, do i put that total figure also in the part that says how much willmy sponsor be contributing towards the trip?
Also, we put our monthly expenses already in my husband's application since he is the bread winner. However since this same question is asked on my application also, do i still put the same figure (wont it appear as though we spend the addition of both figures) or do i just put a small amount that caters for my own little personal needs?
Thanks alot

Since your husband is sponsoring the trip ;
How much is the cost of trip to you personally : 0

Anyone else sponsoring the trip and with how much : input your total budget figure

How much do you spend each month on living expenses ; Input a small amount, what you spend on yourself each month

How much do you contribute to others, family bla bla : 0

Total money you have for the trip : input your total budget figure

Write a letter to explain that you are an unemployed housewife and that your husband is sponsoring the trip with XYZ amount(same figure you mentioned in question" anyone else sponsoring your trip and how much" ), also add that each month your husband gives you XYZ amount for house keeping .

byvan03:
This is what more people should do . Lots of real people ,kids inclusive that truly need help ,so i dont just see the need for any internet monetary help. Am also sure that everyone have that distant or close relation that needs help so my charity begins at home ,from there on out to other real people.
A truly inspiring story .

Very true.

To add to Onegai's post, you can also support Little saints Orphanage either by fostering a child, adoption or simply pick up the education tab for a child.

http://www.littlesaintsorphanages.org/ways2help.php

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

How is that a problem for you? does it affect his performance with you?

It's disgusting to you? Stop watching him. . .

You can't force an adult to stop doing whatever he enjoys, he can only stop of his own freewill and time. You also don't have to join him, unless ofcourse you are a secret wannnker, in which case its hypocrital of you to judge him.

UnstoppableOla:
Guyz plz becareful do not let anybody deceive you about Dubai visa,the main amount is 890dirhams for 3months directly from them but our naija so called agents made it difficult for pple to enter due to their high visa fee.My advice is that you shld forget going to UAE to work cos it's difficult to get job.Dubai is full atm(at the moment) and most of the companies here are not ready to employ pple especially Nigerian.I have been to all the 7states in UAE and I have seen the way things work there.I'll advice you all to forget UAE and process another good country cos UAE is mean for those who wanna go for holiday.plz be warned plzzzzzzz.God bless Naija

Long story short, can you process the 3 months visa for the 890 dirhams? If yes, let me forward 2 passports to you.

UnstoppableOla:
Mr man,this isn't about having contradicting personality,it's about letting other pple know the truth.i am very sure you know what you are doing but u just wanna pretend here.i can see you sounded like an agent lookinging for whom to exploit...Infact guyz plz do not listen to anybody asking u to come to UAE for work,all they want is ur money and they dump u at the airport.Do not fall victim and incase u still don't believe me try ask anybody who is in UAE or who just come back home to tell you what's up.I am talking from experience plz don't fall victim or else u'll blame urself.If you wanna know more bout this agents feel free to ask me and i'll expose them.Almost 90percent of naija in UAE are now agent all because of the Visa fee and that's why they lie to you promising you heaven and earth.

I don't know the genesis of una debate but i Kinda agree with your write up. So many work agents but very few jobs with 90% of it not worth it. I think the best for any jobseeker now is to go find work directly by him or her self. Or if you are lucky and highly skilled/professional, the company in Dubai would process your visa and send you your ticket.

copiescopy:
I am not staying over .. with 3 months visa i intend coming back before dec ..pls can u suggest to me or refer me to any one who can handle this process for me

Only very few people tell the truth as per their real intentions and duration of stay. So why would you want to stay for 3 months if not for job seeking/hustle?

Nobody wants to get his or her visa card blocked so dear, $1000 and you can stay for as long as you want, or $750 for strict 3 months visa but with a $1000 security deposit to be refunded you if you actually return after 3 months. Your choice.