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Tosinville:
Imari
Your question really points at me i won't lie to you, i don't know how to cook much cos i have sisters and aunt surrounded by me so why would i go into the kitchen for them?

How about for YOU?

Every man should know how to take care of HIMSELF in every regard and that includes cooking. fast food can kill ya'

Hope you don't mind and you don' have to answer but, how old are you? or just the general age range? (not meant as an insult apologies if it seems like one).

Tosinville:
Imari
Quotes

Do i

Yeah! ofcos its you lol. . . . . . roymary, where you at my kinsman?

ME !!!

You having his dreams now?

SA Goddess:
Possibly because they grew up having sisters and mothers slaving away in the kitchen for them.  As for me, my son will know his way around the kitchen as soon as he is tall and old enough, I want him to be able to take care of his kitchen and not wait for anyone to do it for him. . . . . . . this is important to me!!!

They should always be prepared to fend for themselves in any case.

Tosinville:
Imari
You're funny, if i say roymary's lady is here you already know whom i'm talking bout lol

Do I

SA Goddess:
I can cook up a storm but I love me a man that can cook as well, it's 2011!!!

I know plenty of American men who haven't got that memo yet.

Can't even boil water with instructions.  

SIDE QUESTION

Directed mostly to Tosin

As boys are Nigerian men made to help out in the kitchen as the norm? even if they are the only son amongst plenty sisters?

Tosinville:
89% of nigerian men can cook thats why don't a women who can't cook as their spouse.


Hey Roymary

Where you at mah! homie? your lady is where.

So many Nigerian men have their ladies back in the kitchen.

That's good to know.

I was under the impression that many Nigerian men don't know how to cook since I seen such an emphasis put on if the lady could cook.

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roymary finally pulled him someone?   Nice to know, but unfortunate for the lady.

I have had this question asked of me by men many times since I've been here at NL.

So, now I ask it of the men here: Can you cook?

It came to mind that there are many instances when men should/could put on meals for their lady.

Like after having a baby, her birthday, Mothers' day (here in the U.S.,? if she's a mother and the kids are too young to cook),  breakfast in bed,  a home cooked surprise lunch together at work, a romantic (just because "I love you" dinner, etc.


For the ladies:

Do you find any of these or any other instances of your man cooking for you romantic?


Thank you all for any replies.

deal_ordea:
If the woman/man of your dreams was a non-smoker and couldn't tolerate the smoking, would you consider quitting for them?


A friend of mine would quit every time he got a new luuuuv interest, not by the girl's request, but just because he knew she would appreciate it. He's currently in his longest/happiest relationship and it looks like he's quit for good. Thoughts?

Non-smokers: If the man/lady of your dreams was a regular smoker, would you be able to cope?

Nope.

My cigarettes are my release, my pleasure and my addiction.

He will have to not be in the area in which I smoke as I would only have a place in which I smoke.

As for it being dangerous,  life is in general and anything can/will kill ya' even the water you drink. 

I live while I am alive and can't do squat about my time and how to die.

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Mrs.Chima:
Do you, [size=18pt]Ms. No Award[/size]. You need change?

You are incredibly slow and since that is the case you are excused.https://forum.uk-jive.co.uk/images/smilies/laughing.gif

Tosinville:
Imari
Its alright dear only if you're an active member on here thats when i can get the birthday invitation for next, anyway nice to hear that.

No problem

Tosinville:
Imari
oh! dats fabulous to hear that, yeah! i think you told us on your thread, don't u invite Mrs.chima? i would hv come over 4 the celebration but i'm not in the states yet tho

If she likes fun times, she would be more than welcome.

Maybe next year around this time, you maybe able to make it. so the invite is open to ya'

Mrs.Chima:
Trusting spirited got you in trouble the first time, good girl for wising up the second time.  You are never too OLD to learn.   

Keep paying for manliness you will never see.  Oh, that right! My friend said that Western Union got a two for one special. You can send Tosin some money too for the same price!

Told you that you lack the understanding and comprehension of what I say.

I never once said that I was "in trouble"

You still wanna play, Ms. Independent?

Tosinville:
Hey imari, how have you been doing? hope its all good over there?

I've been great.

Had a huge birthday party on Sunday everything was wonderful.

Mrs.Chima:
Trust me nothing thin about my skin.  Improve your self esteem maybe you wouldn't have to go manliness shopping online. 

Chin up, it is okay. Somebody gotta be suckered and unfortunately it was you.

I would rather "trust" your desperate need to make snide, off topic, long ago closed topic and plain old replies to my comments especially long after your making the statement of "let me conclude this".

All it took was a flick of that chip and you jumped through my hoops at my will because as I said, you have a thin skin.

Now continue on with your delusions of yourself, you showed your hand long ago.

Mrs.Chima:
Did your Social Security check come on time I know your boy is emailing you like crazy his cash is running low and the ashawos don't wait for no man.

Pssst, you are also a tad bit thin skinned.  

Jot that down on your self improvement list also. K  

Mrs.Chima:
Yeah game over when that IRS audited you huh?  Awww, your boy toy named you Easy Trick Pony huh?

Yo Granny, my friend in Nigeria said that your boy was seen coming out of Cazzbah and Magic City with ashawos.  He had a red singlet in his mouth.

Maybe because you lack ALL shame you don't care but really you are  ing YOURSELF at this point.

Mrs.Chima:
This coming from a granny who bought for three years and are buying online love from a dude she may never see and the dude bleeping some chick on her money.

Sure, I will be ignorance for not spending $7,200 for a manliness I didn't get to touch or bleep.

VIOLA !!!

I KNEW I could do it. 


You're an easy trick pony 

Game Over

Mrs.Chima:
Let me conclude this:

I got a chip on my shoulder because you repeated the same thing three times and then added something that I or anyone ever said.  Then get salty because I asked you what did you say that you didn't repeat three times and then added that if I haven't seen my baby, I will abort it if I am not ready for it but if I have my baby and seen my baby I will not sell it.  

Uhmmm (doing  Rickey Smiley facial expression when he was talking to William Hung on American Idol)


Gotcha.  Moving right along.  I guess some things do have an expiration date.  Unfortunately.

I will make this as clear for you as I can since you OBVIOUSLY don't comprehend anything only what you imagine you do.

The religion viewpoint came from ME
YOUR chip is showing in the FACT that YOU don't know how to DIFFERENTIATE between MY WORDS and YOUR CHIP showing by making the statement that I WAS TRYING TO PUT WORDS IN YOUR MOUTH

Now, you continue to show your ignorance of that by once again mentioning that "not you nor anyone else said". When I long ago corrected you on who said what, whose words they were.

Your lame attempts to show that that chip does not reside with you are a bit pathetic to say the least.

Mrs.Chima:
You repeated the same thing three times so what is it that I didn't get that you didn't say three times? 

I have concurred that you believe that because you haven't seen a baby that makes it okay to abort it and if you seen the baby that makes it repulsive to sell it.  Was there something else you added before you went on a Religion Crusade?   

LMAO@chip on my shoulder. Okay. Sure.

Save the back peddle.

You should really get a very clear understanding of what "my viewpoint" mean.

By doing so you would not in the future demonstrate that you really didn't understand me and that you do indeed have a chip on your shoulder.

Really, lose that chip it does you an injustice.

Mrs.Chima:
Not one time I mentioned Christianity and even Muslims and Jewish believers think abortion or selling babies are wrong.  I said MORALLY WRONG not necessarily ethically wrong has nothing to do WITH CHRISTIANITY NOR RELIGION.  Please do not put words in my mouth. 

If you feel that having abortion is the way to go and selling babies is wrong.  GOOD THAT YOUR BELIEF.  I am saying no WRONG IS GREATER OR LESSER than the other. 

Got it now?

Slow your roll.

You jump hostile as though that counts for anything with me.

If you wasn't chip on your shoulder about my comments you would have shown that you recoginze and comprehend those words of mine in the parenthesis that show that I have no need to "put words in your mouth" when I am very capable of using my very own.

I fully "got you" when you said it the first time, on you that you don't ever get me.
I can see why, but that is all on YOU

Tosinville:
Hey imari

Hi, there  

Mrs.Chima:
Selling babies and having abortions is morally wrong not exactly ethically wrong but morally wrong.  There is no such thing as a wrong that is "less" reprehensive than that.  A wrong is a wrong is a wrong.  

You can slice it or dice it will still be an onion.

The only slice n dice going on here is what your are doing.

Of course you do realize that not all people have the same "moral" values?

Which I see most who want to "dictate" their values (my observation from a U.S. viewpoint)  upon others come from a Christian viewpoint and we all know or should know that not everyone is Christian or even religious.  
Thus those who choose their way in their lives are somehow morally bankrupt or "wrong".  

So YOUR "wrong" or MY "wrong" does not equate to everyone elses' that don't hold the same values or morals "wrong".  

Less reprehensible is only relevant to the values you hold and not the judgment of others, it is something set in stone.

If you can have an abortion, you can sell the baby.

That's two separate issues.

A breathing baby that you've seen, held in your arms, etc. is not the same as a baby you abort sight unseen.

I could have an abortion for a host of different reasons it would probably bother me that I had to do that but "selling" any of my babies once they are born into this world is reprehensible for any reasons.

Spare time, weekend or even with his girl is enough time for any man to spend being a gamer.

If he knows ALL the gaming secrets and is on level 101 , then he is indeed childish & immature.

Mrs.Chima:
This question came up because there is a huge trend of parents or "baby pimps" selling babies and I was wondering if you ever met someone that sold their baby and you know about it would you have a child with that person or continue dating that person? 

Imari:
As a woman I would NEVER consider a man who sold his child to feed himself.
If he was to sell himself (trick off) I could accept that.

Mrs.Chima:
This question is NOTHING compared to MOST OF THE questions asked on this site.

Well, I haven't been here that long so I will have to get use to "most of the questions asked" here.

So, from my perspective an in many aspects, it seems unusual.

It's an unusual question

What is your thoughts on the subject?

For me, Never

I don't know how things work out in Nigeria but if I had to turn every trick in imagination to feed my child (I would eat limited) I would bed all comers.

The monies or food will only last so long anyway.

You (the parent) have no idea if that child would be taken care of and not abused by the people you sold them too.

As a woman I would NEVER consider a man who sold his child to feed himself.
If he was to sell himself (trick off) I could accept that.

Is he SURE that she is his girlfried?

She sounds like everyones' girlfriend.

Also, maybe she listed them as not to do the same man twice 

jay bee:
Looks like this thread has gone pass it's usefulness

@Imari
Can i lock it now?

Do you

I was having fun

roymary:
Its truly your birthday Can you see why you need the real  stick  man around!!!  Will take you out next weekend; you dont have to be lonely.

Yes, it is truly my birthday

The answer is still IN YOUR DREAMS.

Opps! forgot you reside in dreamland.

Mrs.Chima:
Are you mad at me that you got dumped not once, not twice, but THREE TIMES?  Tough.

That's all it's been.

Dang!!! seems like the number would be uncountable.

You sure?  

roymary:
Stay on your lane Mrs!

Jealousy is written all over you!

Why would she be "jealous"?  

Your problem is you can't differentiate between jealousy or ridicule and laughter, that is what I see Mrs. Chima doing to YOU.

Dude you are a joke.

roymary:
I won't send your name to the Shrine; i changed my mind but seriously, you are too old for long distance relationship; its for kids. I'm closer to you.

I will buy your love; let me start with Jimmy Choo!  Your size please

Ain't enough money on the planet earth.

Mrs.Chima:
I know you bored that was my point, shouldn't your online man in Nigeria keep you entertain since he doesn't have a job and he have nothing but time?

It's my birthday.

I am having a big party later in the evening and he says he has something special for me on today and have planned it with my family.

I am excited but bored since they have me sitting around (not allowed to do anything on your birthday) not helping with things.

I have the music pumping and lmao at roymary.

roymary:
Yes dear i need more, i will give you reasons to grind on me and not just Hit!

Dude, "hit" is far from being a good thing on anyone's part  

I would have to get a magnifying glass just to find it IF I was out of my mind enough to even want to whip that on you.  

Mrs.Chima:
You are nothing like my husband and I am not jealous of online romance.  I was simply asking because I can.

Please.  You do understand that roymary is not dealing with a full deck.
He is a few bricks shy of a full house.

xxTosinvillexx:
Roymary

Man, its like you don't know Mrs.Chima, she always jealous of online romance and always trying to derail your own relationship while she got her man her home.

The ONLY "relationship" you have is the one between you and your palm.

Do clean up good afterwards, OK  

Mrs.Chima:
Imari,

Do you get more attention from these boys than you do the guy you paying for in Nigeria?

When I am bored, roymary provides my entertainment.  I am for laughs today.

I like having fun.  

roymary:
Okay, i'm sorry if i have made you cry in the past. Don't let me send your name to Okija Shrine o!!!  For your own good, google Okija Shrine!!!!

"cry" with hysterical laughter.

I will once again ask me Nigerian, he likes that I am learning things about Nigeria and ask him when I don't understand words like "nyansh" or places I've seen mentioned here.  

Is "Okija shrine" one of your Nigerian witchcraft places?

roymary:
My Kinsman, lets hope she sees reasons.

I have given you umpteen "reasons" why you are HIT.

Need more?

roymary:
Imari, use the lil brain cells you've got left!


The dude is fake!

I'm the real deal Blood, Flesh and Benjamin!

When that last brain cell has burned out and I am on life support in the ICU.

Pay me a visit

Got my very own blood, flesh and BENJAMINS, so again what is it exactly I need from you?

roymary:
OMG! Dum Dum!   That nicca aint gonna show up! Don't end up an everlasting spinster baby!  I wont always be so available. I'm your bonanza!

Take yourself off the market right now no one will ever buy especially not me.

roymary:
I will always make Imari happy on one condition; she must ignore further correspondence from the alleged scammist!

Since I am not and will NEVER be dependent upon you for my happiness.

I reject your "conditions" https://forum.uk-jive.co.uk/images/smilies/laughing.gif

xxTosinvillexx:
Imari
So as a good lady, what do you intend to do now? what do you have in you mind? do you still wish to send him some dough to come over to the states since you're scared to come over here?

I posted before that he now says he will come here on his very own, without my help.

So, my intentions are to let him, as he says "show me" that it was never about money but me.

roymary:
Yes, send it to my email though . Its on my profile. Get serious for once, you are not gambling with any cash this time.  

That was rope dude just to show that I can get you to JUMP.

The real answer is NEVER.

When I gamble I go to the casino 

roymary:
Oh my Gosh!!! Tosin! Imari is getting rid of that rogue!

[size=18pt]WAKE UP!!!![/size]

roymary:
@Imari

I want Imari ; we should start with a belated Valentine's day date. Will come with your Jimmy Choo well wrapped.Whats your size?

Wanna see my pic?