₦airaland Forum

ignis:
Olodo

Iyaebe:
Hmm I remembered how I cried from insults i received when I newly came here with my very first account,it was maxindhouse of religion section that helped me out of it but I came back hard and very nasty with my second account such that they are still not over me with that account,I had to let go of that account when I had serious exams that needed my full concentration. I'm now in my 60's and need to learn to accept some things from these kids here because a mother is a mother to all.Indeed Nairaland made me stronger

wordapostle:
No he didn't call me to suffer all that, I was a product of bad mentorship at that time. I was suffering until I learnt to monitize my marketing skills through selling my imported products and also had enough time for ministry.

Before I was very much knowledgeable about the principles of finance and how to get money as a side hustle. I was just praying for miracle money and now I know better.

Pastor or members anyone suffering hardship should know it isn't God's fault. There are things to do first before calling on God if not poverty will add you their WhatsApp group.

wordapostle:
As the last in my family I got to watch my own back when I had a called to ministry and it pleases God it had to be in Nigeria, that's how 4 of my siblings living in different countries deserted me and told me to my face to go to Nigeria and suffer.

They pushed me away from family joint business and literally disowned me that's including my own biological mother, she told me I want to bring shame to the family Chai if only they know better.

I came back sold few things I own started life here. During my wedding non of them came back. I suffered Kia... I remember how I went to Abu mbaisi after the program they told me God bless you Pastor, your reward is in heaven. I begged them for small money but no they said. I had to trek back to umuahia.

Years later I started selling electronics from my parlor through mini importation from there I learnt crytocurrency and Forex, since then I now help them with some money when they ask.

I learnt how to trust God because anybody can fail.

Newusername:
Hmm...alot.
But when I realized say nobody go help me even my papa wey say e go sponsor my school later fall hand, I no need any prophet/prophetess to tell me I gaz stand up, be stronger and find my path in life.

shaybebaby:
Letting of the word " should" and embracing what "is".
Letting go of expectations and appreciating whatever I have. It's not little, it's not a lot, it just IS.
Having my son taught me this. He wasn't the child I thought I would have, yet I had to learn to love and accept what I got. To do that, I had to learn all of what I mentioned above. To do my best in the moment, to accept that my best IS good enough in that moment. To not dwell on the past or future but in the moment. And to not have expectations.
These lessons shaped not only my parenting but my perspective on life.

He is going to be 10 in two weeks and he amazes me everyday. He is who he is, I am who I am and we both grow everyday.

Being his mum has made me a better person and I am thankful that he is mine. Sooo much that if ever given the choice to choose a child, in another lifetime, I would choose him all over again.

He is all that is good about me.

meobizy:
What made me stronger was lifting weights. Without those I subsist on push-ups.

Candidlady:
gtk you are okay!

you and i know the only building getting "tall and erect" is that skyscraper<scratch dat> meant bungalow/hut between your legs lol!

FalseProphet1:
I see you sleeping with a marine agent, I things becoming very hard for you, I see you developing a very strange sickness, i will stop here for now...

This I have seen.

Candidlady:
sugar
how are you?

you also wanna join explore colapse building around the world?

Candidlady:
Parked

FaithELEFAN:
Perhaps it's the masquerades that keep chasing me in my dreams.

Now I have learnt to fight back with both feet in the air

gfon:
My erections...okay am kidding.Have been through alot man,from loosing my mum wen i was 5yrs,my dad loosing his job(toughest time of our lives),eating just pawpaw for days...doing menial jobs.Ventured into gambling just to make things better,ended getting worse and a shadow of myself,lost some good money & respect(i ain't into that anymore).I see myself as gold though,cause have passed through fire.I keep wondering how people take their lives when faced with challenges,if you faced half of wat i went through,you gonna die seven times.Everyone has their baggages,but how you gonna nip your's in the bud is what matters.

UndauntedYOCA:
Snub? Do I do that?
Illicit, my illicit, wetin happen na?