Beync: If the fiance truly loved her, why did the he get her pregnant and died?

i don't support any of them either

ednut1: so dat she nd d baby go dey chop grass, nd prob find it difficult to marry anoda man. Duh

foxgiovani: Please let's not blame the lady. I don't think she was happy doing that but come to think of it, she is still tied to the late man if she keeps the pregnancy. Since the man has died, let everything that has to do with the man die a natural death so that she can pick up the pieces of her life and move on. My simple opinion anyway.

Lexusgs: So, she should have kept the pregnancy and be tagged as a single parent by prospective future husbands/ boyfriends? Of Which I know the poster of this message would be one of them, considering another circumstance !!!
@least, no be born - pickin she kill !!!!

tellwisdom: That child could be a blessed child in disguise.....Wooomennnnn!! Wooooomennnnn!! ...Damboro shegeeh

4llerbuntu:


I make bold to tell you that THAT PAST WILL NEVER LEAVE HER TILL SHE DIES.

DO u know how illogical this your statement is?


if they had been married for 10 yrs and had 3 kids, will she kill them so as to "forget the love they had for each other, for as long she continue seeing that baby those children, she won't forget the affection she shared and that will hinder her from moving on"


WOW, just WOW.

what happened to humanity?

4llerbuntu:

Says it all.

i feel sorry for your sisters. you think this is love?

u can pay for your sister to get an abortion, but you cannot adopt that child and care for him/her so that your sister can maintain this "freedom" to shag and marry a man?


Lets keep it simple, if she died from the abortion, you would willingly pay for the coffin and burial? and u will cry?

if she ends up barren for life, you will marry her?, adopt her in her old age to care? adopt a kid for her? cry for her?



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if your sister actually married the chap, and he died while she was preggers, u would still abort the child? if she already has kids, you will kill them so she can be free?

pekelepekele: Ha just like Jesus Christ he died then when Maria Magdalene was still pregnant but Maria did a good thing by keeping the baby safe with also the help of the disciples

50calibre:

What are you insinuating, that Jesus had a wife or fiancée? Don't say what you don't know and blaspheme in the process. Jesus never died (apart from his 3 day death and ressurection) he rose up into heaven celibate and in an incorruptible body.

pekelepekele: Ha just like Jesus Christ he died then when Maria Magdalene was still pregnant but Maria did a good thing by keeping the baby safe with also the help of the disciples

dammytosh:

That is my opinion and i can not because of hypocrisy and His Holiness @4llerbuntu say something different from my conviction.

No need to OVER BOLD it cos it does not change my opinion.

If you are are not courageous and sincere enough to speak loud against PRE-MARITAL sex. Don't come and show me you Priesthood on abortion.

If your wife has a baby that is life threatening and the Doctor recommends abortion. Tell them to allow both of them to die because you are ..............

Hypocrites...

lawrenzoo:

If she really loved him, she would have kept the baby in rememberance of him and also to save the guy's generation from going into extinction.

biolabee:

I think the guys here are screaming blue murder because his so called legacy is gone
If a woman is preggers and you still dont do the right thing quickly to cover her shame (ala princess) did you do the right thing
If a woman is stringed along for 4 years, being phocked day and night as part of marital services and washing your clothes and generally domestics tuff and you dont take her to mama, did you do th right thing

If a woman is good enough to be your phockmate but not your wife, did u do the right thing

Its a tragedy and i dont support abortion but until we have social security, protection and spousal settlement for divorcees, widows and single mothers

We wil still shout tomorrow

ish

Beync: If the fiance truly loved her, why did the he get her pregnant and died?

i don't support any of them either

dammytosh:

Do i blame him or the moderator that does not see anything bad in the statement. Try that with Islam's faith and Nairaland servers will be on fire.

avuekwe: My question still remains, why didn't the man marry her after 4 years of dating? If he wanted a baby, he should have done the needful.

MRbrownJAY:

if these are the reasons why she aborted the baby, then i can safely say that this lady never loved that man.
1) what does love got to do with inheritance?! what does love got to do with stigma (or bastard) when she was ready to have the baby unmarried?!
2) there is nothing wrong with starting a new life, but if that is the reason why she had an abortion then we can all conclude that this woman does not know what love is.

@OP
there are many reasons why a person in such position would terminate the pregnancy (even though they loved the guy):
- if the guy was the provider for the lady
- if the lady cannot fully provide financial, emotional and physical care for that child.
- if the lady hasnt got the necessary tools to become a single mother (job/place to stay/income etc)
- if there was something wrong with the baby

lawrenzoo:

If she really loved him, she would have kept the baby in rememberance of him and also to save the guy's generation from going into extinction.

goshen26: She did that to put the past behind her, forget the love they had for eachother, for as long she continue seeing that baby, she won't forget the affection she shared and that will hinder her from moving on. What do you mean?MOVE ON.Is it the death of someone she claim she love,And then becoming a murdarer by killing his child and her child as well.Tell me MR MOVE ON,how she will ever move on in.....WAT GOES AROUND,COMES AROUND!

pekelepekele: Ha just like Jesus Christ he died then when Maria Magdalene was still pregnant but Maria did a good thing by keeping the baby safe with also the help of the disciples

goshen26: She did that to put the past behind her, forget the love they had for eachother, for as long she continue seeing that baby, she won't forget the affection she shared and that will hinder her from moving on.

crackhaus:
I respect your opinion sir, but this is BULLSHIT!