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mzfelivisions: Uv gotten my post wrong dear. That's not my focus, if it was I wld hv been married long ago.I consult for them and deal with them daily so I know those inside n out. Not looking to b possessed or owned, just loved. Thnx for ur insight

OK.

So what is your focus?What is this thread about?

mzfelivisions: Actually I am chatting from my BB. Is that against the rules? When I sit down to my laptop its to work and write not browse and I don't use my tablets and bigger gadgets for social things. What exactly is a BB fevered Sissy by the way? If its abuse, please I dnt think I deserve it as I said if I'm not welcome say so and I will gracefully bow out.

Not an abuse in any way.The sms-typing style is used mostly by undergraduates found in chat rooms and social sites.
You are very welcome here.

mzfelivisions: That is what ALL wives should do, girlfriends and mistresses too. Your point is noted though. Very funny and sad at the same time. If that's what you have chosen to believe . Also if a woman is a freak in d bedroom its between her, her man n God. He alone should kno thts y its clld a private life.

The thread is about you trying to hook up with/understand made,older Naija man not me.

Good luck on your quest sha.Update us as you go

I don't subscribe to the books and reading stuff.That would take her further down the depression lane.She does not need to bury her head in any book.She needs to go out,meet,mix and talk with people.
You cannot run away from life when it hits you.You win by standing firm and fighting back.

Let her first see her Gyn,see a counselor and then move out.Visit family and friends etc. She does not need solitude at this time and that is exactly what books would offer her.

Is it just me?The OP writing style does come across like a BB-fevered sissy

mzfelivisions: Well I'm an old woman too. Well over 40. Iv so much to bring, most my passion an vision. My dedication n loyalty, my business acumen and discipline. Sori I will not lie n say I'm gonna pound his yam naked behind the kitchen as he watches. I'm not going to wash his clothes. But I will run my home efficiently and he will see growth in his vineyards if he's open to new ideas. If not I will continue with my work, be a gud wife, loyal n faithful n raise my family.

This is what first wife's do.I'm sorry but you aint bringing in anything new or fresh by Nigerian standards.If you really aim at being a second or third wife to an older,made Nigerian man,you have to be fly in your looks and a freak in the bedroom.

Passion,business acumen yada yada can only impress an average,struggling man not one who has a rock solid business empire.You need to get a Unilag girl for tuition.

I don't see a Dangote/Bode George/Orji Kalu marrying or looking for a second wife that is over 40 and coming in to teach them how to run/improve their business

If you all(you,wife,other lady) believe in Polygamy or are Muslims and there is mutual consent from all parties then maybe you should make it legal;marry her.

To answer your question, NO ,I won't subscribe to such an arrangement.
Btw,Why is the lady not living her life(dating,married) since her husband's death?Are there kids involved?

I thank God for your life,Jenny.
I hope you in same measure,give someone who have hurt/offended you a second chance via forgiveness.share the love.

DANILSA: Odikwa egwu otu ify si gbuo Dafur
Owuzi turn Otele ila niyi.

Hapu ndi asiri.
Darfur dabara ime London iku serious hustle for me
Anyi ga-ala Igbo final n'oge na adighi anya.Unu gwa Otele na shoe nwere size biko.

Tosh,how far?i nwere garri ka m bia were small?

So,when you get or see that Nigerian man that fits your description,what are you bringing to the table
Unless you are mixing with the wrong crowd,you should have no problem getting an old politician that fits in.

Thank you Miraexcel.I would call you.

@OP,go home and reflect on your signature.
Who is typing this?The female or male side of you

Hope you are not recruiting for kidnappers?
Buyer beware,contact him at your own risk .

@OP,Are there Jews in Naija ?

Gbam @ Post . Gh brothers are sweet paa pa
Ah,odor wa ku mi oh.

otele: But a lovuru m gi

Love gbakwa oku.
Nna,ele Nwa Darfur?
Half lump of akpu is better than nothing.

For real?
So much drama and bad news.

If only the govt. were this firm with the new tenate-landlord law that forbids collecting of more than 1 year advance by landlords.Some of this slum dwellers cannot afford 2 years rent and the ridiculous agent fees.

On the other hand,we are waiting to see what would be made of the slums.

Follow the job section diligently.Something would come up someday for you.

Seniorklop so you finally ditched the Natforce idea?Good for you.

Na today this format enter town?E don tey.

Britzdon: Latwoka , a tribe in Sudan has a very weird marriage tradition. If a guy wants to marry a girl,he kidnaps her. After the kidnapping, elderly people of his family goes to the girl’s father and ask for her hand.

If girl’s father agrees he beats the guy as a symbol of acceptance and if he doesn’t agree, the kidnapper marries the girl forcefully.
Now all the girls should thank God, they are not born in Latwoka.

So what do you think about this weird culture? Abolish or keep it?

Weird as it sounds I'm just indifferent.
If its good for the girls,why should i complain?

[quote author=PAGAN 9JA]if you are so concerned, then drop white mans religion.[/quote]Pagan,rofl

OP,what stops you from sitting your husband down and opening up to him just like you did here?
You are so far,guilty of what you accuse your husband.He doesn't talk,you talk to strangers.
Communication lines are broken,go home woman and talk with your man.