₦airaland Forum

Coldie:
One of the reasons why its not good to have critical infrastructures on border states. Imagine if their was to be a UN boundary adjustment, and its gone.

I wonder why Buhari decided to build Nigeria's transport uni in Daura. At the most extreme point of Nigeria.

I doubt if Bornu and Adamawa will agree to join. Who would leave a rich country like Nigeria to form a poor country

Lame rich country you mean...
What has Nigeria done for you?

Imustsurvive:
I will start looking for money to move to one of those LGAs as to register as one of them

the UNO of Cameroon passport will be very useful , you will be able to travel round the world with it.

imustsurvive#

Hahahahahaha
Igbo guys!
Your mind dey traveling round the world doing your business.

joefelin2345:
You are selfish. What about other tribes that may not want to go any of those three bigger tribes e.g. South south, North Central etc?

I advocate a mono-tribe Republic of Biafra where Igbo will be the people and Igbo will be our official language before someone will start shouting marginalisation tomorrow.
South Southern Igbos may decide either to join or not.
All we want is freedom for every Igbo!

God bless Ambazonia. God bless Biafra. God bless Africa.
IGBO...We will never forget!

And bandits will soon appoint Nigeria president with the help of wastern bandits.
Country of bandits.
Nonsense and Nigeria.

Teeklef:
The last time I got paid was in February.
My proprietor called during this unwanted holiday, I was very happy thinking something must to drop but the man just said"hello! I just want to say hi". I nearly cried that day.

He for no call at all!

Amarabae:
Rivers state is not an Igbo state, you IPOB should stop attracting insults to Igbo nation.
Rivers belongs to Rivers people.
enough of this nonsense

There's no people on earth called Rivers.
So long as we have even one indigenous Igbo in Rivers, then Rivers is Igbo.
If you are not comfortable, tear you pant!

AMOTEKUN should catch them wherever they are!

Miltofupsu:
What’s he even going to say

Scammer. Data kee yhu dia

Brunicekid:
See as you dey abuse Nigeria!!!

Huu Nigeria epp?

Reasonable Country unlike this useless Lugard experiment of 1914.

Exponental:
English: Man proposes, God disposes! Yoruba: Riro ni teniyan, Sise ni t'Olorun! Igbo:...... Others:....

Igbo: Mmadu tua Chineke atughasia.

SouthNigerian:
Speak for yourself man, this is a call that is bigger than you & me, you can only end up joining the bandwagon. It is not a one man decision.

Keep deceiving yourself.
Igbo and Yoruba uniting? Hahahahahaha
Greatest joke of the year.

SouthNigerian:
And someone will come here to defend buhari that he doesn't aid terrorists.

This is the Government of the Terrorists, by the Terrorists & for the Terrorists.

Let them Boss how much they want now, nemesis will surely strangle them all by the throats.

If you are Igbo & you're still fighting Yorubas, you be Ewu!
If you are Yoruba & you're still fighting Igbos, you be Eran!

How many of you have noticed the increased tribalistic war between Yorubas & Igbos since we started calling for Southern Unity? It is the handwork of those people, if you know you know, but if you don't, nah you know o.

Southern unity my ass.
I am an IGBO and Easterner there is nothing cordial between Igbo and Yoruba.
Southern Protectorate was design by the colonial masters it was not so from the beginning.
I will only love Nigeria as a fellow African country and as a Biafran.

The unprofessional services of the Nigerian Police are needed most in the WASTE and NOUGHT.
Do anyhow in the Biafran land, you will see anyhow.
Useless people from a useless contraption.
God bless Igbo Nation.
God Bless Africa.

jikins:
Arresting her is excessive na. But lets not be too quick to criticise. The palliative you received, many people out there haven't received anything. They are dieing of hunger. Am pretty sure they would leap at the chance to get something like this. At all at all nain bad pass.

But the government also need to improve on the quality of provision given out. Arresting her is uncalled for, at least she apologised. This country self, people just like abusing power anyhow.

Useless Scammer.
Wonder Data kee you dia.

Imo State how did you even get this man as your Governor? Ndonu!

Who is interested?

StreetFight:
Self praise and chest beating is good. It helps to suppress depression.

Counter his claims if you can! God bless over 40million Igbos all over the world.

Arrant Nonsense!

Until then. Useless government.

Until then. Useless government.

Leezah:
Choose. Your girlfriend has reason to feel the way she does and you know it.

Maybe.

2 out of 2 times I have ever been jealous of an ex boyfriend's friend (not with every ex boyfriend was this an issue) it was found out later that the female friend was indeed crushing on my boyfriend. Women unlike men tend to “read” people well, especially other women. When in love a woman's intuition especially tends to intensify. Then again so does her jealousy so this can be a tricky situation that requires some reflection and honesty with yourself and openness with your girlfriend.

Some of what made me feel jealous in these times was intuition, but some things I just simply understand by being a female myself and having many female friends. I knew certain subtle things females do when they like a guy and saw it. Even personally I crushed on guy friends before and some never suspected it. So it's definitely possible your girlfriend sees something you don't.

Anyways, aside from intuition and certain gestures i saw, I noticed that these 2 boyfriends would run to the female friend with all the problems we had as though she was his “refuge”. This is growing intimacy with your friend instead of your girlfriend and a BIG NO-NO. It would have been better that they went to an older and wiser man for counsel than to her.

Although you may go to your female friend for advice with other problems you should never ever come to her with relationship problems. Friends of the opposite shouldn't know all the intimate details of your relationship. As soon as you have a girlfriend this is the most immediate way in which your friendship to your friend should change. By you coming to her you are now showing her what sort of romantic partner you are and how “romantically compatible” you now are with her.

Women are weird. As soon as you deeply open up about these conditions of your heart, etc, we cant help but to at least wonder if we are romantically compatible especially since we come out the womb being relationship/love oriented. Unless you want your female friend trying to now question secretively if you and her are compatible its best you leave her in the dark about this “intimate” side of you or only expose this side of you when you are single. Also don't break up with your girlfriend and the next day run to your female about the issues. Especially in young love people break up then 2 months later are back together.

Overall allowing a female friend to see these aspects of you should be when you are single (via the title of being single and via emotionally being untied to anyone). Then and only then you should share your romantic/relationship characteristics with your opposite sexed friend and even then just know you are opening the strong possibility that this friend will now start qualifying and disqualifying you as a romantic partner.

If you want female advice then ask older women but maybe not your mom or those who would have too much bias and too easily take your side. Maybe Nairaland could be good however take every answer with a grain of salt including my own. Honestly relationships and determining what is acceptable and not acceptable is personal and takes personal reflection. You can't just take advice for everything.

I especially think in todays world with so many boys raised without fathers its not good to get all your relationship do's and don't from females. You shouldn't think like a female when dating a female. You should think like a man. For the most part men have to be more patient and giving in certain areas of relationships and women should be more patient in othe areas. Learning intimate relationships is not like learning to be politically correct or learning what's publicly proper. Although I do recommend reading relationship books from people who share your same vision of intimate relationships dating someone is the foundation in an intimate world you are creating and everyone is different in what they can accept or what they prefer. People's preferences in love ranges from the most traditional to the grotesque…

Meditate on what you want. Overall if this is a woman who fits every aspect of your vision of an intimate relationship than her opinion does matter. At the end of a day you and HER will be the main creators of a world between your walls and conforming to her in all aspects that's reasonably possible and vice versa is key in making a lasting relationship (keyword:reasonable).

Overall there are many questions you have to ask before you seek to end your friendship. In my own situation both of these boyfriends much later “confessed” that they deeply knew the female friend liked them since I first mentioned my jealousy but they thought it wasn't a big deal unless they fed into it. Personally I felt these were feeding into it (again men don't tend to know the world of female emotion as well). Can you honestly and I mean SINCERELY look at all the encounters with your female friend say that beyond a shadow of a doubt this friend has absolutely, and I mean absolutely has no crush on you? Honestly not even her having a boyfriend matters. Having a boyfriend doesn't stop one from having basic human desires towards another. In divorce courts we see this clearly, so of course in simply dating we can't deny this simple fact of life.

Anywho, despite my own experiences, at the end of the day I would not say it's the best solution to always cut off the female friend just because your girlfriend is jealous especially without considering these things I mentioned.

Many times we date just to date and practice a long term commitment.

Look at everything mentioned here, reflect, keep intimate problems away from opposite sexed friend, and determine your motivation in dating the woman you're with. Is she practice or is she the one?
Is she seeing something you don't or is it jealous?
Is it every female friend and interaction that makes her jealous or is it just this one friend?
Is not conforming to her in this way worth risking a lifetime of not having her by your side?
Many questions to ask before you take any action.

Are you writing a project?
Odikwa egwu ooo

Fulani Herders and the OPC member were playing and discussing how to move one Nigeria forward before Amatekun member interrupted the meeting and start shouting then there was a fight.

Yoruba and Babalawo... Someone should give me a befitting meme

Sophisticated region doing sophisticated business. Go learn trade they say no they want to be like Igbos. Yahoo and skull mining no dey pay!

Igbo before or across the Niger will not tolerate anybody shedding blood of our precious people.
Onye nwere mmadu ka onye nwere ego, here we value life more than wealth.
Ohanaeze do something now!

Emu4life:
Osinbajo/Zulum 2023 Zulum/Makinde 2031 If wishes were horses...........

May injustice dwell in your tent forever! My own wishes to you according to your own wishes. Amen!

What prevented them?

Useless prophet that cannot fight for himself. They should come and protest in my house, jobless people!

itsme01:




idiotic joker that is only good in rigging election and looting money, this is why we would never allow his ethnic group into our dear Aso Rock villa, nobody votes greedy clowns, Lamidi kanu would soon spew trash too, he is only waiting for a Fulani or Yoruba to get infected

Someone should just kidnap him and send the losser to Wuhan china


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You should be put in a cage before you affect people with your rabies.

BOKO HARAM will definitely consume the North. There's neither peace nor hiding place for the wicked. NANSENCE!