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When u said I do!

when you said i do,
I wasn't sure if you knew.
that this love I promise would be to you,
refreshing and pleasant yet forever new.

I know my gift's might be so few,
but the words from my lips are all so true,
and if in the future you ever feel blue,
just remember the day you said " I do".
isaac onyedikachukwu anyia

it's been a while i have been on here, but i figured you might check on here today so i decided to leave you this.

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If you must pick @ peeps and find fault with their names and all, why don' we start with yours?

WHat in the world does dejeffo stand for, is it english, yoruba or even latin?

Does it represent any situation or monument ur affiliate with?

I just don't seem to understand how we blacks reason and worship wat eva is western!

Explain to me how the names 50cent, bobby brown, jay-z, dr dre, wutang clan, marron five, or even the game wud sound more appealing than the afore listed names mentioned by you.

My advice is that you. Don't just subscribe to dumb names just because they r foreign.

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Sickle cell is just like any other disease out there, and so shudn't be made the alpha decision when settling down!

When u r inlove, its mostly ur feelings that count!
Am not saying it shud not be discussed, neither am I saying it shud be ignored, however am saying it takes more that genotype to breakup a strong union!

Am married to an as, and also as, and believe it or not we have two beautiful kids, a boy and a girl and they r both aa.

I av test results to show for them, before someone here says it me speaking by faith!

Its u and ur spouse really! Not ur folks, sibblings or even friends!

Hi seun,

I decided to address you personaly, knowing that the vision and conception of this forum solely lies with you and you alone!

I could go ahead to introduce myself, but am sure if you check my profile, you will learn all that there is to know about me. However I must state here that am old enough on this forum to be certain about what I want to say!

I don't know what criteria is used to select whoever is made a moderator on this forum, however it is my believe that the selection process needs to be reviewed or restructured to reflect the choice of those on this forum rather than those you consider your personal friends!

Most mods go about their duty whith this air of arrogance and rudeness as though they have a bought a stake in nairalands unlisted ipo!

They talk to people with such crass attitude, and then go ahead to pass laws as if they r sending out intructions from the ruling class to those being ruled!

I must remind you that its first and foremost a forum for like minds to interact, and that the nore the number yo have on here, the more profitable it is for your bizness. ( Which really is what nairaland is to you).

Yes I do know a couple of nlanders are rude and overbearing, but the reason why one aspired to be a mod is cos u felt u they had the temprament to manage such people! I wud ask that even though laws must be passed and obeyed, the reason why these laws are made shud be conveyed to all and not just slammed on like our opinion don't matter. Afterall, imagine a site where its only you and the mods and all other forumites including the ones that are termed as stupid have abandoned it!

My final observation would be addressed to mukina, as she seems to be the one most culpable of these offence, I ask that her position on nairaland be open for debate, and see what the reaction of forumites would be!

Finaly, before you mistake me intent, am not looking to be anything here on nairaland, as I have always been a forumite all my time here. I only speak cos I have noticed that a lot of people whom we shared this forum together early on have either left out of frudtration, or a lack of interest becos of the way things are being run here!

@pendo, he is abt 32 and am not certain buh she shud be btw 28-30!

Aniways my major wori is that I knw he wud most def get married next year, not to her though so am wondering how dis breakup is going to pan out!

Messy I pressume!

@pendo, that's some sound advice I have heard from a lady in a very long while!
Well scripted and very concise!

Now if I must add, I believe the view must have really changed over time like yo said,but shudn't that be the same for the lady too!

Also, what I have been asking myslef all dis while is if the lady hadn't had advances from other guys, or even marriage proposals!

I believe 2years is e en too long to remain in a relatnship if u really take the person serious and all is ripe for marriage!

The scenario playing out here seems to baffle me, as I wud not have expected such from this two!

I have a cousin who has been dating this chick now for the past twelve years, a relationship soo many has expected wud lead to the altar, but alas dis doesn't seem to be the case!

@ first the issue was they were both in skOol hence they cudn't take tha plunge, then school was over and the xcuse became a lack of a good job on the part of the guy.

Now, the dude has a well paying job, and still yet marriage seems not to be in the picture yet. recently I summoned up courage and asked the dude what was wrong and why he hasn't taken the step yet, and the response I got shook even me!
He says she isn't the type he wants to marry, and he din't love her anymore!

This brings my question nlanders, is it the longer a relationship, the less chance of getting married!

Ladies, wud appreciate ur thought here!

@op, I av heard peeps here give u d soundest advise any marriage councelor could ever give you.

I suggest you really tink abt it before u make a decision, cos wateva the decision or outcome, we all will not be a part of the success or regret story.

Its solel ur decision. However don't start any life long union on a lie. Be man enough and face ur parents.

Unless ur expecting her parents to also live a lie when the actual family introductions wud be done!

What u r doing, is looking @ d issue from face value. I will suggest you take ur time to dig alittle further and consider issues more far reaching than u can percieve now.
Divorce world wide is sometin u dnt take for granted, as both parties are responsible for the failure of their marriage.

Yes, she made a mistake, but has she learnt from it?
Are u willing to share ur wife with her ex, cos weather u like I t or not he still is a part of her life and u can't erase that

Also u idea to lie to ur family, or rather keep mum abt the situatn already shows that when the chips r down u won't be there for her cos ur not proud to show her off to ur folks as she truly is.

If u can't defend her now before the eyes of ur family, how wud u do that successfuly before the gazing eyes of the world.

Three, wats ur approach to custody issue? U plan to fight with her to regain it, or let the boys dad keep him? If he. Looses custody, r u gonna allow him visits in ur home, reminding u off the intimacy they once dhared.


I think all am tryn to say here mr, is that marrying a divorcee requires a level of maturity that u av failed to display by already missing the first step. Lieing to ur folks!

It has nothing whatsoever to do with christianity, forex just like any business venture deals with the simple act of demanding and supplying. U simply have made a honest gain by supplying @ a price higer than you have purchased @ the time.

You can choose to let it go, or holdup that anger and do somethinf "silly" like u said.

However I must let you knw that its ur choice and u'r responsible for ur actions.......wch includes sucking him by the way!

[color=#000099][/color][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] its obvious that some times allowing children with soo much freedom and liberty often is a misjudgement on our part as parentsm

Why are we there to act as parents and guardians if we feel that they would be allowed to make this decisions themselves.

Am not against any one changing sex, but 5 is danm too young!

Dude was very smart to have won her over very sharply.

Don't u think its because your brain has shut down that is why you are dreaming non stop?
Might be i misunderstand you, or am wrong in my thinking, but when we go to sleep and we dream, its because we have lost all sense of self control which means your system has shut down.
Anyways, if you think you are being stressed, limit your activities during the day, eat urn dinner not later than 6pm, and lastly have a good shower before bed. U'll sleep great. Music helps too!

Am truly sorry to bring this up, but i feel there is a need for better explanation by those who are experts in this field.

It is my understanding that the local cosumption of crude set aside for nigerians daily is about 450 000 barrels per day.

It is also my understanding that our refineries hadly process half of these crude therefore there is an excess which we can not refine here almost in the tune of 230 000 barrels.

This excess crude, is sent out for refining in other refinaries outside naija and imported in as fuel, diesel and what ahve u.

Do we sell this excess to these external refineries, and if so at what cost.

2. If we sell them, where is the money and what is it used for.

3. If its not sold, and we simply pay for refining and transportation, how come we buy fuel at such high price, and at the brink of increase.

4. If we sell the peoduct, is it this marketers whom we call cabal we seel to?

There are loads of unanswered questions here?

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how can he declare state of emergency in sectionalised areas of a state, wy not be realistic in ur approach and declare it in the entire state. dont the other parts of that same state deservw to be protected too. do they first have to be casualties before he realises he shud protect the entire area. who advised him on this issues anyways.

truth is that nigerians ain't against good policies , afterall we have in the past seen beautiful ideas or policies that never really translated to improved wellbeing for the populace. i just believe its more of a lack of trust for the government than an outright rejection to this polocies.

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i dont think she was violated.
And even if she was, best you can do is ask her to report to the appropriate authority. Other than that, there's really nothing you can do.

reading this, just makes me laugh. Most of all the part where u claim to have found four guys for urself, and none for her.  Are u girls on a guy hunt?
Aniways, no matter how ugly she is, she'l definately find her man someday.

The quran or bible is just another book if the content holds no meaning to you. The most baffling of all is  that more than 90% of these muslims fighting to protect the quran, can hardly read the writtings in it.
The bible admonishes that the book of the law be inscribed in your heart, knowing fully well that knowing its statues and not living by them is worse than desecrating the bible itself.

About us splitting, i have spoken about itt, supported it, and even clamoured, but would that bring an end to the xtian/muslim rivalry worlover, the answer ids plain know.

Like op said, education is what liberates a man from perpetual bondage. Let the nothern elite, be concerend about educating its own. Then and only then can we know true peace.

N.b-they are our brothers, wish them dead or not.

Its not where you from, cos if there is anything Nigerians have been able to prove over time is that race dont matter!

I need asnwers to the following questions though!

1. How close are u families, i mean does your parents and thiers act like sibblings. Its a possibility they see you as a sister and so ur a no date zone.

2. How old are u, or better put, what is the age difference between u and these dudes! Cos if ur much younger then worsens the issue in 1 above, if ur older almost same but well,

3. Financial reasons might be a part of it, maybe ur family being more affluent than thiers, or vice versa.

What am saying is, it might be anytin but not ur race,




To all u'all being rude and insultive, always rememba that ur like an e-embassy for people who need to get an impression abt how nigerians truely are, and so dont go complaining about the western world having a crap impression about us cos u added to the negative image in ur own little way.

Football isnt jiust about skill, but rather your maturity and level of commitement to the game.

What kanu had going for him, was the fact that he knew what he was on the field to do, and went about achieving it. He played for this big clubs becuase they dint just see the iq behind his game, but overall contribution.

Unlike okocha, who initialy played to entertain the crowd, forgetting he needed to make meaninful contributions for his team to win, he was more of an individual player, and when he decided to start playing for the team during his days @ bolton, age and posterity where no longer on his side,



Kanu is a better player, any day anytime, cos he was and still is a more matured team player!

Some of you really do not understand the ibori saga, hence ur misunderstanding of his hounded the british law.
Ibori, already had a major case to answer on counts of money laundry to which his wife and aides had confessed to. And also some previous issues relating to scam long before he became governor.

In bankoles case, if he had succeded in getting to londodn, little or nothing could have be done, afterall OGD self dey dia, why has he not been caught and tried?

@all,
u seem to be getting some things wrong here, that she has a blossoming carrer dont mean you dont have a career at all.

far from it, am trying to say her career is given utmost priority over yours.

@iice, been a while, how far?

so as long as he has the money (speaking if it was embezzlement) your not bothered!
naija has gotten to that stage abi?

am totally dissapointed in ur reasoning. fear no even catch u say if una do bizness together he will dupe you too.