₦airaland Forum

dominique:
Lol, you need a reality check. Your likes think their women should worship the grounds they walk on.

My SIL was gisting me about her female colleague whose husband took off because she had the audacity to give birth to their second child through CS. Her mates push out their babies but she had the nerve to give birth through CS that cost him more money. Shortly after the birth, he angrily packed his things and moved out. He expected the wife to crumble and go on her knees and beg him to come back home. For wia? She blocked him out and took care of her children. She resumed from maternity happy,glowing without a worry in the world. Nobody even knew that she had any marital issue except those close to her. Six months after packing out, the husband returned with his tail between his legs. Men like you Deserve to be taught that kind of lesson. A woman should be happy you married her... shior!

You believed this fabricated and exaggerated story... it doesn't add up...

timilinda:
Who sleeps with d prostitutes thereby encouraging them? No be men? Who trained such men? Answer: RANDY FATHERS THAT THINK THEY CAN GO HV KIDS OUT OF WEDLOCK N FORCE SUCH BADTARD KIDS ON THEIR WIVES!!!

Nah... not tonight mehn... not tonight... I'm not doing this...

timilinda:
Nope! We r talking of a child that is nt related to u by blood, i.e. nt ur biological child.

Signed up for adoption... yes again...

dominique:
I never said you called anyone a slave, just that you have the tendencies of treating someone else's daughter like one. All through your write up, the wife's feelings is never considered (do slaves have feelings?)

Sadly a poor toddler who is a victim of circumstance is not well catered for. So who is in a best position to take care of him? Someone already overwhelmed with four children but she should consider herself lucky that a married her abi? If she accepts fine, if she doesn't he has no rights to force him on her. What's the assurance that the wife will take care of the love child? Men needs to stop taking advantage of their roles as head and the need for women to be submissive.

Now we're getting somewhere... she's doing her husband a big favour even if the childs' are husband's... a virtuous woman would have used the child to her advantage... if the man comes home once a month... she would have laid her condition down... make him come home once a week... a win win situation for the three parties...

no one is taking advantage of anyone... help cater for the child nii... that's all... a mistake he owned up too... why turn the child out like she's a bastard...

cococandy:
See who I dey follow talk?

So that's how you regard your woman?
Figures.
If I say you have garri where you're brain is meant to be, that'd be a compliment.

Dominique, are you still wasting your time on this joke of a human being?

Congrats oh Nigerians.
See the results of the kind of training you give your sons.

how did Nigerians train their daughters... this girl... go to bed... the same Nigerians girls that have taken prostitut!on as a second job... who the Bleep trained them...?! no be una...

timilinda:
Story!!! A single mum lives with her child alone. Can u take d two year-old child of ur single-mum gf n nurse even when u r single?

My child... yes!!! single father does the same job last time I checked...

dominique:
Viola! You just That's the ignorant mentality you arrogant Nigerian men have. You actually feel you are doing women favour by marrying them. Because in the corner of your shallow mind, the biggest achievement a woman can have in her life is being in a man's house. I don't blame you, it's the women that belittle themselves that I blame.

And please I'm on my knees, just stick to the baby mama plan. No woman deserves to live with a crude human being like you.

but it's true...

dominique:
You still don't get it. Why did the husband have to wait two whole years before letting the wife know he has a love child. That's total lack of regards for someone he calls wife (since she's not a slave according to you). Now that she knows, she's has every right to reject the toddler, she never signed up for it. The man has no right to pin a child on her. Do you know her health condition after birthing and taking care of four children? I have two and I know the stress I go through running after them, picking up after them yelling and screaming. I'm not complaining because that's what I signed up for. I can imagine someone springing an extra toddler out of the blue to the two I already have, you craze ni?

Of course I don't expect you to call her a slave. You will call her wife and treat her like a slave so what do we call that?

The hubby felt he doesn't need to let the wife know... turns out the child's mother isn't motherly... then he calls his mum and family to solicit on his behalf... to his wife... make she no vex and as usual blames the devil... from that point... the man is remorseful... afterall... she's his child... he fathered her...

then the wife does a madness... turns the man's child out the door... hanhan... after begging... if she can't manage it... she should leave.... no need for drama... no need for battering anybody... and we won't be arguing about this on nairaland...

all I'm saying... I called no one a slave... and how does taking care of my child mean a woman is a slave...?!

cococandy:
Wrong. We modern women have learned not to accept foolishness as our lot in life.

Granted that you can still find some who will.

You lots are lazy... and what's the foolishness in taking care of a child... if you can't care for the child... leave... good luck finding someone that's wants to rock your boat after four...

That I married any of you b!tches... I am actually doing you a favour... you ladies need to get that into your heads...

dominique:
likes of you don't marry women, they buy slaves. That's why you see nothing wrong in saddling a woman with four kids with extra burden. She's kukuma a slave in your kingdom, she has no right to be unfit to take care of an extra toddler.

Even if the sideslut is too retarded to take care of her own child, couldn't she and her Randy dog find other options? I've seen and heard cases girls get pregnant out of wedlock, in most cases they dump the babies with their mothers or sibblings and continue with their whoring.

That you took pity on a woman to marry her doesn't mean that she must graciously take all the bullshit you dish her.

Calm your tits... I've in no way made anyone a slave... yes... the baby happened... she(the mother) couldn't take care of her... and I bring her home... my child ooo... not someone else's... my child... to my wife... I'm explaining things then she acts a fool... who goes out the window... the b!tch or the child...?!

yes she's angry... but how does turning the kid out of the house solves the problem... you modern women are sick and lack compassion... it's the truth...

cococandy:
Of course it doesn't make sense to you

Because it doesn't agree that you can fvck around and nice dump your love kids on the wife.

Actually... it's cos your point is off key... you know what cocoacandy... go to bed...

cococandy:
[s]So it's not about humanity and caring for one another?
Let's rectify that.
It's about your whoring around and inability to stay faithful.
At least that sounds better to me than that pretensious line about 'humanity'
It was sickeningly hypocritical because you won't consider it a humane thing to do if you found yourself in her shoes.

So hunny bunny go back and edit that post before the gods of goodness and humanity strike you for trying to hide your wickedness behind their name.

"Can she be with other men?"

I don't know my dear.
Go and ask her.
Are you sure all your kids belong to you?
Check well. Wetin concern me self.

#Fools paradise [/s]

doesn't make sense... more like trash post...

cococandy:
You've forgotten humanity and caring for others because I mentioned that you could be expected to practice such humanity when your partner treats you like that?

So it's not about humanity again?
How the shoe shifts fast.

So You agree it's about your randiness?
Why did you try to hide such gross foolishness behind being humane and caring.

Like I said before go and locate your brain.

I'm a man... I married my wife... she didn't marry me... I can be with a lot of women... but can she be with a lot of men...?!

if she was a single mother... yes I can be with her... and take care of the child like it's my own...

So what exactly are you fighting for woman...?! cos I'm not hiding anything...

the child belongs to me... if she wouldn't take care of the child... there's the door...

apparently... I'm using my head even as I can't locate the brain as somethings are solve using just common sense... divorce if you can't take care of a love child... q.e.d

7lives:
Why not pray that this happen your sisters.

Isn't he the father of the child...?! can't he bring his child home... if you're advocating feminism... you're living in the wrong country...

cococandy:
When your wife brings another man's kid for you to father, I hope you will remember humanity and caring for one another.

where do I start arguing with a feminist from...?! I'm going to be with a lot of women... are you going to be with a lot of men...?! if not... then you can't change the scenario...

oh... I'm a chauvinist...

timilinda:
Na wa for u ooo! Even if u don't hv sisters, I believe u had a mother, or, at least, a mother figure in ur family.
Being humble is different from allowing urself to be trampled upon!

How is being compassionate equalling being trampled upon... oh and my sister is the most compassionate woman I've ever seen... her husband brother leaves their children with them and she takes care of all of them so much so they regard her mother...

can I say the same for you...

obi123:
if the man had kept his willy in his pants we would not be reading this news as well .

How exactly did he expect the woman to react ? you cheated on her , impregnated someone outside, i'm sure this would have been the cause of many quarrels in that home , then now expect her to be staring at the result of your betrayal and philandering everyday because all of a sudden you realise that the person you have been cheating on her with is irresponsible.
On top that you assault her , kai truly there is no justice in this world

E don happen... if she can't take care of the child... she should leave...

Three words...
What's your account-no...?

janefrancisca:
and what do you have to say about the man's actions?

He realised his mistake... the other woman is in no state to care for a child as her eyes still dey outside... what other option dies he have...?! leave his child in the hands of the irresponsible mother or bring her home....?! to his wife...

I insist... if the woman was virtuous... we won't be reading her battered story in nairaland... she could have used the child has a leverage... be a good mother to her kids and her stepchild... but instead... she allowed the b!tch in her manifest and he gave her a good smacking...

if you read the story... they were begging her... but you know women nah... if she knew she can't take care of the child... she should have just left instead of throwing tantrums and nagging...

janefrancisca:
Babes na wa 4 u o. It is easy to say because you are not the woman in question. Its possible that if u find yourself in such situation, you may even do worse. The issue here is not about what the baby did to the woman. The man should have told her from the onset that he has a child out of wedlock and he is bringing the child home because the mother can't take care of him/her (though that's a flimsy excuse anyway). At least the shock and betrayal would have waned down a little..instead of suprising her like that. She reacted the way 99% of women would have reacted.

She reacted like a b!tch 99% of women would have reacted...

obi123:
ok, he found out almost 3 years later after fooling around with her that she is irresponsible and you think its fair to bring the result of that fooling about home to his wife who has her hands full already?

so what you are saying is that its ok for him to bring all his illegitimate kids home to his wife and she should because she is she -woman recieve them with open arms , no questions asked?

The deed has been done... you don't cut off the head to cure headache... if the woman had been virtuous... I still insist we wouldn't be reading this news in nairaland...

dominique:
Why on earth will you spring that kind of responsibility on me without discussing with me first? It's better you stick with the baby mama option, since you will clearly have no regards for your partner.

You're being to dramatic... he found out the baby mama is irresponsible... otherwise he wouldn't have brought her home... besides... what's herculean about taking care of another human being...

Miami11:
This is not even an adoption case, no wander people fail exams tremendously, read the article three times if you are slow

Do you even know if the man can take care of the four she has to just show up one day carrying another one,

Then what will the babies real mother do, fix her nails and sleep with some more husbands.

Did he complain that he can't cater for his children... and even if he cant... can't the woman help... yeah he has a love child... the other woman is probably still fucking around... he's probably learnt his lesson... then the woman acts a b!tch...

redgem:
We should have the spirit of winning... This is Champions league, let's play and act like Champions

Man shitty lost, chelshit lost... manure lost... is their champions league season over...?!

we played tottenham on Wednesday, two days later we play an high intensity game with leicester... and in tuesday... we play champions league with a well rested side...

The only time I agree with Mourinho is when he said as soon as we have three English team in the champions league they would wake up... whoever fix the fixture in England is a bastard...

Miami11:
She is not obliged by law, culture or religion to take care of illegitimate kids

When paying her dowry did they add extra to take care of another woman's child?

Since you are a philanthropist and huge on adoption why don't you go adopt that baby
Empty vessels make the loudest voice, I rest my case

Culture...?! Religion...?! nigga please... I'm a yoruba man and a muslim... meaning I can marry up to four women... you really should read more on culture and religion...

Apart from culture and religion... what happens to humanity... caring for one another... it's your type that pray for peace in the world... and won't show love to your neighbour...

the father of the child isn't shying away from his responsibility... if the woman did not act a fool... we wouldn't be reading this on nairaland... and yes... I am a huge fan of adoption... deal with it...

redgem:
I think I know a lot about football.... I know what the impact of red card can cause but Psg had a red card against Chelsea last championship game but they won the match... We just don't have the gingering spirit... We play like we are winning even though we are actually loosing

Several times we've come from behind to win a game even with a red card...

harbeedaymee:
She deserved it. Why did she reject the love child? What has the innocent child done to warrant such a harsh reaction?

bless you..

dominique:
What has the innocent child done to deserve to be taken away from his mother just like that? So it's his mother's rival that will take better care of him than his own mother Abi?

I don't believe you're female.

we know the type of woman you are... so if I came home with an adopted kid... you'll turn the child to a maid... more reason why I do baby mamas than wife...

What would it cost the woman to care for the child...

no need to batter anybody... but if she was my wife... she knows she's packing out that same day...

Shay me way get plan to even adopt children... that aren't even mine... just to care for the child... e don turn to work...

Fucking witch... women are women's greatest enemies... it's obvious she would turn the girl to housemaid sef... she as she resemble kirimanje...

proudly9ja:
Lol. On top simple question I asked?
Yesterday's defeat must still be hitting you hard. I've moved on.
What's untold Arsenal btw?

Arsene may have done all you said but he's going to leave Arsenal one day isn't he? So let's go back to my question, say he leaves today (or whenever ), would you hire a manager with similar record.
Like I said, serious and honest question

Which manager has a similar record...?! why do you think he's respected...?! Arsenal being Arsenal would employ an unproven manager... that's for sure... besides... your opinion doesn't count... my opinion definitely don't count too...

but to answer your I'll advised question... would arsenal sign a reincarnate of Arsene Wenger... yes they would...

now you answer my question... which manager would agree to sign for arsenal knowing there would be no transfer fees...?!