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DirewolfofStark:
The greatest find a single man can make in life is to find a woman who is humble, intelligent and beautiful.

Such women are EXTREMELY difficult to find because usually the existence of one of those qualities in a woman means the absence of the others, e.g. Beautiful women are usually not humble and humble women are usually not beautiful.

So untrue Bro. May God open your eyes and heart to find the right lady for you with good character and qualities.

Pierohandsome:
That guy needs brain test.me,evn whn i sleep with 12yr old girls i dnt tell anybody

Another paedophile cited. Your arrest is coming. I think you should take your own prescription above. Pls repent.

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Prayers for peace should be what fills this thread and not tribal rantings. Its so childish to say the least. Those feeling unconcerned, you may have distant relatives or friends in Ile-ife now without knowing. Just pray for peace. It is well.

Nairalanders, please take some time to pray for Ile-ife. There is a clash between the Yorubas and Hausas going on. The police has been trying to restore order since yesterday night. Pls pray for the peace of God to prevail.
Also, inform friends&family who are in Ife or travelling in that direction to avoid the main road between Lagere and Fajuyi. Just be watchful.
It is well.

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

Calm down and understand. What your husband is not happy about is the fact that you could give out your number (whether correct or incorrect) as a married woman who could figure that his purpose for asking was not sincere.
I do not think you should insult guys that make advances at you too. However, be firm with them and state the obvious. For instance, 'I'm sorry, I don't give my number to random guys. As you can see I'm happily married with a child and you are not my doctor to make that request'. I don't think this is insulting. Infact, it could be said with a firm smile... lol. Hope you get?
Just accept you're wrong and apologize to Bros. He'll come around. Cheers

Pluto16:
My brother blocked me on WhatsApp just because i asked him to send me money jockingly (because i know he would never send it) .I've never disturb him with anything before or have any quarrel with him.
He is living abroad and he has never send me money or anything before.He always ignored my messages on bbm, whatsapp and facebook. So I asked him money jokingly today, then He replied with just 'lol' then blocked me afterward. Like i have nothing to offer like i can't add any value to his life. Though he is an half-brother, same father different mother. After he blocked me i feel very sad, like i am nobody.
I can't keep it to myself anymore so i decided to share it on Nairaland.

Hey Bro. Do not let anyone make you feel less of yourself. You have a great future, a beautiful one at that. You are embedded with greatness. Source it out from within. Develop a healthy self esteem. Work smart and hard. You are destined to shine.
Also, forgive him. Don't allow unforgiveness hold you down. Still send your regards on other platforms. Continue to show love. He only acted according to the knowledge he has. It is well with you. Cheers

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martineverest:
no......if the man is unaware the magun will strike the woman only....but if she confesses to d man and he chose to forgive witout performing some rites,both of dem face consequences....but i heard they've reduced the consequences to the woman only

Alright. Thanks for the clarification. What if its the man that cheats on his wife?

petra1:
It's God who call people into offices . There is difference between prophesying and the gift of prophecy and the office of the prophet. Someone may prophesy that's not a proof of the gift of prophecy and having the gift of prophecy is not a proof of a call into the office of a prophet.

You can have the gift of prophecy and still be under a pastor and submit your gift under the his leadership. Paul was an apostle but he had prophets who worked with him. Silas was a prophet, Barnabas was a prophet. But served under Paul . So server in your church . Let your pastor know your experience. He will guide you . Except God tells you otherwise . When God tells you ,you will know .

So true Bro.

martineverest:
it will only kill the men if he knows and keeps quite

So is the man expected to report the cheating wife before the magun by default work? I sincerely need clarification on your response to get to understand the varying cultures. By the way, where are you from?

hedonistic:
As you would know if you have any iota of common sense, in our culture (and in most parts of Africa) men and women don't have the same roles, privileges, limitations, and expectations. That's why a man is required to pay your bride price. That's why you change your surname to the man's own. That's why a man can openly marry more than one wife if he wishes. That's why your parents would flog you back to your husband's house if you claim you want to exit the marriage MERELY because your husband "cheated' (duh).

You so-called 'enlightened' girls of nowadays need to take a chill pill. Live with the norm or stay single. I'm sure it's not that hard.

Its such a pity you talk with so much disrespect to someone you don't know. It only shows your character which will take you no where in life if you do not adjust. A simple question only required an equally simple answer.

I am an enlightened WOMAN who is very much aware of the requirements of the law on marriage issues. I also know that adultery is a ground for divorce under the law. I am also aware that any customary practice that is repugnant to natural justice, equity and good conscience is rejected.

Let me educate you further apropos cheating. Cheating especially in a marriage relationship is not innate in any man but rather a decision. This decision leads only to destruction. Apart from the varying STDs that could be acquired, it reduces the man. It also takes away your honour. Ultimately, it leads to death. Decisions should therefore be considered carefully so as to enjoy the consequences of one's decision.

Paying of bride price by the man and change of name by the woman only shows the responsibility the man has towards his new family. It is irresponsible to see these acts as a license to cheat or treat the wife badly.

I forgive you for your outbursts. Enjoy the remaining part of your day.

hedonistic:
As you would know if you have any iota of common sense, in our culture (and in most parts of Africa) men and women don't have the same roles, privileges, limitations, and expectations. That's why a man is required to pay your bride price. That's why you change your surname to the man's own. That's why a man can openly marry more than one wife if he wishes. That's why your parents would flog you back to your husband's house if you claim you want to exit the marriage MERELY because your husband "cheated' (duh).

You so-called 'enlightened' girls of nowadays need to take a chill pill. Live with the norm or stay single. I'm sure it's not that hard.

Its such a pity you talk with so much disrespect to someone you don't know. It only shows your character which will take you no where in life if you do not adjust. A simple question only required an equally simple answer.

I am an enlightened WOMAN who is very much aware of the requirements of the law on marriage issues. I also know that adultery is a ground for divorce under the law. I am also aware that any customary practice that is repugnant to natural justice, equity and good conscience is rejected.

Let me educate you further apropos cheating. Cheating especially in a marriage relationship is not innate in any man but rather a decision. This decision leads only to destruction. Apart from the varying STDs that could be acquired, it reduces the man. It also takes away your honour. Ultimately, it leads to death. The woman could also make a decision to cheat but she will also suffer the consequences. Decisions should therefore be considered carefully so as to enjoy the aftermath.

Paying of bride price by the man and change of name by the woman only shows the responsibility the man has towards his new family. It is irresponsible to see these acts as a license to cheat or treat the wife badly.

I forgive you for your disrespectful outbursts. Enjoy the remaining part of your day.

martineverest:
in my tribe,u dont need to waste ur time on magun....magun-like curse is in ur marriage by default....thats y women from my tribe dont even think about adultry twice

And the men?

soberdrunk:
In Nigeria Somebody will avoid all these finish and be living healthy lifestye, still Dangote truck will just come and 'pick' somebody like beans....

Is that not the effect of being pessimistic? Bro, don't let your expectations go that way. Expect the best. Think good thoughts. All the best.

alexdedon:
Please help!! Imo state university has refused to graduate me. I got my admission on merit and was given admission letter by JAMB, I never had exam malpractice or any cult case. My results is ok and presently with my HOD.

It all started after graduating in 2011 and the following year being 2012 my name came out for service and during my clearance I was told that I had the same registration no. With someone in another dept. And was asked to apply for another registration no. Which I did but due to the laxity of my dept. I was unable to go for service that period, and ever since my HOD has been promising sending my name for service for more than four 4 years he kept on giving one excuse or the other. I hv done everytin possible to see if I can get even if it is my certificate but it seems the HOD has sold my result, at a point he told me to go and write another jamb for no reason. I need you help my fellow nairalander.

Help me to fight this battle, I can't do it alone, I need you to be the voice of the voiceless. You can contact me on 09059353906. My humble moderators , please help push this to the top page.

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Most importantly, get on your knees and call on the author of life. Write to all the principal officers and also get a good lawyer to take it up from there.

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konjinokillme:
bro it is not as ef ah not get faith, but i have been listening ang realdng scaring things...

Read the right things to renew your mind. Read the BIBLE. The devil and his agents operate but knowing and trusting Jesus gives you the right sense of believing only what God says about you. Shalom

Triton1996:
http://www.saharaweeklyng.com/christians-must-live-exemplary-marriage-life-apostle-reverend-lizzy-johnson-suleman/

'k'... Lol. FILEBI, I found your post funny and decided to do what you said.

Anyway, we thank God for their marriage and ministry. More grace.

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This is such a truism and a fact I often bring to the fore when given the opportunity.
I remember attending a program and we were asked to introduce ourselves and also state our hobbies. I stated my hobbies and was about to continue when a man asked me why cooking was not stated as part of my hobbies. His wife had earlier introduced herself and included cooking as one of her hobbies. I categorically told him that I cook for my family but it is not a hobby. He looked disappointed (I don't know in who or what...lol).My husband was not around to state his own position and even state that cooking/baking is his hobby. He could just buy ingredients and decide to bake fruit bread or even bake with dates. The kitchen is like a lab to him.
There are many instances he takes it on himself to cook. When in the hospital after delivering my first child, the nutritionist suggested that I should take vegetables to enable me lactate. Even though his mum was available to assist, he went home to prepare the vegetable himself. How sweet and caring. I felt loved indeed.

All things work together for good, for those who love God and are the called according to His purpose. Believe this Bro. Get busy doing something you enjoy or learn a new skill before you get another. It is well. Cheer up.

udemejack:
Though i have always been a ghost reader in this forum,i may not be popular like smellymouth, classcaptain,Tosyne2much etc.

But i must say that i dont have any reason regret why i joined this wonderful family.

Back to the topic, after i wrote Jamb severally without any success,i resorted to embark on an internal diploma programme in University of calabar, and by the grace of God i rounded up early this year and i applied for a direct entry admission and i tried to check my admission status today, and the first sentence that greeted me was *congratulation DAVID UDEME JACKSON*.

It is the Lord's doing and it is marvelous in our sight.
To all those who are in need of this blessing,the God that visited me,will surely visit you at the appointed time.

Congrats Bro. Be focused and aim high. The Lord will see you through. Cheers

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9jayes:
U said love for family

If you love your family and friends, it means you believe in love even though just a form.

Love is more of a decision than a feeling. I understand where you're talking from but strongly believe you have a great future and letting go of the past (though painful) will make you free to decide to love and receive love in return thereby making you see clearly and reach out to that beautiful future.

9jayes:
U said love for family

If you love your family and friends, it means you believe in love even though just a form.

Love is more of a decision than a feeling. I understand where you're talking from but strongly believe you have a great future and letting go of the past (though painful) will make you free to decide to love and receive love in return thereby making you see clearly and reach out to that beautiful future.

i don't believe you. What about love for your parents, siblings or friends?

9jayes:
I don't blv in luv

So sorry about that 9jayes. But you must move on by forgiving Auntie Bose first. True love awaits you. You will understand the difference. JESUS TRULY LOVES YOU.

9jayes:
I was sexually abused at age 12 by Aunt Bose age 19 since then I don't know wat love is buh wat Sex is

So sorry about that 9jayes. But you must move on by forgiving Auntie Bose first. True love awaits you. You will understand the difference. JESUS TRULY LOVES YOU.

haha ha. You must be a clown. So funny...water boiler.

What was the purpose of turning cold water to hot water. Who the hot water epp? When Jesus turned water to wine, it was for a purpose and He did not gather a crowd to do it. Or was there a need for the hot water in the community?

. This looks a bit one sided in my opinion. Even his lawyer who was to stand in his defense acted in the opposite. Infact, his lawyer admitted to the crime with his statement. Nothing was said about his plea. Did he plead guilty? What were his own words recorded? Only the ladies words were quoted. Hope he was not framed? I have heard such a story. But if he really committed this amorous act, I can only say it is a pity.