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FamilyRe: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by InformedLola(f): 7:53am On Feb 18, 2016
OP, let me ask you too...

1. Would you rather stay with an adulterous wife and face your life aspirations and kids instead of leaving her and marrying another woman that might be just as bad?
FamilyRe: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by InformedLola(f): 7:53pm On Feb 17, 2016
yemi16:
Yea she's got 3 sibling...all younger ones and i do my best to make them happy when i can...she cares for them also as every normal sister would..
Hmm so she helps her own siblings and doesn't want you to help yours? Just have a heart to heart talk with her on how selfish she's being... ask how how she would feel if you complain when she gives her siblings things or if you ask her to stop.
PoliticsRe: Ben Murray-Bruce Mocks Nigerian Youths by InformedLola(f): 4:54pm On Feb 14, 2016
First time the man is actually making sense to me; saying the truth despite knowing it will not be met well. He just needs to practice what he preached.

Nigerian youth, truth is bitter. Embrace what is yours no matter how paltry. Like the proverb says; only a bastard points at his father's house with his left hand.

#BuyNaijaToGrowTheNaira.
FamilyRe: Pampers Vs Napkin by InformedLola(f): 6:06pm On Feb 13, 2016
Onegai:
Get Grovia AIO, BumGenius, Alvababy, Flip. Flip is a 2 step system of cover and insert and you can reuse the cover all day till it gets pooped on. Just get their stay-dry inserts and some organic nighttime inserts and you're good to go. To use the nighttime insert the old school nappy way, get this fastener called a Snappi (either buy from Amazon or go to Shoprite at the Palms), clip the insert around the baby and wrap the cover around it. This way, no leaks unless diaper is full, which has happened 6 times in 8 months (we get leaks daily with our imported Huggies grin). I've put some pics of the Snappi, Grovia AIO diaper in green pattern, stay dry insert inside the diaper cover (lime colour) and organic nighttime insert beside it and how it goes on baby. HTH.

Cherrymum, I didn't buy mine here but I'm pretty sure they sell them in Nigeria (I'm sure the sellers will locate you very soon sef).
Thanks a bunch
FamilyRe: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by InformedLola(f): 5:26pm On Feb 13, 2016
RiffRaff:
Please don't ever come to Nigeria... Nigeria is a terrible place where nothing works, filled with terrible people waiting to take advantage of you.

You know that place in the bible called "Hell" where evil people go to? It is not a place you go when you die. It is a place right here on earth, it is Nigeria. You will regret it if you relocate, you might not even live to tell the story.

I wish you goodluck.
Please don't advise another based on your own frustrated situation. Why so much negativity? No country in the world without its flaws, and fine Nigeria has more than its fair share, but to term it hell? Maybe you need to truly experience 'hell' so that you can be more appreciative and thankful.

Would have said more, but another look at your moniker shows how negatively you rate even your own person, so I am no longer surprised you said these things about your country...
FamilyRe: Pampers Vs Napkin by InformedLola(f): 2:14pm On Feb 13, 2016
Onegai:
I'm sure they sell them in Nigeria but you can easily get them off Amazon. They're super cute, I have a whole stash of them and when they're dirty, I toss them into a wetbag until wash-day. No smells, no wahala, we use an organic diaper rash cream (you can either mix one easily or use plain coconut oil) and anyone who tells you they're unhygenic is being ignorant as they actually help better for rashes.
I love this. Please what brand is the best from your experience? Would like to order some from Amazon.
PetsRe: I Released 9 Dogs To Be Sold From The Cage by InformedLola(f): 5:51pm On Feb 12, 2016
OP, I hope someone who knows someone who knows someone that knows that dog-seller sees this thread and tells him you did it. You might think with Nairaland moniker they might never know who you are, but you will be shocked...

You committed a sin and a crime, best thing to do is find out the cost of those dogs and pay him back, with a confession and an explanation of why you did it.
FamilyRe: Please Help I'm Not In A Good State Of Mind by InformedLola(f): 11:10pm On Feb 07, 2016
princesca:
Ok I will think about the US thing and look for work here and start gradually from here till I'm back on my feet again thank you all
Yes please, get a job here fast. Don't rely on anything you might be getting through him, the more you do that the more you are dependent on him. Put the US plan on the side, if it materialises, fine, if it doesn't, fine. Most important thing for you to do now is get a source of income FAST, SAVE like mad and LEAVE the murderer the moment you have as much as you need to take care of yourself and the kids. Don't wait till you have millions or US visa. Will hate to see you become another tragic headline in the papers.

Please call the number I posted earlier. They would be able to counsel you better. Also Google other domestic violence organisations in Lagos. They could even talk to your husband and caution him.

Peace.
FamilyRe: How Do You Not Lose Faith? by InformedLola(f): 12:02pm On Feb 07, 2016
Take heart. May it be well with your little angel.
FamilyRe: Please Help I'm Not In A Good State Of Mind by InformedLola(f): 7:52pm On Feb 06, 2016
Your husband deserves to die; should I help you do it?


On a more serious note leave that animal (now, that's even an insult to animals) before he kills you. But make sure you report him to the authorities....call DSVRT on 112 or 08137960048; they provide help for domestic violence victims.
FamilyRe: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by InformedLola(f): 11:55am On Feb 06, 2016
Mister, it is natural for a lady to dream of being with a rich man. It is the way she's been programmed...that a man to provide for her. A girl when young dreams of a Prince sweeping her away and he's never broke. It's only when we grow up and reality sets in that we realise there is no Prince Charming out there and we learn to empower ourselves. Believe me, we don't need you to tell us to.

So many women out there are actually making a success out of their lives and not waiting on a man to enrich them. If you are not coming across such women, then you have to ask yourself why you are only surrounded by the wrong sort...
FamilyRe: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by InformedLola(f): 11:46am On Feb 06, 2016
Op, work hard and be successful at what you do then you would have no need to create such topics.

I don't think there is a sane man out there who doesn't pray to be able to provide fully for his wife no matter how financially okay she is.

Most women I know are actually quite hard-working but pray that their husband be more successful than they are. It's just natural.
FamilyRe: Help: Can Full Grown Use Baby Creams? by InformedLola(f): 11:30am On Feb 06, 2016
Yes its best for children up to 3. Even older children can use it and adults too. I would recommend Pears baby cream.
TravelRe: Is Change Of Name On International Passport Necessary? by InformedLola(op): 7:24pm On Feb 03, 2016
delishpot:
If you change your name on the other travel documents then yes.
You can wait till its due for renewal too. But if you will use it to identigf yourself as Mrs so so then you better let the name match.
You can not use a passport with miss apple to claim money sent to Mrs peach got it?
Thanks for your response. But just a little more clarity...If I apply for visa as Mrs. B and my passport carries Miss A. Will it be an issue?
CareerRe: Why I Refused To Confirm Four Trainees After Their Assessment Centre. by InformedLola(f): 7:13pm On Feb 03, 2016
Op, I hate to insult people on social media but I just have to say you are a buffoon who is just too full of himself. You refused to confirm those guys because of this simple bit of maths you posted? How is that equation a means of judging critical reasoning?

You are so myopic that you forget there are key leadership attributes that should be looked out for in addition to analytic thinking. And I must say it is probably because you lack those attributes yourself.
TravelIs Change Of Name On International Passport Necessary? by InformedLola(op): 6:57pm On Feb 03, 2016
@Justwise and others, your urgent response is needed please. I recently got married and want to change my surname to my husband's. Will it be necessary for me to also effect this name change on my 1 year old international passport?

Or can I just wait till when it is due for renewal?
EducationRe: First Class Graduate Who Can't Spell 'Distinction' by InformedLola(f): 6:50pm On Feb 03, 2016
But how can we be certain he truly came out with a First Class grade? Just because he said so? I seriously doubt it.
PoliticsRe: Udom's N1m Gift: Woman Dies During Stampede (photos) by InformedLola(f): 4:51pm On Feb 03, 2016
What money will cause
Nairaland GeneralRe: Guy Named Tofunmi Lies For Sex On Twitter? (pic) by InformedLola(op): 12:23pm On Feb 03, 2016
Nairaland GeneralGuy Named Tofunmi Lies For Sex On Twitter? (pic) by InformedLola(op): 12:22pm On Feb 03, 2016
So there is a gist burning like wild fire on twitter right now.

A certain popular tweep known as 'Tofunmi' was accused by a 'friend' of taking advantage of girls on Twitter (for sex and the like) by lying to them that he has a liver problem.

The 'friend' also linked Tofunmi to @SubDeliveryMan, stating it is one of his phony twitter accounts.

See picture for the gist...

PoliticsRe: Yoruba Obas Squatting To Snap With Buhari (Photo) by InformedLola(f): 7:53am On Feb 03, 2016
bloodyBLOGGER:
Those are not Kings but baales or chiefs. No King bows down to anyone; even a Prince doesn't.

Only fools will believe this false assertion by the OP. Ask yourself: why would Obas kneel down to take a picture with a president? Is it cos there were too many people posing for the shoot? Who were the people? Should that make Obas kneel down while some unidentified nonentities stood? Why did women stand in the picture while Obas knelt?


Answer: those weren't Obas(Kings) but mere chiefs or some overly dressed dudes.
Lalasticlala or Seun need to ensure the OP modifies his post. You can't just push information like this to front page without confirming it's authenticity. It will end up mis-informing people.
FamilyRe: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by InformedLola(f): 7:40am On Jan 29, 2016
Nkasiobi87:
hum, that's not what I want that's why I ask will a reasonable woman allow that.
Have you involved family members in this matter? That's better than involving a friend of his?
CelebritiesHilarious Pic On Kanye And Wiz Khalifa Battle by InformedLola(op): 9:24pm On Jan 28, 2016
If Wiz is Don Jazzy and Kanye is Olamide, this is how the dizz would go... grin https://www.instagram.com/p/BBGHbcAug0l/

FamilyRe: The Touching Story Of A Nairalander: Please Don't Ignore. by InformedLola(f): 3:58pm On Jan 28, 2016
ifyalways:
I thought I was the only one oo. You parents have companies you manage, are doing well YET you need someone to squat with?

I smell something "beefy". cheesy
grin
FamilyRe: The Touching Story Of A Nairalander: Please Don't Ignore. by InformedLola(f): 3:35pm On Jan 28, 2016
This story no be here. OP you have been running your parents company yet you don't have enough saved to move out and get an apartment of your own?

You are a law graduate but yet to go to bar yet you are not saying anything about doing that?

To get a job is not something you need to come to nairaland to beg for help for. You said you are interested in tourism, well there are many travel agencies out there that you can easily apply to.

I smell something fishy...
FamilyRe: The Touching Story Of A Nairalander: Please Don't Ignore. by InformedLola(f): 12:32pm On Jan 28, 2016
grin
EntertainmentRe: Sony Music Entertainment Confirms Deal With Davido, See Details Here by InformedLola(f): 12:25pm On Jan 28, 2016
Hmm...The press release looks somehow.

Mind you, I am not saying David wasn't signed by Sony.
CelebritiesOAP Gbemi Uploads New Pic With Toolz And Fiance by InformedLola(op): 9:44am On Jan 28, 2016
Wonder if Gbemi is trying to keep the fire of controversy blazing....

Nairaland GeneralRe: Husband Scarcity: Women Fighting In Public Over A Man (photos) by InformedLola(f): 4:58pm On Jan 27, 2016
And you too just stood and watched too, preferring to snap pictures than suggest they should be separated.
Savagery.
CelebritiesCan You Guess Who This Artiste Is? (PIC) by InformedLola(op): 12:49pm On Jan 27, 2016
Who's she?

CrimeRe: Girl Throws Away Her New Born Baby From 2-storey Building In Enugu by InformedLola(f): 9:50am On Jan 27, 2016
Pic?
CrimeRe: Little Boy's Eyes Plucked Out In Zaria (graphic Photo) by InformedLola(f): 9:47am On Jan 27, 2016
Oh my God, I really really wish this is photoshop embarassed

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