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ebamma: one thing i know is dat abokis have the biggest dicks in the world.

Sijo, here is ur aboki!

[quote author=Kevin_II]So in essence, he should sugarcoat the truth? That seems to be the suggestion of this friend of mine. Like "Kevin, am I getting fat". She's indeed getting very fat. But I'm expected to reply "No sweetheart, I like the fact that you're a tinnie bit more filled out than before . Which may be a 'tactful' reply but that definitely won't make her work at slimming down and I lose out at the end. See?

I do like that you can handle the truth sha, but I doubt you can do that ALWAYS. After a while you're likely to start complaining that he is not diplomatic , then we're back to square one[/quote]I didn't mean for him to sugarcoat (although nothing so wrong with that depending on the situation) but the choice of words, body language and the tone used will go a long way in sending the message across more effectively. Rather than being too blunt or harsh, c'mon i mean this is the woman you say you love can't the guy afford to be polite? I don't support a lie, if the guy thinks she's getting fat then his response shud be like 'actually now that you mentioned it, i did notice that you have put on a lil weight since but didn't or forgot to bring it up. Is that so hard? Men know weight is a sensitive issue for women (no matter how illogical it seems) so he shud be tactful. Being tact doesn't mean lying.

[quote author=Mynd_44][b]I know you have been eying my ynash [/b]I just did not know how desperate you are to touch it[/quote]Let me laff sef

Wants to seriously fcck Mynd

Please! What woman have complained about her man being 'brutally honest'? The problem is the way the message is delivered. I know the truth can be bitter but personally I would always want him to tell me the truth no matter what. Some men pride themselves in being straight forward and blunt which is good but if you know you are dating a sensitive girl then you have to be tactful and keep that ego in check. Only a stupid woman will break up with her boyfriend for being honest because at the end of the day its about the message. I would take the truth any day over lies! Except when I ask him to lie

Very romantic set of peoples
They are always ready to do 'the thing', shege!
They give massage
Pluck fresh flowers every morning
Wrestle killer bees bare-chested just to get a spoon of honey for her tea
Wash her bra and panties, even iron socks!!!
Sing love songs with a big smile, their toothless gums exposed
Grow weed in the kitchen

Hmmm! if you haven't dated one before do so now. I know say you dey eye dem for that jail cell wey you dey. Dem go doo ur yansh tire, u no say u like am

I wish you good luck. You know you'll need it.

^^ I bow o!

has a crush on Presido GEJ!

I feel you pain and hope for the best for you. Instead of wallowing in self pity you need to pick urself up and start handling matters. You know how you feel inside so nobody can decide for you. I guess the distance must have gotten to him and he went into this relationship with the woman for the sex. I really don't know but cheats are very hard to please and they will cheat again, only more cleverly (unless the person is really sincere in changing his ways). Ask yourself, what is the point in getting married to a man just because you feel you are getting old only to hate every moment of ur time with him? There is obviously no more trust even if you decide to forgive him and marry him as you will start monitoring his every move. Is that how a marriage should be? Do you feel so insecure that you think no man will want you at your age? Please let your immediate family in on what is happening but only after you have decided in ur heart what to do because there will definitely be more drama from their side! Pray about this as well cos you need it. X

Ok we know she did wrong by cheating on the boyfriend she claims to love. I won't get carried away with this part cos that's another story!
The annoying part of the story is that she says she feels guilty but can't end it with the other guy. Shooo! I don't believe her guilt because guilt clears the eyes! If she was really guilty she would have sharply come to her senses and cut off completely from that neighbour, na by force?? Because what should be going thru her mind is how to confess to her BF and still save the relationship. How can she confess to him sincerely when she's still close to her neighbour? As human beings we make mistakes and deserve a second chance but she should be honest with herself and BF. I know its easy to talk cos I am not in her position but this is the right thing to do. Maybe she's still 'contemplating' because she wants to keep the neighbour too! When she is ready she will do the right thing cos it seems like she is not ready yet.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Or else?[/quote]I'll spank that lepa yansh of urs!

I normally ignore threads just by reading the title and this was one of them. Till i just noticed that it went on to 5 pages! I thot maybe i was being to quick to judge and decided to find out what it's all about. Mcheeeeeeew! Rubbisshh!

[quote author=Killz.][color=#000030]This is some bullshit. Learn to mind your fccking business and get a life off NL. If you have a life off here, you'll come to the realisation that this is all virtual and you owe it yourself to sift out useful information and discard the rest. You can't sit behind your computer, analyze peoples posts and deem them whatever. You don't judge people before you know them. So shut tha fcck up! [/color][/quote]

Where are the pedophiles?
I don't see anything wrong with it if that person is right for you in every way.

xcitedjay: I'm sure you aint the "." between the zeros

[quote author=Mynd_44]Runs girl. Her mouth don wide[/quote]

ayobase: Hmmmmm!
Be n ti e ri!
Enu ti fe!

You better behave urselves!

Still fantasizes about sniffing my underwear

Do you underestimate the power of love?

[quote author=Mynd_44]Hmmm NL love[/quote]What has love got to do with email this man?
You have forgotten Donkolione is planning a wedding?

[quote author=OK=2=NV][/quote]LWKMD!!

How are you so sure he won't want me?