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To hav had a 2nd Wife Shows how much he does lurv u. .

Anyway, U've got to face it, koz u possibly wont deny neva having to know this b4 proceedin to marry him. I think u beta get demeaned to begging 4 his attention, koz d dude in question have got an Alternative wn u get absent.

Just bear, 4 lurv endureth All!

Its quite pitiable how shallow d female brain cud be. Very much of a pity, how most'a dem have turned all pessimist, witot havin little time to Analytical thinking.

Well, I mostly neva empathise with victims of unwanted preggy, abortions, and possibly Jilting as an after-math, koz I often wonder how empty dia totz had bn. I just kudn't Imagine dem not knowing d principles of their feminine nature, and how vunerable they can actually be.

Well doh, I seem 2 care a litu considering d fact dat, most victims had 4 one tym or d other bn Money-Extortionist, thus it cud be nemesis dat is catching up with dem, hence dey barely wud adhere to d 1man-1woman game, just koz of dia insatiable nature.

Much is 2 be said abt diz seeming genetic stupidity of d female counterparts, not just 4 dia gullibility, but 4 dia laxity with regards to protecting demselves against Mr. Preggo!.

I truncate, but my mind no sweet at all. - Its high tym they learnt John Billings sure principle of Abstinence and continence.

safarigirl: Some people are shameless sha. Anyways, as far as I'm concerned, the fact that Drogba made top 3 over a class act like Enyeama is already a disgrace on it's own. We might as well complete the disgraceful act by dashing Mikel the award, bunch of shameless niggurs.

Thoughtful lines 4rm d Op, but U spoke my mind.

My gr8txt shocker was havin Drogba shortlisted @d Expense of sum beta fellas.

Well, lyk u said, so I've always done - "Fake a joke, I fake my Smylz"

Sumw0t ryt, but humans has since ages remain unpredictable, but u've got a point doh @op... I leave d rest to instincts.

I've always belivd in Judging Pples action, koz Words these days, are mostly rehearsed to suit... Stil Doubting?.. Ask My Play-Guyz.

jmoore: Is this your objective?

Twas just a thought, - hope its much beta now!.

My Guys are Viewing without comments. I no sey na me cause am, but abeg mek una 4give me.

Quite Controversial as it seem, When a Guy speaks a Ladies Mind.

No vex, but I just had to... Crucify me a bit, but No kill Me..... I be guy man lyk u!.

Its a brand New Year.... Silver and Gold have I sort after as a PRESENT to My Beloved NL Guys.

I don find tire but I no see, Abeg mek Una manage diz My Piece, its 4rm my Heart.


[b]Stop trying to get at her, bro. She just isn't into you.
Sure, you could be a nice guy and might be treating her like a queen.
Sure, you would never hurt her the way other guys have before, But despite that, if a girl just can't find it in herself to feel the same way towards you & see you as someone she could be with, then it's just not gonna happen no matter how hard you try.
You can't force a girl to like you. It just has to come naturally & with you, it doesn't.

Does she feel bad for hurting your feelings?

Sure, She does....,

But did she purposely try to do that?

Of course not.

You don't have to guilt trip her about it. If she realizes that she can see herself being with you, then she'll come to you & see what happens from there but until then, be a man & accept it & move on because there's other girls out there who would want a guy like you.
She's probably just not one of those girls... So, drop d feelings, 4 there Is Much Yet Undone...[/b]

addictiv: Y wont he be verified...u wan make him use vex buy Twitter n turn am to cement factory

lol

Akuneshiobike: No.4, All the blame should not be poured on your uncle's wife, you know why? Do you know if your uncle is fullfiling his matrimonial conjugal right? I dont think that the idea of cheating on your uncle could actually come to her mind if your uncle is satisfying her as a woman. To say but the list. My brother, the implications behind the exposure of the event could be highly unbearable that you might start regretting your actions. Women are naturally gullible. They hardly think twice, they are the weaker vessels as the scripture call them, easily influenced. My Advice; Gather momentum, gather your courage gather your boldness, book an appointment with your uncle's wife at a cool & secured joint or relaxation & talk sense into her. Let her know every reason why she should desist from such an abominable act, if at all she has been doing it. I think she will give you a listening ear & at the same time appreciate you the more. Wow! I have written enough. My brother, pls ponder over my highlighted point. I'm sure it will help you & as well save you from the unforseen catastrophe. Thanks & Cheers!!

After reading this piece, I felt I had it all. Its such a word filled with wisdom,


but for this;

dnacrystal: Look your uncle ought to hear about this. This woman may contract a disease or maybe she has already, and your unsuspecting uncle will... I hate to think of it. Their marriage may be at stake but your uncle's health? You would be doing the man a greater favour saving his health/life than protecting his marriage.
You can also put yourself in your uncle's shoes and decide if you would rather your nephew kept quiet on this.
And forget about her pleading. You owe your uncle more loyalty than the woman. If I were you, I would have her confess to her husband and tell him myself if she refuses.

So on point too.... Am on the line. These thoughts are killing me softly.....

jmoore: Posted last year on www.nairaland.com/1033183/10-things-girl-must-not

http://m.trueloverelationship-advice.com/2012/08/warning-ladies-10-things-you-must-not.html/?m=1

I just dey wonder when Andyblaze upgrade ooooo. I know no say na

No harsh feelings ooooo, na joke I dey. Nyz Ctrl+

A.jeez:
Ohh boy!!!

As in ehh!. My head spins. What a sad way to embrace the New-years Eve!. Am just wondering wetin carry me comot for house yesterday. #sad

dnacrystal: Meanwhile you didn't finish the story. Tell us what transpired after- your friend's reaction.

Anyway, I shockingly lost my words. I only had to dust my buttocks and take my leave, with Uncle's wife still kneeling, crying, and holding tight on my trousers. She knew her husband for sure, but I kudn't stand her tears. Can't Imagine her kneeling before me. I hurriedly left, and Am yet to reach any of them. Not Even my friend, koz am having this mixed-feeling of both Anger, Shame, Disgust, and Sadness. Can't Imagine me driving her off her matrimonial. She had been so kind to me, yet guilt wouldn't let me keep such to Only Myself - That feeling of having to be cheating my Uncle still bugs my thoughts.

Am so Down right now... I'm just managing to fumble with my keypad. #Dumb-founded

Boland: You have to let your brother know what happened. Its like ur bro lacks what ur friend has, maybe your bro is d "busy" type that he doesn't have time for his wife. You av to let him know cos it would be unfair to him if you don't. The only help I think you can do for d wife is if you can convince your brother not to divorce her. You should let your bro know that he caused it all that had it been that he worked on the relationship, his wife wouldn't be cheating.

Tanxxx Dear. Am prettymuch convinced, but I got to wait till i hear others.

So sad it had to be me that might send my Uncle's wife packing. I can't fathom the grudge this would create in me. #cries

vizkiz: @Op is it dt u dnt read any other thread or u jst wanna create ''ur own'l thread too Cuz somtin like dis has been posted here more dan twice...
Jst qo throuqh d previous topic n read all d comments mayb u miqht qt an answer there...
Btw if na ur uncle wife i'll prefer u tellinq him d whole story cuz i miqht nt knw hw far she has qone in d qame wif other dudes

Other than being slightly New to Airplane, I'd also pledge my innocence as to wateva claims.

I've neva stumbled upon such thread in my little stay, besides I only had to share my trauma, in how best I could explain. Tanx for ur Advice anyway.

ElJay07: Nollywood

In as much as I'dnt want to abuse any, Am kindly soliciting that any NL who has got nothing to offer, should beta shut it up... Am not in my best of moods, and could get quite messy.

Na beg I dey beg, to avoid storms of Abuses here o.

Tanx for ur comments...

Hmmmmnnnn..... Wonders they've always said, Shall truly never End. How on Earth would I Explain this¿.

I have this friend. We are so very close in All ramifications, even at Crimes and perversions. Just last week, he had called telling me about His new Catch (boo), I was like " Wow... Just so soon", kos its barely a week that he had jilted his Ex-.

This guy Would always never hide facts from me, so he chuckled a bit, and went on telling me how the Lady had been all around his neck even while he had his Ex-. He revealed to me how persistently this woman had been, at sending him presents while he was away, doing his masters degree. He told me how he couldn't yield to her proposals all this while, but had to, now that his Ex-. Was no more. I was overwhelmed that I concluded how nice an Idea it would be, If I Could get to meeting this Lady in person, koz I had found it difficult to believe how possible it is for a Lady to have hungrily yearned after a player like my friend.

*I just never knew that I was at the verge to discover my balls!*

Yesterday, my friend called telling me about his usual feeling of wanting to bleep. I suggested that we both visit a brothel, hence Am single, and he just got a much new babe - "you know how wierd it would seem having to call her over this soon for s3x" I had said. The guy shrugged in disbelief, revealing how he has so needed a breezy home service, and not one used cun.t of a slu.tty bit.ch. He opined that he would certainly call this new lady, and demand for sex, besides being a s3x-addict, that he would want to define himself earlier to this unknown lady.

Hence, I'd been longing to meet this certain lady, I immediately headed to my guys place, perhaps who knows - she might be coming with any of her friends.

I was with my friend when his phone rang, and behold it was her calling... After much convo, my friend told her the Bomb,... Mehnnn I was shocked when she Agreed asap!. Promising to come Over with great a Alacrity . I and my friend, we both drank and joked, relishing how great the next few minutes or maybe hours would be. I was hoping still, that she could come with her friend kwa, atleast I for achieve too.

SHOCKINGLY when the lady appeared..... It became the Damnest sight I've ever had koz Even Hell had to break lose.

This Lady was actually My Uncle's Wife.

immediately she saw me, she instinctively went on her knees begging that I shouldn't tell my beloved Uncle.

I had to share this coz am confused. I love this much compassionate lady very much, If not for anything, atleast for her unending succour while I was in school. She has always been very dear to me. I can't afford to let her go koz I know what would certainly be my uncle's reaction should I tell him.... But am currently engrudged, koz my conscience is accusing me to be cheating on my uncle, should I hide this secret from him.

What Do I do in such a Dilemma? <;( <;( <;(

MY REPLY TO: A question - Can One Actually marry Ones Animate, If One loves Her?. (Don't You Think that She'd barely Respect Me?

It would truly be unfair if I try to fake my views to suit any's appraisal, but All my life, I've always believed love to be a pre-requisite to choosing a life time partner. I'dnt also dispute other core factors, or assume them as been trivial.

I think Age could mean but nothing when love rules. Love can always grant you that which Age could only grant in parts i.e. Respect. A woman who loves you, would always respect you irrespective of whatever, be it Age or Wealth. You must also note that age diffr. Doesn't grant respect when she really doesn't want to. The much such could do is make her fear ur ferocity as to believing you'd Beat her Up, which am certainly sure is never your thought for wanting to get married.

You just have to be sure that the lady in question ain't been desperate koz Ladies could be Demeaned just koz they Desperately needed a guy to call Husband.

I oblige you never to reveal your thoughts to her in such a Hurry. Take some quality time to know the True Her. Dig deep into her attitudes to see if it best suits you. Try to know her Past; As in the much she'd be willing to tell you. Study her much more than you'd study a 3-unit course in high-school , and If she eventually has those attributes that you would so Desire in a Woman, Then You're so on point!.

N.B: Try as much as possible to assume you both never met. That would help you appraise her without been biased by the thoughts that you Once crushed over her back then.

Age could never be a Barrier, When Loves rules - I re-iterate.

Besides, My Happily married Aunt is her Husbands Age mate. Both now In their early 30's, and With a son, and her being preggy.

LIKE If its Worth It!

MY REPLY TO: A question - Can One Actually marry Ones Age mate, If One loves Her?. (Don't You Think that She'd barely Respect Me?)

It would truly be unfair if I try to fake my views to suit any's appraisal, but All my life, I've always believed love to be a pre-requisite to choosing a life time partner. I'dnt also dispute other core factors, or assume them as been trivial.

I think Age could mean but nothing when love rules. Love can always grant you that which Age could only grant in parts i.e. Respect. A woman who loves you, would always respect you irrespective of whatever, be it Age or Wealth. You must also note that age diffr. Doesn't grant respect when she really doesn't want to. The much such could do is make her fear ur ferocity as to believing you'd Beat her Up, which am certainly sure is never your thought for wanting to get married.

You just have to be sure that the lady in question ain't been desperate koz Ladies could be Demeaned just koz they Desperately needed a guy to call Husband.

I oblige you never to reveal your thoughts to her in such a Hurry. Take some quality time to know the True Her. Dig deep into her attitudes to see if it best suits you. Try to know her Past; As in the much she'd be willing to tell you. Study her much more than you'd study a 3-unit course in high-school , and If she eventually has those attributes that you would so Desire in a Woman, Then You're so on point!.

N.B: Try as much as possible to assume you both never met. That would help you appraise her without been biased by the thoughts that you Once crushed over her back then.

Age could never be a Barrier, When Loves rules - I re-iterate.

Besides, My Happily married Aunt is her Husbands Age mate. Both now In their early 30's, and With a son, and her being preggy.

LIKE If its Worth It!

It would truly be unfair if I try to fake my views to suit any's appraisal, but All my life, I've always believed love to be a pre-requisite to choosing a life time partner. I'dnt also dispute other core factors, or assume them as been trivial.a.

I think Age could mean but nothing when love rules. Love can always grant you that which Age could only grant in parts i.e. Respect. A woman who loves you, would always respect you irrespective of whatever, be it Age or Wealth. You must also note that age diffr. Doesn't grant respect when she really doesn't want to. The much such could do is make her fear ur ferocity as to believing you'd Beat her Up, which am certainly sure is never your thought for wanting to get married.

You just have to be sure that the lady in question ain't been desperate koz Ladies could be Demeaned just koz they Desperately needed a guy to call Husband.

I oblige you never to reveal your thoughts to her in such a Hurry. Take some quality time to know the True Her. Dig deep into her attitudes to see if it best suits you. Try to know her Past; As in the much she'd be willing to tell you. Study her much more than you'd study a 3-unit course in high-school , and If she eventually has those attributes that you would so Desire in a Woman, Then You're so on point!.

N.B: Try as much as possible to assume you both never met. That would help you appraise her without been biased by the thoughts that you Once crushed over her back then.

Age could never be a Barrier, When Loves rules - I re-iterate.

Besides, My Happily married Aunt is her Husbands Age mate. Both now In their early 30's, and With a son, and her being preggy.

Dont force Ur Love on Any's Heart, koz If they know Ur Worth, and so Thirst for It, They'd Certainly create a cosy space in their Heart for You. #winks

Laurina David: I don't like shy guys, he should be bold and most importantly, he should NOT BE SEX-STARVED OR ADDICTED..... WHAT HAPPENED TO HIM BEING FUN..
WE ONLY FIND SEX-STARVED GUYS IN NIGERIA THIS DAYS

Am not shocked if yu aint, besydz u dont appear to be shy eida.

I must comfess dat I lyk dhiz lines of urz. D thing favour Boiz Die!.

sweet-tease:
Aside from 'shyness' i can relate to this list

Uhhmmnn... I've always known real guys to be lil shy doh . It has always bn notoriety by d arrogant fellas dat gains dem dat unspeakable amount of boldness, which they in turn utilise towards becoming a Heroic Player.

Most gurls knows wat I mean

Ayatullah:
You need no Holy Spirit to understand the fact that the Bible has been tampered with, hence full of errors. Read between the lines and use your God given reasoning faculty.

It aint a thing of the new, having to meet Ppl who now knows mor dan our creator does. But Just watch doz lines - I re-iterate and Speak only the things dat u pretty much know.

The Dad is such a Rarity in the entire Human race. As rare as ciggarate sticks wud in Heaven #lol

Ayatullah: The Preacher unfortunately trusted the bible words that: "Those who believe in Jesus will do the works Jesus did, even greater ones". So do not blame the Preacher, rather blame the bible, the book that has been confirmed to be full of errors, even by Christian Scholars.

Watch ur lines bro!. God's Inspired Words couldnt have and would neva be a bunch of Errors. It is so wholesome, and remains real for Ages. It cud only be termed as being complex, and most times surpassing humanly understandings... Yea doh - it deserves to, kos man and God no be mate!, but when Yu seek d wit to understand any, the presence of the HolySpirit is forever available for free... Just ask God genuinely for One!.