What will be the best approach to this matter. My Neighbor needs advice...mind you the said guy is a kinda stubborn and wayward and he is the second son of the family.
The wife went to spend a holiday at the family house where it happened.
Advice Advice Advice...

West1side:
Your entire tribe dish out hate at all time now you fools are paid back in kind n your father is wailing like a senseless clown.

Whoooo.... what do I say to this one now. I just hope u heal soon

This is how far hate and tribalism had eaten deep into us as a people...
Some reply tweets from humans that have blood flowing in their vain after Dr chinelo tweeted while on the train.

Whiteshield:


May untimely death be the hallmark of your family.

May you never grow old.

May your parents grow bankrupt trying to bury you.

May everything that gives you joy turn to bitterness.

May you always have an invisible smell that makes you repulsive to people.

May shame never leave your life.

May your family members be ashamed to identify with you.

May you be a servant of your younger ones.

You will work like an elephant but still end up begging for food.

So shall it be iseeee

But I thought kaduna has the highest number of military base in Nigeria...oh I forgot... they were all drafted to the eastern part of the country...
The reason she's dead is because she's NIGERIAN, only if she wasn't a Nigerian maybe she would still be alive and home now resting. Nigeria happened to her...

If you have a direct contact.of those guys kindly share wanna take up this case and make sure that devil is jailed for life

Nigeria happened to her RIP

Rest in peace...Nigeria happened to them..its unfortunate. Only if we can summon the courage to fight this government maybe this wouldn't have happened. More to happen while we all pretend as nothing is wrong...suffering and smiling

paulolee:
them never see anything....d furstration just start, I know say na we intentionally off dt light based on wetin dm do us for ghana

My thought too

Yenefer:
Awesome. She let IPOB forge fake nysc certificate for her, they later when behind and backstabbed her. Don't ever let lowlife criminals near you or your family. They are all either drug traffickers, child traffickers, armed robbers, kidnappers, you can never find IPOB that's not into crime never. Fcking lowlife menace

You are a F00l.. idi*t thats what u are for trying to derail this thread..please guys ignore this f00l his craving for attention

HeavenVGate:

Lies from the deep pit of shit! With the way you described the boy, he can't afford some milli talk of milli's to the tone of 8m. Well, thanks for the entertainment. Smart ones know you're just trying to entertain us.

guy do u know him in person?

BabalawoPikin:
bro. For naija. Just get connect. I have been arrested so many times, but my daughters of Jezebel always show up with squad for my release. Police fear military men like die.. I remember the day them arrest me cux of Crypto stuff.. Police man chop slap for dpo front. Ntin happen. Nigeria is finished I swear

Na wa o

BabalawoPikin:
Customer daada ni.. But only slept once till next day..
During my university days. I was working also for Nigerian breweries sales rep.. Naso we go show. We closed by 10:30pm. Was about opening my door then a daughter of Jezebel called me to come spend the night with her on my way 10:50pm. Police carry me oo. Mhen. First time!!! But I no dey fear there mama.. We got there with my bikeman. They saw both of my IDs but they didn't even want to know. Naso we start to drag am. Idiots put me inside cell sha.. Next day daughter of Jezebel carried a soldier and I was freed.. 5naira I no pay. I even give them middle finger.. After my first experience till date, na to call my connects anytime this bastards come for me..

Waow you are lucky shaa...this ones no be the wicked ones I swear

Obagofixxy:



hahahahHH I swear Wetin savee and my guy say the day wey we de arrest us Na from one restaurant we de come out from and we carry better food, rice and banga stew for my guy then my own was bitter leaf soup and semo, Omo dem mount us for wall but as dem see those things, the number one come free us, the next day we moved closer to the White House

Obagofixxy:
Yes ohhhh the first one was when I was in first year, one boy in my lodge stole someone's laptop after like 2 month the guy went and reported to SARS, Omo I was writing exam that period, not knowing that SARS has been coming to check when all man go de around, unluckily for me I was around in the evening Na so them enter under rain, the funny part was that it was batch by batch we were taking to the station, the second was very terrible and horrible experience though me and my roommate spent a week and some days there before came out, inside the cell as we dey enter first them mouth us for wall by the oc torture on the command of the number one, him get cabinet members, he stays close to the door, and the place him and his cabinet stays is referred to as white house, if you de form stubborn guy Omo once you enter there dem go humble you first.....

But that place no be am ...
I thank God for my life

oc torture see memory bro the most w

Obagofixxy:
Yes ohhhh the first one was when I was in first year, one boy in my lodge stole someone's laptop after like 2 month the guy went and reported to SARS, Omo I was writing exam that period, not knowing that SARS has been coming to check when all man go de around, unluckily for me I was around in the evening Na so them enter under rain, the funny part was that it was batch by batch we were taking to the station, the second was very terrible and horrible experience though me and my roommate spent a week and some days there before came out, inside the cell as we dey enter first them mouth us for wall by the oc torture on the command of the number one, him get cabinet members, he stays close to the door, and the place him and his cabinet stays is referred to as white house, if you de form stubborn guy Omo once you enter there dem go humble you first.....

But that place no be am ...
I thank God for my life

You just brought back memories
Oc torture go mend u for wall especially if wetin cari u come na small matter u go collect..omo that place na another life entirely.
But did you guys later pay for the laptop.

wonder233:
On nairaland, I have come to understand how bitter the tribal hatred is in Nigeria. While the political class can at least put aside that hatred for their selfish interest - which is looting.., the foolish masses cannot do same for their own interest - which is good governance. You log into nairaland and see unfortunate souls calling themselves despicable names e.g "wailers" , "children of hate", etc.
As we speak, politicians from all the tribes are united in looting the nation blind.
While the masses are vehemently taking sides over meaningless tribal loyalties.
Are Nigerian masses are cursed?
#Spits

Of cus they are cursed never to taste what its like to live like a human being should till they die, they prefer suffering rather than freedom. Seun osewa needs to do something about some animal's on this platform...

kozmokaz:


No man

Dude play a fast run on me
He paid the cops 1.5m

Wow... whats your next plan man..its a whole lot of money man

kozmokaz:



Omo 8m gone like that ?

Him no pay u?

kozmokaz:
Omo
Spent 3 days sha

Not in the main cell

Was kept at the administrative office cell (bastard officers was calling me VIP prisoner )

Said anything I wan chop make I talk say them go order am for me

On what took me there :
Okay sometime 2021 before I left the country, (actually the police encounter fast tracked my japaring)

I sold some crypto currency worth about 8m to a guy I do know very well … my man start to de para say my coin no drop ooo

Something I have confirmed from my end

So I literally tracked him down after he evaded me for like 2 weeks

Omo he collect beating from me and my guys sha

That was when he started confessing that it was his bigger boss/bro that masterminded everything


Omo na so I take discharge asap to track his big bro/boss

When we caught him

Shit went physical oo( dude was a cult guy)

Ontop my money you wan come de shout aye ask men for me ?

He collect better beating before running

Next day I made some calls to reach out to some senior people for area ooo make them hear my cry


Na so then invite am make em show

My man de come meeting carry police come say I kidnapped his kid bro

Omo the men for table shock

Well we all ended up for station

Both me , him, and the kid bro after I involved my lawyer and some top police officers from force HQ

Spent 3days together for the administrative cell

Police use us chop

Signed some F*ckn papers that we have settled



Well even if na 10 years !!
I go come back for my money

I be awka boy !!!

Bros just free am...cell even better compared to ATM(awaiting trial inmates)

Realmi:
Never ...

May such experience be far from my generation

Amen ooh

dawnomike:
I pray I never have such experience... I learnt it is a terrible experience

Bros always distinct yourself from anytin that will take you there ooh...its a terrible experience bro...worst is you will not bath throughout your stay

That was where I learnt another name for cell is SANKO .throughout my two days stay in that cell I did not poo or pee, it was horrible.
On your first day the NUMBER ONE will ask for your CELL SHOW and if you dont have money on you, hmm...your guess is good as mine
But you'll surely bond with many the more you spend time and listen to different stories...
Have you been to a cell... Share your experience.

Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.

My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!

However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her

Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...

I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...

Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..

I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect

Pls ignore my typo errors abeg

This is common among yoruba mums...they are too rachet in nature and aggressive towards their kid in the name of discipline...beg her and move on. Sorry for your ordeal.

remi4ever:

OP follow that advise.. I use standard chartered too...

Everything's free, down to their atm card. I even have 2 cards on one account.

This sounds better

badboyTee:
don't rely on that kuda too much and don't store huge money there ooo only store money that you can afford to lose cause those thief's can lock your account anytime and they are untraceable don't say I didn't warn you

Wow thanks with this info bro

Rickmann:


It's been 8 years since I started with GTB and trust me, I have never had any reason to complain.

But why is it anytime you enter gtb the customer service desk dey always full pass every other desk thats my fear with those guys..I think I'll try kuda... thanks though

Ishilove:

My heart broke and I almost cried the day they announced Access was taking over my beloved Diamond bank. Access Bank are armed lobbers, with their multiple charges

Funny thing I have an access bank I abandoned cus of this same issue especially when 426 and 901 where having issues I just drop am and somebody recommended firstbank but this one is worst than access bank..

excanny:


How come the bank I use which is also connected to NIBBS is doing transfers in seconds. Why is NIBBS not using the slow NEFT for my bank?

Good Q

Ay04z:
Try all diz digital. Banking and have rest of mind.... Kuda, sparkle, gomoney... Sterling....
Gtb too...... D list is endless... Am into agency banking

I'll try kuda

excanny:


You can try Kuda app. The transfers are free and very reliable. Within seconds or most 3 minutes.

My former transfer app took days to deliver despite charging me N20 per transfer. It was hellish until someone told me about kuda

Like you can have a savings of any limit with kuda is that what you mean

emmancipated:
Most banks are connected to NIBSS who are in charge of processing instant transfers through their NIP service. But lately NIBSS has been using NEFT as a fallback option to process transfers which is a lot more slower. So the problem might not actually be coming from First Bank per se

Who operates NEFT and NIBSS exactly

Qatar2022:
I use sterling bank and it's very nice

Mobile app?