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CelebritiesRe: Eldee Is One Of The Reasons I Call Nigerians Illiterates – Kemi Olunloyo by InformedLola(f): 8:51am On Oct 05, 2016
Slowpoke attacking slowpoke...
RomanceRe: Handling A Breakup. by InformedLola(f): 8:49am On Oct 05, 2016
wozniacki:
Break ups can be very hard to handle. You will think you are never going to find anyone else. You are gonna cry yourself to sleep multiple times. But you have to go through the pain before you have the strength to see the sunshine.
Below are some tips to handle post break up syndrome.
1. Cry: Just let it out. Cry as much as you want. Cry! Cry!! Cry!!!. Sniff! Cry again. You can take a whole day to cry. You'd be amazed how much better you'd feel.
2. Do not rebound: This is where most of you get it all wrong. Most people think getting over a failed relationship means getting into the next available one immediately. Until you are comfortable alone, you will never know if you are choosing someone out of love or loneliness. One of the dangers of rebounding is getting used and heartbroken again! Take your time.
3. Detox: Don't worry about being friends just yet. Get rid of keepsakes like his/her pictures, text messages or any sort of reminders. Leave the ex out of your life for...
Continue here>>http://www.peacedike.com/2016/10/guides-to-handling-break-up.html?m=1
Would have been better if you had summarized the full article here and asked those in need of details to go to the site.
TravelRe: Olumo Rock: What No One Told You About Th Ancient Rock (pics) by InformedLola(f): 8:43am On Oct 05, 2016
Interesting
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Facebook Group To Mingle With Working Class People by InformedLola(op): 8:34am On Oct 05, 2016
InformedLola:
Hi,

Are you a working class person and want to mingle with other career-minded people? Join this Facebook Group https://web./314848505551768/
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Offline Matchmaking Making A Serious Rebound by InformedLola(f): 8:20am On Oct 05, 2016
But I think dating should not be just about a person's physical appearance.

Things like how do their minds work, how well do they reason can be assessed by holding conversations.

Join our network of professionals om Facebook to mingle with responsible professionals.

https://web./314848505551768/
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Facebook Group To Mingle With Working Class People by InformedLola(op): 12:55pm On Oct 03, 2016
Responsible people only
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by InformedLola(f): 10:39pm On Oct 01, 2016
Meet cool working class men and women on this Facebook group

https://web./314848505551768/
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by InformedLola(f): 10:38pm On Oct 01, 2016
Connect with working class men and women on this Facebook group

https://web./314848505551768/
Dating And Meet-up ZoneFacebook Group To Mingle With Working Class People by InformedLola(op):
Hi,

Are you a working class person and want to mingle with other career-minded people? Join this site https://www.sprocial.com
FamilyRe: A Cry For Help by InformedLola(f): 1:48pm On Sep 27, 2016
Sapphiredamsel:
Hehe, interestingly amazing. @op, send your acct details (can't find it). Note that whatever you say here,if not true, may actually come to pass and me sending it isn't because you've seen a "maga" or I'm stupid. Just send the acct no, and let us rest.
Meanwhile, as a full bloodied man, go and look for menial jobs to do.
It's men like you that would still be demanding respect upandan.
You are quite nice, but really there are more deserving people to help out there. Lest your money be diverted to buying data and things like that while those kids continue to go hungry (if they exist). Notice how how has consistently been online. Is it still N100 data he has been using?
FamilyRe: A Cry For Help by InformedLola(f): 1:45pm On Sep 27, 2016
Millyiyke:
Is better for me to beg and get help start doing something than joining able bodied armed robber, able bodied kidnappers, able bodied thiefs.
So of all things able bodied men do, you can only name criminal activities. You didn't see farming, labourer work, conductor work, etc to name. Oh I get it, you have a 'quick-money' mentality. Do you know how ridiculous it is for you to say you stopped labourer work because your back was dislocated?
FamilyRe: A Cry For Help by InformedLola(f): 4:41pm On Sep 26, 2016
ifyalways:
You as a father, able bodied could not go out to look for work to do, earn some money and provide food for them because there is Nld right? This is just so annoying, no thanks to folks that enable and encourage you guys.
Now this is the point. Whether his story is true or not is secondary. That an able bodied man will watch his children go hungry and the best thing he will think of doing is beg, is just disgusting.
FamilyRe: My Inlaws Giving Conditions. by InformedLola(f): 3:05pm On Sep 25, 2016
thorpido:
There's no issue here oga.
You knew she's a catholic from the beginning.Catholics prefer to wed in their churches and you need to go through the marriage requiremens too in the church.You should have been prepared for that.
I don't see any issue with an uncle sponsoring your fiance's education after marriage as long as he's not a sugar daddy.
The issue of not laying your hands on her should not even be a point.

Go ahead as long as you are sure of your fiancee's love and commitment.
He should not even go ahead. A man who takes such trivialities so serious would be a real pain in marriage when real issues come up.

So EngrWanted, do back down now. Save the poor girl a lot of future heart ache.
FamilyRe: Am I Guilty? by InformedLola(f): 3:43pm On Jul 31, 2016
Do NOT let anyone guilt trip you. That guy is an asshole who is just catching trips playing with your mind.

People can easily project themselves to be what they are not in the virtual world, so erase this personality you've built up in your mind. It doesn't exist.

A man who is truly interested in you will have met you already, at least. I bet he is married or in a very serious relationship and not ready to physically cheat on his partner. Stop letting some fool mindfck you already.
FamilyRe: . by InformedLola(f): 8:33am On Jul 19, 2016
Nairaland family section might not be where to get those you are looking for. Why not scout for email addresses of supply chain or marketing directors of beverage companies?

You can also post this on business section though.
WebmastersRe: Smart Web Why? by InformedLola(f): 7:38pm On Jul 11, 2016
Op the Phisherman. Smh. The moment you started I knew something wrong must have gone on in one of those sites for that to happen.
PoliticsRe: Nigeria has finished me!! by InformedLola(f): 11:13am On Jul 07, 2016
MaziOmenuko:
Na for harsh times na him talent dey come out oo. The most amazing talents are born out of hunger and survival instincts.

Me self don dey try nuture other talents, I don dey discover say I get small ability to control my dream, like say na script me dey write and act am at the same time.
Anytime hunger too wire me, I wash my plate and spoon, keep am under my pillow and sleep off. When I land for dream, food go show!

I come extend this my talent to robbing banks in the dream. I don rob almost all Nigerian banks even cbn for dream; the problem be say the money no dey gree follow me wake up.
I still dey work on perfecting this my skill. Who knows, one day I can be able to drag my stolen wealth from dream to my bed side.
Hope you are also perfecting this your comedy and writing skills. What you are looking for in sokoto is in your shokoto.
FamilyRe: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by InformedLola(f): 8:17am On Jun 26, 2016
Ladies, she asked for men's opinions though. Why not respect that and let the men answer? We don't have to force our opinion down people's throats always, even if it's correct.
FamilyRe: I Need Loan Or Sponsor For My IT Training In India by InformedLola(f):
Lol....joke of the century. 15m naira ko, 15m kobo ni. Is it by force to train if you don't have the money?




If you are looking for financial institutions to help go to banks or Google corporate money lenders. Is family section of Nairaland where to find them?
FamilyRe: . by InformedLola(f): 4:49am On Jun 24, 2016
OP, point is, majority of humans are unhappy. It's not about being married or unmarried.
FamilyRe: Betrayed By My Blood Sister And Fiance by InformedLola(f): 5:54am On Jun 22, 2016
Prettynerd, just read your Mar thread about your wayward sisters. If the one involved with your fiance is the 18 year old, that means she was only 15 when the incident occurred.

If this is correct, then your fiance is a rapist, pure and simple. This is statutory rape!! If this was a well structured country, we would have been talking about a court case here.

Please forgive the girl, she was a baby. She's still a baby in fact and needs strong guidance. Don't think twice about leaving that man.
FamilyRe: Betrayed By My Blood Sister And Fiance by InformedLola(f): 5:46am On Jun 22, 2016
Hmm prettynerd, your sister told you she had something to tell you about your husband to be and the first thing you did was ask him what happened? Why couldn't have heard her out first? She made the move to confess not him, but now you have given him the opportunity to dish out his own version which might be a half-truth.

You have been advised to hear your sister's version, please do that.

I know it's hard, but don't crucify her completely as you have already done because you think she's 'wayward'. Who knows if she was raped? Don't buy his story of she was all over him. She was still a teen when this happened, even if consensual, it was almost statutory rape.
FamilyRe: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage by InformedLola(f): 5:07am On Jun 22, 2016
If the maids are getting most of the suitors, who are those marrying the polished, pampered chics in droves every Saturday?

On a more serious note, this article is outdated, it was in the days of our fathers that men were more interested in hooking up homely women with so-called 'wifely' qualities. Now they are more interested in polished, presentable women that they can flaunt. You can't eat your cake and have it.

Be honest and ask yourself how many middleclass and upwardly mobile men do you know that are married to the so called maids or former maids? Very very few.
EducationRe: Pics- Female Corper's Post Goes Viral For All The Wrong Reasons by InformedLola(f): 9:15pm On Jun 20, 2016
Roon9:
She is correct dis time sir. It is actually corps, there is nothing like Corp regarding nysc.... d word carries s at all times
And a member of the Youth Service Corps is not referred to as a 'corps' but as a 'corps member'. She is not correct.
EducationRe: Pics- Female Corper's Post Goes Viral For All The Wrong Reasons by InformedLola(f): 8:11pm On Jun 18, 2016
Guess she will say 'corps' is a typo too.
FamilyRe: Do U Have An Experience With NAPTIP? by InformedLola(f): 10:52am On Jun 16, 2016
shewar:
My friend is in a very big trouble
Immigration went to her house last week to pick up her cotonou house help (an underage!), they saw signs of abuse, scars n marks from beating etc. She has been with them since.
She'll be transferred to NAPTIP by tomorrow.
Now am against what she did but as the saying goes....u can't throw a baby away with the bath water.
Am searching for information on how to help her in my own way. Is it likely she go to jail? How does this work? She's a widow with 2small kids, it'll be a nightmare if this ends badly. What steps can we take in rectifying this pls?
Tx in advance
I'm trying hard to feel sorry for your friend, but sorry I can't.

I hate child abuse, and the best way to stop it is to let people know there are consequences for it by punishing those found guilty.
FamilyRe: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by InformedLola(f): 5:56am On Jun 14, 2016
Op, your mum's attitude is what is called 'tough love'. She simply wants you to grow up, man up and start fending for yourself. Your parents have done more than enough to train you, now it's time you train yourself.

imagine being jealous of your brother getting stuff for school, didn't you get same in your own time? Stop being childish please.

You said your Mum complains a lot, I won't blame her. From the little you have exhibited here in narrating your story, you must act like a spoilt brat at home.

That said, it's not surprising your Mum is against your working in PH. It's not the safest place in the world and the fact it's not a job with a reputable company but a friend shows it might not be a reliable and 'clean' offer. Search for jobs in your state.

Really, you need to sit yourself down, talk to the man in the mirror and GROW up.
FamilyRe: 11-Year-Old Boy Maltreated By Stepmum: See The Highest Order Of Child Abuse by InformedLola(f): 12:43pm On Jun 11, 2016
Funjosh:
I don't want to believe this op story
Fact!

I gave up back in April when he went silent. I strongly suspect he brought this fake claim here to con people of money but got discouraged with the responses he got. Claiming the boy's step mum brutalised him and still saying his parents are in the village. So who is the step mum married to? Pathetic dumbass.

I really wish something can be done about people who come onto Nairaland with lies in order to rip people off of money.
CelebritiesRe: Prague College Student Studies JAYWON As Her Final Year Project by InformedLola(f): 1:23pm On Jun 09, 2016
Actually, she's his girlfriend. Or so she claims on her Instagram page. This project of hers is a bit silly if you ask me.
FamilyRe: I'm Married, But... Could This Be My Soulmate? by InformedLola(f): 8:52pm On Jun 06, 2016
You guys should stop letting this troll waste your time jare. The more you respond to him, the more you entertain him.
FamilyRe: I'm Married, But... Could This Be My Soulmate? by InformedLola(f): 10:15am On Jun 05, 2016
Op, where was your ring when you met the lady in question? Why didn't she notice it?

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