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Just imagine, you allowed someone scam you easily

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Any uncle standing between me and my marriage should kick the bucket Asap biko.

Look at you

Ximenez:
Even if I were idle and wanted to get involved, I still wouldn't because of this your Moniker, it's so unnatural. It suggests a bad history with the opposite sex. If you stab your date when dispute about bill settlement emerges, I'd be tagged as an accomplice, or taken as an eye witness.

oh lord, I am not like that

Illuminatus:
The Simpsons Season 24.

I finally watched Rick & Morty Season 1 Episode 1 and Im cursing myself for wasting my data to download the whole season. Sigh.

PS: I think everyone and their grandma should watch Pose!

I watched just one episode of pose and I liked it, will download more episodes

pamcode:
Just watched Altered Carbon season one and I can't wait for the second season. Who has seen Queen of the South? I hope it is interesting.

Very interesting, you should watch it

Wiseonetemmy:
If ordering takeaway for her whole family in an eatery is not poverty alleviation scheme then what is it? Even nigerian politicians no send you reach that one.

stay away from poor girls

Oreofepeters:
he is right, honestly speaking you are poor.

Honestly speaking you are broke

Babyforever:
To chop this guy money just dey hungry me since last year

I love your dream

Martinez19:
No I won't. In fact I would be pleased that I brought a sensible lady to date me.

That's good

Ximenez:
We don't know the guy's recent experience with girls, hence that kind of behaviour. Maybe next time, you'll be the one he will go out with, so you can change his mindset.

you will be my escort then

Ximenez:
Seems you missed the part that the girl called to complain about boredom and suggested hanging out. It was the leech that initiated the date. The most honorable thing to do is just to pay and and talk to her about it later, that's if you like her. Otherwise pay and send her off. The economy is bad and we don't know the kind of homes these ladies are from, to an average Nigerian girl, dates means going out to eat for them, that's why they sometimes come with their extended family.


And please guys, be mindful of where you pick chicks from. Don't let konji determine your fate. There are lots of ladies with class out there you can roll with. If you see any hungry looking girl asking for a 'date' just give her what you can afford and tell her to go and eat on her own, you don't have to follow her. You people just pick random girls from corners to slum.

I guess I missed that part. Even if she initiated it, he could have simply told her that he can't afford such rather than humiliate her like that. And the stupid girl didn't even go with cash, what a shame!!

resurgent2019:
Offer her anything like how? Is friendship or relationship a transaction?

I don’t like what politicians have done to our dear country! The poverty is too much . See how our ladies are thinking?

I am not happy at all.

Offer her even bottled water!! See this one shouting poverty up and down!! Go and eradicate the one in your village

Martinez19:
The girl should have asked him how much he can afford.

Won't you find this insultive if your date ask you such?

Divay22:
Jejely on her own before asking her for a date and that means she must demand above the guy's budget
That's greed babe.

Those ones are hungry girls, that's why I said order for what you can pay for

Idrismusty97:
Are you going to get married "jejely" on your own? Why should it be a poverty alleviation scheme and an opportunity to eat what you have never tasted before in your life just because it's the guy that initiated the relationship? Should the guy do same if the lady "miraculously" initiated the relationship?

Poverty alleviation scheme? How much can you spend on a date that you want to alleviate someone's poverty? If you can't offer her anything, simply don't invite her out.

automatix:
she doesn't know anything about me anymore. I stopped telling her things about what I am doing even before the quarrel.

Well, I have not replied the "I wanted to hear your voice"...

I understand she might fade off soon and this is not the first time such would happen, neither will be bothered.

Bro, she does not reside in my location so the invite thing would not fly. I am in South West and she is South South.

No let toto kee u ooo

So you haven't met her before? I think you still like her

You invite a girl on a date, of course you will spend, after all she was jejely on her own. Ladies first rule always go on dates with cash or atm card. Be prepared for the worst, guys of this generation are something else. Always order for what you can pay for. Simple

tayooluwole:
Bro you just open my eyes...thanks... if you see how down I am ehn, I am just thinking about the good times we spent together and I am like, would I ever experience such good moments again in my life...

Of course you will experience better moments with other people, only if you let her go and move on.

Igbokiller:
so enlightened u speak and act pained.even chose a pained moniker.or is ur moniker not a sadist's?

Check your moniker

Igbokiller:
take heart.which guy mentally damage u like this

I ain't damaged, I am enlightened

classicview:
I can make u love 'love'

halleluyah

MariaLavina:
How is she a slay queen?

And why is she supposed to be an island of knowledge, skills, experience and practice?

Aren't we not permitted to be new to things anymore?


Humanity is lost!

Really lost!! All because she doesn't know how to use a water dispenser!! Because she dresses Okay, she is tagged a slay queen, because she can't use a water dispenser, now she is tagged dumb and called a slay queen!! Humanity is lost

automatix:
I had this girl I met on here and it was one of those dating threads. I had always had my eyes on her though and I did mentioned it.

We took it offline via emails and she complained about what her ex did, didn't treat her right, neglected her blah blah...

Initially when i would call, i don't spend more than 1 minute on calls with her and she queried me on why i don't call more than 1 minute. So for that day, i loaded my phone more and we spoke for an exciting 45 minutes.

Naturally, I friendly connect with her and she is a wonderful person to have around.

Long down the road I would chat her often and then she started calling me as well. Mind you, she is very well aware of my intents, I didn't hide anything from her about my plans and she often declined wanting to date me.

But she would frequently ask me if i went out with any girl, if was with any girl at home. One time i went to watch black panther and i told her about it. She asked if i went alone or with someone.

I had other options, but I usually told her I had none.

I knew about the dangers of giving women too much attention but I stupidly thought there was one out there would not abuse it and she sounded so.

we chatted and she still called me, asking often if i am with any girl and so on. OFTEN times I asked myself, why would a girl say she does not want to date you but still ask you whether you went out with any girl.

Then I noticed that my closeness was beginning to get into her head. She told me one day that she didn't tell me her birthday because she knows I will start jumping up and down to make her happy. OMG... I felt insulted but I kept being me.

Then I noticed the egocentric rhetoric filled with boasting "I can't date you", "I have only dated two guys", this she often said even when you never asked.

We had a quarrel in which she repeated again that she can't date me (now making it look like she was doing me favour), I tried to appease her and she wouldn't have any of it. After that, I told her I will never call her to beg her again like used to just to make peace. She probably thought I was bluffing.

Minutes, hours and few days went by, I never said anything to her. She tried changing DP on whatsapp to get my attention and I didn't flinch. A few days later, she posted image of another guy on her status and wrote a lot of amorous things dedicated to the said guy, I saw it and stood my ground... In fact, I had to make myself more happy than ever before instead of allowing a girl make me feel miserable.

Then days after posting the guys image on her status, she came hard with long epistle, writing all sort of rubbish that I can't remember now. She said hope I saw the image of the other guy and that she did IT intentionally because I was too clingy.

She called me desperate, called me too emotional and boasted that the guy waited 2 years patiently for her because he saw she was different (she always does this and over hype herself to lure you to give her premium price to which I didn't see through initially at the beginning). She said if it were to be me, I would have been red with feelings. She told me she had decided to date the guy "since she couldnt find someone else that she likes"(again feeling she is doing the guy a favour for accepting to date him, a guy she broke up with previously for same reason as not having feelings for him)

She said that we hadn't met and I already told my brother and friend (who spoke to her on phone) about her and that it was a red flag for her. I did all these because I actually meant well for her and no games. But I blamed myself that day for being cool and giving her more than she deserved.


Oh well, after reading all the insultive epistle, I summoned courage and still never said a word to her. She wrote from 6Pm till 9Pm and I never replied any of that until she demanded that I deleted her pics from instagram where I had them. I had actually deleted them long ago, in fact all her pictures were off my devices. So all I said that day was "Deleted long ago" and that was all.

Silence kills women more than lethal weapon.

From that day till the 3 months later, I never said a word to her, I never called, I never texted... My mind was already preoccupied by how to tackle a new business idea was about to start at that time.

One morning, as I was about stepping out to go see my friend and my phone rang. It was her. She spoke calmly and asked if I know who was speaking( she wanted to know if I deleted her number). I mentioned her name and she said okay.

She said she wanted to check on me since I no longer called her because we were quarrelling (same person that terminated my call and categorically told me she does not want to speak to me when I called to explain things). I told her we ain't quarreling and that what happened is no big deal. I kept things light and peaceful.

She said I dont call her and I had to tell her I have been busy. She said it is a lie that it is because we are quarreling. Well, I had to ask after her parents to which she said they are fine. She then ended by saying she just called to check on me since I no longer called her. I said thanks for you and I appreciate it.

I never returned the call and spent over 3 weeks to call her and it was very brief, less than 1 minute.

I didn't want it to look like I was still angry over what transpired. She probably never knew there is loving side and a cold side soulless side that doesn't give a fvck. It depends on which one you want and I will give it to you hot.

The communication has been like that ever since, devoid of the frequent chatty and friendly atmosphere.

I know she is trying to get thing back and I have no idea what happened to the other guy but truth is, she needs her camo on because she is at war with a being she never knew existed in same body as the angel she once met... my ex would tell her this if they ever met.

I hope someone learns from my mistake.

She loves attention, she just didn't like you enough, if she was forming, things would have turned out differently.

When you steal another person's girlfriend, be rest assured that the cycle will continue, she will leave you for another guy just like that

Marketing strategy, the dress is lovely

Fine bobo

Mruwa1:
Most and not all ..relax there are still good guys maybe u r looking from wrong /different direction ..

I really did try to believe this but it's just how it is

oyepaulkay:
Somebody talking from experience

Maybe, maybe not

omoharry:
..my sister, I sister you talk true.

When you say the truth, they start giving mentions

daveP:
Dobt hold on to this myopic reason. it's too fallacious.


Be realistic, not sarcastic!!!

I am being realistic

dasparrow:
Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!

you said nothing but the truth

kunleweb:
Silly you

we prefer our sanity