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Hotie Tima:
Inked_Nerd huni how many darlings do u have here man make up your mind

OAM4J:
may be it's me



hi Inked_Nerd How was your day?

Hotie Tima:
huni your boyfriend was looking for u i promise him that i will let u know once u got here
my brother like's

rokiatu:
MICHEAL BLACKSON SAID THE SAME THING.

That was the brightest in his village.

see how dark he look


P.S This is just a joke, he said this in a comedy show.

MRBrownJ:
Oh boy, I saw a video a few days ago on NAF about a guy who caught his gf cheating. So he had her, and the guy she was cheating with, have more sex while he videotaped it and then uploaded it online. The jilted BF was with a friend of his who had a cutlass so the cheaters jejely did what the "director of the movie" asked them to do (even spreading her leg to the camera).
The poor cheating guy was BEGGING for his life the WHOLE time.BWAAAAAAH PRICELESS. . . . .
ONLY IN 9JA!!!!

Here is the link to watch(or download) the vid and crack your ribs:
http://www./video/334442-937656791e.html

MRBrownJ:
H o t s h a r e . N E T (between the www. And the /)

Somaliland:
Thank you sis. It was worth telling the story even if you are the only person interested in it, thats all worth it.

Facebook I don't have it.

Also Puntland have sort of achieved that goal anyway. This year for the first time in 20 years Peaceful Somaliland that has avoided any clan fighting, had its first one because of Puntland but luckily it ended with a ceasefire but its a catch 22 situation we may have lost that land but we still have out army base there but we sort of need that land for recognition.

Of you want to talk more about somaliland, I could email you I have gmail for more info and questions you may have.

I would be pleased to tell you.

fork adict:
You are only reiterating what Sandra said in her miserable post. LOVE IS NOT EQUAL TO SHOWERING GIFTS, FOOD AND MONEY ON LADIES. Once in a while, i guess its ok to give a chic gifts and or money. But showering gifts and money on a chic? Hell NO.  Most naija chics expect guys to shower all these on them and that is where the forking problem lies. That is extortion gotdamnit. Whatever happened to unconditional love??

Let me even tell you a story of one of a friend's sister. While she was in the university, a senior colleague of mine tried to woo her while they both were still in the university. she turned him down. What i do not know for sure is how many times this guy tried to woo her. But after graduating, the guy fortunately got a job with Schlumberger. He went back to woo this same chic and she agreed to date him. They later got married. Why do you think she didn't turn him down after he got a job with Schlum?? This is my point and that of most guys on this thread. How many naija chics accept guys based strictly on natural feelings they have for the guy? Those who do initially will still end up taxing the guy later on in the relationship and God bless the poor guy if he cant cope with her demands. That's when she'll start accusing him of not being able to take care of a lady.

Let me even ask you this question and i hope you answer me. If it's a guy's responsibility in a relationship to shower gifts and food and money on a chic. What then is the chic's responsibilty Anxiously waiting for your response

Kingsleyinfo:
hmnn after about 20 posts we finally see a lady trying to stand up for the women.

firstly on my posts i use the words (some, most,). i even mentioned that i got one of the few good ones so don't give me that generalizations bullshit
all that one na grammer.

Secondly, if it were to be a thread about gender equality, or who cheats the most, this thread would have been flooded with so many ladies trying to prove their point.
that is why i said on the very post you highlighted, ladies should defend themselves, they should help us understand why they are like that, but for where dem don run far,

Men give gifts to show they care,
women demand gifts to show they are greedy,
and most annoying is when they make it a criteria for going into a relationship, it just shows how much self worth they have.

i once asked a girl out, back in my secondary school days, and after she accepted, she later changed her mind on the advice of her friend who
thought i could not care for her,
today the friend that gave her that advice was decieved by a driver who posed to be a shell staff, using his masters house and cars, he successfully got her pregnant before she realised,
today both of them can't look at me in the eye, that is what i am talking about.
our ladies see relationship as a process where the end game is money,  

me i have said my own. any lady that has a point to prove should come here and air her thoughts so we can know what she is made of
as they say out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.
they can't contribute for fear they will give themselves away,

I doff my heart for all those nigerian ladies who really know their onions, as for the 97% vain women of all ages
may they find what they are looking for and much more that they bargained for.

irresponsible she goats.

aribisala0:
i believe if you are a bit thoughtful you can telll what people are about by reading their posts not what they say but what is left unsaid. this is ,unerringly, quite loud

bhusayor:
You guys just keep lamenting everywhere as if some guys dont share the blame as well

You complain bitterly about girls being golddiggers, yet you keep spending on them

Why dont you create a thread to address your fellow men to be more reasonable

Most men are ready to spend their savings on  babes just to impress them and get them to date them

If you started this way, What then do you expect from the relationship. The same set of people whinning over the place are guilty of this!

BTW, why must you always go to materialistic/ 'sophisticated' babes when we have a lot of non materialistic and responsible  ones out there

*and dont you tell me we dont have the latter cos i knw a whole lot of them  

190:
NEWEST GOLD DIGGER IN TOWN!!  

Amya:
No seriously, when will this Nigerian women bashing thread stop? Sometimes there are two or three of these threads running concurrently!


Now, to the topic. . . . The typical Nigerian male sees himself as an alpha male. Ego comes into play. They wouldn't want to settle with  with a self sufficient woman, age and the fear of losing respect make them run to those ladies that are dependent. Having someone who depend on them unconciously make them feel the hero.

There are so many beautiful independent women out there that believe in footing their bills and tabs, but our nigerian men happen to not-be-attracted to them.

So, there it is guys, you can't eat your cake and have it!

bhusayor:
Seriously the rate at which guys lament about this issue is sickening  

Hardly would a day go without this topic

Some dont even have the 'Gold' yet they complain  

Keep your money to yourselves, na by force to spend  

Mcleo007:
@bhusayor, u dont have to blame the guys. There's tough economic recession, meaning that times are very hard, yet the girls wont understand. I personally dont have a GD (GOLD DIGGER) of a gf; cos i dont role with lame chicks, but then, a couple of friends of mine have fallen prey of these 'giraffes', and its quite saddening.

cold:
Information overload.So where's Puntland in all of this

Somaliland:
Thank you sister please do and try to find out things even I don't know   Your really nice thanks for the compliments.

Ok you asked me a very very difficult question. There is no correct answer, but if I am 100% honest Somali. I will always be somali my ancesters are somali all greater somalia(Please research this too, somaliland is not the only sufferer) Greater somalia is not only the Somalia of today. It includes: Ogaden a part of somalia that has always been part of Somalia but to weaken us the British made colonial borders and gave a HUGE HUGE chunk of somalia to Ethiopia then called it the ogaden region which is the name of 1 tribe of people who live there yes the majority but its not solely there land this smartly lead to others living in that area to say you fight Ethiopia for that land we have nothing to do with you. Thus causing tensions betweens tribes, very smart the british.

They also gave another section of somalia in 1886 to Kenya, called NFD again a solely somali area 100% somali but former somali land. And Djibouti former french somaliland used to be 100% somali but the french bastardised them and taught them French told them be with us, then throw about another tribe and brought in another Somali tribe to the area thus making them loyal to them very smart. Then to save there asses they brought a east african tribe non-somali one into the area as back up incase somalis come back and try to take the land back.

So taking into account my history and language which is called somali therefore I am Somali.

But if Somaliland becomes recognized then I am a Somalilander.

Somaliland:
Puntland is a B***h that acts like it is part of Somalia but really only cares about itself and its one tribe. It fights over parts of Somaliland borders, give smaller tribes in Somaliland weapons so they fight and ruin somaliland so they can take over the disputed land.

Basically Puntland was created to make Somaliland destabilized and like south Somalia always in war.

Somaliland:
I was 7 but I got back every 1-2 years. Yes please do research.

Even I find it unusual why we have not been internationally. Please spread the name sister, I'm sick and tired of us not being recognized even South sudan was with no borders and real government.

Remember though brother and sister Somalia was never just one country just like other african countries. Every tribe had a town and area, then every area had a emperior/leader who ruled that land. North somalia had one and South somalia had another. It was never 1 country. Then the british came and made Somaliland a Protectorate not a colony but a Protectorate and South Somalia had Italy.

Then we ousted them in 1960 and Somaliland was a country for 7 days then we decided for the first time in history to make a country and we did. But 1 corrupt, silly, greedy president who only helped his clan and killed other clans ruined the country. A war with ETHIOPIA in 1977 that we won then he got greedy and almost invaded the whole country made Yemen, Cuba, Ethiopian army, Soviet union as well as others fight against somalia then we lost our original land. Destroyed the whole economy a war ensued for the oppressed people. North somalia won.

Now we are here.

Somaliland:
No problem sister   I was born there and lived there for a number of years but am currently in UK.

Yes its a great country it was liberated by Mujahidiids, called SNM. They fought the entire country of Somalia and the entire army. It was a war for 3000 men with poor weapons and no tanks and aircrafs against a superior army of over 30,000 with tanks, soviet and american weapons as well as huge aircrafts.

Thank god we took over one town Burco stole there weapons and used it against them. Then fought in the mountains and took over all of North-east Somalia and renamed it Somaliland after the former protectorate British Somaliland(before 1960 we had no history with Somalia). Yes now we are a country independent have nothing to do with somalia.

But we are not internationally recognised. Yet we still strive work hard, have a democratic government shock in Africa. A bank our own money, everything. You name it we got it sister. Its very very interesting our story.