I recently posted this at http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com/articles/relationship-conflict/7036-discover-how-to-get-your-ex-back-fast-with-proven-plan but wanted to share it here also:

The following story is true. The names have been changed to protect the innocent.

But there isn't anything that's going to protect YOU from the very same thing happening in YOUR life unless you deserve what you want and put to an end any mindset whatsoever that would cause you to "settle".

Here's the deal.

About two years ago Billy Bob went to a bar, hopefully to meet some women. After throwing the proverbial "spaghetti against the wall" to see what "stuck", lo and behold he got a woman named Mary Meenow to talk to him. She gave him her number. He called her and asked her out the "customary" three days later.

A few weeks went by, and Mary started bugging Billy Bob about becoming "exclusive". "Make me your girlfriend or I'm outta here!", she announced. After an audible wussy-boy sigh, Billy Bob feverishly rifled through the file cards in his head but gave in. After all, it was hella easier than going out there "sarging" some more, huh?

So Billy Bob and Mary soldiered on a few more months. Finally, Mary uttered the inevitable: "Hey my friend told me today that her boyfriend asked her to marry him, and we've been dating longer than they have!" Billy Bob was flustered and avoided the issue. But Mary was persistent. Only a couple of days passed by before she dropped the Weapon Of Mass Destruction: "I've had it with your non-committal attitude. Either I get a ring from you or I'm walking. You have five days to think about it."

And so the ultimatum had been issued. Using the exact same logic he drew from months before, Billy Bob showed up with a ring four days later.

Within two weeks they got married in Vega$.

Only a mere thirty days went by before Billy Bob-a military man-got orders out to a base 1500 miles away. Mary, who had a son in school, decided to wait behind for the duration of the six month deployment rather than pick up and move only to move back half a year from now.

Shortly thereafter, she got a call. Billy Bob was being sent out to sea for 90 days, during which time any communication would be all but impossible.

But it was only a month and a half or so before Mary got another surprise call from Billy Bob. He had gone through her email account somehow, and read where she told a friend about having gone Salsa dancing the other night. (Note: If you are thinking this whole jigsaw puzzle is missing a couple of pieces, I'm right there with you.) Billy Bob was angry, branded her a "cheater" and declared that he wanted a divorce.

Click.

So what happened here?

Well, Mary isn't a cheater. And furthermore, here it is: Billy Bob doesn't actually think so either.

It's just that he...well, uh...he sorta hasn't really...um...missed her a whole lot since he has been gone. It isn't like he even looks at her picture much. And he darn skippy didn't use whatever precious Internet access time he had to email her, let alone mix in a Skype account.

He doesn't love her anymore. In fact he probably never did. Worse, he doesn't have the masculine strength to admit it to her, therefore he scapegoats her with a ridiculous excuse.

How do I know all this? Simple: men who LOVE their cheating wives typically respond to discovery of infidelity with hurt and denial rather than a quick and dirty exit.

He SETTLED. And SO DID SHE.

This is what happens when there is no effort made to deserve what one wants, and two people allow themselves to be okay with accepting whomever "happens to come along". Both Mary and Billy Bob DID NOT choose each other. They accepted each other vis-à-vis circumstance, and once they did both were too insecure with their own ability to deserve that they dreaded the concept of breaking up and "starting all over" with someone else more than they did staying together.

At least until now, when the house of cards has collapsed.

Absolutely go out and meet some people-at a bar, club or even in the elevator. But don't be a Billy Bob. Deserve what you want and never, ever "settle".

What do you think? Share your thoughts below!

If you have your eyes set on a popular girl, then you will have to work hard to impress her. Since she is popular, she has the benefit of being the "prize." And since she is coveted you have to work harder to get her attention. But it is not an impossible task to get a popular girl to like you. All you need is a strategy that will work. Here are a few great ways of making a popular girl like you.

Ooze confidence
For her to take notice of you, you will have to be very confident. Why would she go out with a guy who is a wimp? So, work on your confidence and be absolutely self assured when you are around her.

Be the leader
You will fade in the background if you are not the leader. It is only leaders who get noticed and it is only leaders who get all the popular girls. Dunk the notion of being in the herd and following a pattern. Set your own methods and make your own notions and let people around you follow them. Make sure that the popular girl is around when all this action is happening.

Don't care about your surroundings
Have an "I don't care a damn" attitude surround you. Be open and playful around the girl you like and don't conform to social norms if you want to say something.

Acknowledge her but that's it!
You will also have to play some mind games here to get her attention. So when you see this girl, just acknowledge her and nothing more. Make her feel like yes she is popular but you are not crazy about her.

Don't go overboard with the compliments
Be civil and polite with her and pay her a quirky compliment or two but don't go overboard with the complimenting. Since she is popular she is used to being complimented. What she is not used to is being ignored. So, if you want her to get attracted to you, pay her a compliment and then ignore her. When you challenge her position it is then that you will get her attention.

Dress to kill
You will also have to look like a good package...one that is worth chasing if you want to attract a girl that you like. So look the part and dress to kill.

Don't be a recluse
You might not be the most popular guy around but being a complete recluse is not going to help. Look like a fun guy who has friends and you will have a popular girl inching towards you.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7bVNrLheAsE

If you have just started dating, then you might be nervous and anxious to please your girl. There are some things and actions that girls always appreciate and love. Here are 3 tips on how to please a girl.....

Tip 1 - Give her gifts. No, you do not have to gift a Porsche or a diamond necklace every time you meet her, although if you can afford it then you should. Most girls also love small gifts in the form of earrings, bracelets and various other trinkets. If she likes music, then gift her with her favorite music CDs. Find out the tastes of your girl-friend before you start giving her any gifts.

Tip 2 - Surprise her. You can surprise your girl-friend by taking her to a romantic restaurant or even to a movie. Make it a point to remember important dates such as when you first met your girl-friend, your first kiss, etc and do something special on those dates. Girls like men who are sensitive towards their feelings. If she likes your sense of humor then ensure that you lighten the mood with your jokes.

Tip 3 - Treat her like a princess. Your girl-friend should feel special around you. Open doors for her or pull up the chair for her, in other words treat her like a princess. Hold her hand when crossing roads but only if she is comfortable with it. Listen to her when she speaks to you and always speak the truth. Murmur sweet nothings in her ear when you are alone.

These 3 tips will prove to your girl-friend that you are a romantic at heart and are sure to please her. She too will reciprocate in a similar manner and try to please you. So, if you want to be treated like a prince, remember to treat her like a princess.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ij4-LCRVpY

Women are lured by the word 'Bad'. Nice is not for them. After all nice guys are not stalkers. They are the Nerds. Nice guys are boring and lame. Well, sorry guys but facts are facts.

It is the bad guys' women love and will continue to do so. This has been a proven fact. Researches and experiments conducted suggest the same. The older, the punk, the tougher and the smarter; these are the guys women love.

Love life for the point of view of a girl should always contain drama and romance. This romance is quite expected from the bad guys. Fights and gang clashes are a part of the whole relationship, by the way! The nice guys write a poem. The bad guys ride the bike. The nice guys might be caring and gentle. The bad guys are dominating. Leading a woman is a kick in itself. She likes it.

Things like teasing, touching, ignoring deliberately, is an unknown list pointing the likings of girls. A nice guy has to discover these once he is done with books. And books are his best friends.

On a more serious note, women are attracted more towards the bad guys due to their persona; the protective feeling and they are always dropping hints. A woman loves it when a guy flirts with her. Indirect proposal and stalking are not the qualities of a nice guy. Hence it is obvious that bad guys who have all the time in the world that a woman needs are always in the forefront.

Nice guys, unfortunately, finish last when it comes to getting girls. However, you must remember, that woman will be woman after all. They will eventually fall in your arms if you remain nice. They are rare, so be one.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3xn_Ftd0rsU

When men meet an attractive woman, they give up all their power and control. They give the woman all their attention by chasing her around, de-prioritizing their own plans in order to fit into her schedule and also reduce the time they spent with family and friends. The more attractive is the woman; more are the chances of men doing this....

So, how often have you done this? Certainly you have been addicted to various women at different times. Al right, now lets think the other way round- what if a woman gets addicted to you. Sounds brilliant, and what if you know how to get a woman addicted to you!!!

Well all these are not just statements to seek your attention, but this can really happen in your life as it has happened with many guys. Confused? Ok, let me put few things straight in case you want to get a woman addicted to you. And who wouldn't like to live this way?

Firstly, you need to realize that men who 'give it all up' for a woman are the biggest losers. Women like men who have a purpose and work towards his goals, and also have passions other than woman. These are what defines a man which women are addicted to in the first place.

Secondly, women can be addicted only to men who have high status, so you need to be one. Also, men should be a respected figure socially and capable of making tough decisions.

Most importantly, be wary of the questions that you ask a woman. If you ask old-day questions like "Are you free on Saturday?" or "Where do you want to go?", then you are giving power away. Be a true leader and make decisions yourself instead of asking things, say like- "I am going to the mall to do some shopping on Saturday, so come along."

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4F3AOAfANNs

We all know that generally, girls are attracted towards successful, good-looking men, but what many do not know is that there are certain tactics that men use that will make them seem to be more attractive than other better looking, richer guys....

So do not worry if you do not look better than many guys, or if you do not have deep pockets. You can still go places with one of the best-looking girls by your side. Now who cares who looks good, just enjoy what looks offer, without having great looks.

The idea sounds great, but is it really possible.

Of course it is! Now don't worry if you have a bulging belly or a receding hairline. I know, you still feel doubtful- I don't blame you for this, but I will tell you how to make yourself appear more attractive than other attractive, good-looking men.

Look, generally men choose their partners based on their looks, but girls choose men based on how they make them feel.

Here is a key principle that you must understand- if you are able to invoke the emotions of girls at a higher intensity then other men, they will undoubtedly choose you over the other guy, irrespective of how you look or how much money you have. It sounds simple and you must be wondering if it is true. But indeed it is true.

Secondly, you must be able to make her enjoy with you. Everyone knows this, but most importantly, not what everyone does, you must also invoke unhappiness in her and make her feel pain.

Yes, you have read correctly. Take her through cycles of happiness and unhappiness and she will rely on you mare than anyone else as you are the one with her is both situations.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QCFVsWYpYAQ

Well it is tricky to know when a girl is actually ready to be kissed. A real player can reach to the girl's emotions and mood to judge and start kissing slowly. Using some techniques can be beneficial for any guy to be a good kisser.

Judge the situation, whether good or bad, look out for a perfect timing, and wait for stunning results.

Know their mind

It is simple to start kissing with perfect timing if you can judge and know what is running in the girl's mind. It is essential to know about the thought in her mind, what she wants, and know some secrets about her.

Sometimes girls say something but actually mean the exact opposite of it.

Know their mood

When you know about the mood of the girl, you can turn out to be a real player and make her feel comfortable while kissing. You never know how the mood of a girl is and trying to kiss her in a bad mood will end up being a looser.

One of the better ways to reach to her is to get closer to her face and observe the reactions. If she proceeds then you are lucky to get a sweet kiss and have the sensational moment of your life.

Know if she is ready

Before kissing the girl know if she is ready for it. It is a bad option to kiss a girl if there is no response from her. Never do anything forcefully.

A spongy start is essential

If you want the girl to be kissed then it is preferable to start in a steady fashion by reading the girl's mind and understanding the situation. Get closer to the girl, know about her reactions, and then proceed.

A positive reaction from the girl will give you a signal to go ahead and result into a deep kiss.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DdDMFKXZ8jM

Even man wants to know when a woman is attracted to him, but alas that there are no magical bulbs available that will glow if attraction is there.

There is no method to know if the woman is attracted to you. To understand this it is necessary to study the signs that are given out by the woman.

One way of knowing if there is attraction in a woman towards you is by observing any signs of flirting in the body language of the woman.

Woman know that men are attracted to girls who have some sense of humor, therefore if you see a woman laugh with her friends and then quickly look in your direction it is a very clear indication that she wants to show you her sense of humor.

Another very obvious flirting signal that a woman sends towards a man is by directly looking into his eyes and maintaining eye contact for a while. A nice smile may also accompany this look. This is a very sure sign of a woman's attraction towards you.

When you see a woman making minor adjustments to her look and try to present her in a better way for you when you are looking it is a signal that she is reciprocating your interest.

She will also in turn look you up that is an indication that she is also interested in getting to know you better. When you see these signs it is necessary that you act upon them and go up to the woman and speak to her chances are there that she would open up to you.

Once this area is reached you should be on the look out for other signals that would suggest taking the relationship further. One has to consciously take efforts to look into these signals to get the desired answers.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y_cajimgLuk

Do you want the girls to like you instantly? Do you think they don't because you are not that good looking? Or are you utterly confused about the whole issue? Do you feel nervous around the girls? If these are some of the questions you are figuring out then you need help.

If you really want the girls like you instantly then you have to know what the girls really like in a man. What makes them fall for a guy who is average looking. What the girls like in a guy is his confidence, his ability to make them laugh and have a good time.

The more independent that guy the more they like him and last but not the least the one who does not show undue interest in them!

• The way you conduct yourself, the way you dress and the way you talk the body language makes the difference. If you are sure about yourself and confident it shows in your movements. A self assured man gets instant reaction from the girls.

• You should smell good and so make sure that you have a bath before stepping out, shave and wear cologne. Before even you come near the girls the cologne reaches the girls. If it is good they will look at you.

• Do not look desperate to have the girl. They have innate ability to sniff out the nervousness. They don't like desperate guys.

• Communication is the key and the first few minutes will decide your fate. So be ready with a good story, compliment the girl but don't over do it. Most important thing is you should be casual in the approach.

That will make the girl like you instantly as they do not like the guys who are trying to pick them up.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u90aqnzFMTE

So you have seen this girl at some place. You really liked her and want to approach her, but you think she is out of your league so what do you do? Can you get the girls who obviously out of your league? If you are looking for the answers to these questions then it is yes! You can get the girl but you will have to work hard to do it.

Though each girl is different from the other, there are some basic things that the girls like no matter they belong to out of your league. They like a person who is confident. They like a person who can make them laugh and they like a person who has good communication skills and who makes them feel special rather subtly. Once you acquire the skills getting a girl who seems to be out of your league is easy.

• Let your walk and the way you dress do the talking for you! Your confidence can be seen through your body language. You should stand out in a group.

• Once your eyes meet go over to her and greet her in a casual way. Don't look desperate at any point of time and lose the chance.

• Do not try hard to impress her with your talk. You should be willing to let her talk and speak. Just listen and give your comments if asked. This will show her that you are really interested in her and will make her feel special.

• Show your feelings to her by communicating well and engage her in interesting conversation. Tell a funny story and walk away. This will make her to seek you out. You will come across as an interesting person.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q88C-evoF0Y

Body language is a powerful means of communication. All you have to do is to read it correctly. You can tell many things just by observing the body language of people around you. When it comes to the girls it becomes sometimes rather confusing.

You can tie yourself in knots whether she means yes or no! Here are few things that will help you in understanding if the girl likes you or no by watching her body language.

• If the girl likes you she will find some excuse to call you. She will make it a point to look up some events that you love to attend and will inform you about it. If she does not like you she will never call you.

• You will always catch her looking at you. When you look at her she will blush and start looking somewhere else with a smile on her face. That is a sure shot way to know that she likes you.

• If the girl likes you she will be willing to do anything for you. Suppose you are a part of a same group and the group wants to go for a movie. You make some excuse for not to go. She will also not go just to be with you.

• You will find that she is always rather near you. So she can 'accidentally' touch you. If you touch her she will not move away. If she does not like you she will keep her distance and make sure there are no 'accidental' touches.

These are some of the things about the girl's body language which will tell you if she is interested in you or not.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KKCoduUfIjo

So you have seen this girl you really like. You want her to fall for you and you are desperate for it to happen. How should you go about making the girl fall for you?

There are different ways to go about it and you need to use them as per the nature of the girl.. Every girl is different but there are some basic things that are common. Every girl likes attention.

Every girl likes to feel special and wants to feel secure and cherished. Girls want a man that can take care of them. If you are aware these things then it becomes easy to make girl fall for you.

o First thing to do is to get to know her. Find out what she likes and dislikes and what her hobbies are. If you can join in it can give her a chance of knowing you and will show her that you are serious about her.

o Always be well groomed and dress neatly. Use cologne and after shave lotion. A good smelling guy is always well liked. Body odor is a sure way to turn off the girl.

o Be a good listener and pay attention to what she is saying. If she asks your opinions about it give your honest opinion. Being honest with what you think will be valued.

o Use your body language to tell her that you will always be there if she needs. The quiet confidence will tell her that you are not only confident about yourself but you are dependable sort of a person.

The way you treat her when you are out with her, the way you make her laugh will add up. She will feel cherished. All these qualities are a sure way to make a girl fall for you.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rXLS1xE6khA

If you think that in order to make any girl find you irresistible, you should have good looks and should be rich think again! Good looks and the money in your wallet always do not matter.

You need to know what the girls find irresistible in a man. Once you know the secret you will make any girl find you totally irresistible. You should have a positive attitude towards life and you should be able to love yourself.

Then only it can be translated into effective body language. Having a good body language is very important. That is the first step, in making the girls find you totally irresistible.

• Girls like a confident man, so make sure you appear confident and sure of yourself. Do not fidget or look around nervously. The girls can pick up the signs of nervousness very quickly.

• Make the girl feel comfortable when she is around you. Do not let the desperation of getting the girl ruin your chances. If you open the door or pull up the chair her she will like it. So be good to her without being pushy.

• Make sure you can hold a conversation and tell good stories to her that will please her and pull her more close to you. If you make her laugh she would like it. Girls are weary about the 'wolves' in the guise of men so have fun and let her see that, She should also have fun with you.

• Be a good listener and let the girl tell you what she thinks or feels even if that is not what you are interested in! A girl finds a guy who is a good listener totally irresistible.

So develop your self confidence, acquire conversational skills and go out there and have girls falling over you!

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HRZFzexp8GA

odogwu2007:
Why don't you talk about how to make God notice you and bless you or how to develop ur mind or how to start up a business with low capital? What will dis post add to anyone's life in this time of recession ?

This is the romance board of this forum and only romance talk is permitted here. If you want advice on Make Money, go to the finance section of this forum.

What is it that some guys have that makes all the girls notice them almost instantaneously? Some guys seem to have been born with that natural charm and charisma that attracts the girls while some find it hard to get a woman to even notice them! If you read the following tips you will come to know what you could do to become attractive to the girls and make them notice you.

Your personality should be bright and attractive
Let's face it. Not everybody is been blessed with Tom Cruise looks and therefore it is obvious that they have to build and boost their personalities to the level that will catch the attention of the opposite sex. Concentrate on your walk, talk and self confidence.

Get rid of fears
There is no way you will be able to go out there and catch the attention of that girl you like if you are filled with dread and fears of rejection. Look at it this way - you have nothing to lose! You have to move into her circle of friends without fear of being made a fool of or also being embarrassed. Girls automatically notice cool, savvy guys with attitude.

Do stuff that makes you noticeable
How can the girls notice you if you are going to hang out in your basement playing some video games or sulking in your room, full of self pity? You have to be active doing something or the other that will not only keep you busy enjoying yourself but also ensure that others notice you.

Go up and talk to the girls
Of course the girls are going to notice you if you go right up to them and strike up a conversation. You could ask them where they go to have the best burgers or ice cream! Not only will it give you experience of talking to girls you don't really know but will make you feel more comfortable around them.

Be "unavailable"
It is a known fact that girls tend to want something that they can't have! You should talk to them, make sure that they notice you and even flirt with them a bit! It's going to drive them crazy if they find out that you are not free to go out with them. Be cool and distant to a point. They will notice you the more aloof you are.

See if the "bad boy image" suits you
It's crazy - but there are plenty of women who dig the "bad guys". If you were treating women ""nice" and have been trying to get them to notice you by being sweet and getting nowhere, try being "bad" and ignore them and make them run after you!

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gtGYjWFFpXM

To keep the relationship fresh you will have to constantly work on it. Otherwise in our everyday life we do a lot of things that can take the romance out of the relationship and then it is only a matter of time when the relationship begins its downward spiral. To avoid getting trapped in this situation follow these simple steps.

Announce to the world about your love

Proudly change your status from being 'single' to being 'engaged' on all the social networking sites that you have a presence on. Upload the latest picture of your girlfriend and you. Let the world know that you two are now a couple. Also write a few flattering lines about your girl on the site.

Talk fondly about her

Whenever you meet mutual friends or family members speak very fondly about your lady love and tell them how blessed you feel that she is a part of your life. You not only have to tell her but also tell her friends and acquaintances that you treasure the relationship.

Leave love notes for her

Leave cute messages for her in places she does not expect. Under the pillow or in her purse or in a book that she is reading or any other place she least expects. This will bring a smile to her face when she reads your message.

Whisk her away for a vacation

Make a terrific plan all by yourself and when she is stressed with work or studies whisk her away to some destination that will offer her peace and tranquility. You can take her to the ski resort or a cruise however; keep it a secret till the last minute.

Give her a gift on 'Woman's Day'

Surprise your woman by giving her a fine piece of stone or a gold pendant on woman's day as a token of your appreciation. The gift need not be very expensive but the fact that you planned it meticulously will please her no end.

Place her picture on your desk

Place a picture of hers on your work desk or in your wallet. You may also use her portrait as the wall paper of your mobile phone. Another great idea is to make a collage of your (hers and yours) pictures and have it framed for display in your living room.

Factor her in all your decisions

Since she is an inseparable part of you, make sure that you take into consideration her preferences and views when taking decisions big or small. She is an equal partner in your life therefore consult her and respect her inputs in all the decisions you make.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D3ud0eNayus

If you are reading this then it shows that you are really concerned about keeping your girl happy. This does speak a lot for you. A guy who is earnest and sincere in a relationship is bound to keep his woman happy and contented. But if you want to go a step further and make sure you do everything in your power to make her happy, take a look at the following tips - you won't be sorry!

Maintain a healthy sex life
Keep the romance alive and flowing and your girl will be ecstatic! Like the oil or grease that keeps a machine running smoothly, romance will help to win her heart over and over. This will make her responsive and open to your overtures.

Show her you care
Little things mean a lot to a woman. Calling her in the middle of the day to tell her that you love her, buying her a little gift, or leaving a romantic note where you know she will find it will thrill her.

Don't be selfish
This pertains to your behavior in and out of bed. You will be surprised how appreciative she will be if you take your time and cater to all her needs. Incidentally most women grumble that men don't kiss enough! Surprise her!

Communicate with her
By now you must have realized that women love to talk. They derive a great pleasure by talking because that is the way they stay connected to people. Give her your undivided attention and she will be very happy.

Be intimate
Intimacy is one of the strongest factors of a long relationship. Women crave intimacy. They want to know the smallest details and be involved with everything that concerns you. If you can bring the intimacy between the two of you to higher levels - she will feel that she's in heaven!

She needs to be reassured from time to time
A woman cannot hear the words "I love you" too often. She needs you to tell her verbally that you care. There is no use of regretting later on that you did not have the time to tell her how much you really cared for her. The present time is important - tell her now and make her happy.

Make her feel beautiful
If you really love her you will make her feel beautiful - love handles and all. You could tell her that she turns you on. This will not only make her happy and confident but geared up to take more care of her body.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z4HW3m_0BYQ

You don't have to tell her that you like her because it is the weirdest thing to do. It takes away all the romance and the sexual tension that exists between the two of you. What you should instead do is send her subtle signals that will tell her that you have fallen flat for her and desire to know her intimately.

Here are seven ways by which you can let her know that you like her.

Remain in her visual range
When you are constantly around her she will get the message that you have something on your mind. Being around her and giving her a look that lingers on her for just that millisecond long will tell her that you are interested in her.

Check her out in a gentlemanly way
Although women do not like to be stared at especially at their breasts and behinds they do feel good when it is done without a hint of lust. When you do check her out do it appreciatively and let her know that you are complimenting her without saying it in so many words.

Gently touch her
If you know her or have been introduced to her then do not miss any opportunity to touch her gently. The warmth in your touch will be message enough. Touch her arm or extend a helping hand when she is crossing a street or hold her hand a little bit longer than normal when shaking hands. However, you will have to remain relaxed and not show the emotional turmoil that is going on within you.

Compliment her
Compliment her on her looks, dress, hairstyle or her accessories and mean what you say. You may even greet her telling her that she looks "fresh as a daisy" or something similar that will cheer her up.

Keep her amused
You should ensure that there is never a dull moment when you are around her. Keep her entertained with your jokes, even silly ones will do so long as they are not offensive to any one.

Send her flowers
Remember special days and send her flowers and small gifts with a note telling her how much you like to be around her. The gifts and bouquets need not be too expensive simple and small thoughtful gifts will also do.

Share her joys and sorrows
Whether it is in her work or in her studies lend a helping hand without expecting the favor to be returned. Be there when she is feeling down and cheer her up. If she has achieved something then make it a point to celebrate her success.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ff99eMGslS4

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Today young men don't want to follow the traditional styles and ways of asking a girl out. They know that the more original and creative they are, the more chances they have of the girl agreeing to go out with them. Take a look at these cute ways you can ask a girl out on a date with you.

Be innovative and creative
Girls love it when you do little things to impress her. Send her a little note that expresses your desire to spend some time with her. You could tie the note on to a little bunch of flowers and send it to her! Use a little remote controlled toy car with the note propped up in it and hide in the bushes after ringing the doorbell. She will love the invite!

Use the chocolate bait
What girl can resist chocolates? Send her a box with your note inside. She will definitely "melt" when she reads it! Make sure your note has a few compliments that will delight her.

Use your talents
If you are an ace soccer player, then send her invitation to the game with tickets to a movie. If you can sing and play the guitar then sing her a special song that makes her feel special. If you can bake (a lot of guys can!) then bake a cake with your invitation to go out on the icing! She will love it!

Be romantic
Girls are a sucker for romance. If you know her style then burn a special CD with her favorite songs on it and do a recording at the end of it with your sexy voice asking her out!

Use stuffed toys
Have you seen how a girl's face literally lights up when she sees a cute stuffed toy? Buy her one - it could be anything from a teddy to a giraffe- and leave it near her locker at school or her door step with a personal note.

Roses never go out of style
A rose sends a girl the message of love. Try sending her a fake rose that bears a note saying "I will care till this rose fades". She will be overwhelmed and would love to go out with you.

Inflate her ego
Use balloons with a message that states the time, day and venue on it. Tie them with a ribbon that has your name on it and get it delivered to her. She will love all the attention this invitation will get her! You could also tie the balloons to her car door handle.

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