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WebmastersRe: The Proliferation Of Blogs - Good Or Bad? by IleIfe2(m): 8:46am On Jun 26, 2013
Ok, i get it. Your problem is that there are too many Nigerian blogs and they copy each others content. What do you want to do about it. Form a cartel to stifle freedom of speech? Organize some of your webmaster mates to lobby the house of assembly to outlaw blogging?

What is really your problem? Too many Nigerians are blogging or contents are too similar? either way, you a no business worrying about how many blogs Nigeria has. Just visit the blogs you like and STFU.
PoliticsRe: Fani-Kayode - Jonathan Will Divide Nigeria If He Loses In 2015 by IleIfe2(m): 8:05pm On Jun 25, 2013
Don't worry honourable Minister, Jonathan won't lose.
PoliticsRe: "Civillian JTF" Embark On "Operation Stop And Search" by IleIfe2(m): 10:20am On Jun 23, 2013
This is very risky, subtle sign of lawlessness but the JTF is supervising. So, no wahala for now.
PoliticsRe: Soyinka - The Village Mourners - A Must-read Bombshell by IleIfe2(m): 5:43am On Jun 20, 2013
When this man dies, i wish he permits his brain be removed and fixed on a robot so we can have him for eternity. i hope i'm not being offensive. cheesy cheesy cheesy
SportsRe: FIFA U-20 World Cup: Turkey 2013 by IleIfe2(m): 8:31am On Jun 19, 2013
Abu Mikey: See as their names dey fear person gringringrin
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PoliticsWill An African Leader by IleIfe2(op):
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PoliticsKenyan President Orders Deportation Of Nigerians Involved In Drug Trafficking by IleIfe2(op): 10:08am On Jun 18, 2013
For Nigerians resident in Kenya, these are the worst of times. Their plight could be compared to the era of slave trade when able-bodied Africans could not tell what the next minute held for them because human traffickers could pick them up the next minute.

Checks revealed that in recent times, Nigerians have become victims of undeserved humiliation and deportation in President Barrack Obama’s country of origin.

It was gathered that due to the uproar that followed a recent publication by Sunday Sun in which one of the deportees, Anthony Chinedu, recounted his sad experiences in the hands of Kenyan security personnel, the government of the East African country swiftly changed its strategy. According to latest deportees, the Kenyan security agents have resorted to bugging telephone conversations of Nigerians, and once the name or language sounds Nigerian, they would trace the person and get him arrested.

They stated that Nigerian citizens, especially those engaged in legitimate businesses in that country live literally with their hearts on their palms, hiding from place to place for fear of being picked up and bundled back home empty handed.

It was alleged that part of the grouse that the Kenyan President and his deputy have against Nigerian citizens was that Nigerians gave massive support to his rival in the country’s recent presidential election and that a Nigerian is in charge of the deputy president’s case at the International Criminal Court.

President orders mass arrest and deportation

A tacit official confirmation that Kenya-based Nigerians were really in for hard times, came last Monday, when that country’s president, Uhuru Kenyatta, in a public function, gave his nod to mass deportation of Nigerians. While declaring open the 2nd National Conference on Alcohol and Drug Abuse (NACADA) in Nairobi, on June 11, 2013, he ordered the security agencies to fish out, arrest and deport all foreigners suspected to engage in drug trafficking in Kenya. Sunday Sun monitored the reportage of the presidential order that was relayed in Kenyan radio and TV stations including NTV, Capital FM and Ghetto Radio- 89.5FM, as well as some tabloids the next day. Some of their headlines read: “Deport all suspected drug dealers”, “Police to arrest, deport all foreigners suspected of engaging in drug”, and “Deport all suspected foreign drug dealers”. It was gathered that since that official directive, several Nigerians have been secretly deported.

Many Nigerian citizens in that country saw the presidential order as an official permission to Kenyans to tag any face they do not like, as “suspected” drug dealer. One of them who mailed Sunday Sun stated that, “since all it takes to throw a foreigner out of Kenya is mere suspicion, landlords, debtors and anybody who doesn’t like your face only needs to call in the police and brand you a suspect.”

One of the victims who identified himself simply as Joe, spoke to Sunday Sun upon his arrival at the Murtala Muhammed International Airport, on Monday. Like Chinedu, he is also an indigene of Anambra state. Narrating his experiences in the hands of the Kenyan police, he stated that he was picked up Sunday night and told to choose either to die slowly in their (security men) hands or silent deportation.

“I asked them what they meant by going home silently and they said they would just buy a normal air ticket for me, so I could return to Nigeria like other normal travelers, and I chose the latter,” he said.

Joe said he learnt later, that the security agents adopted the strategy because the Nigerian High Commission in Kenya had lodged official complaint to the authorities about the deportation of Nigerian citizens without its knowledge. About a dozen Nigerian citizens resident in Kenya who reacted to Sunday Sun interview with Anthony Chinedu also confirmed that Nigerians were still being recklessly arrested and detained. They also confirmed Joe’s allegation of silent deportation.

Another deportee, Mr Paul Owoseni, an indigene of Ondo state, told a pathetic story. He told Sunday Sun while on his way to his village that he did not know his offence.

Hear him: “Many Nigerians are still detained there, as we speak, awaiting deportation. Till now, I don’t know what offence I committed that warranted this inhuman treatment. Their security agents just go on the streets of Kenya, picking up anyone they identify as a Nigerian and tag him a drug dealer. I was doing my legitimate business in that country; I did not sale, take or keep drugs, and nobody has ever seen me with any narcotic substance. They picked me up on Monday (June 3), and detained me till Thursday, before bundling about ten of us into the plane. We were not allowed to take even a pin. They told us while in detention, that they wanted all Nigerians out of their country, not minding whether we were doing legitimate business or not. They also said that they did not want to get rid of us through court process.

Tracking method

“The moment you call a friend and the security agents noticed it is a Nigerian name you called, they would track both of you and get you arrested. They also intercept calls, and once they notice that you sounded Nigerian, they would trace you and get you arrested immediately.”

Owoseni told Sunday Sun that while in Kenya, he was into importation of human hairs that he also supplied to Uganda and Tanzania, and he had just stocked his shop. Oseni alleged that the security agents broke his gate while he was away on the day they came to arrest him, at about 5pm, and waited for him.

“They even arrested a friend that was in my company at that time. I will not mention his name because he is among those in detention in Kenya.”

Kenyan wife works with Kenyan army

Owoseni who arrived in Nigeria with nothing, said like many other Nigerians, he was married to a Kenyan and they had a child, Micheal. He stated that his Kenyan wife, Damaris, who works for the Kenyan army, was still at work when he was arrested, and they did not allow him to communicate with her before he was deported. Like the other deportees, he urged that the Nigerian government should not let all their struggles in Kenya to be in vain.

Another Deportee speaks

Also forced out of Kenya, was Oluwatosin Adebiyi, an indigene of Oyo State, who was arrested at midnight and taken away in his nightclothes. “They stormed my house at midnight and arrested me. They were about 40 armed men, and before I was taken away, they ransacked the house and took away all handy valuables including my $20,000 cash, five phones and three ipads belonging to me and my wife. My duplex, two cars and other valuables in the house are worth over N60 million. “The most annoying part was that they rendered me incommunicado, disallowed me from communicating with my Kenyan wife and children. They did not give me any option while in detention.”

They jumped into my compound around 1 a.m. -Daniel

Another deportee, Mr Daniel, narrated his ordeal in Kenya. “On Sunday night (June 2), about 15 policemen who were armed to the teeth, came to my house. They actually scaled the fence like criminals, around 1 a.m., and ordered me to open my door. Initially, I thought they were armed robbers
http://sunnewsonline.com/new/national/mass-deportation-of-nigerians-from-kenya/
PoliticsNigeria's Oil Pirates by IleIfe2(op):
CelebritiesRe: D'banj Vs Don Jazzy : The Rivalry Is Still On by IleIfe2(op): 4:59pm On Jun 16, 2013
omar22: You need to send a message to your village informing them that their Village Idi.ot is not lost, but safe and sound writing rubbish on NL
go hug transformer. Opio! grin grin grin
CelebritiesRe: D'banj Vs Don Jazzy : The Rivalry Is Still On by IleIfe2(op): 3:20pm On Jun 16, 2013
zaza1: Well said..took the words right outta my mouth..one of the smartest comments I have seen on Nairaland in long while
omar22: A lot of people are just making up stories sha, growing grey hair, some are loosing hair and sleep while Dbanj and Don J enjoying their lives....


Which part of Freaking Mind Your Business do people don't understand
gidson12: @op...get a life, I mean the one that is a lil better than the useless one ur already having
Birds of a feather flock together. Wawaye, Oponu and family Nig. Limited.
PoliticsRe: Asari Dokubo's Mansion In Port Harcourt by IleIfe2(m): 9:16am On Jun 16, 2013
dayokanu: Texas is an oil producing state, You mean everyone in Texas should be given a mansion without having a job?
If the Idians/latinos were alive, they will also demand to be treated with dignity or allowed to control their resource.
CelebritiesRe: D'banj Vs Don Jazzy : The Rivalry Is Still On by IleIfe2(op): 4:37am On Jun 16, 2013
spikes C: i think i should be asking you that grin
What an 1diot, perverted scratch card printer calling someone a slowpoke. are you don sniffing you mum's panties?
CelebritiesRe: D'banj Vs Don Jazzy : The Rivalry Is Still On by IleIfe2(op): 4:21am On Jun 16, 2013
Omavik: Lol @ moronic op.... Op dnt take it personal i tink d thread is ntin bt crap
Why should i take it personal? it's no news your mother's rapist used his manhood to damage your brain towards the third quarter of her pregnancy. they banged your head via your mother to stupidity. you bald headed chaff full of broken dreams. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
PoliticsRe: Asari Dokubo's Mansion In Port Harcourt by IleIfe2(m):
payless: He is "fighting for his people" indeed. He has another Mansion in Abuja also. What has he done in his life to build such a mansion? Where has he ever worked in his entire life to have such a house?
He is from an oil producing state. Every black man from an oil producing town or village should be able to live a comfortable life like the Arabs, and the smarter ones amongst them should be richer. My opinion.
CelebritiesRe: D'banj Vs Don Jazzy : The Rivalry Is Still On by IleIfe2(op): 5:11pm On Jun 15, 2013
spikes C: welcome to the world of advertising


The only odd thing i see here is a moronic OP deciding on his own that the two guys are competing/measuring what ever his moronic brain thinks of cool
grin grin i don't know why i'm not in the mood. are you related to any of them?
CelebritiesD'banj Vs Don Jazzy : The Rivalry Is Still On by IleIfe2(op):
May the biggest Dick win.
IslamRe: Dr Zakir Naik At National Stadium Surulere Sat & Sun June 15th & 16th by IleIfe2(m): 3:41pm On Jun 15, 2013
SMH

PoliticsLagos, Africa's Big Apple by IleIfe2(op):
PoliticsJune 12, A Day Nigeria Stood Still For Democracy by IleIfe2(op): 11:30pm On Jun 12, 2013
PoliticsRe: June 12 Declared Public Holiday In Oyo, Osun, Ogun, Lagos & Ekiti by IleIfe2(m): 2:28pm On Jun 11, 2013
Ola Johnson: The "Jews" should learn from this: there is a difference between a sit-at-home exercise and a holiday. In a democratic setting, a holiday, which people should not be forced but voluntarily observe is fashionable. Anybody can decide not to observe it.
The reason the "Jews" have been observing "sit-at-home exercise is because of their belief that if they fail to open their shops Nigerians will go hungry and the economy will be adversely affected. Thank God God is not a "Biafran". To the "Biafrans", if the governments of these states decide to close all the markets, especially Alaba, Ladipo, Tatangowa, etc, in the states for June 12 to observed, won't you say the Igbo are hated?
Dude, stop being anti Afromitic. grin grin grin grin
GamingRe: PS4 Launched By Sony by IleIfe2(m): 2:19pm On Jun 11, 2013
i here it's gonna be quite affordable. Nice home media
PoliticsRe: June 12th, Abiola, Susan Rice And A Cup Of Tea - Femi Fani-kayode by IleIfe2(op): 3:41pm On Jun 09, 2013
amarilo: Nigeria wouldn't have known any peace if MKO had succeded cos their are other questions that need ansa before MKO insident. What did MKO know about IBB coup? How much did he invest in spornsoring the coup? Where is the fund meant for ITT that disappeared up till now. So you can see that his hands are soiled as well. He who comes to equity must come with clean hands. What comes around goes around.
PoliticsJune 12th, Abiola, Susan Rice And A Cup Of Tea - Femi Fani-kayode by IleIfe2(op): 5:36pm On Jun 08, 2013
JUNE 12th, MKO ABIOLA, SUSAN RICE AND A CUP OF TEA

Ambassador Susan Rice is the American Ambassador to the United Nations. Her long-standing aspiration of becoming the Secretary of State for her country was dashed when the Republicans in the Senate started sharpening their knives in anticipation of her formal nomination for that position by President Barak Obama.

Sensing that her nomination would not scale through the Senate and that she would not be confirmed as Secretary of State due to the role she played in the cover up of the Benghazi affair in which the American Ambassador to Libya and three other American citizens were murdered by a group of islamist terrorists, her nomination was withdrawn.

In lieu of Secretary of State, President Obama has now nominated her for the position of National Security Advisor which is a job that does not require Senate approval or confirmation. I wish Susan Rice well in her new assignment but I am constrained to ask the following questions. What did she put in the tea that she served to Chief MKO Abiola on July 8th 1998 just before he died? She was one of the last people that saw him alive, she served him some tea, he coughed violently and one hour later he died. What was in the tea? Was it Abuja ''green tea'' or Earl Grey or Liptons?

Can someone please ask Susan Rice what her role was in the death of MKO Abiola? Who sent her to do the job and who was she working for? At that time she was Assistant Secretary of State for America in President Bill Clinton's government. Was she acting on his direct instructions or simply on the instructions of her boss at the CIA?

Chief MKO Abiola was the winner of Nigeria's freest and fairest elections. That election took place on June 12th 1993. The following day it was annuled by General Ibrahim Babangida. Shortly after that General Babangida was compelled to ''step aside'' and hand over power to Chief Ernest Shonekan. He also left General Sani Abacha behind to be Chief of Army Staff and Minister of Defence.

A few months later General Abacha toppled the Interim National Government of Chief Ernest Shonekan and seized power for himself. Abiola was arrested and detained. He was never granted his freedom again. Four years later Abacha himself was murdered by forces that are yet to be identified and General Abdulsalami Abubakar took power. Exactly 30 days after Abacha was killed, those same forces that killed him murdered Abiola as well in an attempt to ''balance the equation''.

These are the facts and those are the sequence of events. One thing is self-evident and cannot be denied- whichever side of the divide one may have been on in the June 12th saga, certain questions must be answered. Those questions are as follows. Who killed MKO Abiola? Who killed Sani Abacha? What role, if any, did the former Head of State, General Abdulsalami Abubakar and his National Security Advisor, General Abdullahi Mohammed play in the murder of both Abacha and Abiola? What role, if any, did the CIA play and exactly what transpired in the room when Susan Rice, Ambassador Pickering and two other American government officials met with Abiola on the very day that he was meant to be released. Instead of being released on that day he was murdered.

Whose call was that and why did it have to happen? Was it in an attempt to pave the way for an Obasanjo Presidency one year later? Could General Olusegun Obasanjo have been elected Presidsent if Abiola had lived and if he had insisted on claiming his mandate? What was Babangida's role in this whole matter and was he in any way aware of or involved in the making of these crucial decisions?

The Nigerian people have a right to know the truth and it is about time that the few that have wielded power in this country for the last five decades appreciated the fact that they cannot sweep things under the carpet forever and that one day, no matter how long it takes, they will be held accountable by the Nigerian people for the secret choices and decisions that they made.

The truth is that until these questions are answered and justice is done Nigeria will not know peace and will not make any progress. It is a spiritual thing. The fact remains that had it not been for Abiola's great sacrifice and his gallant refusal to bow before the Nigerian military and give up his 1993 Presidential mandate we would not have democracy in Nigeria today. We should do our best to ask the relevant questions, demand the appropiate answers and unearth the bitter truth. We owe MKO Abiola, his wife Kudirat (who was also murdered) and all the other June 12th footsoldiers and martyrs that much.

May God give us leaders that have a conscience that that truly respect and fear Him. May Chief MKO Abiola's soul continue to rest in peace.

https://www.facebook.com/femifanikayode/posts/4587935065848
PoliticsWe Are Not Terrorist Organization Oodua Peoples Congress (OPC) by IleIfe2(op): 11:19pm On Jun 07, 2013
We Are Not Terrorist Organization Oodua Peoples Congress (OPC)

It has come to the notice of the Oodua People’s Congress (OPC) that some prominent people from the Northern part of the country who are not happy with the determination of the Federal Government to put a stop to the wanton killings in the north have decided to cast aspersion on the OPC by equating it with the Boko Haram sect.

We have decided to remain neutral and maintain our peace since the orgy of killings started. But we have taken note of statements credited to some prominent Northern leaders, especially since the crack down on the Boko Haram sect.
In the Thursday, 6 June, 2013 edition of The Punch newspaper, former commissioner of police in Lagos State, Abubakar Tsav, while condemning Federal Government’s all-out attack on Boko Haram, wondered why the president failed to ban other groups, including the OPC, because, according to him, the groups are involved in acts of terrorism.

We state here as a matter of fact that the OPC is a visible organisation, with known addresses all over the country. Its leaders are also known and accessible to all Nigerians, including security agencies. We draw our strength from our membership of more than seven million. It is also on record that we don’t engage in clandestine activities, since our activities are known to all and recorded for history by the vibrant and courageous Nigerian media, and therefore in no way a security threat to the country.

Our travails

Let us recall here that our leaders, Dr. Fredrick Fasehun, Otunba Gani Adams and four other leaders were arrested and detained by the Obasanjo administration in 2002 and 2005.

It may interest you to know that we were taken to court and discharged and acquitted of all the charges, including belonging to unlawful organization and unlawful association.
The first was time was at the Federal High Court, Lagos, where Justice Dan Abutu struck out the matter and discharged and acquitted us of all the charges. The second case was at the State High Court, Abeokuta, Ogun State, where Justice Charles Oluremi Jacobs (OFR) also struck out the case, discharged and acquitted us.

The government still took us before Justice Sybil Nwaka of the Lagos High Court. The honourable justice also struck out the case, discharged and acquitted us.
But surprisingly, we were taken before Justice Anwuli Chikere of the Federal High Court, Abuja. On 19th of December, 2006, the honourable judge ruled in our favour, while discharging and acquitting us.

You will agree with us that these four rulings are enough proof that the OPC is not an unlawful organization or a threat to national security.

Setting the records straight

But for the purpose of setting the records straight, it has become necessary for us to come out and speak on this very serious and controversial issue, since our silence may be interpreted to mean admission of guilt.
To most discerning Nigerians, nothing can be further from the truth than this statement credited to the former police boss. The activities of the OPC in the last ten years in the south-west of the country speak volume of the peaceful nature of our group.

Our activities

It would be interesting to educate these people on our activities. As we speak, the OPC is in the fore-front of the promotion and propagation of the cultural values, ideals and rich history of the Yoruba race, even beyond the shores of Nigeria.

At this juncture, let me list some of the prominent Yoruba festivals that our organization has put on the global cultural map with our involvement. They include the popular Osun Oshogbo festival in Osun State, Oke Ibadan festival in Oyo State, Okota festival in Ondo State, Olumo and Lisabi festivals in Ogun State, Oranmiyan festival in Oyo State and Oya festival in Kwara State, among several others.

But perhaps the most interesting aspect of our cultural drive is the popular Olokun festival in Lagos State. It may interest you to know that Olokun festival was started in 2002 as part of our efforts to bring the world attention to our rich cultural values. In 2005, we took another step by registering this festival which holds in Badagry, Lagos State.
Since then, we have received kudos and encouragements from several groups, including the United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organisation (UNESCO) for our efforts to promote culture.

Providing security for the people

It is a known fact among residents of Lagos State and other major towns across the south west that the OPC has played and will continue to play prominent roles in the security of lives and properties of the people.

Also, as part of our efforts to engender peace through quality leadership, the OPC has consistently organized leadership training programmes for its leaders both at home and in the Diaspora.

Aside these laudable programmes, we are committed to creating wealth and lifting our people out of poverty with our poverty alleviation programmes, targeted at widows and the less-privileged, through the Gani Adams Foundation. It is also on record that our organization has contributed to intellectual discourse in the country with our lectures, which aim to eradicate ignorance among the people.

Relationship with other ethnic groups

It is also a known fact that the OPC has and continues to maintain a solid peaceful relationship with other ethnic groups spread all over the south west region of the country. For instance, the National Coordinator of the OPC, Otunba Gani Adams, was the chairman recently at the Turban ceremony of the Seriki Hausa of Oshodi in Lagos. Activities like this are common, and speak volumes of the activities of our group.

Participation in Govt’s peace initiatives

It will also be recalled that the Otunba Gani Adams was a participant at the National Peace Forum, organized by the Office of the Special Adviser to the President on Inter-party Relations, in 2004. The OPC leader was later appointed as a state Peace Envoy.

In the same vein, the OPC also participated at the African First Ladies Peace Mission meeting, organized in Abuja by the office of the First Lady in 2012.

You will recall that the OPC is Yoruba organization, formed with the basic aim of promoting the cultural values of our forefathers and also to protect the interest of our people. In this regard, nobody can fault our activities. Rather, unlike the acts of violence raging in other parts of the country, the south west has been very peaceful, with no single act of terrorism recorded on our soil.

Advice for Tsav

It is surprising that Mr. Abubakar Tsav, a former police boss, will choose to attack the OPC. While the OPC continues to contribute its quota to the development of the country, with activities like the donation of books that will assist indigent students to public libraries, Mr. Tsav, while seeking to remake himself, has become a critic of anything that catches his fancy.

Let him borrow a leaf from other retired police officers with sterling qualities to turn his efforts towards activities that will bring about peace among the diverse religions and the ethnic nationalities that make up the country.

Conclusion

Lets us remind Nigerians that the OPC remains committed to the promotion of the rich cultural values of the Yoruba people, with a view to a peaceful co-existence with other ethnic groups in the country. Therefore, let nobody make attempt to drag us into an unnecessary conflict in order to make a scapegoat of the OPC. As leaders, those seeking to drag the OPC into their conflict should direct their energies at efforts that will bring to an end the killings, hostage taking and kidnappings in the north and other parts of the country.

National Coordinator,

Oodua People’s Congress

Otunba Gani Adams
PoliticsRe: North Disagrees With Ban On Boko-haram, Ansaru by IleIfe2(m): 2:53pm On Jun 06, 2013
gboss4sure: Na the people our Yoruoba brodas are pitching their tents with... Like someone said on this forum. One Day the Yoruba's will blame one Tinubu for linking them with terrorist.
You fools should stop all these Yoruba banters, it's old and no longer funny.
PoliticsRe: North Disagrees With Ban On Boko-haram, Ansaru by IleIfe2(m): 2:38pm On Jun 06, 2013
Omexonomy: The north want to us these terror group to discredit gej but from all indication they have faild. Their south west counterpart over to you it is your turn continue using cyber lies to fight gej to to see ur slavemaster in power.
dude just shut up if you don't have anything reasonable to say.
PoliticsRe: North Disagrees With Ban On Boko-haram, Ansaru by IleIfe2(m): 2:34pm On Jun 06, 2013
North, do you agree? So , the killing of Christians is the knowing of every northern muslim.
PoliticsCitizens Of Istanbul Supporting Protests From Their Houses -wow by IleIfe2(op): 2:33pm On Jun 06, 2013

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This is how any government that tries to force religion down the people's throat should be treated.
CelebritiesRe: I'm a Financially Independent Baby Making Machine - Lola Omotayo by IleIfe2(op): 4:39pm On Jun 03, 2013
[quote author=tpia@]bros or sis (probably the former) another thing dey there?

lol

you seem rather personal, can i guess why.

btw what was her major?[/quote]grin grin grin personal? just stating what she(Lola) inferred.
CelebritiesRe: I'm a Financially Independent Baby Making Machine - Lola Omotayo by IleIfe2(op): 2:47pm On Jun 03, 2013
joyli: I beg to disagree with ur topic, what makes her a baby making machine? kiss kiss
She only had 2 huh huh.
grin grin grin Let's be honest, that's what she is to her sex partner(Peter). But she likes it like that, good for her and good for Peter...Free sex and no financial responsiblity, all he has to do is play the guitar. Badest sharp guy. grin grin grin grin
CelebritiesI'm a Financially Independent Baby Making Machine - Lola Omotayo by IleIfe2(op): 12:58pm On Jun 03, 2013
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Many people got to know you when your relationship with Peter Okoye started. Who really is Lola Omotayo?

Simply put, what you see is what you get. I can’t really define who I am per se, but I’m humble, caring, loving and a professional in the oil and gas profession. I take my work and family very seriously because they are very important to me, my family in particular.

Your heartthrob, Peter is quite successful, but you seem not to depend on his wealth. What’s your driving force?

I believe that as a lady, you have to support your partner. You can’t put everything on your partner; it is important to add value as well. Even though I’m not bringing as much as he brings to the table, at least, I’m adding value and making things a lot easier.

Honestly, that’s the way I was brought up; I can’t rely on someone for everything. I have to be independent. I should be able to buy something for my kids without asking their father for money. I feel good as a person knowing that I can do things for myself, not that I want to feel above him in anyway, but I just feel it is important for me to add some value to his life as much as he adds to mine.


What advice do you have for Nigerian ladies who put all their financial burdens on their partner?

I think that is the core of our problems in this society because we put so much pressure on the man to take care of us, pay our bills…we put so much pressure on them, and that tempts some men to start doing some shady businesses. Women put too much pressure on men in this part of the world.

Also, a lot of women are greedy and lazy, so they just want to get married and stop working. It doesn’t mean women should go all out and work for the men, but somehow, you just have to make things easy for him. I see a lot of young ladies out there; it is not as if there are no jobs for them to do, the problem is that they don’t want to do certain type of jobs, they want everything to come easy.

I started the very hard way, I didn’t start the easy way like people assume. I had to work myself up there because I had a vision. A lot of young ladies in Nigeria see people driving fancy cars; carrying fancy bags and assume that a man is supposed to do all of that for them, so they sell themselves in order to get it. But you don’t have to do that. You can always find ways to make money legally.

Ironically, some Nigeria men don’t like ladies who don’t depend on them. How has that been between you and Peter?

I love Peter because he was never intimidated. When I met him, he was just trying to build himself and I was very proud of him. I have a lot of respect for him, his talent and I saw that he had a vision. Peter doesn’t get intimidated by anything; in fact, he supports and encourages me all the time. I think he’s happy that he doesn’t have to do everything; he can rely on me that I will take care of our kids.

What actually attracted you to Peter?

Peter has drive. He has vision and pursues it. He doesn’t let anybody distract him from that vision and that I saw in him, which a lot of people didn’t see. Some people were like, ‘what are you doing with a musician? Are you crazy?’ but I saw something very different and unique about Peter.

I saw the goals he set for himself and how he accomplished those goals step by step, and I was very impressed with that. I also saw that he wasn’t a selfish person.

He was a generous person from the outset, even though he didn’t have much then, he was always generous. I like a man who is generous, not for the financial reason, but also to see how he can add value to other people’s lives; that is very important to me. He is also a good listener; he listens to people, listens to me…those are the things that attracted me to Peter. He’s an amazing guy.

How romantic is he?

Peter is very romantic as well. He does things that an average Nigerian guy will not do. There was a Valentine’s Day that he came to my house with a guitar and played some love ballads for me. That was really cool and I loved it. Those are the little things that he does that really touched me.

How challenging is it to date a celebrity?

Having a relationship with a musician is one of the most challenging situations to be in. There are things you have to deal with; a lot of women, intruders, fans. You have to appreciate and respect the fans, but you also have some of them who are thinking of other things. I think it’s one of the most challenging relationships one can have.

You won’t even spend much time with your partner because he’s on the road most of the time doing shows and concerts; even during holidays like Christmas, Easter and New Year, they are not around. So I’m not really enjoying that part. But I thank God that we are managing it very well.


With your background in theatre arts, should we expect you in Nollywood soon?

No. it’s not my thing anymore. Maybe I had the interest 10 years ago, but not now. But if I have to make films, it will be Yoruba movies.

Well, what can one say, Congratulations to you, independent baby making machine. lol

http://pmnewsnigeria.com/2013/05/31/i-wanted-to-be-a-movie-star/
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Thought this happened only in movies.

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