₦airaland Forum

Emmanuel30a:
Please explain what love is and why people falls in love... I read what you wrote about people fallen out of love...

Dude I am not Shakespeare,I am not here to define and write poems about love and what it is.

I was just addressing the this fallacy that whenever women become unhappy in relationships and want out then it automatically means the blame falls squarely on the man.Sure we do have men who abuse their women but that does not mean it's what contribute to the high rate of divorce.In fact I am willing to bet in most cases it was something deeper than that,or just simply two people who just mentally and sexually drifted apart and saw it was best to call it quits.

Lionessza6:
Narrow-mindedness and lack of exposure to anything outside of religion is their problem . They seem to think being married means happy... . Or being single or divorced makes one miserable...little do they know that others choose to be single and others are in marriages that are hanging by a thread .

And they have a habit of blaming one party when relationships fail ; when it involved a Nigerian man....the woman will definitely be at fault in their eyes . But when it's a foreign man especially another African ...then the men there are a problem and the women are faultless angels .

True,some people are still in marriage but not for the reasons narrow-minded people assume.Some people stay with their partners for the sake of kids,and some women don't financially have it together so they stay in relationships for resources even though they don't love their husbands anymore..being married does not equate to being happy.


Ohh god especially when it comes to SA men,1st page is already flooded with them talking about how evil we are but not song long there was a thread in here about a Nigerian female student who was chopped to pieces by her Nigerian boyfriend but we never flooded the thread with imsults.

Lionessza6:
LMAO. More excuses
And we can say the same here ...these ones are under substance abuse and are frustrated by the slow down of the economy

Religious countries have low divorce rates Mr,and it has nothing to do with the men being good people . The women are shamed and ostracized for leaving their abusers and they are often not allowed opportunities to fend for themselves

Why do they always think that divorce rates are always linked to men being horrible to their wives? there can't be other reasons than this warped reality they have made up in their heads?

Don't people just naturally just fall out of love with each other and agree to part ways without any drama?

There are to many circumstances that lead to divorce,it's not about abuse all the time.

KingCold:
😆 You noticed this too? Don't be surprised if that thread gets taken down, they don't want anyone knowing about it

At this point the writting is on the wall that they are trying to get it out of here.

Why would anybody be triggered by appreciation of feminine beauty? I really don't get what the big deal is.

Slytiger:
South Africans know the difference though. Infact, they say fl*t head Nigerians.

fl** head is just a general term that we use for people that come from Nigeria,doesn't mean we can tell who is who.Most South African can't even name past three Naija tribes,and apparantly ya'll got over 500?

KingCold:
Yup, I've noticed there's a certain bias, I'm also banned for saying the most harmless of things

I think we are expected to take the high road when we see people hurling insults at us...ain't happening,ever!!!

I also noticed they disabled/removed the 'share' button from that Beautiful South African Women thread ,why the hell is that? Einklek what the hell is going on in here? lol

Lionessza6:
Walahi!

Wetin dey happen with dis nairaland of late....I no dey cause wahala but I dey chop ban upandan 🤨...small small tin I dey say like fla***t***d😅 dem go pursue me comot for thread . I no sabi wetin trouble dis "seun" with the original toxic version of the forum😅😅. E be like say self-destruction dey hungry Dat one ,wetin be the meaning of all dis sensitivity na😐.

@the bolded. ....Na Dat one dey vex me pass for dis Der xenophobic forum😅😅.

Hai I really don't know what has happened to this forum.They have disabled my account from posting pictures,even harmless memes dey ban am naa .On top of that they now got this 40 character thingy going

Lol they once gave me a red card for posting A***f***o***n.... But a Nigerian can scream "primitive zulu" all day on here and it be business as usual.

Lionessza6:
As E dey pain am ,E dey sweet me

Yho! It's irritating I tell you. I even screenshot and attach sometimes

I tok say dem tears e sweet pass guava juice abeg

I got banned more than 3 times just this week alone,and I always see the people whose mean comments I replied to still active..i was mad as hell lol

Lionessza6:
You were better back then when you could beat us 3-0...but you can't do that now because SA football has improved and keeps on improving ....and yes you are slightly better because it's either we draw and go to penalties or you win 2-1 or vice versa.

And congratulations on your win ,your Falcons team definitely deserved it ...they showed up on this tournament...and we didn't do a convincing job defending the trophy.

And yes ,I love this forum ,why do you think am a member ? ......but don't mistake that for me loving Nigerians or Nigeria...but I certainly don't hate Nigeria though. But nothing brings me joy than shutting up those loud mouths of yours against us and other African nations whom you like to demean . . Not even Dangote money could give me such joy

Chai e sweet una pass moni?

Nna the mods ba n'suspeda too much these days ..I can't even shut the chest pounders in peace😭

Lionessza6:
😅😅

But honestly Jace, there's no way that generation after generation the same people are always the number one culprits in something this heinous if it's not innate. I don't think they can help themselves at this stage ...because even when they leave Nigeria...they are still kidnapping and trafficking people....so it's not the waters ,food or the Nigerian environment responsible for this menace ...these people are just like this and should never be allowed to roam freely in other climes without being policed . They are a threat to any society . That's why they make all sorts of excuses for their dangerous behaviors or try to downplay their wick*ed nature with " there's crime everywhere " when you bring up these particular sorts of crimes

It's innate,no doubt about that,deeply weaved and entrenched into their DNA.The Trans-Atlantic thing was not a once off/one big accident or mistake.The sold their fellow men for profits.Today it's baby factories,human-trafficking and prõstitution rings.Everything you see today is not different to what their ancestors did five centuries ago and I am dying on that hill🤞🤞🤞

they are getting booted out of Ghana as we speak.So if your own neighbour thinks you are just too much,what more for us who you are a stranger to and come from a very far away region?

Hai kampane,I'd rather be called xenophobic🤞🤷

Lionessza6:


These people are pure evil

Why is that the same region in Africa that sold the most slaves still continues to dominate human trafficking, child slavery ( young maids) and the selling of children?🤮😒

Could this be a bloodline thing ?

Old habits never die.Yes,it's a bloodline thing.

Efefx:
My advice to Nigerian folks is to look elsewhere instead of waiting to be deported.

There are jobs in neighboring countries around UK, like Spain, Ireland, etc

Just look for an alternative location but don't think of coming back to Nigeria, you have made it there, keep pushing, never give up!

Did Spain and Italy send invitation letters? I don't think Nigerians are wanted there either.

Final destination should just be Ojuelegba

chai naija don safa

Abahambe!! Operation Dudula,UK branch

KingCold:
There's no logic with these people

Non at all

jaxxy:
Nobody gives a damn about whites we see them as equals but we know who kills their fellow black Africans.

Like a said happy xenophobia day

Oxymoron - how are you seeing them as equals while at the same time referring to them as "masters"?

You care so much that you don't mind crossing dangerous seas in your raggedy banana boat just to be a homeless person in their lands lol

KingCold:
yeah bro, the likes of 60 Second Assassin, 12'o o'clock, Timbo King, Judah Priest etc, I used to be the one listening to those underground Wu-affiliates

Wu-Syndicate,holocaust (rip), Shyheim and others.

The Wu colonized hip hop back then lol

SeeWahala:
Blacks (Nigerians) are too docile and can take nonsense from their leaders.

Oyibo's on the other hand will never approach a place that can't guarantee their safety.

Two people . . . Two different ideologies. Go figure 😏

Dude,it's human nature to wanna live in place that guarantees safety,it's not a white thing.The problem is you guys are always trying to make white people these other wordly beings that are different from everyone else,like they don't have same fears as the rest of us.

The reason Nigerians are docile is because it just was never your culture to hold those that have failed you to account.You are used to being down trodden lol.

KingCold:
Bro, our tastes are the same hey..Lol.. didn't think people knew thr likes of Dark Skinned Assasin. This is Wu

To be honest I think we are a minority.I realised it's not too many people that listen to this stuff lol

jaxxy:
u xenophobic guys literally kill ur fellow blacks in Africa and worship the whites and when they talk about the white south africans u get upset?

That grandprix won't be watched by black Africans only white people thanks to y'all xenophobic asses and insecurities so who is really obsessed with white people?

The only people who still call whities "master" in 2025 are Nigerians,not South Africans.The only people who believe that their country can only get better if whaite men could recolonize them is Nigerians,not us.Down here in South Africa we drink beers in the same bars with them,go to the same schools,worship under the same church roof and we don't even acknowledge ot think about them like that.We are the only blacks that stayed the longest with white people but those who worship and revere them the hardest are Nigerians..it is a sad😔

Black South Africans will be watching,I am one of them.In fact,I am willing to buy that ticket to watch live and direct.Can give no Fs about what an outsider will be watching on that day.

SeeWahala:
At the very least when we have good enough hospitals that the oyibo's visiting can depend on to treat their illnesses or the race drivers can depend on to save their lives in the unfortunate event of an accident during the tournament

That will probably be by 2050 if we start getting things in place from 2027

That's what it's all about? Oyibo? Lol
Blacks just don't matter to you guys.You will only improve infrustructure for the comfort of oyibo?

Baronthecelebri:
When will Nigeria host it

Yellow kekes and rusty motorbikes e no fit race for F1 na



Just kidding na

Pop Da Brown Hornet ft Dark Skinned Assassin - GP Connection

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yLIOj95Lpp4?si=u4PihgSDhygnKb0r

One of the sickest beat I ever heard🔥🔥🔥🙌

HEAVEN4444:
Ozzy is dead ? Young noble commit suicide

Ozzy was like two or three days ago.Young Noble was seriously crashing out,That random Nas diss and him looking all depressed on that last Vlad tv interview...His didn't surprise me at all.

phorget:
The indomie generations will want to choke us with their unethical heroes, we that was born in the 80s are just the best.

Lol we will just have to stomuch the Takeshi 69s and Lil Babies of the world as we watch real talented icons leave us like this.

Malcolm,Ozzy Osborne and Hulk Hogan? All within a week?😭😭

Who are we gonna be left with,the 80s and 90s pop culture icons are leaving😭😭

seppuku:
As empty a slogan as the when Mandela coined "THE RAINBOW NATION"

Let's see how long this one lasts.

Desmond Tutu,not Mandela.


Why do you care this much?

seppuku:
At least i am not gonna hear "NO DNA JUST RSA" tonight.

Congrats to the super falcons.

Well,you're wrong about that.

NO DNA,JUST RSA.🇿🇦

The flag never rests no matter what.💪💪💪

KingCold:
You're right. Misplaced priorities

Wasteful spending at that...

Taking billions of dollars and putting them behind Barcelona t-shirts isn't really gonna do anything to entice tourists to start visiting the DRC.

African leaders are just full of it.What DR Congo needs is more investment into national security and infrustructural development.

Everyone in the international community is aware of the internal conflicts in Congo and how long it has been going on for.It will take more than a putting your name behind some football club's jersey to make Congo a destination for tourists.

Bait thread with no substance.Probably created to pass time because them generators be too slow to re-heat that last night egusi grease😔

All major companies in Nigeria are from South Africa so not only have we eclipsed your relevance on the continent and on a global scale but also right there in your country of 200 million people