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andromida: Well you have given him time and he is not interested in making you happy. He is still searching and you are his back girl just in case he does not find what he truly wants.

From this second on consider him a friend only and start dating other guys. Your heart and body must be out of his reach.

Believe in yourself and this is the truth there are men who will be happy to make you wifey and you will be happy to have them as husband as well but you need to remove yourself from the backup plan and open your heart.

Thank you a lot...

andromida: Just start dating those other guys who are asking you out. Don't hide it from him and if he asks you, tell him you don't know what you guys are doing, you'd like to get married to someone who wants same and you just don't want to put any pressure on him.

He is not your husband,has no claims on you and seems uninterested in claiming you,you don't need his permission to do what is right for YOU.

Don't let him waste your time waiting for him to choose you when you may not be his "the one".

Nairaland is back.

I have once told him that there are some people asking for my hand in marriage, and all he did was reacted bad and ask me to give him time. But that was december last year, we had a little argument, he told me that am treatning him with marriage with other guys.

I am 29yrs old and working with one of the telecoms company. i have been in a relationship with him over one yr and 7months now. he is so caring, adoring and also has a kind heart, always there when i need him financially and otherwise, he spent most of his free time with me and so do I, in several ocation i his mum has met me in his house but he has not for once introduce me to her. Buth He has never discussed anything like future with me and i have in more than four times ask him to define the relationship to enable me know my stand, if there is tomorrow or not, each time i ask, he always tell me he knows what he is doing, and also because of this i havent been able to open up for another relationship because i hate double dating.
Meanwhile i Have this two guys, one my girl friend introduced him to me for marriage, the other met me in the office, and all along he has been talking of marriage over 8months now. The pressure from home also is much together with this guys who wants me to date/court them. And of recent wen i ask him on same issue what exactly we are doing. "He told me a story of a man who went to the market to buy ugba, reaching to the market he saw 10 people selling the ugba, the man tested from the first seller to the last seller and found out that it has same taste, and bacame confuse. that who do i think the man will buy the ugba from". He ask me to sleep over it. And has never answered me over a week now.
I love this guy and dont know what to do.

Your kind advise will help tremendiously.

thanks.

benedictac: this telemumu na wa for them oh. all the love birds went to prison.
1. Rosa went for what she did not do - the same for Jose
2. Lola and Andrea the same
3. Pilar went for what she did and same for Iyaki
must they all go to prison?

Lorenzo too is in prison for crime he didn't commit.

He is indeed such a scumbag. I am beginning to hate him.

on yesterdays episode,angel told lola that he saw andrea in dianas house, lola went there waited till morning to confirm if its true, angel pleaded wit L bt she rfuse insisting dat she she wants to look in andreas eyes and see how he will react on betraying her by sleeping wit diana. diana in her room with andrea, she looking at A and say dat she has finally goten A to herself, Andre woke up n rushed to shower, Diana came to shower wit him naked, after giving him swt talk dey started king, shortly d came down and lola saw both of dem, lola started giving andrea wot she is good at, and andrea accept d fact dat he slep wit diana, lola cried n hurried to her house. camilo came to meet lola at home and saw adela with isabella, he played with her for a while adela told him how lola went to see andrea in dianas house that it must have been happening now over ther, little while camelos phone rang n it was andrea, he ask camelo to come to his house, as he(C) was leaving d house, lola came in crying and took her daughter and went inside her room locked it up and was crying talking to her daughter.camelo went to see andrea and blamed him for what he did, andrea defended diana saying that se is too calm,peacfull and bla bla bla.. ( am so angry with dat stupid andrea mtcheeeewww). camelo left andrea telling him he has lost lola for real and was leaving wen rodrigo came in , he ask camelo wat d problem is wit dem, camelo said ask your son because lola caught him sleeping wit diana. rodrigo blamed his son and talted to him real good, while andrea is busy not regreting his action. solidad and debras mon was shown. veronica was crying and solidad consoling her telling her dat dey have to find a wayto run away, veronica refuse saying she wunt go dat nobody is waitng for her to come home, that she was a bad mother to debra, dat debora was a monster. b;la bla bla...solidad prayed wit her. andrea went to lolas house demanding to see her daughter, adela, etelvina and rosa told him its not d right tym to see lola but he refused n was knoking at lolas door saying dat he will break d door if she did not open, lola finally open and they exchanged words, andrea blames lola for their break up, lola accepted n told him to blame her for her mum being a drunk, for marcelo being a scumbag and all d bad tin dat has never n yet to happen to him. and that its over between them. lola told andrea to leave her house n never ask after her again still crying for her lost love. meanwhile angel was busy calling lola but she didnt pick it saying dat she doesnt want to talk to anyone. rodrigo came to visit lola,after hugging her, he consoled lola and lola told him that she is fine now because its da worst she expected that happen, dat andrea has killed the love she has for him

hello mtn agent, please how do i stop easynet sms. i dnt want it again as it is deducting my credit. Thank you for helping me.

benedictac: "The son of ur cousin Eva is my son". See Barbra face, she done mara

i like this part and all his plan against little edwadito has come to an end because Hose will not allow her carry out any of her dirty plans.

Hell no. I chop witch.

For me it's
Blind couples featuring chinwe owoh, Chika Ike ...
Conspiracy
Cry for help
Million tears,
Rattle snake,
And some more I can no longer remember their names. But the truth of it is nollywood of this days is hand falling.
Still can remember immaculate heart.

foxgiovani: Please let's not blame the lady. I don't think she was happy doing that but come to think of it, she is still tied to the late man if she keeps the pregnancy. Since the man has died, let everything that has to do with the man die a natural death so that she can pick up the pieces of her life and move on. My simple opinion anyway.

u be devil? Shuuuuuuuu na so u too take tink am. na way oooooo.

goshen26: She did that to put the past behind her, forget the love they had for eachother, for as long she continue seeing that baby, she won't forget the affection she shared and that will hinder her from moving on.

i strongly dont believe you my dear, if she claim to have loved this guy so much, then she should have been able to keep the baby to remind her of the wonderful love and memories they shared which in no way would have hindered her moving ahead.

MRbrownJAY: if these are the reasons why she aborted the baby, then i can safely say that this lady never loved that man.
1) what does love got to do with inheritance?! what does love got to do with stigma (or bastard) when she was ready to have the baby unmarried?!
2) there is nothing wrong with starting a new life, but if that is the reason why she had an abortion then we can all conclude that this woman does not know what love is.

@OP
there are many reasons why a person in such position would terminate the pregnancy (even though they loved the guy):
- if the guy was the provider for the lady
- if the lady cannot fully provide financial, emotional and physical care for that child.
- if the lady hasnt got the necessary tools to become a single mother (job/place to stay/income etc)
- if there was something wrong with the baby

I strongly believe that she is not in love with him cos if she is no circumstance will make her abort tha baby. she also would have tot of the guys family beeing there to help and assist her in the upbringing of the child. She has wronged this guy in death. May God forgive her.

willienaji: i promise you one thing, you shall fall by your own sword, hatred and jealousy will choke you to death, i have adviced you enough, go ahead with your ranting, u are faceless, and will be faceless for the rest of your life. GET A LIFE AND LEAVE STTEPHNORA ALONE, SHE IS NOT IN YOUR LEAGUE. it bothhers me how evil people can be, but didnt the bible say- the heart of man is desperately wicked- enuf said.

willienaji: i promise you one thing, you shall fall by your own sword, hatred and jealousy will choke you to death, i have adviced you enough, go ahead with your ranting, u are faceless, and will be faceless for the rest of your life. GET A LIFE AND LEAVE STTEPHNORA ALONE, SHE IS NOT IN YOUR LEAGUE. it bothhers me how evil people can be, but didnt the bible say- the heart of man is desperately wicked- enuf said.

John Dumelo is so damn hot......... i choose him yesterday, today and forever. So help me God. Amen.

Udo ka anyi na akpo ya na asusu anyi. Ndewonu ooo.

yuzedo: This man has suffered! I bet his kids are hiding in shame.. #DazALL

honestly...

Mamacita007: Happy bday but you're a boring actress sha.

I think you need to go and take panadol extra cos you are nut. I dnt think you have ever watched her movies.

if all the justice in we country will be this sincere and pass good justice then we country for don better since. Cudos.

supaeagles: http://video.ak.fbcdn.net/hvideo-ak-prn1/v/722820_10151385123889475_112368749_n.mp4?oh=95fb43f8274776f59907a20c27b35198&oe=513F4F26&__gda__=1363165543_ae6ab52b7f74302f533f6b2f20b8b365

I almost fell off my chair in laughter watching this. In a recent interview by Channels TV, our Lagos state commandant was asked to provide the details of the NSCDC ( Nigerian Security and Civil Defence Corp) website, watch video for his response.

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