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...when sycophancy and falsehood are your habits.

Achebe's "There was a Country" is still on sale.

Villa12:
compare what the person said "in your village " to yours calling him Stupid and Barking like a dog. I'm sure you have more names to call him.

Go and work on yourself. Kettle cannot be calling pot black. Thank you.

You are a combination of kettle, pot and black. That's why you side him when you can't deny the fact that he started the insult. But your bias is nothing to me since you have no authority over my life.

A bad history is being made.

Yes, if she is literate.

I hope you understand the meaning of the word, "literate". I hope you also understand that some people who couldn't go beyond secondary school level are more literate than some university graduates.

But, why is your question one-sided? Why don't you also ask women if they can marry men in the same category?

Noted. It is good that no life was lost.

Villa12:
in your village is different from calling someone stupid and barking like a dog. It's a two different thing. Expecially coming from someone pointing accusing finger at someone that he's toxic. From your comments so far, you're toxic and you're accusing someone to be toxic. You also need to work on your emotions. Thank you.

You are very biased. You ignore the fact that he insulted me first. You are focused on my reaction to his insult. I am yet to see you criticise him for the fact that he was the first to insult me. As I pointed out that he is barking like a dog, have I made the same assertion about you? The answer is no. This shows that I am not the toxic one here. You side him simply because you are displeased with the fact that I advise you not to disconnect the accused boy from your family. So, you are clearly trying to use emotions and sentiments against me.

Well, suit yourself. Your bias doesn't move me because you have no authority over my life.

Villa12:
asking you if you will adopt the boy is a question not an attack and the person didn't call you stupid or said you're barking like a dog. The person understand the post because there was two options which are facing the law or let him leave to meet his mother. No where in the post did i said retaining him under our roof is an option.

Why are you dodging the truth? I never said that that the very question is an insult. I said I asked him to explain the basis of that question, and instead of him to explain the basis, he resorted to insulting me. Check his response after he asked that question.

English is not our language and should not be used to measure our intelligence. But in this age and time, those who are desperate to lead the public should be able to express themselves in the English language or get interpreters to translate the leaders' public speech to English. I don't mean that they should be able to speak big grammars. What I mean is that they should be able to speak simple English.

Meanwhile, someone gave insecurity as his campaign promise.

I hope Betta Edu will give a testimony at this year's Shiloh.

Also, I hope you appreciate the presence of Jesus as much as or more than you appreciate the presence of Bishop Abioye.

English is not our language, and should not be used to measure our intelligence. But in this age and time, those who want to lead the public should be able to speak simple English.

By the way, someone gave insecurity as a campaign promise.

I am not an architect. But I think the dining position is wrong. The dining shouldn't be located closest to the living room entrance door. Do visitors have to eat before they are welcomed? Is it not after welcoming them that you decide to offer them food and they will decide whether to eat or not?

I understand that changing the dining position will warrant changing the kitchen position. The lobby, the toilet and the laundry can collectively switch positions with the kitchen and the store.

Or, the bedroom towards the back on the same wing can come forward and the kitchen will go back. The distance between the current position of that bedroom and the parlour is not too far for someone who wants to take food from the kitchen to the parlour. This option will also help to curtail the rate at which food aroma from the kitchen disturbs or distracts visitors in the parlour.

Like I said earlier, I'm not an architect. But this is my opinion.

Villa12:
No one attacked you. We're not fighting here. We agree to disagree. I can't find anyone attacking you. So many other people have dropped their comments and it has been criticised by several people. This is a public forum. If you don't want any criticism from anyone, then it is best not to drop a comment.

So far so good, you're the only Toxic person I've seen here. Calling someone Stupid and Barking like a dog. Even the person you claimed to be toxic didn't call you all sorts of names. Neither have i seen anyone else Calling others names. You're the only Toxic person here.

You're who you think other people are.

I am the poster and i truly appreciate your view. However, the boy can no longer live with us anymore. Thank you.

You now want to deny your actions.

1.
Check your first response to me the moment I said the boy should be disciplined but not disconnected from the family. In that very response of yours, you told me that your family has already decided what to do. I responded by saying that you are inconsistent in reasoning because you ask for our suggestions when you have already decided what to do and you are only looking for those that will support your decision.

2.
Check the response from the other commenter that teams up with you against me on this thread. That very commenter, in his or her response to me, asks me if I will adopt the boy. Up till now, he has not explained why and how my comment justifies that very response from him. I simply asked him or her to explain the basis of the question, instead of him or her to do that, he or she resorted to insulting me. The trails are still on this thread for a confirmation.

3.
Is there any aggressive expression in the comment in which I said the boy should be disciplined but not disconnected from the family?

4.
Is it right for you to seek public suggestions when you know that no suggestion from the public will change what you have already decided to do to the boy?

helinues:
It can't be anything or any how name.

Those who deserved to be named.

Suit yourself.

The name can be anything.

What matters is how the centre serves the public.

Gbagam!

Villa12:
calling someone stupid and barking like a mad dog is morally wrong and a clear definition of a Toxic person. Thank you

You have not been able to point out anything morally wrong in the main comment you attack.

Your attack is what led to me pointing out that you are toxic, and you have not proven otherwise. I didn't attack the poster or the comments that do not align with mine. I simply expressed my opinion without attacking anybody. So, being brave and honest to point out your toxicity doesn't make me toxic. Stop deceiving yourself.

If you are not toxic, point out anything morally wrong in my main comment that you attack. My main comment is the bone of contention here. Don't deviate to my responses to your toxicity.

Welcome.

Be it unto your country according to your plan for Nigeria.

Goodnewsforlife:
let the op travel out of Nigeria to upload it now since u don't understand what it means to manage situation

The topic is not about managing the situation. The topic is about rating the services rendered to Nigerians in Nigeria. Why are you trying to change the topic?

I thought that the new-old national anthem is all you need to secure the country.

Blazebond:
It seems you know nothing about the "boomerang" effect that why you are quick to type "it is understandable",nor worry,as the electricity cost dey rise na so production costs go rise also and in effect affect the prices of goods when you dey buy,you go soon buy bread 10k for one and buy mineral 1500 naira for one bottle and I go like come back to know if you go rush type "it is understandable" by then.

It seems you don't understand the meaning of "running cost".

nosa2ekundayo:
Even now I could still feel your hatred for the word "boss".
In the streets men can randomly use that word for themselves and they don't know each other..

A man can buy another beer and walk away even though they've never met before.. they refer to themselves as boss until the drinks are exhausted,

A man can give a man a lift and walk away without exchanging numbers..they use same word to address each other until they go their separate ways

But I agree a man cannot give what he does not have!

If you could not afford to spare 1k why not simply say "guy e no Dey now"....why publicly sharing packets of what you have inside of you= hate.

Or could it be that you are an old lady so when the guy called u boss, the thing now touched you somehow?

Look, mo Kan Bere Ni oh

Make a difference by accepting the hype for yourself and giving him the 1k.

I'm glad you could not prove that I hate anybody. You only claim that I hate the word, "boss", and you are partially right. You are not totally right because I only hate it for myself, not for those who like it. I have no problem with you or any other person accepting it for yourselves. I address my superiors at workplace as boss because I see that they like it. But I tell those under me to either address me by my name or call me, "brother", I don't even like to be addressed with, "sir".

Is it a crime if I don't like being addressed by the word, "boss"? Answer this question. If you think it is a crime, explain why you think so.

ElasmoBranchii:
Why not upload at night after 12am

Your suggestion confirms that the poster is right.

siofra:
It's for church, weddings and traditional events not dates

This answers none of the two questions.

It is understandable, considering the running cost.

graceapadija:
Good day everyone, please can anyone recommend a good power bank, someone wants to sell New age product for me while another person said itel is the best product. Please kindly recommend a good product and one that charges fast as well. Thank you

Many power banks do fast charging. But when it comes to lasting long, I mean remaining strong after many years, go for Anker.

But Anker is more expensive than many phones.

siofra:
It's very local and classless to wear it on a date🤷🏾‍♂️

1.
Local and classless in what sense?

2.
Who set the standard for you?

The one you propose can be worn to Church.

My question is, what is wrong with wearing the first one to a date?

Who set the standard for you?

Great!

Theunderman:
I am currently accomodating a friend who came to stay for two week, its now over 3months , my friend came to do something, now its too much as most bills have been on me and even indepted just to meet up feeding. Pls how do you people tell friend who over stay thier welcome.

When he or she is around, play "Osho no be free" by PC Lapez 😀


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01X67nmC_jI&pp=ygUYUGMgbGFwZXogb3NobyBubyBiZSBmcmVl

NigeriaIsGreat:
Mr Toxic, read through the post again. Op said the father wants to lock him up which implies legal while the mother wants the boy to leave their house. They haven't taken decision yet reason why he came for public opinion. Fine your own opinion is for them to discipline the boy which they have been doing right from his childhood without any changes and they should continue to harbour him. I'm glad op has seen how Toxic and uncouth you're calling someone names on a faceless forum. I'm also glad op had let you know your opinion is not an option. It is either the boy face the law and get sentence or should be sent back to his mother. You can request for his adoption since you really want them to continue housing a criminal who has chosen his path in life.

You have not been able to point out anything morally wrong in my comment. Remain toxic.

It could happen to anyone. It could happen to good people. It could happen to bad people. But try to leave a good life so that it will be easy to establish that you are just unfortunate when bad things happen to you. When you leave a bad life, people will be tempted to conclude that any evil that befalls you is your nemesis.

Anyways, RIP to the dead.

Tekashi89:
...and renewed fears about the safety of individuals on the platform.

This is a stupid assertion.

Tekashi89:
Moments before Fogah was cut down, he was involved in a TikTok match, where users co-host with other creators in real time. He and his co-host were exchanging barbs about “badness” and their ability to locate each other and do harm.

His nickname is enough evidence to show that he was a bad boy. When they do immoral things online, they always claim it is just for fun. The truth is that what you do for fun is a reflection of your true character. What you do or post online is what you subscribe to. What you subscribe to explains your true character. Claiming that the bad things you do online are just for fun is the same as or even worse than shouting, "Don't judge me by my past".