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Britishpea:
There is no specific rule towards life. People try to be meticulous and save to invest only to find the investment a bad one.

People save to buy lands even with thorough investigations and still get to buy lands under govt acquisition.

Everyone has an unseen hand directing his or her existence.

We have seen people who count even count money and yet make millions.
And we have seen a prof who knows it all but still struggling and can’t build more than a bungalow.

Could you speak more about this please?

PhillipPHD:
Thanks man. My brand is thick and light skinned. You can get me one, I don’t mind

Hahaa. Noted bro

PhillipPHD:
If she asks, tell her you met her atWhat’s up? Would you buy me a nack?

Thanks buddy. You can delete now.

What’s your brand lol.

Martinez39s:
Drug addiction is another big destiny derailer.

Absolutely. It’s up there with women.

Funny thing with women is, it doesn't even have to be an evil girl before you get side tracked. Even a good girl can derail you off your path as much as an evil woman will.

The roller coaster of emotions, time wastage, resources wastage, etc are the building blocks of a successful life but it’s thesame ingredients needed to be successful with women. That’s why most times, something has to give.

I’ve said this before, sexual energy makes men fearless. A Hot man will brave going out in the dark or to dangerous places or spend their last card or take all sorts of risks just to get laid. If we remove sex from the equation, that bravery is usually automatically transmuted into other areas of life. You will walk into offices and not be afraid, you will cold approach bosses in a bid to get ahead (same way we cold approach woman), you will take risks just to be successful.

On the flip side, if you constantly dispell this energy (testosterone) via sexual excesses, what’s left is a timid, lethargic being who is just coasting through life.

Zabiboy:
It's of no use to me bro

Yup. People need to realise that the following are top derailers of destiny:

1. Women
2. Alchoholism
3. Masturbation and sex addiction
4. Gambling

Etc.

The part of the brain that controls these things is same place where creative energy comes from and it’s such that you can’t be addicted to them and function optimally. Something has to give.

Zabiboy:
If the "Then" here means 80%-100%, the quoted above IN MY OPINION is wrong..
I really dont want to go in a long details, But Humans change.. There are some things you cant control/ have less control over and such things you shouldn't give 2 fvcks about..
I'll end with one simple example..
I personally dont ask girls for number, but on many occasions, my guys tell me how they met a chick, vibed well, collected number and then when they got home, they just weren't feeling it anymore. It had nothing to do with the girl.

Once again, Humans and their minds are constantly changing.

Why dont you ask girls for number?

Invr

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Lol @ LifestyleTonite that’s Harvey from suits and not Gabriel.

Regarding making it before chasing girls, it’s only when you have nothing that you can find genuine love/interest. You don’t want to be the guy who is only desired because he is doing well. You would just be fulfilling someone’s mating strategy.

The richer i get, the less likely I’d deal with women. Same way, the better dressed i am, the less likely it is for me to approach women.

I guess i hate to be someone’s catch.

Pukkalolo:
As a guy, It doesn't matter whether you get sex or not. What matter is that you never accept being DISRESPECTED.

Stay blessed.

Wow, your submisison was soo beautifully written. Well done and thanks so much! You gained a new follower.

You, kipaji, Jeshal and a handfull of others are why i visit this thread

Hey guys. I have an idea. I was thinking it maybe abit burdensome to expect Caveadullam to continue to drope daily doses. What if we rotate it amongst each other? Eg week 1 could be Ubunja, then week 2 Jeshal etc unless of course cave who has done a fantastic job so far does not mind continuing while others chip in as is the current practice

Badboibipo:
I can bet you it is not, I intentionally stop and watch if anyone will stare sometimes and it’s like you’re invisible. I even take off my shirt , make a funny face and nothing. And On other days I won’t even need to do anything weird and it’s like everyone is looking at Jesus Christ in person or they have seen a ghost. I actually ask many “please why are you looking at me they quickly turn away and start smiling with no Answer “ other days I can come out with boxers and people will rather die than look at me.

I feel the universe has a way of manipulating people to get reactions out of you. This world is too deep, I’m extremely observant if not I won’t even notice like 99 percent of people

Yes.

It happens to me as well and I don’t think it’s a physical concept. It’s deeper.

I have even noticed that sometimes, animals, kids and little babies are attracted to me.

I heard that one of the ways to test if you’re pure is if little babies keep looking at you.

In my experience, there are certain things that amplifies the look from people:

1. Abstinence from sex for a long time
2. Good deeds you’ve done in secret
3. Fasting
4. Pure thoughts

There are also things which if i do in secret, i notice i start to repel people. E.g

1. Masturbation
2. Sex with prostitutes
3. Anger or malice or jealousy in my heart
4. Low self esteem ( people can somehow tell)

We are electromagnetic beings and people can sense our energy. That’s why you can dislike someone immediately they walk into a room and before even saying a word.

I like what you said about the universe being able to manipulate people for or against you. That’s what the law of attraction is about. People respond to you based on what you think. They can somehow hear your thoughts in the spirit realm. Remember the bible even says “ As a man thinketh, so he is”. That verse is deeper than meets the eyes.

Another thing that drives me crazy is that some days, i see people come and go. I’d explain. I may be living my house in the morning in a bus and see a random stranger going somewhere. Hours later when I’m returning, i might see the exact person leaving that place. I start to wonder, how come our schedules are intertwined with each other? How come they are leaving at the exact same time I’m returning? Why did i notice them? I had heard this is called synchronicity.

Donot despair, i think it goes to show you are a spiritual and gifted being. Pay very close attention to the things you do before the stares, i dont mean nice clothes etc. I mean acts or deeds.

Also, be kind to those staring. They can’t help themselves and if you notice, sometimes when you stare back, it’s like something shakes them back to reality and they quickly remove their eyes. If you approach them to ask why they were staring, they may not even know they were staring and they may swear they weren’t.

cococandy:
you may think that makes sense but it doesn’t.
Because even if the qualities you described applies to you, doesn’t mean that a woman who it applies to will want to have sex with you just because you said so.

Same with a lady. Even if she has a million qualities m and decides she just wants a man with same million qualities to play around with, she can’t be conceited enough to think they’ll come running.

Again I ask. What’s she’s getting from it? If you are what you seek, that means she already has all those things you have. So then your sex without commitment is the prize?

1. I’m not a conceited person in real life atall even though i admit that my post may sound like it.

2. You asked about what’s in it for her? The answer is, Me. I honestly think I’m a big value add. Also, remember i said this isn’t transactional. The ideal person would be someone who had at some point, thought about the exact same thing i posted. The wrong person would be someone that needs any form of convincing.

3. Regarding exclusivity, I honestly don’t care about that.

4. Regarding sex, I’m not even a freak. Chances are that this person would even be the one to initiate as has happened numerously in times past.

5. All of the criteria i listed does not make a person special atall. I regret having to list them but that’s just who i want. You could work the best job or be a millionaire but what makes us all humans is freely given and no one is superior to another.

6. To the guys that sound like I’m asking for the world, I’ve worked in the best companies globally and i can tell you for free that the guys and ladies that work there are regular people. Some even have low self esteem.

7. When i say i need someone that lives on the island, it’s just for proximity sake and nothing else. When i say they have to work a blue chip job, it’s just because I don’t want someone who would attempt to use me as a come up. There’s no ulterior motive

8. I don’t consider sex as a favour that one party does to another

cococandy:
All this requirement to get what in return?

Your peniis?

I AM what i seek.

RightToReject:
It's amusing and a sign of unawareness how some of you think that it will be a herculean task for the OP to find a lady working for a bluechip or multinational company as a causal sex mate, especially if he is doing well for himself and carries commanding and attractive aura like some of us. The problem is that most of you are always quick to see others in your little world, thereby projecting your inadequacies on them.

Professional positional standing does not automatically negate ethical disposition.

Thanks alot for this!

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