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Condom:
What is he? Her punching bag?

LOL LOL, good point

You really need to sit down and talk to her because this could be problematic in the future. Tell her how you feel, if you feel that she can't be trusted then perhaps its best for you two to go your separate ways.

^^^ Ummmm, that's a bit excessive.

lol, no he doesn't.

No I wasn't kidding and thank you for vouching for me davidylan

onstelly:
It very obvious that you are just sexually attracted to the ghanian girl, but u should hv resist it cos that why we have what is called self control, but all the same you have to find a way to stop seeing her before things get out of proportion.

He doesn't necessarily need to pick one over the other. If they all agree to an open relationship, which I doubt would happen then there'd be no need to all of this deceit. But since he is lying to himself and the woman he "loves" and he's started that he wants to be with the Nigerian girl then, he should probably choose. Its interesting though, genetically speaking, human beings weren't designed to be with just one person, it just doesn't exist in nature. The idea of being with someone is a man made creature.

No offense but how can you say you love this other girl [the Nigerian one] when you keep doing this behind her back? Personally, I think your making an excuse for your actions by saying that a man will cheat and double dip before he gets married. I have males cousins who I look up to and respect very much and I know for a fact that they have never cheated on a girl nor would they make such an excuse, despite the fact that I have seen numerous girls throw themselves at them. In the end your gonna end up hurting that young lady that you say you "love".