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Family / Re: Amazing Things Every Introvert Wants You To Know by Introvertediary(f): 9:36am On May 13, 2020
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Na una problem be that.....

If you feel there's a distinctive difference between introverts and extroverts, you need to check out this amazing article on why everyone is introverted, including you.

https://diaryofanintrovertng.com/2019/09/13/everyone-is-introverted/
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Introvertediary(f): 9:35am On May 13, 2020
If you feel there's a distinctive difference between introverts and extroverts, you need to check out this amazing article on why everyone is introverted.

https://diaryofanintrovertng.com/2019/09/13/everyone-is-introverted/
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Introvertediary(f): 12:22pm On May 12, 2020
Hi everyone,

I am an introvert like you everyone here, and I need some help trying to get my blog out there.

I would be extremely grateful if you all could check out my blog and tell me your thoughts and opinions.

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Many thanks!

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Family / Amazing Things All Introverts Want You To Know by Introvertediary(f): 12:08pm On May 12, 2020
There have been several misconceptions about introverts and introversion. The lack of words in a conversation creates enough room for impressions.

Nevertheless, understanding introverts will help promote a socially balanced world, where everyone can embrace the beauty they hold within.

Introverts can be described as mystery books that need special keys to unlock. However, the outside impression may override the person’s drive to look within.

But those that are willing to search out the key to unlock the book, will be mesmerized by the adventures they find.

In like manner, this article will disclose some of the keys to understanding introverts better, with 6 things every introvert wants you to know about them.

1. We don’t hate conversations, we simply dislike small talks

Many people often ask why introverts don’t talk.
The answer to this question is commonly misconstrued. Some simply indicate that perhaps introverts don’t know what to say. Nevertheless, the truth behind every introvert’s quietness, is the major dislike for small talks.
Small talks can be best explained as informal chitchats, which usually occur at social gatherings. These are conversations that revolve around abstract or surface topics, without any concentric balance.

“How’s the weather?”
“What did you have for breakfast?”
“Tell me everything about yourself.”

Every introverts perceives small talks as uneventful topics that would cost a lot of emotional energy to pour out.

Many people have noted that if you want to get an introvert’s attention, talk about deep insightful topics. Then again, it depends on what your introvert likes to talk about or what matters to them. If you happen to matter to them, believe me when I say they will be completely engrossed in any conversation you bring up.

So instead of trying to communicate with an introvert with casual topics, focus on connecting deeply. All introverts crave meaningful relationships, and would invest all their emotional energy to keep one.

Keep Reading
https://diaryofanintrovertng.com/2020/05/12/things-introvert-wants-you-to-know/

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Family / Amazing Things Every Introvert Wants You To Know by Introvertediary(f): 11:23am On May 12, 2020
There have been several misconceptions about introverts and introversion. The lack of words in a conversation creates enough room for impressions.

Nevertheless, understanding introverts will help promote a socially balanced world, where everyone can embrace the beauty they hold within.

Introverts can be described as mystery books that need special keys to unlock. However, the outside impression may override the person’s drive to look within.

But those that are willing to search out the key to unlock the book, will be mesmerized by the adventures they find.

In like manner, this article will disclose some of the keys to understanding introverts better, with 6 things every introvert wants you to know about them.

1. We don’t hate conversations, we simply dislike small talks

Many people often ask why introverts don’t talk.
The answer to this question is commonly misconstrued. Some simply indicate that perhaps introverts don’t know what to say. Nevertheless, the truth behind every introvert’s quietness, is the major dislike for small talks.
Small talks can be best explained as informal chitchats, which usually occur at social gatherings. These are conversations that revolve around abstract or surface topics, without any concentric balance.
“How’s the weather?”
“What did you have for breakfast?”
“Tell me everything about yourself.”

Every introverts perceives small talks as uneventful topics that would cost a lot of emotional energy to pour out.
Many people have noted that if you want to get an introvert’s attention, talk about deep insightful topics. Then again, it depends on what your introvert likes to talk about or what matters to them. If you happen to matter to them, believe me when I say they will be completely engrossed in any conversation you bring up.
So instead of trying to communicate with an introvert with casual topics, focus on connecting deeply. All introverts crave meaningful relationships, and would invest all their emotional energy to keep one.

Keep Reading
https://diaryofanintrovertng.com/2020/05/12/things-introvert-wants-you-to-know/

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Family / How To Win Every Argument by Introvertediary(f): 6:03pm On May 05, 2020
She stared blankly as she heard those words.

She knew the statements were wrong, but she had no clue how to counterbalance them.

Every literary knowledge she had seemed to evaporate at that dire point of need.

In reality, her and several millions of people around the globe faced the same dilemma; accompanied with a sudden influx of words moments later that would have perfectly suited the situation.

More often than none, the subject of 21st century skills brings light to the need to develop several social skills to suit the changing times.

This is essential for the corporate world, but majorly, it’s also important for everyday living. From communication to collaboration, critical thinking and creativity, there’s a whole lot to learn.

Relating this to winning arguments, in most cases, it’s important to have your stance in an argument. Nonetheless, the meaning of the word argument has been farfetched and misinterpreted for decades.

This is why it’s essential to elaborate on what winning an argument really is.

Continue reading... https://diaryofanintrovertng.com/2020/05/05/win-every-argument/
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Introvertediary(f): 4:14am On Apr 29, 2020
There are many speculations about introverts and people tend to misinterpret the essence and beauty of it.

It should be embraced, not ridiculed, which is why www.diaryofanintrovertng.com is dedicated to all the introverts out there, struggling to find their place in a world that won't stop talking.

You may want to start with this superb article on Reasons Why Everyone Is Introverted - https://diaryofanintrovertng.com/2019/09/13/everyone-is-introverted/

While you're at it, there are other amazing articles on lifestyle, relationships, people and society, certain to have you glued to your mobile devices.
Romance / Secrets To Never Get Heartbroken by Introvertediary(f): 8:00am On Apr 28, 2020
Be it self-love, loving others, or loving someone special, love in general comes off as a puzzle.

There are many books and theories written on the subject of love, but no one really has it all figured out.

This undoubtedly creates room for further discoveries. If you’ve ever felt what’s called a heartbreak from certain situations you felt you could have handled better, then this article is for you.

And we know everybody loves secrets – not just the make-belief stories or the gossips, but an iota of the unknown waiting to be explored.

Thus, here’s 3 Secrets to Love Perfectly and Never Get Heartbroken.



The First Secret: It’s All in Your Head

Whether it’s loving yourself or loving someone else, the first thing to realize is there’s a lot of brain activity going on under the radar.

Wearing a new shirt, getting a new haircut, love at first sight – the feelings you feel at that point in time, well, it’s all in your head.

The brain undoubtedly has a mind of its own and is delighted at a selection of thrilling things, most of which we often mistake for our personal reactions.

When those set of scenarios take place, chemicals are released in the brain, and we’re exhilarated in the moment. This phase continues until we find ourselves constantly enveloped in the thoughts of what we call our primary source of joy at the moment.

Sadly, this phase lasts only for a while.
The first secret to know about love is that it doesn’t end at the peak of our feelings, which most people often dwell on. There’s much more to that, and acknowledging this is the first step to emotional freedom.

Continue reading this article here https://diaryofanintrovertng.com/2020/02/14/secrets-to-love-perfectly/
Nairaland / General / Re: Signs Of A Toxic Friendship by Introvertediary(f): 7:54am On Apr 28, 2020
Please read till the end, my apologies
Nairaland / General / Signs Of A Toxic Friendship by Introvertediary(f): 10:49pm On Apr 27, 2020
Have you ever felt the vibe between you and someone changing?

Being around that person tends to spur up certain uncomfortable emotions, and you feel you simply cannot trust that person anymore?

There’s a big possibility you have a toxic friend.

In this article, we will briefly discuss the definition of a toxic friend, and the warning signs that your friend is one.

Who is a Toxic Friend?

A toxic friend is someone that doesn’t entirely have your best interests at heart, particularly not as much as you do.

Most times, it’s not the worst case scenario of someone trying to physically harm you; it could simply be someone ranking you less than you do in your friendship.

The bars are outweighed and you start to feel he/she isn’t emotionally invested in the friendship. Nevertheless, he/she seems to be present to get updates or when in need.

You can spot a toxic friendship when someone is obviously giving you a lot of drama, fighting, lying, and etcetera – but what about the sneaky ones that need extra investigation.

These common signs will help you decipher even the most surreptitious friends; and tell you when you’re in a toxic relationship.

Continue reading this article on https://diaryofanintrovertng.com/2020/04/27/warning-signs-of-toxic-friendship/
Romance / 4 Signs You're In Love With Him/her by Introvertediary(f): 5:12am On Apr 26, 2020
Love is a beautiful feeling that consumes a substantial part of our lives. We often find ourselves exhibiting a variety of behaviors that seem inexplicable in the time being. Enveloped with emotions, most times, it’s difficult to say if we’re indeed in love or fixated on the idea of it. Nevertheless, this article takes you through a brief journey of what it’s like to be in love, and how to tell when you are in love.

1) Deep Thinking

If you find yourself enveloped in deep thoughts for numerous hours in a day, then this irrefutably shows you’re in love. Researches dictate that people in love find it extremely difficult to take their beloved off their minds. They enter a stage of fixation, enumerating on all the features of that person, or the time spent together. This can also be referred to as daydreaming. It's been said that people in love enter this deep stage of thinking as a means of escape, especially if their beloved isn’t presently with them. It’s psychologically referred to as going to a happy place.


2) Staying Positive

Staying positive is another common feature people in love display. You tend to remain optimistic about the future, and paint a positive picture of what life would be like with that person. Despite the present state not presenting viable avenues for the dreams to actualize, people in love create optimistic fantasies in their minds. Though many may refer to this as the honeymoon stage of love, if you are already having constant hope that you and your beloved will have a bliss future, then you are indeed in love.


3) Swing of Emotions

Despite staying positive about the future, individuals in love tend to experience a vast number of other emotions as well. Most times, anxiety comes into play when there’s a viable reason to dispute or counter the positive scenarios painted in the mind. In addition, emotions like exhilaration, elation, joy, as well as restlessness, frustration, and despair can come into play. Researches have shown that individuals in love exhibit an influx of emotions synonymous to drug intake. Other notions dictate that these emotions occur because the heart lingers on the actions of their beloved, causing a significant change in behavior over a period of time.


4) Making Efforts

There’s a significant difference between wanting someone and doing anything to ensure that person stays. More times than less, the latter is a clear indication of being in love. People in love reach a stage where they simply dread the thought of losing their love, and thus, put in the extra effort to make things work. This subjectively counters the phrase, “If you love something, let it go,” because countless researches have enumerated that the human nature is indeed selfish. This goes to show that things people love are sheltered in the deepest parts of their heart, even if it’s just the memories. Thus, when you’re in love, you will find it hard to give up the one you love.


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