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Arrant bullshit of a cooked up story. Instead of you to appreciate what the INGOs are doing in Gamboru-Ngala feeding and taking care of over 250,000 internally displaced people living in International camp and the Arabic camp, you are here spewing this infantile and juvinile thrash.

Instead of acknowledging that the INGOs are changing the dynamics of the cultural life by empowering women,especially widows and young ladies by employing them in different capacities such that they no longer depend on the male folks for their daily living. You come online trying to twist the narrative to suit your demented thoughts. If not for the INGOs, who will be in Gamboru -Ngala?

I wonder why instead of appreciating the efforts of the INGOs, some of you especially the half educated male folks living in the conflict zones in Borno state are bent on painting the INGOs in bad light. Apart from Solidarity International and MSF who live in Gamboru town, all other NGOs live in the senior staff quarters in CBDA in Ngala, where then do they interact with unmarried ladies after work? In such close quarters, you think such activities can occur when protection activities is ongoing in Gmaboru-Ngala? Gamboru-Ngala where a 5pm curfew is still in effect abi? Your idiocy is baffling.

We risk our lives working to help the displaced people and help them start meanigful economic activities that will uplift their lives and all you are bothered is to cook up stories. You think without the INGOs any body will remain in Ngala or Gamboru?

The earlier you accept that the era of giving free money to socalled Indigenous humanitarian partners in Gamboru Ngala is gone, the better for you and your misguided cohorts. You think INGOs will give you grants for the male folks to lavish it in marrying more wivies and then come back to ask for more money? The game is up. We aint giving you nada. We would rather empower female folks and heads of households to earn a living and become self reliant.

Meanwhile you can continue with your fake stories as usual or come as always to beg for beneficiary cards.

SamuelAnyawu:
Oga i work with an NGO here not just in Maiduguri from Monguno to Gwoza to Pulka to Rann to Damasak to Gamboru. Everyone on Nairaland know i've been here since 2016 maybe you can go through my comments. Tomorrow i'm visiting Damboa

Sam. they wont understand. They think all is well over here. Folks on the ground know that there is frequent attacks occuring on daily basis. From Dikwa, Gamboru-Ngala, Bama, Konduga, Banki, Damboa, Pulka, Rann, Gwoza, Geidam and even Bennishiek experience these attacks.

I saw you in the airport at the UNHAS wing. Stay safe in Damboa and when you come back, dont forget to buy me drink in Wolf mess.

I am surprised that some folks are asking ''who is Mercy Corps"? Mercy Corps is currentlly the biggest humanitarian NGO in the northeast of Nigeria with the highest portfolio of funds. Its ironic that our youths dont read,else a simple google check would have informed them about the span of this mega NGO in some many countries.

If you really are in need of a job and you have got the requiste experience, then i will suggest you quickly dust up your resume and apply for Mercy Corps vacancies. These organization is worker friendly and pays much more than you can imagine. Trust me, i aint bragging.

Just being factual.

This is the reality of life in the Northeast, especially in the front lines. These folks are willing to die for their cause. Saw the little kids when they were taking their corpse to the 33 battalion in Ngala. The irony of man's inhumanity to man.

Mr Decotech, Daniel or whatever fraudulent nomenclature you choose to call yourself,


You are full of bullshit and a miserable conman. I can smell bullshit from a thousand kilometers and yours stinks. For someone as arrogant and yet stupid like you,its a terrible recipe for disaster. No wonder you cant refund the #175,000 you are owing Mr Adeolu. Despite all your pretence and fraudulent tendencies,i knew you were not willing to pay a dime nor did you show any remorse for holding on to someone's money for over six months.

From the moment you started blabbing your cooked up stories focusing on whatever may have transpired between Mr Adeolu and his client,i knew your were digressing from the issue at hand. I could smell the fraud in you. Yes,you are fraudulent. You be thief.

I got news for you.....You are a miserable and belligerent fellow who thinks he is smart. You do not know when you will be able to pay back money that you are owning someone. Money that the owner has graciously reduced by #200,000 for you. Guy,you are worse than a thief. You are an ungrateful element and a despicable fool. You may think you have outsmarted Mr Adeolu but in reality you have ended up displaying the depravity of your character. Ibu mbada ezi! A bloody low life.

Imagine how you have ended up portraying yourself as an arrogant and stupid fraudster. No wonder you are wallowing in acute poverty. You think you can eat other peoples sweat and progress? You should be grateful you are doing this to someone like Mr Adeolu who i think is docile,else you would be picking refuse on the streets and walking about naked.

Someday,you will come across someone like me who will treat you like the scum that you truly are and deal with you without mercy. Until then, keep deluding yourself that you are smart. Man,you ain't smart,you are a common thief. A miserable thief!

Anu mpama.

DECOtech:
There's nothing to get you angry here. You don't need to know when I'm having a drilling job for me to pay you. I have told you I will complete your money in front of Nairalanders. all you need to do is to be patient and expect ur money simple.

Bia Daniel your stupidity and arrogance reeks to the high heavens. For crying out loud,who the f..k are you? How dare you talk so condescendingly to someone you are owing? Imagine the bullshit you uttered ''I even explained to him that I can only pay him money when I have it.''. You have the effrontery to tell Adeolu that the money you are owing him can only come from drilling jobs when you have the money. Infact ibu ezigbo ta onye ara. Isi adiro gi nma. Nnekwu ara na apu gi.

I wish it was me you had this case with,you would have seen the beast in me. I think Adeolu is too soft with you,else he would have given you the kinda treatment idiots like you understand. You have been dodging when you intend paying him his money rather utter ambiguous bullshit. Where are the equipment's you claimed you bought? Now they are suddenly no longer with you. Believe me.....you have fraudulent intentions.

How can you be holding on to someone's money for over five months and still be saying crap. You dont have a conscience. People like you exploit the milk of human kindness in others.

Meanwhile,pay up the money. Onye ohi.

The truth is that Daniel is fraudulent. He had a business with Adeolu and had nothing to do with Adeolu's client. Reading his bullshit epistle i could clearly see him trying to play reverse psychology on folks here. Irrespective of what transpired between them, the fact is they had both agreed to share the loss and Daniel was to pay #200,000 naira while Adeolu would forfeit #200,000 naira also. Five long months have gone down the drain and this dude is talking bullshit.


Why has he not paid the #175,000 since five months? The dude is just trying to pull a wool over our eyes. How can he claim that he bought equipment for over five months and they have remained unused? Where are the equipment's? Daniel for your information, those receipts you uploaded are forged and you should know its a criminal offense to do such.

From the munched conversation between you guys, it was quite glaring that you dont want to pay the OP his money as mutually agreed.

Pay him his money and stop giving excuses.

@Chucky234,

Honestly im surprised at how you have (un)intentionally decided to tarnish your reputation over a miserly 50k. Man i wonder how some of you easily allow your business names and goodwill to go up in smoke. Accept the damn truth... You sold the man a lemon. What you sold him was in stark contrast to what you advertised. In your own words'' clean interior and well maintained'' was what you wrote,only for him to see the opposite.

Obviously you are not adept at conflict resolution else you wont have allowed this issue to get to this level. What stopped you from reaching out to the OP? He is your customer for crying out loud! You owe it to him to satisfy him so as to possibly ensure a repeat purchase. Instead you are here arrogantly digging your head into the sand like an Ostrich. It takes one disgruntled customer to ruin your business,and your reputation, your integrity,your goodwill will be gone. You are nothing without your clients. Absolutely nothing!

The earlier you stop uttering disgusting threats to your clients and focus on resolving your issues with them the better for you. The earlier you realize that arrogance aint taking you nowhere,the better for your personality.

Man up and apologize to the OP. Call him and resolve this issue in order to salve the remnants of your diminished goodwill.

A word is enough for the wise.

Please can you post pics of the engine and interior.

@OP,

You have really exercised patience and done everything within the ambit of the law to give dubious Mr Inspired Auto the benefit of doubt, yet his apparent arrogance and stupidity has clouded his judgement. How on earth can you default on the terms of your business agreement with a client and still have the guts to ask him to wait five months after he has paid you for services not rendered. Men Olodo Mis'Inspired Auto, you fortunate ooooo. Seriously you are just damn fortunate. I guess you have never paused to ponder on the lengths people will go to to get back at you,when you have defrauded them.


Anyhow, continue gallivanting in your ill advised stupid pranks. Continue defrauding kind hearted folks until you will meet your end..... Im so concerned about the apparent boasting of your cohort that you know the IG of police. Listen up fraudster, even the IG will deny you when matter hot for you. If in doubt, ask the officers in IG's office and they will tell you "Oyo lo wa oooo", when matter set for you.

Meanwhile, your matter go land for oga office..... Shebi you now brag about defrauding people on the basis that you know the IG.

Bloody fraudster.

@ [b][/b]Deshclones,

Guy what the Bleep is wrong with your thinking faculties? Wetin you smoke? How the hell did you reach your conclusions and deduce that the youngman was a frat man?

What was the meaning of "all the years I spent in a Nigerian university,I have never seen cultists killing an innocent person"? Guy you got me so provoked I wished I could lay my hands on you. Damn your arrogance stinks to high heavens!

How many HITs have you gone on? Do you know what was the intention of the hit? Do you know how many innocent fellas have been dogged just to pass a message? Do you know how many innocent young men that have been sent to the great beyond simply for the perceived sins of their cousins,brothers and relatives? Are you aware of how many such hits go wrong at the last minute despite all the intels and tracking and meticulous planning?


My point? People get killed for no fault of theirs. Not every victim of a dogging was a frat man. Some were simply unlucky or at the wrong place at the wrong time. Don't be in a hurry to conclude unless you have all the facts of the case at your fingertips.

I wonder why some of you are obessed with paper qualifications. Your certificates don't make you,it is what is in you that makes you. Your obession with paper qualification amuses me. Your much cherished degrees does not entitle you to a meal ticket. No it does not mr Engineer. If in doubt go ask Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg how they made their fortunes.

Guy do me a favour. Think before writing.

Finally who no go no go know.

Head shot. Definitely a confirmed dogging,carried out in broad daylight. One thing that is quite glaring is that they knew their target and took him out @ close quarters.

It is the way the game is played........Injus na life game. Kinda sad that most guys out of youthful exhuberance join confra without know the koko. It was a choice he made the day he blended.

For the few ones still galivanting in that hood,make una kawa cos war don set.

@OP,
Interesting thread u got going on. Please be mindful of the kind of advice you expect to get here,cos ur definitely gonna get all sorts of crazy ideas from a lot of "wannabe guys".


Fact.....ur guy has graduated and truly does love u,else he will never,ever divulge the fact he belonged to u or any oda mofo. However,you need to understand the mindset of a confra guy as played in Nigerian uni's......d bond,d camaraderie,d sense of belonging,d group idealogy. Its a world of its own.

Also,d connections and networking opportunities some still wait to exploit after graduating. It lures dem into waiting for the seeming breakthru from a contact.

My advise,be patient with him. Give him time and provide emotional stability for him. Don't rush him to take a decision.......that's a no no. If he loves you enough to tell you,he will in his own time make a move and fade gently. Ordinarily ,its not a big deal to have played d game. I rather respect him for having the guts to confide in you.

@Bobo's wey dey misyearn for here. Make una go una various forums to identify and cast una selves. Una dey loose guard big time.

Just my two Pence.

Unizik.......my solid alma mater. The one and only Illya Du Hama house of Bishops.

I hail.

@ Fubby,
I laughed really hard when I read ur last post...........,knew that's what u would resort to. Obviously a very weak response. Well I give to every man his right to air and hold his opinions,so mi ba...da,yes that's wat u are obviously,on G.

However if you care,you may sign in @www. egede.com or NBM official site make we reason,who be 'obote man, and who be office based on ur reasonings here.

Like I said earlier........still on my 7 kobo.

@Unknown Member,
Good to see we are gradually reaching a consensus that people do leave,irrespective of what every rank one may have held in d heirachy of the game. Like you also rightly alluded, d higher ur position and people you stepped on,u would definitely need more time and change of location to ease your misdemeanor from the minds of aggrieved folks,out to settle scores.


@ Fubby,
Of all the things I wrote, u only saw that I lacked OT. Coming from someone who was openly gloating that he was a 'lord'and talking of LP on an open forum. I would advise that you stick your advice up ur dumb skull. U didn't notice I mentioned the hangout of three diffrent frats and all u could assimilate was d fact I mentioned ur frat. Boy grow up and give urself some brain!

Well,I can decode ur level of reasoning and how bam u are.....kudos.....if you must know, if it was when men were men,u ought to have known d punishment for loosing guard and casting OT here. Ur mending for no get part two and body for tell u.

Still my 7 Kobo.

@ Unknown Member,

I have seen hits.......in different locations......even like you rightly said inside and outside a church. However,whome ever was the target obviously was or still had scores to settle. Before a Hit is carried out,extensive 'intel and tracking would be required. That is whi I also said,a change of location is required and keeping a low profile.

You obviously won't expect me to watch you go scot free after you may have 'dogged mi broda. U would need to run,hide and change your locations,everything about you and definitely keep a low profile.

Guys have left injus/movement codedly and survived. Its all about determination and strength to walk away.
Like I said earlier,"who no go,nor go know".

Just my Ten Kobo.

Another important point for cultist intending to quit is.....

Channel their energies into constructive activities that would keep them busy. You see,contrary to what most people think,the average frat man lives in a world of fear. Fear from rival frats,fear from reprisal attack,fear from being a collateral target,fear from your own men attimes,fear of the future,fear of the police.......always suspicious.

Hence an intending cultist that wants to quit needs to focus and engage himself with activities that engage his time,such that he does not stay alone or isolate himself from social activities....... Religious activities,educational clubs are some of the ways they need to keep themselves busy to avoid having feelings of void,and lack of bond,that previously,their fraternal brotherhoods provided.....


Just my two cents.

The first step is to gradually avoid the various cult hangouts and places of meetings,e.g Anchor points,T's(HT),Converge point and even Keggite shrines where your bound to meet cultist in different guise.

Avoid confrontations with other cultist from other frat who may want to intimidate or obtain you. You need to understand the tables have turned and your now consideredd a"stinking and bloody jew,subject to intimidation,obtaining and mending when necessary.

Chanhge of location. Sadly some who have changed locations will not keep a low profile in their new environment. Before they know it,they want to contest babes with solid men,they want to show they also belonged in d past,they want to attend night parties which are usually organized by one frat or the other.
Those that truly want to quit will always keep a low profile in dia new locations,focus on dia studies and graduate.

Just my two cent. Who no go,nor go know.

So many tales about confra......
Not every cultist is a serious member. There are guys who blend/bam and never appear at any function,never fly colors in public and don't even hang out with fellow brod's. They might intrmittently pay dues when confronte by their men. These set of guys have the knowledge that "injus/movement should not be carried on d head but on d shoulder.

This type of guys would even be in school during 'wars or HIT,cos nobody knows them.