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Strahovski:
What's this bride price trash?

It aches my eyes and ears

dis Africa for you. U cnt jst marry a lady in church or in court without first paying d bride price which d tradition

to start with, dont ever date some1 u cant marry. At home she has d attributes of a wife n mother bt outside, she doesnt fit into the lady like kind of woman. And dt is a vry big blow to u. If u can be patient enof, marry her 1st, then send her to school but u may hv to delay havin children so d load wont be much. Am sure d university education/life wud transform her to d standard u want frm her.

TonyeBarcanista:
Shutting down markets is not the solution. Ib fact, it is counter-productive. It robs the state of revenue and inhibit economic activities. The best way of tackling it is by holding people responsible and prosecute culprits or impose huge fines on environment defaulters.

your system wouldnt mk fining and holding d management of d market/religious bodies accoutably for their misdid effective. Rather closing down d market wud put everyone on their toes becos dey knw what dey get frm d market per day.

Aitee1:
Wine ofcourse!!!


Just pass me a glass of Baileys and we'll be friends for life!

see who is talking abt drinkin wine [quote author=Aitee1 post=39562546]Wine ofcourse!!!

Bonapart:
People been framing men of God right from the day they're called...
Who lie don help

Lia Mo'med and APC

u neva mentioned d kind of code here whether it is facebook code or phone code or twitter code or even bank account code. The bottom line is allow him some privacy. Dont bother spying on him. If he is cheating, he will be surely caught.

Numbers 36:6. Let her marry whom she thinks is best. If d good man is nt d best for her, then she shdnt marry him. If she thinks d oda guy is best then she shd marry him. You cnt tolerate your partner in marriage on major issues like love, sex, companionship etc bt on issues like snoring, characters, drinking, smoking etc. So she know both men to a limit and she wud live with her choice for d rest of her life. Does she hv peace of mind with d good guy or d other guy? She shd marry d man she has peace of mind with.

Vinshu:
The first time, I wasn't ready... I said No. Though i liked him.

The second time, he used a car to propose, I was unhappy with that. I said No again.

The third time, he did not kneel we were both in in a taxi travelling so there he tried again and I sad Yes. I was ready then

dis babe can lie.... You dt asked sm1 to send moni to travel from Cyprus to Ghana is rejecting a proposal wit car.

Vinshu:
Some ladies can say No. Not all ladies are material. Even I , said No 3 times before saying Yes.

is it you that is saying NO 3times that EFCC, ICPC and Interpol Stravostik is looking for, for attempting to defrauding him?

Pidggin:
Bros, you for just change your church na. Now see how you've let a good woman go. It's obvious you love her because you know her worth, you will not be the first man to change Church for your potential wife, don't mind some people here lying to you.

my dear, a man is d spiritual head of his home. He is d pastor of his huz. How do u expect him to change church? It is d woman dt normally gives up evrytin for d man. Rememba d Op wz given two option to either change to catholic or he wud allow his wife n kids to be goin to catholic church. Bt he chose none. Some ppl wud hv pretended to accept d latter n afta d wedding he wud tell his wife no more catholic church in his huz.

raayah:
When an uncircumcised dick is erect, it looks like a circumcised dick. There's no difference. It all feels the same.
Its shocking at first if you are not used to it. She has nothing to be scared of.

raayah how did u knw dt for sure? Hv u driven one b4?

raayah:
When an uncircumcised dick is erect, it looks like a circumcised dick. There's no difference. It all feels the same.
Its shocking at first if you are not used to it. She has nothing to be scared of.

raayah how did u knw dt for sure? Hv u driven one b4?

raayah:
When an uncircumcised dick is erect, it looks like a circumcised dick. There's no difference. It all feels the same.
Its shocking at first if you are not used to it. She has nothing to be scared of.

raayah how did u knw dt for sure? Hv us driven one b4?

edidiongjaphet@gmail.com

my dear Op, its ur kitty-cat n ur body. Whoever n wot ever reason u choose to date is ur own cup of zobo. Na ur body go tell u at d end of d day. If u like carry ur tin go giv Bill Gate for 1Billion naira, na for ur pocket. It wont affect any1 of us. So enjoy alone. Mayb u can start up in Abj whr u hv lots of Senators n Reps.

op i think u need to see things for ur sef. Ur cousin cud be jealous. So i wud advice u to start from been friends with d lady in question first. If u find out she is a gud girl/wife mat'l den u can date her n move to d next level. Bt if oda wise den abort mission. Remember nobody is 100percent good/bad. Find out for ursef. Even if she is a bad/runs girl she can change/mode her into what u wud want her to be. If u want an angel for a wife, u wud hv to creat an heveanly home.

op i think u need to see things for ur sef. Ur cousin cud be jealous. So i wud advice u to start from been friends with d lady in question first. If u find out she is a gud girl/wife mat'l den u can date her n move to d next level. Bt if oda wise den abort mission. Remember nobody is 100percent good/bad. Find out for ursef. Even if she is a bad/runs girl she can change/mode her into what u wud want her to be. If u want an angel for a wife, u wud hv to creat an heveanly home.

he is going to 25 u say, then how d u expect him to tell is elder bros he is sleeping ova at a girls place? D guy stil b small pikin. He cnt even introduce u as his gf. You too introduce him to ur frnds/family as ur frnd.

Vinshu:
The woman ? But I did not kiss the man! Why would she be upset?

must u kiss him b4 u knw dt u hv crossed d boundary? Why not lrave married men alone and face unmarried guys/men. Remember whatever a man sows dt will he reap.

IamMissMarvel:
All these private universities. I no dey too believe their First class Jor.

my dear nor be small tin oooh. Be like say na Obj exam dem dey write der.

IamMissMarvel:
I believe this if its Unilorin.

69 is a lot.

Controversial number.

if dt is much then wot wud u say abt Afe Babalola Uni dt graduated 60 sometin 1st class out of a total number of less than 800 graduands.

david22uu:
this remind me of why i ended mine..

She claimed she was a virgin and lost her virginity through rigorous
exercise and when she was young, and when we wanted to finally do..
she gave me a Mouth Action (best ever), tore and fixed the condoms her self and was riding me..

Question: How come she sabi like that

she learnt it thru watchin of porn movies.

best thing u need to do for yourself is quit that relationship. Though it wud b painful considering your time, energy n resourses u may hv investd in it. Bt it is far better to feel d pain of a broken relatnshp for 2wks than to be miserable in marriage all your life. He is not man enough. He doesnt hv a say when it comes to his family. His family doesnt want u. He smokes n drinks. He becomes unstable when faced with a crisis. U hv seen some signs dt he might be an ex cultist. You fight with him most of d times. Plz jst end d relatnshp.

op its ur life, and u r d one dt wud live with ur choice for d rest of ur life. U dnt owe any1 any apology if u call off d relatnshp. U r d one wearing d shoes so u shd knw were it pinches most. Even if u hv introduce her to ur all community, kingdred, village elders family member and d whole world, as long as u hvnt married her yet, u are vry free to walk away. After all its ur life and ur happiness shd matter 1st and mostly. I can hook u up with correct wify materials dt wudnt cheat on u if u like sef.

my advice to you is not to give up. Jst ask her. Even if she has, u might jst end up to be the lucky one that finally wud take her to d alter. I had a frnd who had a similar experience as u bt he waz number 4boo. So dis guy overthrew all 3boos and became her one and only. After all, there is room for overtaking in that ministry.

chomytex:
She was never your boo bro,so try another boo before u'll get booed

sure he can start with u if u r booless

vikyno:
Kk thanks. But how could a girl I got into my room more than 4 times in two weeks be using me? What gave you the impression that the gal had not dumped the other guy for me?

my guy u can be rite. Since d babe hsnt told u she go a boo den dont assume or believ hear say. Assumption is d mother of a fuc.k up. Even she is got a boo, u may be d PRINCE Charming she had been waiting for all her life. Even if she is got a boo, u can even displace all d boo and be her one and only. Hv seen dat happen alot of times.

vikyno:
Kk thanks. But how could a girl I got into my room more than 4 times in two weeks be using me? What gave you the impression that the gal had not dumped the other guy for me?

my guy u can be rite. Since d babe hsnt told u she go a boo den dont assume or believ hear say. Assumption is d mother of a fuc.k up. Even she is got a boo, u may be d PRINCE Charming she had been waiting for all her life. Even if she is got a boo, u can even displace all d boo and be her one and only. Hv seen dat happen alot of times.

PunkyVeer:
Well I'm not supporting that. Why should he marry her when he doesn't want to marry her? Marriage is not an obligation & people should marry who they truly see a future with. It's a huge step that requires emotional honesty imo

yea u are right. After all, his loss is some other guy's gain.

PunkyVeer:
Who mentioned anything about marriage now? I never dated anyone with an expectation of marriage in mind. I'm not that type of girl. I'm a realist. I date knowing fully well that everything has a beginning & an end.

I agree that he should just end it once & for all. No need to keep stringing her along.

but dt is what most ladies dt commented on this thread are advocating he shd do.

PunkyVeer:
Who mentioned anything about marriage now? I never dated anyone with an expectation of marriage in mind. I'm not that type of girl. I'm a realist. I date knowing fully well that everything has a beginning & an end.

I agree that he should just end it once & for all. No need to keep stringing her along.

but dt is what most ladies dt commented on this thread are advocating he shd do.

all4naija:
Your pride gonna hurt you the most if you reject the money. I don't thin there is no guilt there in accepting what you worked for. You would feel a little comfort that he didn't use you and ditch you like a b i t c h without conscience. That money would serve a purpose of making you have that sense of getting something in return more like a settlement.

Go and get your pay from your ex for goodness sake. Don't forget to go to their home wielding a gun or club outside.

punkveer d settlement from an Ex is a form of pension. Becos u hv worked for it, u shd collect it. It is ur sweat.

all4naija:
Your pride gonna hurt you the most if you reject the money. I don't thin there is no guilt there in accepting what you worked for. You would feel a little comfort that he didn't use you and ditch you like a b i t c h without conscience. That money would serve a purpose of making you have that sense of getting something in return more like a settlement.

Go and get your pay from your ex for goodness sake. Don't forget to go to their home wielding a gun or club outside.

punkveer d settlement from an Ex is a form of pension. Becos u hv worked for it, u shd collect it. It is ur sweat.

PunkyVeer:
Lol, you obviously don't know me. When I shut down, I SHUT ALL THE WAY DOWN. If you're an ex, you're as good as dead to me. I erase & banish every thought of you. Some of them I'm even having a hard time remembering their names, etc That's how clinical I handle break ups. Eye develops amnesia, boo

so why didnt u marry any of those ur Ex? U now see dt all relatnshp cant all end in marriage. And one shd neva marry out of pity. Since dey cant jst work den dey shld end d relatnshp in peace.