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So from the above i hope we can see the war is pointless and men and women can successfully coexist peacefully with proper understanding of what each other wants.
Illegendd, Ubunja, Martinez, Pansophist, AdvanceDNA, Ereluroz, Siofra, Jeon, sweetplum ... Pls come and share your inputs.
As always bros before hoes

Hello my country people, i just had the most interesting thought right now, i think i finally understand some definitions the ongoing war between REDPILL and FEMINISM.
Redpill believe that a lady who loves you is going to submit her body to you.
FEMINISM believes that in order for a lady to submit and offer her body to a man then he has to provide for her.
HOE Any lady who is willing to have sex with you for money even without no feelings and shameless
GOODgirl A lady who has sex with you after all conditions are met but with feelings attached
Goodguy; A guy who has sex with only one woman and provides for all her needs feelings attached
Player; A gud guy who get heartbroken as a result of running broke as a goodguy and making a financial comeback with a vow to provide and have sex with ladies but no feelings involved.
Broke guy, A guy who has no shinbin to his name and instead takes solace in masturbation or escort services, these are the set of people we call redpillers on nairaland.

EreluRoz:
Redpill ends online, those ones still forming redpill haven't met that one woman that'll bring out the simphood that's naturally inbuilt in all men. No smart woman will be with a man that doesn't simp for her no matter how hard he portrays himself.
To those women who are complaining their men are too hard, I'm telling you now that you are with the wrong man because no man is too hard for his woman, when you are with the right man the natural simping comes to play freely. Take this from mama

Is this how you reason? Still attach labels... smh

sharp

I hope they fit refurbish wrinkled toto and preek. No b only face de old o.

Redpill end game is masturbation as a result of chasing all the women in your life away due to anger and hatred, but stoicism allows u relate with them as humans while keeping your emotions and desires in check. Start today, 'a burning desire is the starting point of all accomplishment. Just like a small fire cannot give much heat, a weak desire cannot produce great results'. Become stoic and experience true freedom. Shalom!

Stoicism is broad but all branches boils down to being in control of the mind. Stoicism is a philosophy of personal ethics that enables the individuals who follow it to not be controlled by the desire for pleasure or fear of pain, by using their mind to understand the world and to do one's part in nature's plan, and treating others fair and just.

EmperorCaesar:
Stoicism is the answer to every emotional problems humans can potential have and so I'd approve your article

It's almost impossible to be 100% stoic tho but even 50% of it is enough to make u glide through life's baggages unscathed

But JessicaRabbit thinks Epicureanism is the best....her thoughs tho, her opinion

I greet u emperor

Fahvvy:
Oh boy! (Sighs) ...
When will this ever end? ...

OP...
All their lives, men have been taught how to treat a woman good, but rarely ever have women been taught how to treat men ...

Rather women have been taught what to expect from men, thus what we have now (majorly) are just a bunch of entitled and du.mb women walking upandan with empty s.kulls ...

Thankfully, the modern man isn't having any of it - not anymore! ... So talks like "how to satisfy a woman" and the likes is fast becoming irritating to the modern man ...

What is valid to the modern man and rightly so is, after doing all of these, what's in for me? ...

Why not teach your girl/fiance/wife how you want them to behave?

slickbak:

Trying to die before your time?

It costs nothing to be kind

chatinent:
What works for you may not work for another, don't you think so?

Yes boss i get you, but it won't hurt to be kind to these ladies. They are going through alot already.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
You need to first satisfy her totolistically before you start talking about emotional satisfaction

Due to the on going gender war worldwide between men and women i.e redpillers vs feminism, so many minds have been badly bleeped up beyond repair. Guys why not just ditch the concept of redpill and instead become stoicism, you see being stoic is all about having control over the mind and inturn leads to a healthy mind strength and not one formed by hate(redpill). Stoicism has been as long as time itself as referenced in Acts of the apostles 17 vs 18. When nothing bothers you at all, that is true power. Ditch redpill and become stoic
“You have power over your mind, not outside events. Realize this and you'll find strength'’
~Marcus Aurelius

Zazu don de zuzu. Make he sha no run mad oo

Eyah...sorry bro, i hope you get help real soon. Depression is real, pay attention to your mental health.

Forget about any label i.e redpill, blue pill what have u. Just follow the normal old traditional way our fathers did.

1) Never treat her like a princess or her satisfaction levels would become unachievable for future.
2) When she cries, she is not looking for advice, she just needs a shoulder and a pair of ears to vent out her sadness.
3) You are 50:50, but when she is on periods give her a leverage of 10%.
4) A girl loves to be admired for her looks, give nice and mild compliments every now and then, she needs nothing more. (Never taunt her for looks)
5) Recognize, accept and treat her with respect when your family and friends are around.
6) Never stretch fights, sort out matters within a reasonable time of span, and don't bring up dead and buried matters again and again.
7) Some days she just needs to hold your hands, lie down with you and enjoy a session of emotional intimacy and random talks, don't disrupt that with sexual urges.
Little romantic gestures like a gentle kiss of love on forehead, caressing her hair, will keep her saitsfied and excited.
9) Travel with her, spend “me and you” time, No one else between you two, walk amidst nature and beautiful weather, enjoy food.
10) When she is feeling down and out or caught in life, give her priority, take a break from everything and make her happy.
I think a genuine woman would need nothing more to be emotional. Abi ladies you are free to chip in

idahme:
How many inexperienced women are available that don't want experienced men? They are in the minority, women most times want a man who is better than her in all aspects of life.

Who told u when ladies say they want a man who is better than them, sex is included for all of them? Some want you to be higher financiallly, some emotional intelligence, some beauty, some life challenging experiences, some 12inches preek, wether u gud or bad for bed no matter as long as u gather. The list goes on and on. Infact how many nairaland feminist do you know who are happy with men cheating or over emphasis the importance of men sexual experience? During my service camp i met a 26 year old virgin who was strictly bent on no form of physical contact before marriage except in public, she rates sex as the least of qualities a man must possess. One time we were vibing she just said she's scared of the challenge to match all the ladies i've been with in the past. 'that if i was a virgin like her then it would've been much more easier for her'. Traditional women i.e women who believes sex is sacred and only after marriage don't rate sex as love. Make we try change the way we think.

Who tell u? Some inexperienced ladies actually prefer an inexperienced man, know this and know peace.

MrBrownJay1:
the above in bold is the lie you tell yourself.... A) in the morning, your anaconda will rise whether you sleep next to your wife, your dog or even by yourself. that certainly doesnt mean you desire your wife, it just means you are ALIVE and SEXUALLY HEALTHY.
B) if you need to fantasize about pornstars before you can mount your wife/gf, then you still dont desire your wife, and certainly not solving the problem (you just fantasize that she is something that she aint, in order to pretend that you are sexually attracted to her).
C) there is nothing wrong with a man who likes big/fat women (to each their own), but as i said earlier, many men desire their women because they looked a certain way, and now are not sexually attracted to their wives/gf any longer because that woman turned into a baby whale after childbirth. you may love big women, but many men dont, thats why these men got married to a non fat woman to begin with.
D) as for you saying that your fire will always burn for that same woman, for the rest of your life, whether she changes or not.... makes me understand you dont know what you are talking about. but hey, if thats what you believe then so be it.



bro you are not alone... thats what happens in many marriage/long relationship, when your partner gets comfortable and start changing, believing that you will be with her regardless of whether she is still attractive/sexy or not. some men dont mind the change, and others are turned off by it.

To each his own. We walk the same streets but got different shoes on. You both may be right or wrong, time will tell. But you don't have to bodyshame ladies to get your point across. I mean which one is baby whale?

EreluRoz:
Be deceiving yourselves

I comment my reserve.

EreluRoz:
Modern men are not strong, you'll be surprised that Ned and Pa Okoya performs better than the likes of Somadina and AdvanceDNA due to reckless lifestyle and unhealthy eating habits.

You never know anything. Guys de use penis spoil girls life.

TheGidRedpiller:
I Lost My Mother.

You know how people will always tell you that you really don't know what you have until you lose it.....?

I never had a good relationship with my mother, this is not news, but now that she's no longer around to have a bad relationship with.....it's even worse.

I regretted hating her up to that point, I regretted using all of those words with my mother in the same sentence.

Bad motherhood can be very pressing, but I assure you, it's better to have a living bad mother.

I wake up everyday day wishing I could have one of those ugly fights again with her, even though she popped my head open one time and I literally bled to the hospital.
Weird right?

I have never felt so close to my younger sisters, surprisingly it's because they are now the closest things I have to a mother.
And yes, we are definitely now orphans.

This is a piece of advice coming from the matured version of TheGidRedpiller: No Matter What Happens, He's Still Your Father, And She's Still Your Mother. Even Though Sometimes You Wish For It, I Promise You, You Won't Prefer Them "Never Around Again".

Still Typing...

See this werey don go plus up. You will see what ur hate has made u miss out on later in life.

Ourtruth247:
This thread is going to be a totality of all of my research for the past 11 years.

I will take you on a journey where I will explore every angle of my research and examine every bit of evidence - putting every piece together with the intention of painting a clear picture of the truth.

This thread will serve as the place to go if you are new to my research or if any of my other threads don't make sense to you, or if you crave a more holistic understanding of my research.

This thread is also for those that think I am just a random conspiracy theorist spewing trash. I want them to know that everything I say and every subject I touch is a piece of the puzzle and when you observe every subject as components within the entire structure of lies and hidden truths, then you will begin to see the world for what it really is.

I will try to present as much evidence as I can.

Let's begin.

Bro respect to you, but this your post na error, cos if you really don go deep spiritually you go understand say God dey exist for both old and new testament and every religion i know comes from the old testament. Everybody de try get personal relationship with HIM but in different ways and bible clearly state say na Jesus be the best way to know HIM and get real power, but hear you are claiming over enlightened and angering your god in the process by doing this secretly to glory to yourself. Come to think of it, all this your research may be what one brilliant mind used to catch cruise in the past and kept it in fragment?

Sirianese:
If that's your real picture wallahi I just wanna ejaculate deep inside your pussy; so deep you get pregnant before the week is out

Pick ur brain for ground b4 u match am. Ozuor

This guy lasun, u no de tire? Someone can't be this miserable and still have the brain to compose queens 'inglishi'... If u believe this guy, joke's on you.

This man just wan make igbos start the day with anger. Lol. Baba they don’t know that roads like this attracts so many foreigners who want to connect spiritually to African nature.

BTC people how market. Hope you sold when the warnings were persistent?

If we all accept Jesus and don’t fornicate, there won’t be this much bruhaha. We neeed to raise a godly generation of youths.

Emusan:
Who measure the distance?

Again, with around 400 Billion Stars our galaxy should be all light through.

No boss it's not always like that, just like the way most boundries between states in Nigeria are heavily forested, that is how boundries(space) between solar systems are dark.

Light78:
Lack of atmosphere and small matters that can scatter light. Na Chat GPT answer am.

Ogalearn to use yuor mind to think. ChatGPT go just make people lazy. Abi u no do geography for school?

Omo this is a very brutal topic. For once i'm proud to say i am a nairalander. This is quite inquisitive, well to answer your question, we all know the sun is made up of fusions of Helium and Hydrogen gases, while it is stagnant and the solar system rotates and revolves around the sun, the light from the sun is just focused on our own solar system. While the outer space or spaces beyond our universe which stretches to billions of miles remains dark.

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