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dude there comes a time when u feel that way,
more'so how often are u guys always around.

as long as he can maintain the house alone, and hey u get allowances, its not such a bad idea.

@iice, its been like how long?

that dont make u an addict, just signs of misplaced priority.

like she dint know she was being played?

i would have tot wanking could be as some form of respite.
unless u seeking intimacy and not the release.

whichever sha, agro nah bastard.

isn't it the norm around, loving someone when he can;t love you back.
bera pack up and sail far.

why grown ass people decide to fool themselves still amazes me, but when i remember say nah naija we dey, i just smile and say keep the camera rolling.

justwise:
There is absolutely no need tell the husband abt this, she never cheated, the man is not stalking her, she is not having prob in her marriage then what the hell do she need to creat one? The husband will be confused, thinking maybe my wife is up2 something when he is away, maybe she is indirectly sending message to him, i mean it will back fired on him.

i sincerely hope not all men think this way!

there are ways sir,
all it takes is maturity.

the problem with we guys is the fact that we choose to live in denial.

most of us at our work places, have one person or the other we might be attracted to or something,
but based on the fact that we have commitements, or are married, we stay away.
does that also say the women dont have the same feelings?

being attraced to someone or an else should not be considered a sin, but rather can be talked about.

and if you did read my post, it meant she should tell him if its absolutely necessary.

@post above,

even if the girls are not reasonable, does that leave room for the boy to be foolish!

Spyker:
Never tell your husband, it will give him negative thoughts and make him feel that you don't love him. With time, you will forget this feeling and move on.

what happens if this feeling gest to strong for her to control.
is it not better to get it out in the opne and have a solution knowing u did not cheat!

well since u have the means and will, dont let me stop such foolishness!

well sometimes old memories have a way of making us feel vulnerable.
that said, there would be no harm done, unless u act on this feeling.
this leaves the ball in your court.
you could dicuss this with your husband, but i dont see it as a good idea!

if there has ever been a time i belived in self employment, its never been stronger than now.

employesr ans taking advantage of the situation out there, and offering pitiance as salary and very disturbing employment packages.

like someone said, putting 15years in an organisation no longer gaurantees a retiremnet benefit.

no longer are competent hands hired, but loyal and faithful to the employers cause.

we all have dated jerks,
its part of the learning process.

to those who replied sensibly i say a big tanx.

truth is she is from kalabar central, and am not the one tieing the knot.
the list my bro got was kinda funny hence he asked me to find out since they both are not in the nigeria.

well if you have good info, wud help. tanx.

Pls anyone from calabar that has an idea of the things 2 present during trad marriage for a calaba lady. Her parents dnt knw wasup cos they been abroad for 2 long. She nids d list urgently so her groom wud knw wat 2 present. Pls if u from dat area and av an idea, kindly post. Tanx.

well i did achieve most of what i laid out for the year,
but is this supposed to be here?

so we shud pull our pants and dance naked!

and ur pics is supposed to act as source!

babe u have to feed him some how, sex or food wise.

me thinks dream land wud be better.

tom!
always at his word games.
he simply wants to do to you, what he did to bisi.
use u and dump u.


when a guy says i want u, i tot that was pretty obvious!

the said female boss of yours, is she married?
moreso, what kinda stupid bizz holds u for a year when no be say u be new branch manager?

and i dont think if you refuse to go, you will be sacked.
make ur reasons known, and am sure a suitable replacement will be tot of.
unless ur organzation hired just u and ur boss.

well i dont seem to see the problem here.

my take is u let him do what he needs to do, as regards coming to ask for your hand,
and if yhour father has any objections, let him say it.

u only need his blessings, not his approval who u sleep with.

hi woman in love,
read ur script and i will tell you that this scenes dont always play out the way we expect.
good he being honest and all with you, but then can u handle all of this in future?
i mean his being considerate about his ex's, do you think it would end when he moves sail with you?

my believe is that he is still going to cling somehow to his past, and that could affect whatever u both have later.

if your patience wont thin out fast, i say stay.
if not, move on and find some1 else.

dont you think your just leaving urself to be used and abused by men on here?

from lag to akure would that also include bringing u back to lagos to.
if its just to akure alone,

the services would be 4500k.

also depends on other.

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