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My father is a conservative man. He believed that his wife should not work, her duty was the house. Cook, clean, take of the children. He never allowed my mom to have a job or start a business of her because of his insecurities. The old man believed that he could take care of everyone till he died.

Now, he's facing financial crisis, things are not going smoothly like before. He can't pay school fees. He doesn't say it but we know he wished my mom had a stable source of income. At least she would take half of the responsibilities.

I know multiple families that this things have happened to. Where the man wants to be the bread winner of the family.

It's important for a woman to be financially stable or have a good source of income, especially in marriage o.

All the men saying they don't need their women to work or wants housewives, in the long run it's going to choke you o

Dorlarphor10:
Name of the church?

House of Disciples Network. It's located in Benin

Yeah it changes one character, if it's a good church. I mean a church that's not judgemental. Not those assistant Jesus church o. The church I'm attending at the moment changed my perspective about God. Made me a new person. Now I'm at my peace with myself.

The good sides yes, you see bad sides of me NEVER. I need someone that is calm and quiet. Because I be craze person, so I need someone to calm me down. I need a ying to my yang

People like me that our earpiece is always in our ear. If I'm not watching a movie, I'm listening to music. Like I don't talk to anybody till I get to my destination.

Focusing on myself and my mental health. Cutting some family members out of my life