₦airaland Forum

Mateen1000:
20yrs Is Matured Already

If you don’t read the whole story b4 u quote me to type ““because she’s matured does that guarantee rape”” Thunder will fire you ni o

Someone said she was lured into having sex, And y’all think thats not a bargain that went wrong

bigpicture001:
Yes...can't focus on my duties at work this morning if I don't get the answers

asahnwaKC:
People are saying like 40 yrs is old mama....haba.. she's just 40...still too much young biko....African women should learn more on how to take care of their body and package it well. Happy birthday ma

bigpicture001:
Is sh still married..?

I can't see Akpoka in her name here

Oluwatunmise529:
Hi people

I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.

But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.

When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.

My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.

She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..

She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.

I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome...
Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....

Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me

AngryIgboMan:
I have said this before and I will repeat it again;

This man may have murdered and maybe a lighter used to burn and char his hand to make it look like a charger accident.

Research has proven it over and over again that the volts contained in a phone charger cannot kill a human being. Even, how many times have we seen were an electric current killed someone? Our impulses are designed in such a way that a single shock will jolt you away in a split second to keep you safe.

If not that Nigeria is a very useless country and an irredeemable zoo filled with very hopeless people in large proportions, a forensic department of the police will be able to discover many fingerprints on this man's body.

What am I even talking about. Do we even have a police force not to talk of the forensic department? They are busy running after yahoo boys who brings money! Hopeless nation who their criminal, irresponsible politicians have stolen away there past, present and future.

tripplephi:
IF YOU ARE AN EMOTIONAL GENDER, simply write yours.

Your comment benefits no one unless it can help us understand you better.

tripplephi:
Hmmm you have strong points sir, BUT we must understand one thing, NIGERIA IS AN EXAGGERATIVE STATE, meaning we go to the extreme with whatever we copy from the western world.

also sir I NEVER SAID LOVE FADES, my narrative was simply to attack what we call LOVE, for BUTTERFLIES WILL ALWAYS FLY AWAY, and all the horniness and hormones will calm down.... THIS IS WHERE LOVE IS REDEFINED (if from the beginning it was not defined). LOVE IS NOT A FEELING, but a FILLING- LOVE is not feeling I need you, but taking the responsibility of joyfully FILLING a need in you no matter what.
Love is a herculean responsibility and choice despite age, circumstances, body shape, odour and health/financial status. The ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY has subtly but deeply ruined and perverted the definition of Love for our generation. So it is painted as EROTIC FINANCIAL freedom rather than RESPONSIBILITY, SACRIFICES, CLEAR TRANSPARENT COMMUNICATION, BATTLES, VICTORIES and some losses, etc.

SUBMISSION sir, has been grossly misunderstood and mistaken for SLAVERY. Hence HOUSEWIVES soon see themselves as SEX SLAVES or BABY FACTORIES. This is why our society is filled with damaged adults. Many even value their moms' far more than their fathers' because they spend more time with the Mother than they even see their busy workaholic father.

Let me balance SUBMISSION in a bit. Submission is simply MUTUAL RESPECT, yes o. Women are powerful and men must respect that they process things differently. Women must understand that MEN are not only powerful, they are the PILOT/CAPTAIN of the SHIP... AS Such decisiveness is in our nature and we are meant to be LOGICAL. Women are meant to be emotional. AND ALLOWING EACH OTHER BE WHO THEY CAN BE FOR THE PEACE AND UNITY IN THE HOME, IS ACTUALLY SUBMISSION. Where submission got misunderstood was in the simple quest for CONTROL. Most men and women need to master the art of our grand mothers, the art of LEADING WHEN YOU ARE NOT IN CHARGE.

Equality is also misunderstood. Being EQUALS do not mean having same responsibility or being TWINS. So the simple BALANCE of all things is this....

MEN SHOULD LET WOMEN BE EMOTIONAL LEADERS
WOMEN SHOULD ALLOW THEIR MEN BE LOGICAL

then both should compromise for each other with UNDERSTANDING.
Children from such homes will be sooooooooooooo balanced and very fast achieve greatness in Life because they would know how to handle things from their area of strength and how to work with people no matter how damaged the people may be.

I hope it is simple and easy for anyone reading to apply.
Swinger60

philip0906:
You ramble rouser...love has failed you, you have turned to man hating as an anti depressant..
Ediota

Gladly, life doesn't revolve around your lonely, sadistic, failed and miserable loveless life to be taken serious...

I only quoted you to remind you that you're a looser already and make mockery of your whinning, groaning and gnashing of teeth.

Even your elders in the game of man hating, are gradually fading into oblivion or retracing their steps...you are still a learner

Bingo!

philip0906:
Common sharap! You dey form man hater...ozwor!

Loneliness wan kee you finish...bingo!

JoshTrillions:
Yhyh, i agree with you totally..
I mean, its quite obvious how dumb your father was to have impregnated your mother who in turn gave birth to something as half baked as you..
Be careful with certain utterances..

philip0906:
Bullocks!

Because it is 2020, means submission should be thrown out the window? Go and look for a man, who'll lick your azz and then when you're tired, you can kick his butt out.

ALL successful marriages EVERYWHERE in the world, has always been a blend of; Husbands loving their wives and been faithful and wives in turn, submitting to their husbands.

2020, 2030, 2040 will NEVER change this fundamental principle that has been applied to ALL successful marriages.

That you're forming woke, won't change that. So shove your lonely, feminist, sadistic and senseless opinion, up your butt.

Davesaves:
So because it's 2020 u shouldn't submit to ur husband? pls sister forget marriage.. it's not ur calling ( i'm being very honest here)

godofuck231:
women when their mouth de run like fax machine, complaining, remindin, requesting, dueressing and demanding for a house car and private jet when their husbands touch them at night end up loosing their men to side chics and runs girls who require less for his needs , those topics de kill mic

zed7:
Successful marriages are successful because one or both parties put sentiments aside. Marry whom you like, not necessarily love. Don't go for beauty or shape or wealth, go for compatibility, similar values, one whom you know will give you peace and you're good to go.
However a man or woman has to like his or her spouse. Having the best partner in the world without being attracted to them will not work.
As for the question, the hardest part of marriage is staying faithful for most men and remaining submissive for most women, especially this generation of women. It's not easy to be earning your own income and not be forced to disregard or challenge your husband from time to time.

neonly:
Side chick are tighter and more over u can do whatever with a side chick any style gbenusi they think of any style na with pleasure but if u try with yur wife
For d next 3 days na complain say bella dey pain am

Monday60655:
Though you didn't tell us how long the friendship has lasted. So far she is still your and not your lover nor fiancée, anybody can make advance on her. Hope you understand.

Sweeetheart:



you're a complete sissy, even your topic here is comical. you're the class of guys that made ladies feel on top of the world


in a century that one guy have 38 girlfriends one dummy is crying that someone want to snatch his gf as if the guy wouldn't have smashed the lady's pussy already


you should learn from the guy and stop being a sissy, it's obvious the guy just want to chop her pussy and throw the remains back to you


I'm highly disappointed with you op, girlfriend no be asset, get sense

Coolcalmcollect:
so wait all of a sudden you don't trust your padi cos of a girl?
you're a weak man, your friend should be careful of you.

Ausrichie:
If it's a woman that is talking like this. This generation is cursed.

burner44:
This happened a week ago

My girlfriend doesn't know my place, we had a little quarrel on Friday night so she tried calling me on Sunday so she could pay me a visit at home. Unfortunately I was away from home and I also forgot my phone at home as well.

So she called a friend of mine who happened to be a neighbor and explained to him that I wasn't answering her calls and made him understand i was angry with her so she wants to come see me and apologize. So he described a meeting place so he could pick her up and bring her to my place but unknowingly this guy had another motive, he met up with my girlfriend, took her to a nearby fast food and they ate, after which he took her to his own house and went ahead introducing her to his family.

The thing is that this guy happened to be a person I called my friend, he went ahead making advances to my girlfriend, forgetting why she initially called for his help. She said she couldn't express her anger at him as she wasn't used to the area and would need his help to get back home too.

Even though I met her through him as they were neighbours while in school, he made it clear to me that he doesn't like her, even she said it in front of us that she doesn't like him before we started dating and all that but to my surprise he has actually made advances at her on 2 occasions and went as far as wanting to force a kiss on her and I'm quite fed up.

I don't know what course of action I should take next to put an end to this and I'm in need of your advice as I won't want to handle it wrongly.

FuckThaMod:
Quote me once more and die prematurely.. Slut

FuckThaMod:
And I'm not complaining... Type it once more and die prematurely

FuckThaMod:
Yours is wacker

FuckThaMod:
Hoe daughter of a hoe

FuckThaMod:
Ugly thing

Bukden16:
Even the devil himself is scared of women when it comes to fake life and change.
I'm not even dating any at the moment, but I've seen a lot.

FuckThaMod:
Bitter frustrated thing

Bukden16:
Yes...
For a Snoring wife, dirty ,untidy, nagging and an unkept wife... I'll say yes a 100 times

FuckThaMod:
In summary, man not kneeling no mean say he go give you wahala, e no mean say e no love you. This is for those wack feminists like ivebeenbanned, man fit kneel for you and you end up becoming punching bag later on.