₦airaland Forum

Lamasta:
A teacher disrespecting a student is accepted to you abi

nope it's not but that's not a wise thing to do as a graduating student knowing that you by will always need to refer to your school for one issue or The other

9jaRealist:
If you don’t know the backstory, why are you so sure it’ll be a “negative” reference point?
They’re Africans who are enlightened enough (and not sexist) and, depending on the circumstances, could use it as a “positive” reference!
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very funny.you see this your woke ideology,it doesn't work in Africa

Regex:
She thinks after graduation, nothing fit carry am go back the school.

na where her sense no reach be that

Regex:
She stupid, but she thinks she woke.

exactly my point

Lamasta:
That happened in US and not Nigeria hope you know? Cos over there rule of law works very well

basic courtesy and respect is not a respecter of location.it works anywhere in the world

9jaRealist:
The fact that it’s been highlighted TWICE and you’re still clueless merely validates that’s it so inherently ingrained in folks like you…smh
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you didn't point it out.you were only justifying her Unreasonable behaviour

9jaRealist:
You don’t need “48 laws of power”, just need a MORAL COMPASS!
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lol smh
.even morality demands respect for your leaders and basic courtesy since you want to play the morality card

9jaRealist:
You keep going on about her “attitude” perhaps because you are not used to (or don’t like) seeing females stand up for themselves…smh
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this is not a man vs woman issue.stop instigating gender wars.this is clearly a bad attitude, wrong is wrong irrespective of the gender involved

9jaRealist:
Sadly, sexism is so ingrained in so many Nigerians, they don’t even notice it…smh
Of course, not necessarily their fault as much of Nigerian culture is inherently sexist (even misogynistic).
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oya point out the sexism or misogyny there since you want to be more western than the oyinbos

Even oyinbos value respect thats why you see men and women bending their knees to greet the queen of England.all these African American wannabes.always trying to copy their lousy attitude and import it INTO nigeria under the umbrella of woke philosophy, make una import sensible behaviours too like innovation and advancement in technology

Backpedal:
She can get a recommendation from another teacher
Except she is a very shitty person
There is always that one person that will give you tht recommendation letter

lol recommendation letter be like akara? It's an official document so they'll require a letter headed paper and a school you didn't go cannot give you such letter headed paper

9jaRealist:
Typical backward Nigerian mentality…

Thinking that “a husband” is the greatest accomplishment for females…
Meanwhile, hopefully enlightened folks (including in-laws) see someone who won’t stand for crap.
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of course a husband is not any greatest achievement however it's One of the boxes a woman must tick as far as she's in Africa

Secondly not that in-laws opinion really matters but anytime any issue arises in that family, that girl's action will always be a reference point albeit negatively.e.g don't be like Tayo.etc

9jaRealist:
It’s not Nigeria…

School “recommendation” in the US are your grades.
While the law courts will reward her handsomely if denied her transcript.
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well except that but even if it's not nigeria her uncouth attitude Will make a mess of her certificate Because what's the use of a certificate when the owner has an unattractive and irritating attitude

Lamasta:
Most Nigerian teachers act this way which is very very bad now tell me if a student that has been frustrated to this extent how will that student shake those teachers in public if the need for such arises

this is where maturity and emotional intelligence comes in.choose your battles wisely and avoid fighting with some people (e.g your teachers) despite the provocation it's unnecessary.humility,tact and wisdom always wins.

In life you have to take some shiii to get to where you are going but that girl has created unnecessary and avoidable battles for herself just because she didn't know how to choose her battles

Omoluabi16:
Risky move The certificate is still the property of the school and could be withdrawn.

exactly.if the teacher had taken it up with The University management about threat to his life, that certificate can be very much withdrawn

The man could just be I don't want wahala kind of man

9jaRealist:
I will ignore the primitive sexism…
But without knowing the “circumstances surrounding her situation” why do you keep insisting it’s a “bad attitude”?

Meanwhile, smiling and embracing at folks who are doing horrible things…
Merely encouraged to keep doing the same, if nothing else because they wouldn’t know they are offending others.
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madammmmmm don't bring sexism into this.this issue or situation has absolutely nothing to do with sexism so don't deviate from the issue.wrong is wrong irrespective of the gender doing it.stop justifying rubbish under the pretext of sexism.the girl was unnecessarily rude and that's being STUPID Because even if you are upset with your teacher, that was not the right way to display your displeasure.after the ceremony you could have confronted her respectfully and table your grievances logically.

Lamasta:
Though am not in support of the lady but if she chose not to shake her teachers so be it which one be if anyone try this with me, Mr man you can do nothing

I'm not in support of the girl's action to but you seem to underestimate how vindictive some of these teachers can get.some of them can deliberately hide her certificate and be stressing her around.e.g they'll say go and meet Mr Eze, when she gets into Mr ezes office that one Will say go and meet Stanley he will give you, when you get to Stanleys office,that one Will deliberately step out and she will be forced to wait for hours.after 3 hrs when Stanley comes back from where he went to eat,he will say go and meet Mr brown,brown will say the woman it is with has gone on leave.come back 2 months time.meanwhile by that time you need the certificate to start applying for Jobs.that is when it'll dawn on you about what you have done to yourself.after then you'll go and be kneeling down to beg all of them because you don't know who exactly is with your certificate

9jaRealist:
And so you think such racist attitudes should be emulated?!

In the instant case, you cannot tell whether her so-called “attitude” is good or bad, without the benefit of s backstory (which none of us here have). Nonetheless, do you think (for example) that US students who protested against Apartheid at commencement (graduation) ceremonies in the 1990 (or 1980s) had “a very bad attitude” and should have been penalized?

CHANGE comes from disruption, not from uniformity. Your mindset epitomizes why Nigeria will likely never change.
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irrespective of the nation or circumstances surrounding her situation just know that a bad attitude is like a flat tyre,no matter how beautiful the car is,he/she will never go anywhere talkless of going far as long as she has a bad attitude.its even worse if she performed that disgraceful stunt in the presence of her parents.it shows she has an uncouth behaviour and poor upbringing

Even during my own graduation there was one of the teachers present There that I didn't like (Afterall it's not every of your teachers that you will like in school) she shook my hands and smiled congratulated me with a handshake,I shook her hands and we exchanged pleantries on stage.
Guess what.when I came to request for my certificate,she was instrumental in helping me get my certificate without time wasting or stress that others will have to go through.she spoke to her sister on phone who happened to be in charge of that department (exams and records) and the needful was done.today we're friends so in this life there are no permanent friends or enemies what we have is a permanent interest.


Young ladies need to learn this and stop being stupid or making enemies were There is no need for it

ufotunang:
Pride... keep on been prideful it will hurt you later in future

pride over just a b.sc?

She's stupid

Bahamas95:
The male teachers may forgive her and say, "abegi she's just a child". But you see those her fellow women? They will show her shege!



Women supporting women na scam.

obviously they certainly won't.she Will have to kneel down and beg them one by one.God help her if the women are angry single mothers or divorcees or the ones having issues with their husbands

Abbeyme:
The graduation coordinator shouldn't have surrendered the certificate to the girl.

Protocols must be observed always.

that's not a certificate.its just usually a scroll.nothing inside.they Will tell them when to come back when the certificate is ready.unfortunately they'll likely step down hers for lack of character.meanwhile she thought she was embarrassing her teacher not knowing she was disgracing herself.by the time her to be husbands family sees this,she will know what's Up

jeromeemmy:
Withdraw her degree asap...no character

this incidence made me remember the girl that was boasting on social media saying cheating made her graduate.immediately they invited her to face disciplinary panel and freezed her certificate

A lot of these female graduates lack wisdom and emotional intelligence.na only to rub make-up pack for face like masquerades them sabi

Bahamas95:
They might have frustrated her but that wasn't the right thing to do. Her journey isn't complete yet......The problem with women is that they are one way thinkers.

exactly

Backpedal:
The only thing that may be problematic for her is recommendation letter; because that one is at the discretion of the person recommending.
But as for the rest that was listed

It's STATUTORY

the Nigerian society has really got people's minds thinking in some kind of way

if she needs to travel to the abroad possibly for masters or for whatever reason and they request she brings Letter from her supervisor at the embassy or from one of her teachers she's in soup.i just think she's immature and has character issues.

9jaRealist:
“Leadership” is NOT blind follow-follow…
The best leaders often upset the apple-cart (Funmilayo Kuti, Fela, Rosa Parks, Mandela, etc.).
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true but wisdom requires you choose your battles,what you fight and who you fight

Youths should take a lesson from osibanjo/tinubu saga.there are some people you don't compete or fight with

One of the 48 laws of power says don't outshine your master

Urheadmaster:
Maybe for a reasons best known to her

shebi she will come and request for transcript, certificate or recommendation letter.na where she go hear am.you don't burn some certain bridges.thats one of the laws of power

Urheadmaster:
Maybe for a reasons best known to her

shebi she will come and request for transcript, certificate or recommendation letter.na where she go hear am.you don't burn some certain bridges.thats one of the laws of power

Eni tan na laranta

I might have my reservations about tinubu but PDP of all groups have no moral or ethical justification to make that statement Because we see how far you've taken nigeria to.lets not even talk about the stolen billions everytime and the regular cross carpeting when things aren't working in your favour so ke shut up.oro yen KO to siyin

southsouthking:
Northerners are the master player when it comes to politics in Nigeria.
Power will definitely remain in the north.

they are not the master players joor they are just leveraging on the fact that the south do not have one voice and their leaders are easy to corrupt and compromise plus their population which was deliberately done using religion and culture.remove all of those factors, northerners are nothing

Even bubu is ready to give in to a southern but here we are,the southerners are still bickering and not gotten their acts together

You know say headslammers are official murderers you go say Wetin go trigger them especially when you know they are overly sensitive to anything Mohammed

They hate Christians and have an abnormal obsession for killing yet you no go avoid them for your safety.even the Bible said what buisness has light got to do with darkness

Elections are fast approaching,all kinds of criminals are just resurfacing.

Makowonda:
I hate what the Fulanis are doing but do you have any proof that it was carried out by the Fulanis?Our attitude toward pointing accusing finger in this country is making the job even more difficult for the security operatives as it conceals the identity of the actual culprits.IBOP will strike,you'd say it is Fulani,Fulani will strike;you'd jump to conclusion that it is IPOB.Some hoodlums around your neighborhood will strike,in less than a second you're accusing OPC.

then who could it be? Who is notorious for invading churches and killing people like savage animals? Who are the people hiding in the forest to perpetuate evil? Who are those notorious for genocide against the Christians? Isn't it the infamous marauding headslammers constituting nuisance everywhere they go

All these headslammers are the ones bringing pain to Nigerians everywhere they find themselves especially the Fulani ones

Fulani mudslime headslammers again