So much tears on this thread

Fair enough

By God's grace , coming next year this how I planned it with my guy .

Anybody that's wants to do party or invite thousands of people should do with his pocket.

casualobserver:


When I say power below, I am referring in you ability to attract the best in the opposite sex.

A woman’s power ends by the time she is 35. A man’s power begins in his mid twenties starts to fade 55-60. At that age if you have not secured a good man, the men you rejected at 25 will toss you around because you are of no use to them. At 35 you will struggle to find a life partner of the caliber you turned down in your twenties, at 40 it is almost impossible. At 35 you will realize you need a man but at 35+ you will have to marry below your status, or put up with things you thought you would never do to find a husband. 90% of the single reasonably attractive single women out there are side chicks to married men. I am a married man, I know. Many of them from good homes and I always ask myself how did a girl like this end up a side chick. The answer is usually poor mindset. At that age there are not many options for a single woman. The marryable men are married, if you want a single man, odds are he is struggling and will continue struggling, probably the type of man you rejected when you had power.

God did not design this thing by accident. The purpose of a woman having power in her youth at a time when a man is weak is 1) to have choice of the best suitors 2) to secure the gratitude, loyalty and eternal love of a man at his weakest knowing full well that is what will sustain her when her beauty/ fertility fades and other women come after her husband. It is more difficult for a man to value a woman he that came into his life at his peak.

Don’t waste your youth, don’t waste your power or you will be the one doing the begging. If you know what single mature women go through in the hands of married men, you will not abuse your power. We dont have time for you, we have families, we say come when it is convenient, we say go when we are done. We call you when it is convenient, we dont pick your calls, some of us pass you around. You are a convenience and not a priority….the worst thing from your point of view is you know but you can’t do anything about it, if you leave one married man you will jump into another married man. it is even worse for those of you from decent homes because you don’t want people to know so you take it or endure loneliness or go to single men lesser than the men you rejected in your youth. The Beyoncé and all others that are deceiving all you women with “independent women” are married.

All these are just for women to settle down with damaged men .

Men are so cheap to get , forget that thing , is not same men that are going for other people's wives .

The only problem affecting women is power of money , even orgasm majority of them can't give.

In as much as I love to settle down, I won't settle down with a damaged man ., if their mama no fit change them , na me go come change them .

A man should be the one afraid of loosing me not the other way round.

Only last month till this moment, I've gotten like 5 proposals , I vetted them and see that 3 out of the 5 only wanted sex and expect me to do the chasing.

For my life I never chase man , na man dey rush me , if you no get my time , I move onto the next 😜😜😜

She's definitely good to them

NEWBIN:
Does that mean she loves you ?

When she says:

PLEASE, IF YOU CHEAT ON ME DONT LET ME KNOW

What does she imply?

Meaning she'll definitely do same, and when she's caught you'll be blamed for that .

I told my guy that once he starts cheating , he should just know that I won't waste my prayers and emotions on him . I will only pray for things that are productive , I no kukuma sabi pray . Na God dey help me .

Some men are cursed with it , before getting married they should go for deliverance.

Watching it via Gotv

Good for you , wetin sweet dey kill too

Things like these are common in many homes

Modesty is the key

Any available one

Congratulations 👏

Since 3 weeks ago.

Congratulations 👏

Nice one

The devil 😈 now lives within us

Mtcheeeeeew

Men maltreats their wives here and get away it with , so it's vice versa.

Nigeria as a country favours men while Abroad favours women.

Hmmmm

Na wa o

I am a woman , those claiming to be both , are having mental problem.

Her headache

Yes I will do it for him cos he's responsible, nothing shames a woman like having a community boyfriend or husband

Mtcheeeeeew

saphiere:
Stories of men sleeping with their house helps and even impregnating them is not new to us.
Why do men indulge in such act?
If you must cheat as you men do saying it's men's nature to cheat. If you must cheat why should it be the househelp?

please I need answers

Nothing in this world justify such actions, the most painful part of it , is them sleeping with minors .

Like the wife will maltreat her in the morning and afternoon, then the horsebandit will come at night to pound same innocent child .

I now see the reasons why my dad , doesn't want any of us to stay with anybody.

I just pity people that are still giving birth to kids that they can't comfortably take care of ,

Some of them will just become a sex tool in the hands of Oga and animal in the hands of Madam all in the name of being a housemaid.

I pray to live long for my children, this world is full of evil .

I heard of one yesterday, she just put to birth and the husband is already sleeping with the maid , a girl of 13yrs . I was like , if it was the woman's child , and someone is sexually abusing her daughter , would she have kept mute , of course, some mumu women are every ready to keep mute.

I'm a lady but I will say large percent of Nigeria women are gullible , while larger percent of men are shameless.

You wondered why they're been deported from UK and the likes. I can't even vouch for them , same thing happens here and they get away with it.

God bless Oyinbo law.

Osobi32:
When the house help cares more than the wife, when the house help shows more love than the wife, when the house help is always present attending to his needs even without him telling her what to do..... Madam it becomes natural for the man to start seeing the beauty in her.

What can you say of minors , children under the age of 10yrs 🥱.

This topic isn't even a new thing , same men that sleeps with their biological daugthers , no wonder , they do deport most of them , immediately they step their feet outside the country .

Make una dey take am with womanizing.

izonborn098:
If ur husband happen to sleep with ur house help then their is something in the maid that u don't get..
Why do women Bleep gate man and neighbor?

Even underage house girls , most of them are just community dogs

This life is full of Sam Larry , my dear breathen be a portable

MICVOCT:


Plus other self benefits.

MICVOCT

Dey play , I'm not saying sex isn't good but at as a man , you should know what you're doing .