₦airaland Forum

khiaa:
Well wouldn't that be fornication, sex before marriage?

Lol... I'm not a virgin... thank you very much... and I'm not married... I've had sex... I don't think I fornicate... lol...

khiaa:
No I'm not Nigerian, I thought you knew that I was American, but there are so many threads about how Nigerian women don't get pregnant or have babies out of wedlock, that is an American thing, so they say. They call these children bas.tards.

No... no... aggrieved wives call children of other women fathered by her husband bastard... people do get pregnant out of wedlock... for example... me... my parents got married after six years of my existence... prior to... they've been living together... and both parents of my parents knew each other... a term called introduction...

I'm just knowing you're American... I was thinking you're a Nigerian living in America...

khiaa:
To have God bless your union, wouldn't it be a wonderful feeling to know that God has blessed the love between you and the woman that you love so much?
Ok, I'm romanticising a bit
but you are going to want to have kids one day, atleast let them be legal, don't take that away from them. Isn't there a stigma against children born of unwed parents in Nigeria?

You honestly believe you need to get married before you get blessings from G...? wow...

khiaa:
To have God bless your union, wouldn't it be a wonderful feeling to know that God has blessed the love between you and the woman that you love so much?
Ok, I'm romanticising a bit
but you are going to want to have kids one day, atleast let them be legal, don't take that away from them. Isn't there a stigma against children born of unwed parents in Nigeria?

Nope... there's no stigma... are you a Nigerian...? you seem to be getting a lot of things wrong... about the culture... plus... I'm just going to have one kid... just one... boy or girl... I don't mind...

khiaa:
Awww! Don't be so negative, some people have been happily married for years. My grandparents were happily married for 50 years, I miss them so.

Lol... it worked back in the day(s)...

khiaa:
It can be exciting if you find an exciting person to share your life with you, but if you are one of those men that need multiple women to be happy, by all means DO NOT GET MARRIED.

Err... if it's so exciting... then why get married...?

khiaa:
I'm sure you will change your mind in the future, or maybe you are waiting for that foreign lady to come into your life.

Two people happy together... then they spoil it by getting married... it's a needles elaboration...

khiaa:
I'm sure you will change your mind in the future, or maybe you are waiting for that foreign lady to come into your life.

Marriage would bore me...

khiaa:
I'm sure you will change your mind in the future, or maybe you are waiting for that foreign lady to come into your life.

Nah... not so...

khiaa:
Are you Nigerian? Isn't having babies out of wedlock and shacking up against the African culture?

That's peculiar to Christians... and ladies so obsessed about white weddings... and women concerned about legitimate children... etc etc...

oh... and yes I'm Nigerian...

khiaa:
If you plan on having children in the future marriage should be included unless you don't mind be a baby daddy.

Do you see the logic... do I really need to get married before I can get a woman pregnant...?!

When you're happy with your boyfriend... living together... eating together... sleeping together... why Bleep it up with marriage...? what does getting married prove....? that the girl is mine...? *scoffs*

What happened to the first peace pact...?!

Then we wake up to another death advert on the dailies by Gov. Ayo Fayose...

alberto2k:
This dude needs help

And see some murrafvckas taking pictures instead of helping the poor lad

Just imagine...

Noooooooooooooooo!!!

barcanista:
And you had to mention me? Well I am a VERY free minded person driven by patriotism above partisanship. Irrespective of the outcome of the election, I will be here doing what I love doing.

Err... I'm sorry... I don't care if you remain here or not... you aren't on the list...

Woged2005:
I guess ur mindset is why u're still a 'boy' despite being a successful Engineer according to u. Who told u every lady needs ur money? There are men who are naturally attracted to poor needy girls they control with little stipends & gifts of fairly used clothes. Such men see every girl as needy and dependent. I suspect u belong to that group. There are also men who are not scared of successful ladies. They can never question the contribution of a woman in a family bc some of their wives earn more than them yet remain married to them. Bros, "he finds a good wive finds what is good & will receive blessings from God". Pray u find one like that.

Can you read... Did I mention money...? you girls seem to think every spat about marriage is money oriented... I graduated an engineer doesn't mean I am successful in that field...

She was a lawyer when I was in my final year... does that anyway imply I'm scared of a successful woman...?

Before you attack me... read my post again... you're acting like a girl... lol...

If you must know... we understood each other to a fault... then she threw it all away because she believed I needed to grow up...

I never mentioned money... if we don't have white collar jobs... it's no problem to my family or hers...

khiaa:
lol Why are you not getting married?

no logical reason behind marriages... and if there's no point... I'm wasting my time...

khiaa:
Why have they lost you?

I'm not getting married... so that's me... out of the potential suitors...

My last "girlfriend" three years ago told me the same thing... I should grow up... infact she broke up with me with that word... after some silly advice from her aunty... She became a lawyer as I got into final year three years ago... I'm an engineer now... lol... I'm socially responsible... and guess what...she's still Single...

I was a boy... infact... I'm still a boy... I didn't cheat... I was damn loyal... Thank God... I didn't grow up...

She met me a boy... she knew me a boy... and all of a sudden... she wants superman... what's you women contribution to the system...? what do you bring to the table...? Nothing...

Shay na man come suffer...?

Most ladies are going to end up being wife number 4 to one Alhaji...

khiaa:
I don't see why it should pain them when there are so many men in Nigeria, Nigerian women aren't losing out.

There are no instrument in measuring such... losses... but they've lost me definately...

khiaa:
Pained from what, and by the way I happen to be a foreigner.

Too many pained African women rather... the foreign women are colonizing them African brothers... you know how women feel about marriages...

khiaa:
Yes, I don't understand when someone talks about dating/marrying foreigners, it is always the whites that pops in their minds.

Too many pained females... No offence... but it's the truth...

Barcanista is not on any list...

He's been compromised... that's what jumping camps does to ones reputation...

khiaa:
But really, who cares it's not something to brag about.

Then you'll agree with me... The poster blew it out of proportion...

khiaa:
The poster said that Nigerian men can only get the ugly white girls and not the attractive ones and you quoted with Kerry Washington, which has absolutely nothing to do with the poster comment.

There are so many white girls Nigerians are married to that we don't know about... because they aren't in your regular lifestyles magazines... the poster is misleading...

khiaa:
LMAO
Is Kerry Washington white?

Is she Nigerian...?
Modified*

Bloody swype...

The side chick... perfect model for women...

No nagging...
no worries...

In the words of a certain president of a country...

***clears throat...***

How much did he stole...? is it up to the amount of a Peugeot 504...?