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@Babe

Hi,

I like the way you post also, you are pretty funny especially your posts in this popcorn thread.

@REALITY101

You don't know me, but check the location    

I read your posts all the time, you're cool & BTW my oldest loves Kobe

3pt'er - Chris Paul !!!

Local Headline:

New Orleans Hornets sell out Game 6 vs. the Los Angeles Lakers

You can't love anyone until you love yourself.

For You I Will - Monica

On The Wings of Love - Jeffrey Osborne

Still in Love - Brain McKnight

nurabela:
He won't take you home.

. He will not be available at any time of the day, and arrange times when you can call or he will call you.

. He won't introduce you to his family.

. He will arrange days out far away from his home.

. Hotel rooms will become the norm unless you allow him to sleep at yours every night/weekend.

. Ask him to cook you a meal at his place and watch his level of anxiety rise, e.t.c.

You may add your own!

He don't/won't stay the night.
He has a fit if you are the "finger nail" type doing sex.
He must shower/bathe after sex before he leaves.

Actually a man CANNOT have "pMs" since men do not have menstrual cycles.

Men do however in scientific terms suffer from something that is called "IMS" (Irritable Male Syndrome) that is also cause by hormones being out of whack, just like with "pms".

As to the questions:

For women pms is an once a month thing but the men I've known with this type of behavior, it's their way of life on a daily basis.

I call them "man bitches", totally disgusting.  One would believe they needed some sanitary supplies  

My Love is Your Love-Whitney Houston

Yield:
Sad, but true. But I think any informed person would know that just because they've heard stories about Nigerians and scamming, doesn't mean every other Nigerian out there does it too. I wouldn't want to be involved with anyone who's prejudiced and narrow-minded like that anyway, so if I meet someone and upon hearing I'm Nigerian he decides to walk, he can do just that. No wahala.  =p

That's just it, there are far too many that are not and will not "inform" themselves and would rather rely on the stereotypes that feeds their agenda that they harbor anyway.

Which may be the reasons why so many (of any culture/race/background) hedge/fudge/lie about it in the first place.

Just from the media here in the U.S. hearing someone is "Nigerian", scammer immediately comes to mind. I never knew of such until a few years back NBC Dateline did a program about the scammers and their main feature was on Nigerians focusing on Houston and San Antonio Texas.

Then there was recently the case of the daycare where children lost their lives, upon finding that the owner was Nigerian the comments section in the articles online was geared toward disparaging Nigerians as scam artists and little else.

Also, I have plenty of pics of my Nigerian Sweetie and when those outside of my family ask about him and I say he's Nigerian some have said "scammer".

xgel:
What are the immediate and remote causes miscarriages? How can it be prevented?

There is no set cause to a miscarriage, causes can range from genetics, to poor nutrition, also could include infection, lifestyle, disease, age, and more.

Your doctor might put you on bed rest, limit your activity and no intercourse until you show no signs that a miscarriage might occur, but there is little evidence that this will change the outcome.

More often than not, little can be done to stop a miscarriage.

A.D.M.:
Well, well, well. I see somebody has created another anti-AA thread. You know, I find it funny that some say that absolutely hate group A, but they can't stop talking about group A. If you hate group A so much, why talk about them? Anyway, as some here said this "urban lifestyle" is specific to one group. I've seen black, white, Asian, and so-called "Latino" (they are not actual Latinos) youngsters with the "urban" behavior. Is it unfortunate? Yes. However, one person's actions do not determine the behavior of an entire group.

Actually, the OP made the distinction that it was not typical of ALL AA but "some" as the word that was used and that it was a "stereotypical" way that many view African Americnas.

If not for that distinction I would have taken offense as I am a member of that group and it is offensive when ALL AA are singled out in the U.S by the white community, as being "ghetto, hoodrat, crackhead, drug dealers, welfare queens with multiple baby daddies or gang banging thugs" .

You are correct in saying that here in the U.S. every group has those elements but it is the black face that is painted in the picture that is disparaged all the time and is just a way not to look at what's wrong in your very own community.

Inked_Nerd:

loooooool

Here ya go >>> http://joel.net/EBONICS/Translator & http://www.ebonics-translator.com/learn_ebonics2.php

This article should put a smile on your face >>> http://articles.cnn.com/2010-08-24/us/dea.ebonics_1_ebonics-translators-language-form-linguistic-society?_s=PM:US

lol, I know its crazy .

THANKS 

The article and the video, I almost fell out the bed laughing.

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ogugua88:
I don modify am small lol.

Come to think of it, what about the Nigerians in Nigeria? My cousins [b]type and speak in ebonics [/b]and they've never been abroad. I find myself asking for translations at times.

Something becomes "sumfyn". It's ok becomes "the ish iz aiit". You are aren't you becomes "u are aint'chyu".

I no fit shout again.

LOL

I have to ask for an translation of that (ebonics) and I'm an American.

Topic:

Older men when I was younger.

Younger men now that I am older.

I have a niece who lives in Dallas, she works with and is friends with a lot of Nigerians.

She always tell stories of how they would say "they want to be like blacks here", the way they party, dress etc. She is maid of honor for her best friends wedding and as for as the plans I have heard it will be exactly something an American would have.  Although I admit that I am in no way familiar with if an Nigerian wedding differs.

I just see it as emulating what's around you while forgetting the way you were reared, and is no different in the AA community here, where kids have not been raised in "the hood" but emulate that behavior in a effort to fit in then they get caught up.

Mr, Cork:
HALT THERE MADAM! do u realize amfrom London? U ever been to London?

do u realize i can easily buy u 2 bag of rice?

Do you realize that we kicked ya' butt back cross the pond?

One month

Mr, Cork:
You have your own moiney?   pocket moiney?

IF I didn't you still wouldn't matter

LesbianBoy:
we re ni bobo yi sha


olufunmilola obasanjo aka imari u wanna denie ne here abi 

Translation please

I have not a clue of what you are saying.



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Can either of you post something ON TOPIC?

Mr, Cork:
madam. but why not? dont u like moiney?

LOVE IT!!!

That's why I have my very own

LesbianBoy:
Mr cork if i slapp u ehn, leave my babe alonneee

A little con fus ed, are you

Mr, Cork:
Imari, Madam can i chop your lips?

No

tuwaski:
That list is too old fashioned, improve bro

Am NOT a "bro"

Please feel free to make your very own suggestions.

mojounited:
I'll pretend not to laugh. . .
YIM - Yahoo Instant Messenger (Yahoo messaging software application); you should have one since you have a mail account with Yahoo!
Skype - just like YIM, Skype is a software application that allows users to make free calls, chat (with share screen and video functions), send/receive documents, et al. . .

Thanks

I figured out the YIM after the fact and went looked up Skype on the net

I don't have Skype, but have YIM

It ok

mojounited:
^Not a problem hun, but being friends on a faceless forum beats me. . .are you on YIM or Skype, is it okay to add you up?

Please don't laugh.

But what is "YIM & Skype"

mojounited:
Lol, tryna give me some words of encouragement, huh?
Not bad though. . .

I enjoyed the conversation we had in this thread

And at this point I am trying to be friends.

If that's ok with you?

[quote author=mojounited link=topic=631447.msg7990195#msg7990195 date=1301142106][/quote]You're Kool

Nothing beats a failure but a try

mojounited:
Then be my lady. . .don't wanna "suck" anymore
Dunno if there's any recommended steps to Eminem's music, but no sane person would try that, I guess. .

Do you stay in New Orleans?

Yes I live in New Orleans.

That was Quick and straightforward.

I don't even know you or you me.

I have a Nigerian Sweetie already

mojounited:
^Now that is some real ish - MAFI MUSKILAH![size=4pt]_{Arabic for 'fantastic'}[/size]
Of course I'm a grown up; was just kidding about the infant mind. . .
I can dance, but not very good at it. .can you just come down here and show me the damn moves The music is on already. . It sucks dancing to Eminem when I'm meant to be doing a Whitney Houston [size=4pt]waiting for my tutor, Imari[/size]

That's personal body action between you & your lady.

I can't instruct on that one on one.

But you would "suck" at getting it on with Eminem in the background.

I don't even know any of his music, tsk

Those Old School lovers would better set the mood in my opinion
Barry White
Jeffery Osborne
Teddy Pendergrass
to name a few.

mojounited:
Unfortunately, the part in bold is where i fall short (I know, forgive my infant mind) . . .Could you kindly provide some tutorials I can pick it up from there. .

Really, I don't believe that "infant mind" line in the least.

You're a grown man aren't ya'?

Anywho, I gave hints to what I would consider "the magic" in other posts in this thread, but I'll play along.

The mood music, although you say you can't dance you can hold your lady close and move to the music can't ya?

How about skipping the meal and going straight for the desert, which can be romantic when you fed your Sweet the sweets.

What of the cuddling while having a quiet talk, music playing in the background.

Hope that's enough for you to "pick up" from there.  

mojounited:
I'd cook 'tasty (Chicken) Kebab' with potatoes (Mexican fried) - PS: Though I've had it, I haven't tried cooking it before but I think it's a good meal for two on a romantic date. . .Fact is, most girls wouldn't be too keen on how tasty the meal is, just the effort of cooking something for her would do the magic. .

Sounds like a good meal.

Maybe she will but hopefully you would have something else in mind to take her mind off the taste, ya' know the "magic"

Just kidding

For most Americans it would be looked upon as being desperate on her part.

sule sule

You are a gorgeous young lady.

I was just reading your thread with no intent to comment but something you posted prompted my to add my 2 cents.

Is it because you don't give in to demands that the boys leave you?

If that is the case

To hell with them anyway

You've got it all and the right one with want it all at the right time.

If not the advice still stands

You seem to know how to have fun keep it up.

He was on my thread earlier.

Our exchanges got deleted

He's not very humorous to me though.