₦airaland Forum

On another episode of e be things in Nigeria

PrinceofSarcasm:
My brother you just highlighted a very unpopular opinion people discuss in hushed tones. A colleauge and i still looked at this issues from the same perspective of population control the other day and it made so much sense. I feel there is a white paper passed across the corridirs of power showing the bemefit of the constant killings in the North and population reduction. This may be the real reason why it appears as if the killings in the North never end and the government does nothing

because the way government is doing their body language e be like say them dey fear the terrorists or Lost control of them

Seems like everything is a joke or politics to this politicians abi is this terrorist attack a form of population control in the north?

Is aunty folasade tinu above arrest?

I thought what is good for the goose is good for the gander

Wait o.so them never conclude on this Evans Case since all this years despite all the media sensationalism surrounding his dastardly acts.now he is even looking Like a saint compared to all the kidnapping and killing going on around.

I Sha hope he doesn't have boys working for him this one that the media went suspiciously silent on his matter.

Nigeria my country

xtivin2:
your type will eventually fall in love with one clownn like that. Adviser

every evil pronouncement,go back to your sender in Jesus name, amen.

I am not here to attack anyone nor engage in back and forth.i just want to add my own little impact to make my own environment a better place.

I know a lot of people are gradually normalizing promiscuity amongst married men and self deceit but there's nothing that can justify depravity and lack of reverence for God.moreover it's always fun and games when married men are destroying as many ignorant girls as possible till it's time for your sister to start choosing a good man or till it's time for you to look for a good woman

superCleanworks:
Seven bulky paragraphs for YOUR FRIEND.

You are curious and confused on behalf of YOUR FRIEND.

you must be a friend in deed.

SMH

Believe whatever you want.na you Sabi

Kobojunkie:
So long as the girl in question is not underage, I see no reason why you should get yourself involved. If she is underaged, then what you can do is report the man to the authorities. Otherwise, these are mostly people ENGAGED IN THE GAME that is relationship.

As I said earlier, if you are truly touched then you are best focusing your attention on teaching the boys why it is in their best interest to focus all of their energy on their chosen spouse rather than looking outside for ways to fill the hole inside of them.

lol wow.did you call relationship "GAME"? So depravity, deception and wickedness don reach this level? This àre really interesting times to be alive.

And Yes you said something like "I see no reason you should get yourself involved as long as they are adults" of course I would not have been involved if it didn't happen to my own friend (even though I warned her initially) I find deception annoying.yes she's not underaged but using deception to get into the pants of young girls is wrong on all levels.you think it's about just channelling the tutoring to the boys? Why do you think we have young girls suffering post traumatic stress disorder, promiscuity,drug abuse,anger issues, increase in abortion,STDs and baby mama culture.have you seen the number of young girls getting pregnant with men who ghosted them? They don't even know where he lives or can even Trace him to anybody or anywhere. This is not about it's the man's fault,it's the woman's fault.we are gradually having damaged girls who are already destroyed by married men even before their own Mr right gets to meet them.

Have you even gone to social media pages to see men ready to settle down and then you hear them complain that they can't find marriageable girls.theyll say they can't marry this particular lady because she has so many body counts or they found out she had an abortion or she has a baby with a man she can't even explain or she dated a married man.dont just look at the surface.look beyond that.

Which decent man will hear that the girl he wants to marry has dated a married man before and will ever take her seriously? Men that are naturally territorial.they won't even care about the circumstances surrounding her dating a married man,it will automatically become a turn off even if it happened through deceit

Kobojunkie:
Has every one of your past relationships, even before marriage, been of tender loving kind?

2. Why not put that energy instead to tutoring and mentoring young boys to stop them from philandering after marriage?

of course,if I have the opportunity I will but why I'm particular about young girls is because those ones easily fall prey to the wicked lies they use in getting them to bed.for example,I found out that he told his New girlfriend that he's divorced and she is just another prey like any other young girl and many of the times their lies to get young girls are always

1.i don't love my wife any more
2.my wife doesn't give me sex anymore
3.i'm planning to divorce my wife soon
4.my wife nags too much.she doesn't give me peace
5.my wife use to do juju/jazz so I want to leave her
6.my wife is dirty
7.my wife is cheating on me

Etc like that.i hope you understand my point?

Kobojunkie:
The man was just in it for the sex, it seems. I mean relationships can be like that and this even applies as far as those who date non-married people — males and females alike — experience from time to time. Sometimes you find that babe who is willing to go to the ends of the earth for you and other times, you find the one you are with would not even lift a finger if you were in need. it happens!

wow.intresting.i get it.so if he was in it for casual sex how come he wasn't considerate of her own needs.How come he was stingy with her and not stingy with his new girlfriend (only God knows if that one is even saying the truth) I'm asking because I want to tutor and mentor young girls who fall prey into the hands of indecent married men. I feel a young girl should not be scarred by married men.

Kobojunkie:
Side-chicks get levels naw!

I don't understand what you mean.can you explain

Ok so I have this friend who I warned about dating married men and it even caused a huge disagreement between us that it affected our friendship.i told her for goodness sake you work and earn a 100k plus salary so why are you dating this man, leave the man alone.she responded with what is my buisness,am I his wife or am I related to his wife.i told her I don't care or give a f** about his wife.just leave married men alone and she refused so I had to stop friendship with her so we won't be seen as birds of a feather

Anyway fast-forward 6 months later she was served breakfast and had the audacity to come to my house to seek comfort and someone who will make her feel better but at first I told her to get lost that her private life is none of my buisness and she should go and fix herself and then I slammed the door on her.on a second thought I said let me just open the door and hear her story instead of just condemning her.so to the story

So I asked her with a more empathetic tone why were you even dating a married man, don't you love yourself or is it that you want to be a second wife and she said she didn't plan on staying with him long but she didn't know when she fell in love with him (I tried to hide my disgust because I was really getting irritated) that she just wanted a companion because she was bored so she said the guy will come around and nack and each time she is broke and asks for money,he will be posting her with I will send it and eventually not send it and when she confronts him it's always no vex my phone had issues,no vex,I just paid my son's school fees.just basically posting her.Then on her birthday on march 22nd he couldn't even call to wish her a happy birthday and when she saw him the following week she asked why he didn't wish her a happy birthday,he said she didn't tell her (then I interrupted her and said with all of this is the writing not clear enough that he doesn't give a shiit about you) then she said she was thinking he will change.when he now asked her to send her account details he sent 12thousand.i shook my head in irritation

After then she said he ghosted her for another 3 weeks and when he came around he was demanding for s#x that they should meet up in a hotel then she saw it as an opportunity to go for closure.(i cut in again) and said this Guy ghosted you and came to chat you up again and you still gave him attention,he didn't give you any money he had always promised yet he still came to your house to drive you to the hotel? Meanwhile he didn't give you anything but he's ready to pay for the hotel? Wetin do your brain? At this point I was loosing my patience then she kept saying she went for closure.ok I asked what happened when you got there, she said she went to have her bath and after dressing up the guy was telling her to come to the bed.she then said she called out the guy on all the fake promises etc he made to her and he didn't fulfill any of them and at some point she said she had to walk out because she could read his body language as unbothered and indifferent.so immediately she walked out of the room he kept shouting her name to come back for them to talk that she refused.

At that point i was feeling like I should slap her and beat her up but I controlled myself and told her why can't you respect yourself.why did you have to allow a man to reduce you to this level.anyway I just shook my head and left her in the sitting room for her to rest because I found her experience annoying and avoidable because you dey do side chick to a supposed local government politician and you no still gain anything.marry he no marry you, money you no get so what's your gain

So subsequently after that day when she came to pour her heart to me and I advised her to seek healing,learn from your mistakes and move on.

The following day I was going to my own place of work,I saw this Same man again already going out with another girl in our street.i was shocked.initially I wasn't even interested in Knowing who the man is because I felt 1, neither of them is my buisness,2 na wetin she chop belleful am but this Time I was really curious like why is this man targeting young girls and preying on them so I decided to do my findings.i started making friends with the younger sister of the girl he's preying on in order to get information from that one so one day I poked her to get information from her.I said who is the owner of the car parked in front of your house,I like the car I so she said it's her elder sister's new man friend and she said he spends on her very well and helps in paying for the bills in the house.i said ok and left her.at that point I just concluded that that man is a complete predator but my confusion is why was he stingy on his old girlfriend and now spending on his new found girlfriend? I'm just curious and confused

JASONjnr:
This was really touching when I saw the video on YouTube.


This was real love.


The kids didn't see colors. They saw love and they embraced it.


The nanny will make a good wife.

the actual mother should be ashamed of herself.how can your own kids miss their nanny when you are still there? Smh

This people no dey Taya

They sha wan dirty December by force

FuckingMachine:
No.

good.case closed

yemmywesey:
He should be arrested for public disturbance, relevance of Bible and Christianity are all gone.
It's not important in our lives anylonger, we are in a capitalist age now, if you don't work you no go chop, if you you no work you no go pay bills and Jesus from heaven will not come down to help you with it.
Where were Jesus Christ , the Bible , and the Quran when black people were being enslaved and traded by the west, where was the Quran when the arab slave traders slaughtered and massacred millions of African black people.
The whites that introduced the Bible knew that it is full of deceits and an enslaving tool to permanently colonize the mind of the blacks African forever.
Africans don't need the Bible or the Quran in the first place or at all again.
What African youths need now is STEM , science, technology, engineering, mathematics, for us to be fully liberated..
I feel saddened seeing young minds being poisoned by the Bible and the Quran,
This young preacher has no business with Jesus Christ or Muhammad, he should focus his mind on STEM courses

nothing wrong with stem.infact stem is laudable but what shall it profit a man to accomplish feats in science and technology without Jesu and then loose your Soul permanentlys ? What's the point, what's the basis?

Don't let it be too late before you realise Jesus Christ is not a fictional character and heaven/hell is not anyone's figment of imagination, it's real

Nevertheless you're right about the part that says if you don't work you won't eat.that is a reality and a statement of fact.no one Will feed, enable or support an indolent person till he gets his ass from the bed

skj1377:
They will deport the parents soon.

for doing what exactly?

All those Nigerians that pickpocket,do gun violence or engage in crime how many of their parent were deported?

Una sha want a debased society with kids out of control doing drugs, debauchery or engaging in violence,cultism or prostitution.this one is using his life for the kingdom of God and to transform the minds of youths wasting away with depression and hopelessness but for some strange reasons you have a problem with that

FuckingMachine:
He should be arrested.

arrested for what exactly?

When people are comiting abominations or doing exhibitionism in public are they arrested?

Chai

Caseless:
Do people do an elaborate wedding just to receive gift in return?

Abi o.


Help me ask am

Lovemeharder:
I also prefer a small marriage blessing or court wedding, cos after all the huge spending in doing one Big white wedding nobody will look you and your wife's face.
The last wedding I attended, I saw very few gifts that was presented to the couples and it was not encouraging at all.
People will come, eat and drink well, then go back to thier respective homes.

no be the couple invite them?them Siddon for their house,Na Una go invite them abi You no go host your guests before? Abeg stop this entitlement mentality

yinkus6750:
That axis has been a major refuse dump.
From the market users, to general waste from neighborhood residents.
The government should concentrate attention towards clearing the debris at all times.
Can also ensure people don't dump refuse anyhow on the road.

so the residents of that area cannot keep their environment clean, they are waiting, they are waiting on Government to clean up their own environment for them.awon obun shio shio

Small time Una go soon call your local government chairman make he wash your toilet

seunmsg:
Obidients are not normal people. They are people whose brains have been damaged by the traumatic loss of their gbajue candidate. They no longer reason normally.

someone had to finally say it because the level of hate and toxicity shows they were up to no good in the first place

Haaa this is really bad o


People should stop bleaching sef

Kukutente23:
The wife looks Yoruba and older

nope.she looks Edo

Kenmatt:
Why are you even crying here?

Cry me a River!!!

Most of you who come here to claim what you're not are all bursted.

It was easy for you to call me a Teen Gee.

But I am very sure I am older than you.

Think before you talk.

abeg getat with your ignorant a55.


I don't argue with lousy air heads

Kenmatt:
I didn't read but are you sure you don't know the gospel truth?

Most of you have shattered your ovary ground with drugs, Postinor 1,2,3 and so on...

The rest have blocked their fallopian tube with mistreated or untreated infections.

Now that the only thing they will ask you is; "I hope you didn't cum inside me?"

you talk too much and generalise too much.so you mean every woman that's not able to conceive took postinor or didn't treat infections properly.its clear you're either Still a teenager or have not yet seen life.who told you virgins don't also fall into this category.you clearly have a lot of growing up to do

Smh

See how they have desecrated the office if the GCOFRN

This is not a time for rubbish.bbn is an irrelevant distraction