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[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=608521.msg7776760#msg7776760 date=1298337838]Imari.  madam i swaaaaar to allllah I love you. Can you give me $7000, in cash? [/quote]That was quick    NOT 

Yep, just hold your breathe until it arrives 

[quote author=kay-money link=topic=608521.msg7776200#msg7776200 date=1298329721] Loads of Iddiots are here just blowing useless wind and openning their mouth to
vomit puss and making the whole issue confusing, in that way they continue to scare Imari away from the
truth because they are not the one in the poor guy's shoes [/quote]I have taken notice of the difference in advice coming from male vs female.

uzoegbu:
kay-money you are the only sensible person here @Imari i am 24 and you?

You are younger than my Nigerian.

[quote author=kay-money link=topic=608521.msg7776113#msg7776113 date=1298328738]quote author=Imari link=topic=608521.msg7776056#msg7776056 date=1298328205]
She is cool but I am not limited in my number of advisers.

You are also welcome I will weigh the advice the same accordingly.


Not interested.



He long ago invited me to come to Nigeria said that he would love to show me his country.
I refused as I am afraid to travel outside of the U.S.

He also talks about Nigerian foods that he would love to cook for me, we talk about cooking lots as I have some foods that I would like him to also taste.

The end will justify your choice never be in a hurry to conclude

I am very confused right now I do admit I love him madly.

uzoegbu:
Mrs.Chima yes if she want i am just trying to help her    Meanwhile poster how old are you?

Old enough to have known better

Why you need to know?

How old are you?

Still NOT interested[/quote]

[quote author=kay-money link=topic=608521.msg7776073#msg7776073 date=1298328339] I have refused to see any scamming in the whole story** Moreso the poor
boy came out to tell her the whole truth about his condition and predicaments
not having job, no money etc,  so what of if he had said his father was a former president of
9ja and he wants to contest for a political position in the country and he is in serious need of cash
and starts sending the Imari babe up and down empting all her life savings in her Bank
[/quote]Actually, when we first met he did have job and money but made claims of having lost them about half way through and never asked for monies until after he claimed to have malaria.

I don't believe that he has not had sex in 3 years I believe he is married especially now that I have seen on this forum that it is taboo for a Nigerian man not to be married.

[quote author=kay-money link=topic=608521.msg7775888#msg7775888 date=1298326476] Am not doing any hating here** Just wondering about her choice of adviser
Since Miss Chima is a bundle of knowledge  [/quote]She is cool but I am not limited in my number of advisers.

You are also welcome I will weigh the advice the same accordingly.

uzoegbu:
Poster  i am  young ready to hook up with you, if truly you are sure of what u are saying coz i don’t believe it    i am still a nigeria  you dont need to send any money this one will be a legit  one okay?

Not interested.

Tosinville:
Imari,

Well i can't just jump into conclusion dhat you're dealing with a scammer or not but next time he remind u about dat money, tell him you would love to visit him first for you to know few things about your man's country, culture/tradition etc before u two will move back to d states and if he end up giving you some kinda excuses not to come then its certain that it was a scam.

Moreover, be careful even though he ask you to come down to nigeria so don't just believe it aint a fraud, i only give you dat idea first for us to see his reply.

He long ago invited me to come to Nigeria said that he would love to show me his country.
I refused as I am afraid to travel outside of the U.S.

He also talks about Nigerian foods that he would love to cook for me, we talk about cooking lots as I have some foods that I would like him to also taste.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=608521.msg7775851#msg7775851 date=1298326142] Be careful, you might just gotten yourself some enemies and inherited my haters.  [/quote]Well, if I was "careful" I would not had a need to post this thread now would I

You are OK by me Ms. Chima

 I've NEVER "inherited" anything before, so it's fine

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=608521.msg7775414#msg7775414 date=1298321121]Imari , madam if u still loookin for a man, guess what, I free!! [/quote]I am now having Ms. Chima as my adviser.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=608521.msg7775525#msg7775525 date=1298322279]Would you require that she send you 200 USD every month, Mr. Cock? Do your Nigerian brothers proud and PROVIDE FOR YOURSELF and pay back the money your brother scammed to Imari. [/quote]Thanks

Great Post

Hope you don't mind the new role as my adviser

obowunmi:
So what prompted the decision to find love accross the atlantic ?

I was not looking to find love or looking across the Atlantic

Just meeting people on the web, I was talking with many others including my Nigerian but gradually over time it became only him I was interested in.

I think for me, "love" came in about 8 or 9 months later.

obowunmi:
OP hasn't answered my question. ARE you FAT ?

No

Not over weight either

132 U.S. pounds
5 feet 2 inches tall

REALITY101:
Ma'am re you from Montana, Oregon or  Tennessee.

None of the above  

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=608521.msg7769669#msg7769669 date=1298252672][color=teal]seriously, take this topic as an example.
when the poster returns I shall get her opinion.[/color][/quote]Ok, I've returned

As before the American men I've been with are not any different from what I am hearing of Nigerian men.

I knew nothing of Nigerian men so I believed what he told me

I will NEVER give up on them but I will take lessons from this.

190:
[color=DEEPPINk]poster does your name start with an N[/color]

No.

snthesis:
‎​Ɣ‎​‎​‎​ do I feel d OP is a Joke or jst testin d sincerity of posters

D Sherlock in me @it again

No, really I wanted to know I am being sincere in what I say about him and me but I changed details slightly in case he is a poster on this forum

I was feeling blue for a few weeks now and had no where to turn surfed the web about Nigeria and came across this forum I like most of the way people commented and the openness of the discussions I finally got the nerve up to post something.

I am gaining insight about the real Nigeria here, some nice some not so very nice but that's the way life works.

REALITY101:
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Not funny but I ROFL


Someone is still in-love

Love is not so easy to fall out of.

sadboy:
imari,
nyansh   is   butt,   backside,   asss,   backyard.   Nigeria man   love   big   asss  we   are   back  people.   And   u  whiteforks   has   flat   asss.

Ok, butt, booty I get it, Thanks

Here in the U.S. we are known as African Americans, but I am known only as an American since my long long long ago ancestors were from Africa and not I.

This "booty" has cushion  

Abekeade08:
@imari, Please don't take Mr cork seriously,  He is our resident Nairaland house-boy. Only talk to him if you need him to send him a message

Ok, I got that

Now, please can I know what "nyansh" is ?

As I am still wondering about that

obowunmi:
How hard is it to find a man in America ? Are you Fat ?

From what I am learning of some Nigerian men they are par for the course with some American men

I have been around for a few decades now and have seen enough of American men to last double my lifetime

My Nigerian love was so much the opposite of all that I had ever known in my life.

[quote author=tpiah! link=topic=608521.msg7768647#msg7768647 date=1298234886]the man might even be a woman, who knows.[/quote]I have seen him on pics and many times via webcam

REALITY101:
Imari sweetheart, is a pity that you are being scammed who knows the scammer mb a nl member   . But ma'am that's what you get when you decided to molest, violation a dis-virgin lil boy.

I can't believe that after all the documentaries and news people still do this kind of thing, sending money to a total stranger,  Well I call it LOVE: Lionel Richie

Yes he could be that is why I hedged on the details as he may see himself.

Virgin I think NOT with his talk  

He didn't start off with send him money it was long after and well after he said he got malaria.

ogugua88:
You need to. You'd be able to handle situations with foreigners, such as this, a little easier.

I think it's the stories and warnings about travel of Americans to other countries especially the ones I have seen about Nigeria.

I'll consider it now.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=608521.msg7768504#msg7768504 date=1298233533]Imari . ermm, Sweeery, by the way, ru light skin  & do u gots nyansh & can u coook & cleen? [/quote]Not, light skin medium brown I would say

Don't know what "nyansh" is  

I keep everything clean and I can cook but being only me I don't very often anymore

I have never met him physically have seen him many times on webcams but not in over a year and I have many pics of him.

ZIM DRILL:
check this girl

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-607167.0.html

no different from your man

I was reading that thread I believe it also helped me to post this one.

Thanks

justwise:
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Don't send him any money, if you have time and money to waste then visit him in Nigeria, don't add to the list of pple who have been scammed by SOME shameless Nigerians

I don't have the courage to travel outside of the U.S.

justwise:
@Cougar*

I hope u are not the scum milking this lady.

The poster Cougar. I don't believe he is but he does have good insight on the way of a Nigerian such as the one I love so much.

ogugua88:
I am not one to stereotype, but it is soooooo unlikely that a man, a Nigerian man for that matter, would be asking a woman he claims to love for money as easily as he appears to do. If it was someone OP had met, then that's different.

A smart man would've saved up some of the money you sent to start something there; to at least try and better himself. It sucks that money is the issue yet again. In all seriousness, where is that money going for him to need $200 every month?

If this guy is true, then he's one of the first and I will gladly admit I was wrong. The odds are not in your favor though.

He says things are expensive in Nigeria.
I don't understand the Naira system, and don't really know if that is the case.
He also says that he has malaria and need medicines and food.
I had months ago stop sending him money every month, he didn't complain but later came with the suggestion of two big monies for him to come here to me in the U.S.

To Everyone

I would like to reply to each comment but this is going too fast for me to keep up.
I will just read and comment when I can

All the Thanks to All of You
Imari

[quote author=*Cougar* link=topic=608521.msg7767650#msg7767650 date=1298223567]if he's broke in nigeria, no woman would sleep with him - that is standard.

how is he scamming the poster? the boy was honest enough to say he's broke. honest enough to admit he's jobless. where is the scam here?[/quote]He did tell me that, that no woman would have him having no money

Mrs. Chima

Thanks for your well wishes

I just want you to know that you and a few other posters to these forums are the reason I got the courage to even post what I did, I have been reading and found yours and others poster to my liking.

Thanks Again
Imari

[quote author=*Cougar* link=topic=608521.msg7767565#msg7767565 date=1298222841]pay no attention to the scums discouraging you.

granted, there have been many cases of men using americans as cash machines but this does not suggest your own boy is doing the same. if you love him, make time and visit nigeria to see what he's really up to. it might save you lots of cash you are yet to spend on this boyfriend of yours. who knows - this boy might actually be genuine. go to nigeria and check him out before sending big amounts of money to him.[/quote]It's hard to believe that not having sex, he is so young not to be having sex in 3 years.

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=608521.msg7767586#msg7767586 date=1298223063][color=teal]smh @ poster.

you are being played/used. confront him and based on the result/his reaction
move on mah dear.   but dont beat urself up, you were just inlove, and that
happens sometimes (being used). Just pick yourself up and take it as a lesson
learned. You will be okay sweetie.   [/color][/quote]I have at different times and right now I am still in love

Thank You

koolchicco:
Call dsense, mrcork and 190

I wish you were Imari and myself, the Nigerian Dude.https://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/secret/t9005.gif

Chei, I would have taught you a lesson or two already. Agbomma!!

I have been taught, these comments only confirm what I was thinking long ago.

That does not stop the heartache I feel now even worse.

I wish that upon no one.

Everyone here thank you for your time in replying.

Shy-One

A special Thanks to You.

I think being alone and lonely at my age got the better of my sense, BTW he is suppose to be a God fearing person when he tells it, finding this place and reading what others in and from his country has to say has helped I knew NOTHING about Nigerians or Nigeria outside of what he would tell me.

Sister (if that is ok) pray to God to give me the strength to grow stronger in this.

Thank You
Imari 

I typed like that for the reason of him may being here on this forum and know who I am.

I have been reading here for a little while and like the comments and insights from his countrymen who started me to question the relationship deeply in this way.
I have not gave him money in a while, said I had some difficulties and sickness now all is suppose to be better and he say instead of monthly money I could send two big amounts.

For 3 years I have been madly in love with a Nigerian man who is 20 years younger than me.  We've never met personally, phone calls, internet and mailings is all we have had. In those years he claims to not have had sex to be waiting to me only.
I do not have big money but can take care as it is only me I have to be concerned with I have no children. I send him 200 USD each month as he says he can't get a job and need to maintain himself. I believe for the last 6 months or so that he is married or has a GF and told him that, he say No it's only me. I have my doubts about that.  Now he is saying that he needs two big amounts of money so that he can come here to the U.S. I love him but I wonder.

What do you think?