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Maynmann:
Can’t wait.

That's fine but you go stubborn small , you too worry

Maynmann:
Looks do deceive, a stick in the water appears bent/curve, rather than believe what you see, have knowledge on what you see.

You will soon have the knowledge here , just sit back and watch . No need for arguments.

Maynmann:
celeb marriage lasts?
If you don’t want to mention names then don’t bring it up.

And are you not defending your own gender to the extent of forming up narratives to defend them?

Men just want to get off, men know who they really love..
Men are the real romantic people, women don’t love unconditional, they are not even capable of even loving.

That’s why bible said, men “love” your wife, women “respect” your husband.

I have heard you sir , seeing is believing, you'll definitely see things yourself, no need for argument.

coputa:
So, You have joined the growing list of nairaland beggars.

We are discussing about girls begging online expecially those you are engaged with, you are here engaging me asking for help, even if you're a fool, you should know that's not how to engage your dad.

I know you want to fantasize with me,why don't you use the 10MB data you were gifted wisely.

Abeg shift jare 😅😅

No dey call me names , you supposed know say I dey whine you , if I want beg , shey na when you dey complain I go beg , abi which dey you see me beg for money here.

Make una dey respect una selves , Otedola pikin I don see you ,epka.

Maynmann:
I just checked, the oldest qatar prince was born in 2006, so what’s the name because “qatar prince” is not a name.

If these issues are so prevalent you should be able to post one link, how many years do we have to wait till they arise?
Even your qatar prince was 9 months, it does not look like norm to me.

Exactly, seeing is believing and don’t forget that looks do deceive, I rather know.

Are the people getting married to harlots successful abd respectful men?
Mention one harlot marriage that last

Yes they are, we've some of them as celebs , I don't want to mention anybody's name.

You just want to vindicate your gender by all means, tomorrow they'll still come outside to tell you that , they loved those oloshos than their wives . If only you knew the money some men are spending on pussies, you won't waste your time defending anybody.

Maynmann:
Arab prince is not a name, beware of “purportedly “ and also if this the norm why don’t you bring a recent example, women get married to men with lots of sexual pasts Everyday.
It seems the opposite happen rarely.

How many men have you been with and they complain? Or how do you “know”?
You said men complain alot on nairaland, bring out one link.
Most men cheat outside because there woman was hoarding sex or the woman is no longer attractive.

You don’t know these, you are just assuming ignorantly so you can bask in your delusions you feed yourself.
The example you of the prince you gave me is not the majority or the norm.
Remember men choose who they want to marry, they have the keys to relationships, women only have keys to sex.

Wo 🥱 , everybody go dey alright, I wish i can
tag you , whenever any of these issues arises , it's then you will know that I'm not lying.

Maybe you're new on nairaland, don't worry you'll get to see more of it , seeing is believing.

So who are those getting married to harlots ??

Maynmann:
It is the man that will bring the sex styles, women want dominate men, how are you gonna be dominant if you don’t take control?
If you can’t perform very well before will even doubt your masculinity and manhood, have they ever questioned a woman femininity because of her performance in bed? Stop lying to yourself

Bring out ONE link out of the “lot” on nairaland, while at it don’t forget to search for the arab prince that left a women for a single mother married twice.

I'm not searching anything, you'll get to know the woman and the Arab prince very soon , let me give you a clue , the lady is from Edo .

Men do complain that's what I know , is that not one of the excuses they gave for cheating on their wives , they'll tell you their side chicks do give them different styles bla bla bla .

You just want to stress me this night , I knew you know all these things but you choose to act ingnorantly . Good night 😴😴

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Google the arab prince out, there will be plenty article for a saudi whole prince.

Men complain about their wives hoarding sex, not performance.[/quote]They do complain about their performance too , especially sex styles, pls stop the pretence . We've read a lot about them especially on nairaland.

Maynmann:
Why are they not looking at his past?
Do you think if it was a woman that was changing and adding more men, successful men like ooni will approach such woman?

An ooni with numerous children and kids went after them and they accepted, it seems woman do not care about a man’s past, as long as the man is rich and his future is secured a woman won’t mind.

They complain that there wives are not giving them enough sex, or what do you mean “satisfy” them?
A man performance determines how good sex is, not the woman.

Where is it in real life where men are getting married to experienced and older women?
Will a older woman even date a man younger than her?
A man won’t mind dating a woman 10 years younger than her.
What men value in a woman is different from what a woman values in a man.

I have forgotten that lady's name , she got married to an Arab prince , he has money than ooni but later got married to a lady that has been married twice . So what are you telling me , was it not because Noami left him, that made him get married to numerous ladies , he's doing all that to heal from the hurt , you think divorce is a joke .

What me I'm saying in essence is that , I shouldn't get to know any of your ugly past ,cos I will so much hate you and your money.

I'm not moved by material things, I can't say for others.

I don't think ooni has a horrible past .

Yes , men do complain about their wives sexual performance, don't tell me you're just hearing it for the first time .

We've women that got married to a younger lover , it seems you're just new to all these things, I understand we've teenagers here .

Rayban25:
The only reason why men even deal with women is because of sex...take away sex and having children from the equation and you're as good as useless... and your vetting is useless that's why if ooni of ife picks you to be his 7th wife you'll gladly agree

Will you have time to vet him as long as he is paying the Bill's? Keep deceiving yourself

That sex you want to take away , is the most important thing , so you see, the sex part will always be there.

If you have a control over something, then you become the master of that thing but if you don't have a control over it , then you become a slave .

For a man to be acquiring pussies , he's a slave to it , so if he marries me as his 7th wife , for sure I know that women are his weak point , we are doing each other a favour, the money he spends is from government money , so I go follow chop am , na fvck I fvck I no kill person 🤣🤣 .,

You're talking of bills , how many men are even paying bills these days ??

Maynmann:
Women judge men everytime, down to heights.
Like i said what a man values in a woman is different from what a woman values.
Women want experience/older men it even affects the sex because an experienced man will do it better, men do not want experience women, men prefer younger women.
Women love men that have options, ooni of ife keeps getting beautiful educated women, and the educated women do not mind been a second or third wife, what those women value is different from that.

A man won’t mind if his woman will go broke in the next 5 years, a woman will surely mind if she knows his man will go broke.

When you go to yatch party, you see few rich men but lots of broke ladies, for a man to be on the yatch he needs to be successful, for a woman to be in it she just needs to be a woman.

Is Ooni not educated as well , are those women not successful on their own before getting married to him .

Those women are not the ones forcing themselves on him , he went after them and they all accepted .

Men don't want experience women and yet they keep on complaining about their wives not being able to satisfy them .

I hear say man no like experience woman.

One of the problems we're having in this country is that , we don't like telling ourselves the truth .

And again we do speak from both sides of our mouth .

Men don't like this but why are we seeing the opposite of all that in real life ??

Rayban25:
We no send una before so dont overrate your importance please...after vetting me will you be the one to pay the Bills? Shift abeg

🤣🤣🤣🤣 No go find work do , na woman wey go pay your bills you dey find, and you go dey call yourself alpha...wetin 🤣🤣🤣

Una no fit do without us , konji go finish una kpatakpata , even the sex , without drugs dem no fit do anything, alcohol and gbogbotigbo don turn am to ordinary water.

1stola:
Unfortunately for you women, when it comes to sex and HOOKUP culture, you people deserve 99% of blame because, MOST TIMES, IT'S YOU PEOPLE THAT CONTROL ACCESS TO SEX.
EXCEPT IN THE CASE OF RAPE ...
If you don't spread your legs, you can't get Fucƙed.

See them forming saints online , yeye dey smell , so who're all those dummies coming online to complain about their girlfriends, refusing to have sex with them

Na here we gather dey o , we go see who go dey complain of being sexually starved 🤣🤣 by him girlfriend not even wife .

You men can't do without women, that's the standard from the beginning, God says that it's not good for a man to be alone , He gave man a companion through woman.

Something you both enjoyed, you now want to shame the other gender , ko possible.

Once a man knows how to treat a woman nicely , some women wrapper here will start calling such a man Simp 😅😅😅

And in reality , na dem mumu for another person wife not even their own wife.

Maynmann:
You can say that here but in reality you don’t really care about a man’s part, the same way a man doesn’t care about a woman’s future.

I will bloodly care , I can't get married to a womanizer , a rapist , drug addict , ritualist, kidnapper , cultist and all the bad bad things you can ever imagined, I won't be the lady to clean anybody's mess.

Even though we later marry each other and I got to know later , believe you me that love will die . It's not only men that has future, we've seen a lot of ladies that came through for their men and those men are making it through their wives influence.

You'll wants to be the judge but never wants to be judged .

E dey easy , na una no dey dey proud of una past . chest your past with your full chest , if e sure for you die.

If not I care for the past , i would have ended up with a womanizer, I was advised not to continue that a leaopard never changes its skin .

Make I no just hear any rubbish , that love don end , if I can keep myself, what stops you from keeping yours ??

Everyone should go for their type.

Fahvvy:
Bakrabas
With all due respect sir, you sound really naive ...

You said "What's good for Tom will also be nice for Jane", going by this logic, broke women should go for broke men ba? But is that always the case? ...

Fact is men and women have things that are considered really important to them...

Women (in general) want men that are more financially stable at the very least whilst men (in general) want women who are chaste and not wh.ores ...

But for some reason, the society have made the wants of women a norm and disdain the wants of men and it's bad that other men support that trash too! ...

Regardless of how broke and wretched a woman is, she will ALWAYS want a man who is more financially capable than she is ...

Is that a case of "good for Jane, good for Tom" too? ... I mean, broke to broke, "prostitute to prostitutes" ba? ...

Well...
I'm not one to condemn a person's choices, if you can be with a woman regardless of her past or as you put it "50-50 weight past", then that's fine - every man with his kah-ya...

However...
A woman's se.xual past is something that I pay serious attention to ...

I never knew it was plywoods that were patronizing her , same here that men are looking for oloshos to carry , make una just dey play , especially the married ones , go through the front page and see how men are disgracing themselves just because of punna .

I will judge you by your past , I'm not waiting for any yeye future , the judgment start now 😜😜

BRIMBRAM:
Would they have gotten married to her if they knew. And will the marriage continue to stand if the eventually know?!

A woman's past is important to men. A man's future is important to women.

We're going to judge everyone by their past and by their future, you guys wants to eat your cakes and have it back .

It's not only men that has future , we women too has future.

So you except me to forget a rapist past or a ritualist past , you'll must be joking.

I'm gonna judge you , by your past , present and future , don't just let me know about it cos definitely I will judge you harshly 🤣🤣🤣

divinehand2003:
Here are 12 differences between a husband and a boyfriend:

1. Commitment:
A husband is committed to a long-term, legally recognized partnership, while a boyfriend may have a less formal commitment.

2. Legal and Financial Obligations:
A husband has legal responsibilities and financial obligations to his spouse, such as joint property ownership, shared finances, and potential alimony or child support. A boyfriend typically does not have these legal and financial obligations.

3. Future Planning:
A husband and wife often make long-term plans together, such as buying a house, having children, or building a life together. Boyfriends may have less concrete or definitive plans for the future.

4. Emotional Support:
A husband typically provides consistent emotional support to his spouse, while a boyfriend's level of emotional support may vary.

5. Household Responsibilities:
Husbands often share household responsibilities and decision-making with their wives, while boyfriends may have less involvement or shared responsibilities in managing a household.

6. Social Status:
Being a husband implies a higher level of commitment and social recognition compared to being a boyfriend, who is generally seen as less committed or in a less serious relationship.

7. Legal Rights:
Husbands have specific legal rights and protections, such as inheritance rights, medical decision-making authority, and spousal privilege in legal matters. Boyfriends do not have these legal rights.

8. Partnership:
Husbands and wives typically view their relationship as a partnership, working together to achieve common goals. Boyfriends may have a more individualistic approach to the relationship.

9. Depth of Intimacy:
The level of emotional and physical intimacy often deepens in a marital relationship compared to a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

10. Shared Responsibility:
Husbands often take on shared responsibilities in raising children, managing finances, and supporting the family, while boyfriends may have less involvement in these areas.

11. Mutual Trust:
Trust is crucial in both relationships, but the level of trust and reliance tends to be higher between spouses compared to a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

12. Longevity:
Marriage is intended to be a lifelong commitment, while a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship may have less certainty about its duration and future.

It's important to note that relationships can vary greatly, and these differences may not apply universally to all husbands and boyfriends.

Why are you telling lies 🥱🥱 🥱

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Maybe long term goals with side chicks 🤣🤣

Na horseband full outside, when they marry finish , their evil spirit go begin fly upandan.

E be like you no dey this planet .

You better plan your life by yourself and ask God to help you, anybody can fvck up at any point in life .

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
if he bought the car in side chick name, the wife will go to jail for car theft

What if the car is owned by the wife or have you not heard of cases , where by some men do steal their wives properties and give it out to their side chicks especially jewelries , some will be flexing on their wives money , I can never be that woman, if you want to womanize , do it with your money.

God bless that wife , they want to reap where they did not sow , had it been your husband was poor , she won't even agree to be a side chick let alone a side hen .

Suffer with a man today , tomorrow he pays you back with a side chick , if he sure for that man , why him no womanize when sapa dey flog am koboko :

Tourist123:
you get papers?

No be everybody go use sand paper like you 🥱

Very poor

Yes he's wrong

Na today you know say , some men no dey care about their wives and children.

If you get money, you better enjoy your life .

Nice one

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Some are fake accounts especially the ones with naked ladies .

coputa:
You're bittered because you have been used and dumped because of your selfish interest.

I do help girls/women who are genuinely in need with nothing attached.I have one male and a female under my scholarship presently.

I will never stop helping people,male or female.I never get tired because I do not have an ulterior motives.

Baba I need your help 🙏

07kjb:
Were did you serve for there bro,my junior brother was just posted there.i heard HIV is much there
Any advice?

Na fvck carry your bro go there 😏

Na dem dem

Me wey don spend 5yrs for Yankee kor

Na so