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Phones / Re: Glo Introduces New Data Plan. 2GB For N500, 4GB For N1000, 180GB For N20,000 by israeloke4(m): 11:12am On Nov 24, 2017
And they keep on getting, feedback about there shit snail network.. Guess what, they will never yield to it,.. All na business, ifa fani lapo ya
Romance / What You Should Never Do To Please A Woman by israeloke4(m): 3:29pm On Oct 01, 2017
What you should never do to please a woman

Love is a beautiful feeling, it’s an intoxicating feeling. Most times, when people are in love, anything is possible. They behave in certain ways that we may never fully understand, neither can they explain it themselves.

Every one expresses love in their own unique way. While some men in this clime are very rigid and withdrawn, other men are very expressive and can go to any length to express their feelings both in cash and in kind.

Some men act foolishly when they are in love, and this has cost them a great deal. It is not bad to pamper your woman but over doing it makes one look stupid. One can be perceived a weakling or called a ‘woman wrapper’. Due to the man’s actions, there are insinuations that he’s not in his right senses. People try to trivialize his love with claims that the woman used juju on him. In expressing love, some men go overboard.

These are some of the things you should never do to please a woman.

1.Never shut out your family or friends because of a woman

It’s a well known fact that some women are manipulators.They want to have their way at all costs, so they come in and manipulate you to shut out everyone else. Most women with such traits have ulterior motives.

They look for ways to keep his family and friends at bay. Everything their husbands does for his parents or siblings, they insist he does same for their own family too. Such women are emotional blackmailers.

Turning your back on your family because of woman should be a no-go-area. In a bid to please a woman, don’t ditch your own family. Family is irreplaceable. That woman you rejected your family for can abandon you at any time, but your family will always be your last resort.

This is not to say that it is not good to fight for the woman you love to be accepted by your family and friends, especially when they make it obvious that they don’t like her.

You can fight for her, defend her but do not shut your family out. Isolating yourself from family and friends for a woman never ends well. Set your priorities right. No woman should come between you and your family.

2.Never buy her a car or a house when you do not own one

How does one not have a car or even a land in his own name, yet wants to buy one for a woman just to impress her? Love is not foolishness. Until you have one, it is irrational to buy her one.

If you are married to her already and you wish to buy her a car to ease her movement and that of your children even when you have none, then it’s wise to buy the car in your own name first, then hand her the car. It’s your car but she’s the temporary owner, pending when you are able to get yourself one.

3.Never kill someone or commit suicide because of a woman

There are billions of other women on earth, do not because of one woman give up on living or kill another out of jealousy.

After committing so much both materially and emotionally into the relationship and she chooses another man, this can create instant rage, but be emotionally intelligent enough not kill or die for her no matter the depth of your love for her.

If she leaves you for another man, give it time, you will definitely heal and find another woman that will love you truly.

Committing suicide or killing another person makes you the biggest loser, because she will still move on with another man whether you are dead or imprisoned.

4.Do not be over-submissive to her

Be caring, loving, attentive, understanding and available but do not let her dorminate your life in all areas.

You don’t have to be a ‘yes man’ all the time. Play your part as a man, be in charge of your relationship, if it’s not convenient to do certain things she requests you do, tell her ‘No’ and stand your grounds.

Do not act in ways that gives you off as a weakling or a fool that can be easily manipulated. Be sweet and also firm, that way, she knows her limit.

Maintain boundaries within your relationship and know the importance of emotional space. You have to balance your togetherness and individuality. Give her the freedom to be who she is and encourage her to become the best version of herself but do not lose your place in all these.

5.Do not go out of your way to commit crime just to meet her needs

Some men have taken to all kinds of social vices from robbery, kidnapping, 419 and many illegal businesses just to provide for and impress their women. These men put themselves under unnecessary pressure just to meet up with their women’s financial requests.

They do anything including stealing and starving their parents just to impress thyeir women. Some go as far as training girlfriends in school, sending them on oversees trip, and shopping sprees while their own siblings and parents are home without enough to cater for their own needs.

When these men get caught by the long arm of the law for their crimes, they are left financially drained. Sometimes, these women they are trying to please abandon them and just move on with another brother.

Men, fall in love, it is a beautiful feeling but take your brain along with you.

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Celebrities / Re: Mercy Aigbe's Marriage Crashes Over Alleged Battering. See Battered Face by israeloke4(m): 7:59pm On Apr 28, 2017
why crashing nah planewhy crashing nah planewhy crashing nah plane
Romance / Re: Are Nigerian Girls Still Worth Dating? by israeloke4(m): 10:54am On Apr 15, 2017
aurxtino:
Hello house, i have been a member of this forum for quite a while now, but i just come here to read up and then leave.
but right now something real painful has happened to me, i met this girl in my final year, and we started dating, i mean i have caught her lie several times but i just ignored, each time i want to come to Nigeria my so called gf always find a reason to tell me not to come you know all that stuffs, i have always suspected her to be a runs girl you know, but i just wanted to catch her red handed. so it all happened i finally came to Nigeria on Tuesday. met her we talked, my gf told me that she would be travelling to Lagos with her elder sister on Friday morning, i said no problem, lo and behold she embarked on a Journey and something told me call her elder sister pretend to be somebody else, and i did. and the elder sister said she is in town. and when i called my gf she said am insulting her calling her a prostitute and all kinds of names, she did not even show any sign of remorse. i just want to end this and go look for a white woman am fed up with Nigerian girls and their lies, i mean what do they really want from a man, and mind you if you are a guy reading this, don't ever love any girl hundred percent and let her know it. else you would end up being broken hearted. thanks house. any advice she is coming back on tuesday or there about. i know she would beg normally. but please house advice me on what to do.
hello gentleman, you want a good answers, why dont you visit quora and leave romance lander,some people here are just something else, he is in need of good answer to what is Brothering his life, you there giving fake advice, and writing trash on here,
Romance / Re: What To Do When You Convey Your Feelings To A Girl And She Doesn't Respond? by israeloke4(m): 6:55pm On Oct 13, 2016
DeeTus:
Telling a woman about your feels is totally wrong unless she's into you already.

Women love unpredictable situation. Just go out there and chase a lot of women so that you wouldn't feel so bad when this particular lady turns you down. In Nigeria, men do the chase whereas, it's a different ball game abroad. A girl will approach and ask if you like her. cheesy cheesy
you right bro,i have made this mistake once,now have learnt my lessons,so guys chase your dream and love will come afterward.
Romance / Re: How A Girl Wanted To Turn Me To An ATM Machine by israeloke4(m): 4:04pm On Aug 03, 2016
help her,you can even increase it to #555,000,mr mugun,no be thesame toto them get,she is going to drain hell outta you.

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Romance / Re: Free Book: Attracting The Opposite Sex Conveniently by israeloke4(m): 3:07pm On Jun 28, 2016
eladyj4christ:



Hello Israel, it's an ebook and there is no way i can forward it without your email.
israeloke4@gmail.com
Romance / Re: Free Book: Attracting The Opposite Sex Conveniently by israeloke4(m): 10:34am On Jun 21, 2016
Yeah, i need one
Romance / 7 Reasons Introverted Men Are So Damn Attractive by israeloke4(m): 11:34am On Apr 25, 2016
1. You are mysterious. You have a rich inner world, full of intriguing thoughts and feelings. Women who like you want to know what you're thinking, but they can't possibly know so easily. This sets up a playful, intense dynamic naturally. 2. You are easy to be around. By nature, you are chill and relaxed. You're not clamoring for attention, and you're a great listener. These qualities make you pleasant and appealing. 3. You have a fresh perspective on the world. Because you're not into passing fads but are attuned to a deeper reality, the way you see the world is often surprising and wonderful to others. You have a fresh sense of humor and quirky playfulness. 4. Your introspection makes you a wonderful partner. You have a habit of searching out where you're going right and where you're going wrong in life, so you can take responsibility and better yourself. When developed, this is incredibly earnest and trustworthy to a woman. 5. You are in tune with subtle chemistry nuances. This is so sexy. Your quiet depth puts you in close touch with your body, her body, and the environment in a way that gives you a special edge. Sometimes, just the slightest glance can make a woman melt, and your intuitive nature means you are especially primed to do that well. 6. You are intellectually stimulating. Intelligent women are energized by meaningful conversations with intelligent men. Because of your intellectually curious and exploratory nature, you know all kinds of different things to share with others. 7. You know yourself. As an inwardly oriented man, you know what you like and what you don't like. You know your values, your preferences, and what you want in life. This makes you sophisticated and trustable. Those are only seven reasons you are naturally attractive.

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Romance / Re: If This Is What Relationship Is All About Then I Quit!!! by israeloke4(m): 9:49am On Apr 03, 2016
am also facing that now,we love,they denied us ,they love ,we dont love them back .
Health / Re: Yellow Sperm Vs White Sperm by israeloke4(m): 1:34pm On Mar 25, 2016
comments for here no get part two,oga yellow sperm i hail una.

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Politics / Re: BREAKING! Yoruba Youths Protest, Demand Nigeria Breakup As Hausas Attack More Yo by israeloke4(m): 5:02pm On Mar 05, 2016
atlast ,those biafra will now be happy,time to ,split,time to rethink
Romance / Re: I'm So Ashamed Of Guys Who Do This..... by israeloke4(m): 9:40am On Nov 10, 2015
that is naija guys for you.
Sports / Five Things We Learned From Machester Derby by israeloke4(m): 5:48pm On Oct 25, 2015
Man Utd vs Man City: Five things we learned from the Manchester derby Feisty, but cautious and well reserved in their attempts on the goal, Manchester United and Manchester City played a game that will not have pleased the fans that were eager to see a more competitive game. Not a single shot on target from both rivals in the first period is enough to put the highly anticipated game into perspective. With the top place in the standings at stake, both teams from Manchester were more concentrated on keeping their nets still. The home side dominated the possession, but failed to utilize the on-ball advantage and put one past Joe Hart. With everything we have witnessed this afternoon at the Old Trafford, five conclusions are easily drawn after the goalless draw: 1. No Aguero, no party Manchester City striker has begun his rehabilitation process, and is expected to return from his hamstring injury within a month. His absence in Sunday’s derby was more than obvious, as City’s front line lacked the edge and was pretty powerless with Wilfried Bony understudying for the injured Argentine. The Ivorian striker has started just his eighth game in what has been the 10 largley disappointing months at Manchester City. Without a single shot towards De Gea’s goal, Bony was helpless upfront, hugely short of everything Aguero has to offer. Without the dynamism and penalty box awareness generally more than needed in games such as this one against the fellow title contenders, Wilfried Bony proved to be just a poor imitation of Sergio Aguero who will be sorely missed for the rest of his injury. 2. Van Gaal was right, Marcos Rojo is United’s future Having misses the USA preseason tour, Marcos Rojo was widely tipped for a January move away from Manchester United. In addition to his passport issues, the Argentine defender failed to notify the United medical team about the injury he picked while at international duty, which had angered Louis van Gaal. However, the Dutch manager played down the rumours insisting that Marcos Rojo has a bright future at Manchester United ahead of him. Returning to the starting line-up for the Manchester derby, the 25-year-old did indeed prove his worth and has stepped up when it was most important. United’s left back completely locked down City’s Kevin de Bruyne, preventing the flamboyant Belgian from making a mark in the Sunday’s game. Marcos Rojo covered a lot of space against Manchester City, playing an important role in helping his teammates locking the most agile player in the last couple of weeks for Manchester City. 3. City should sell Yaya Ture The Ivorian has passed his prime, and this season it is more obvious than ever. Once a player able to solve the entire game with his individual moments of brilliance, Yaya Toure has become impotent force in Pellegrini’s team. The experienced midfielder is emotionally distraught, as he has confessed to L’Equipe recently that he was disappointed by English media. Opening up in public, Toure spoke of his general disgust towards England and it is most obvious that he simply is not the player he once was. Coming off from a season in which he netted 12 goals for City, the 32-year-old didn’t score a single goal in ten games this season and the fans are starting to feel disgruntled by his poor form. There are rumours of his possible move to the United States, and selling Yaya Toure will be a smart move as his departure would by all means also restore a positive atmosphere in the squad. 4. Anthony Martial has already paid off The French teenager is already a world-class forward. His arrival to Manchester United has raised quite a few eyebrows, having become the highest paid youngster in Europe following his £36.5 million transfer from Monaco. Dubbed the new Thierry Henry, this 19-year- old took the Premier League without any fear. The French winger scored five goals in seven games before the Manchester derby, proving to be an instant hit for the Red Devils. Despite having claimed Martial was bought for his successor, Van Gaal has placed a lot of trust into the lad and it paid off. Martial caused a lot of problems to City’s defence, Bacary Sagna was unable to stop the young star who showed a great deal of determination and courage entering such a big game. He lacked a polished finish, just like the entire team of Manchester United, but has once again showed huge promise and excitement. 5. Kompany still invaluable for City The 29-year-old Belgium defender has not started a club game since his calf injury against Juventus on September 15, as he had been relegated to the bench for his team’s last two games against Bournemouth and Sevilla. It was all due to Manuel Pellegrini who was angry with his team’s captain playing in Euro 2016 qualifier for Belgium against Israel. Manchester City manager was, however, right to rehabilitate his reliable defender, who once again proved his value for Citizen’s backline. Vincent Kompany commanded his defence against Manchester United to repel the attacks and help Joe Hart save his net in the great derby. It all looks quite different with the experienced defender in the team.
Jokes Etc / Owo Ni Koko by israeloke4(m): 3:53pm On Oct 03, 2015
Imagine you woke up 1 morning 2 brush ur teeth and den found out vat ur all teeth are now pour Gold....In ur amazement and confused state...ur went straight to ur Dentist....Afte r taking a good look at ur teeth...He den said..."Viz re pour Gold..A Tooth goes for 4million"....hw many teeth wuld you ask him to remove......#Comment_below...
Computers / Re: Let's Have Your "Computers Section" Complaints/Suggestions/Observations Here! by israeloke4(m): 8:40pm On Aug 28, 2015
please where can i download pes2013 for pc free,also can 1gb ram system play pes 2013?
Computers / Re: Let's Have Your "Computers Section" Complaints/Suggestions/Observations Here! by israeloke4(m): 8:39pm On Aug 28, 2015
please where can i download pes 2013 for pc free,also can 1gb ram system play pes 2013?
Gaming / Re: Ppsspp Iso Games by israeloke4(m): 9:17pm On Jul 06, 2015
joganut:
bro am building a blog wit links to download anytin free.. i will send u d link once am thru...
thanks baba,i will be expecting the link,when will that be?
Gaming / Ppsspp Iso Games by israeloke4(m): 6:17pm On Jul 06, 2015
hello fellas,please where can i download ppsspp iso game for free.
Phones / Re: Glo BIS On Android Downloading Speed(screenshot) by israeloke4(m): 10:16pm On Jun 30, 2015
Plz @op do i need to tweack imeai,or do i need to do something before i can start using it?.
Politics / Re: FG Raises Alarm Over Dwindling Electricity Supply, Power Plants Shutdown by israeloke4(m): 10:25pm On May 22, 2015
that is why we no get lite,dere is God o!!!!!!!
Fashion / Re: How Girls Sleep When They Make New Hair Style (pic) by israeloke4(m): 7:19pm On May 17, 2015
What is that,lolz
Business / Re: Gtbank Launches Mobile Phone Money Transfer - First Of Its Kind! by israeloke4(m): 4:04pm On May 16, 2015
You can also buy credit card through dis,gtb best bank.
Politics / Re: Ndigbo Forum Lists Demands For Buhari by israeloke4(m): 10:24am On Apr 22, 2015
what's all these demands is all about,leave this baba,let him be.
Celebrities / Re: ''dating Dammy Krane Was An Immature Move''; Chidinma Says In New Interview by israeloke4(m): 5:41pm On Apr 20, 2015
Immature indeed lolz
Politics / Re: Kerosene From N165 Per Litre Now Sells For N50 Per Litre. by israeloke4(m): 1:03pm On Apr 05, 2015
How i go take know,nah gas we dey use.
Politics / Re: Five Top Fastest Developing States In Nigeria That Are Undisputable by israeloke4(m): 10:52pm On Mar 17, 2015
what of my state borno?

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