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[color=#9900ff]Never watched it either. . .i just skip/change channels when i see it.
So it's funny? It looks like heavy drama to me [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Boll to be honored with the life time achievement Razzie award
later i'll post erhh something on the other contenders, but i couldn't resist comment Boll's greatest achievement - making crappy movies [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Spikey where we talking about Joaquin on this thread?

Nwayz, i recently read he retired because he wants to focus on his music.
He supposedly has an album coming out to be produced by Diddy
He (Joaquin) fancies himself to be a rapper

Didn't Adrian go that route?

BTW, never knew Casey Affleck is married to Joaquin's sister [/color]

[color=#9900ff]My 2nd husband [/color]

KarmaMod:
Look at your mouth. I thought Bale was hott way before iice was born sef

In American Psycho, I still would have married him

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I know! she didn't believe me when i told her (max) that you thought he (Bale) was hot
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[color=#9900ff]Yippie. . .good sisi made the thread
I only came on to. . .erhhh

Later i will post my comments. . .my consciousness i almost erhhh

People who are double nominees don't win. . .sigourney, julianne moore

Thats all for now [/color]

[color=#9900ff]The 5th Wheel [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Downloading legion of superheroes season 1[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Can i come today?[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Better. . .
Before you see someone building something on your land [/color]

[color=#9900ff]oops jan 31 lol
I'll try to watch it.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Hah!!!!!!!
Feb right?[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Neither. [/color]

Pepeye:
Four colours in sharp contrast

[color=#9900ff]I like

@Topic,
Skinny bluish/gray jeans
White and black chucks
White long sleeved shirt
Black hoodie

Arrghhh can't wait for my friggin shorts and flip flops [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Sleep friggin sleep[/color]

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Enjoy your new names
I don get like 20 sef and increasing
Drummer I be guitarist and Ika na percussion and main vocals

I nor dey deny. . .wait till i show you my hard earned halo
I nor dey beat up people lmaooooooo


Arghhh i hope i will jare
Glad you dey better [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Hmmmm Epi, you mean garlic and tea?
I would try that, but with no milk and sugar

I drink garlic and ginger though. . .for my colds/sore throat / flu[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Amaka i like your own![/color]

[color=#9900ff]Lawd!
The pageant girl.  See her switching her accent.  The whole continuous brushing of hair to the side, the hysterical (am sure she was aiming for musical) laugh.  .  .ughhh

Hello Akeelah/Akilah or however she spells her name .
She no go kill me!
She invented some new words

The guy with the rubik cube, he's so sweet but

Eyah only 12 made it through from San Francisco

Seriously beginning not to like the Kara woman.  She's soooo blah.  Paula already has that part so she should pick a new part
Simon advices people to watch him.  .  .for confidence [/color]

[color=#9900ff]The person na the source

I had this roommate back in highschool (my dorm prefect)
She had this 'scent'.  .  .and it seemed to run in her family.
Her sister, in my school too had it, her bro who was one of the dudes i hung out with back then.  .  .
Even the siblings that came to visit
It was the same smell.
And they are not dirty oooo.  Serious baffing like 2/3 times a day.  With Cologne and all that, but give them about 20 minutes with not even sweating and the scent comes alive again

Some people's b.o smell different from other people


@Topic
The sure crystal spray doesn't leave marks too. Not that i need that much since i rarely wear dark tops but i like the smell.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Is heroes back?

Thank goodness House is back.
So yeah House

AI

Oh goodie, just say fringe is back
Make i go watch.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Hmmm JK, it was nice but it's like other sport - based on true life story - movie.
Only difference is the character of the person.
You should watch it though because it's not a very well known story.
I don't want to give away much

[size=5pt]_dinozzo [/size]

I heard Transporter 3 was wack.
I've been meaning to watch Elegy too.
Frost/Nixon. . .am just gathering myself for that because it looks like it will take alot out of me to watch it.
I don't like too much talking [/color]

Bamsyle:
Laydeeeees!!!

<sup>*I dey visit here everyday, I nor just dey post.

Like Dr. Dre, I prefer to watch. This thread na my humour section*

*iice, keep it up

Muki, I go explain this ya siggy one day. . .*</sup>

[color=#9900ff]Glad you are being entertained
Wait till we play you our pangolo music  although muki our drummer don dey misbehave
Creative differences you know.  .  .she thinks we are awesome, and i think we still need some work [/color]

mukina2:
Laydee
i dey con poison ur hubby

the boy dey vex me
i hope you are better than me now sha

[color=#9900ff]han han
Wetin my hubby do now?   Tell make hin desist or i go come carry hin machete chase as ooo

I dey barely better oooo
I hope you dey better [/color]

ikamefa:
twinny?  stone you for head? impossicant! 

Ngwa! twinny  na true? 

[color=#9900ff]Twinny you know me na!
I be super angelic, super sweet and will nefa beat muki

_{T'sup loff? Your car just dey carry go different areas and i nor fit catch your ride} [/color]

zaragoza:
@iice
why not try to look at this from a different angle. There are scenarios where "i cannot say" simply cant be acceptable, situations where you are required to give an answer. For instance situations which requires a "Yes" or "No" answer. Try to make subsequent posts based on the Topic of this thread and not the instance i gave, what i gave is just an instance, there could be more worse or tighter situations whereby "i cannot say" is simply unacceptable. I dont like repeating myself either but wouldn't mind doing so so as to buttress a point or making it clearer.
@Darqly
I dont totally agree with you. In as much as telling the truth is the best but there are situations that calls for expediency.

[color=#9900ff]Exactly.  I am talking from a general point of view which was your response to someone's question if the thread was about relationships, life or what.  And you pointed out it encompasses everything.

My point is that.  .  .when people struggle with whether to do/say something.  They struggle with what religion, family, society, friends etc will say about them or the implications of what they do/say on them first and then on the other person(s).  I first have to grapple with going against my code first before i even contemplate the other things which are minor decisions for me. 
When i said diplomacy sometimes is the best policy.  I meant generally not specifically me.  In situations of power and responsibility, people who have a wider influence have to be diplomatic.  Likewise people who have close ties/bonds or who are afraid to loose something/someone, who are afraid to be branded something they don't want to be branded as, or the range of effect of his/her decision (s).  I do not have to disagree with them or support them.   Each is beholden by his/her actions.  People in power have to be honest but they cannot always make that decision in critical situations because of the impact.  They would have to placate both sides but at the same time show that their 'intentions' are pure and for the better (or at least tolerable) of both sides.
Do you get my point now?

To answer your specific question of situations of a yes/no. 
Yes, i would be honest.  Thankfully am not in power or it would be disastrous
Oh wait. . . and no am not talking about NL [/color]

Taken:
***Honesty and transparency are regularly touted as cardinal principles but never practiced  in Ngeria ***

I think we can see where the problem stem from - Us - based on our responses we have offered so far.
Well if we want Nigeria to change, we the pple better start such things as honesty otherwise, you know the rest.

Plant honesty - harvest peaceful nation.

[color=#9900ff]Oh boy, be like say we just dey think the same for this thread
People like shoving off blame and heaping it on another person(s) but forget that to change the core - us - must change first.[/color]

spikedcylinder:
LOL! What source?

[color=#9900ff]What naughty evil things are you thinking?

B.O that doesnt change. [/color]

Taken:
Honesty is still the best policy.  But telling on others is called snitching. Honesty does not require you to confess on behalf of other pple.  
But to be honest about your own actions or deeds is very important cus nature will still reveal the hidden stuff anyway.

[color=#9900ff]Exacto.  [/color]

zaragoza:
@Moneyrule
What is the difference btw "i can't really say" and "i am not sure". When u reply the woman "i'll check" when the woman comes back again would u keep on replying her "i would check"? When u answer her "maybe" maybe what? Maybe that he's not cheating on her? are u being honest with her? When u actually answer her "yes" and make her beleive it to be "no" u've just ended up telling her no. In other words u are not being sincere with her, u are deceiving her into believing what is not the truth. Mind u honesty encompasses truthfulness and sincerity, and to be sincere means avoidance of deceit and pretence. The mistake u are making including iice is that you guys are seeing honesty as being just telling the truth, it comprises of a lot more.

[color=#9900ff]I have repeated (for the third time now i hate repeating myself!) that i cannot tell because i do not make it a habit of spilling info about people to anyone regardless of who they are and if it's true or not.  That is my honesty in character.  Does that answer part of your 'honesty is not about just telling the truth'  question?
 
For me, the intentions behind the action is another matter.  If a person (going by your scenario) does not tell the wife because he/she thinks it will destroy _{all you said} etc etc and that is all the intention the person had, then yes the lie is permissible and even encouraged  Now if the person doesn't tell the wife because he/she thinks that the wife should suffer longer, or something will come out this situation etc etc.  .  .then that is where the lie becomes horrific.  Mind you, not many people have pure intentions.  .  .it may look like it's pure but there is usually something else behind that.

People will lie because of the religious/mystic implications.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Yes loff, but be like say we go all share. . .
Na wah, this one wey all of us sef just

Take it easy loff

Brash. . .i reject with you! [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Peculiar smell. . .known only to come from[i] that[/i] source - na my own definition [/color]

[color=#9900ff]I'd rather say.  .  .i cannot say.  You can find out from someone else, that is when i have a good day.
If it's a bad day.  .  .it's 'please use your brain'
It's not so much as not telling the person as it is not my thing to 'tell' like i said be it true or false.

Diplomacy in the sense that you find a way to not confirm or confirm the issue.  .  .you can put a hint which is easier to do.  
The thing is that, you try not to hurt the parties involved or strive for at least a cordial result.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Vesc You appeared from the land beyond beyond!
Am with you sha on it being released. . .my year is gonna be sweettttt!
Caro, didn't know the messages were almost much the same!. . .senile i tell ye! [/color]

Gamine:
@All, is it just me or does casting affect you?

[color=#9900ff]Sometimes it does. . .
Known fact, i rarely watch Nicole Kidman movies - she's beyond boring.
If she's in movie with an ensemble cast i like, i blank her out and focus on the others [/color]

spikedcylinder:
Yes, she had black hair with bangs but the lead actor had no pony tail, he had dirty blonde hair though. She couldn't dance jare, except when she became a burlesque dancer. Her hip hop dance moves were crap.

[color=#9900ff]Yeah its the movie alright. I ignored her hiphop moves. . .just the ballet/contemporary dance she was doing. I watched she moves (Tara from True Blood), the movie was blah for me. Although they were stomping, but all these movies have the same story.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Laydee i saw it

Brash
No sick ooo.  .  .
Flu?  Lots of water and rest

Meeting? I hope i get power for parry meeting [/color]

damiso:
Right about that,there is one oyinbo gal in my office(i cannot begin to describe ) the gal stinks the whole place out, i am sure she just gets up from the bed and comes to work,uggh the smell is so nauseating .thank God she sits far away from me cos walahi if my desk was next to hers i would complain in my one to one with my manager.So pls body odours are universal and transcend all tribe and colour. That is not to say oyinbo people smell,the neat ones are really neat,so i guess its a personal thing.

Back to the topic,i use mitchum gel for men and if i can't get it would be dove deodorant spray.Before this i wash very very well as i hate body odours so cany take any chances.After anti -perspirant,i use victoria secrets vanilla body mist(smells heavenly if may so myself) and then i decide on what perfume to use dependent on my mood.

[color=#9900ff] True. . .but can you imagine a scent traveling long distances, through conditions and changes but yet the scent remain unchanged?

Nwayz. . .i prefer men deos
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