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You're not setting a good example by running away from this minor thing. Make your son pay the bill and teach him a lesson .

You can't love again til you learn to love yourself first.

The guy was wrong for not telling you to your face that he wanted to end it. But you were also wrong for not making your feelings known to him all this time. Pick yourself up and move on  

I agree with your points but there still are faithful men out there

Big Sean - My Last

[quote author=Blood_Shed link=topic=565257.msg8254731#msg8254731 date=1304467024]Hey, that was some honest, friendly advice. Yeah, you're not as big as our good friend Precious ( ), but its about maintenance. You could do with shedding a lil bit more, come on. Just like I'm happy with my condition but I have to regularly work out to maintain it. Simple.

If I was as skinny as heck, why would I get mad if someone tells me to put on some weight?

Then you claim you're not catching feelings LMAO

Relax, I'm playing. Regarding your personal life, I was just pulling your leg, I really couldn't care less to be honest. It aint my business.

HONESTLY, CHILL!!![/quote]It's all good

And what do you expect when you tell me
[quote author=Blood_Shed link=topic=565257.msg8254311#msg8254311 date=1304460132]That wasn't the point I was making in my previous post. I was just responding to your comment with a picture ofa fat woman and since I mentioned Precious, I put her pic up there.
NOW, I see your pic on your profile (well, I'll assume it's you anyways). You're definitely not on Precious or Mo'nique's level, I'll tell you that, BUT I'll suggest you make the effort and exercise regularly (if you don't already, I don't know).

I hope you're not one of those who just defend these no good whales while on journey to becoming as sloppy as them.


As for Precious, SHE HAS to understand that those in Hollywood who are patronising her are taking her for a ride and by the time reality kicks in, she'll probably be stressed out to the point of suicide when she realises she's been hoodwinked. Hollywood is SCARED of beautiful black women like Gabrielle Union and Sana'a Lathan, that's why they choose to parade Gabourey Sidibe around like she's the best Black women have to offer. That's a frickin' insult if you ask me.

Think I'm lying? What has Gabourey Sidibe done before and since Precious? Thought so. And it's gotten to the point that she believes all that hype. Someone one time complemented on her looks and she said something like "yeah, it's genetics".
WHAT!!!! FV<K OUTTA HERE! ARE YOU SERIOUS?, lol[/quote]Was I suppose to not say anything after seeing that you took the effort to check my profile then proceed to say the above statements? Don't throw out subtle jabs and not expect a response. I'm not some coconut head chick oh. I just think it's funny how you even continued to make attacks at my personal life by including my bf. So obviously I'm not the only one who is catching feelings since you're taking it that far! My opinion on this subject still remains unchanged.

But Nekai according to Blood, fat women aren't allowed to have a high self esteem and are supposed to receive criticism to stay thin and "healthy". *coughs* Don't even bother sef.

There you go again with your assumptions! How can you judge my attitude from written words on a forum
Unless defending fat chicks now counts as having an attitude lol

9 hours? Wow I'd be so thirsty lol

[quote author=Blood_Shed link=topic=565257.msg8254473#msg8254473 date=1304462389]That's yo' hurr??, AM JOKING! I couldn't care less about your hair, I was just playin'

Honestly, I feel sorry for ya man, damn lol.

Always looking for something to pick at, sheesh.[/quote]You also seem to be a bad judge of character. I was just responding to your assumptions about me, not picking. Atleast I have a man and not a little boy

Yea I read your condescending post. And sorry, I don't wear weave as thick and coarse as it is, that is my hair 100%. Anyways *walks out of thread*

Couldn't even answer my question. What about her bothers you so much? Why are you filled with that much hatred of another human being all over her appearance? Yes my profile picture is mine. I'm a fat chick and proud of it. I've been big most of my life and am living a happy and healthy life. Just because I'm not a size 0 doesn't mean I'm not healthy. And telling me I'm on track to becoming a "sloppy whale" is unnecessary and ignorant. To each his own I guess!

What about Precious bothers you so much? I wonder. Yes she's big but why should that be a reason to receive negativity and criticism? I'm sure she knows she's overweight. Leave her be abeg!

[img]http://daysofourlife.files./2009/01/anorexic.jpg?w=450&h=336[/img]

And this is the result of too much criticism about weight. Frickin' society .

I would run it by your friend first. It's been a year so maybe he's over her .

What truth? All I see is a shallow opinion. Keep thinking big girls don't get husbands. And not that it matters, I've been the same size for years. Again worry about your own life

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=658691.msg8252476#msg8252476 date=1304437349]the same reason why IBO womens always have beard & mustache [/quote]Slap yourself!

She looks good

It's suspicious that the poster won't give either the name of the facility or the doctor

It's your fault for staring so hard at her top lol. Why wouldn't she be nervous when she catches someone staring at her?

100% agree with Nekai. Whiteroses why not worry about your own life? It's people like you who judge and sneer and give these young women a complex and in severe cases, eating disorders just to fit this image society has placed on us. I say as long as you're happy with your body, your mate won't mind.

Preach on Nekai

No I don't have stretch marks but then again I take good care of my skin. Stretch marks isn't limited to just fat people

More ignorance. You'd be surprised. Alot of men prefer a bigger woman and do keep them as gfs and even wife them up. Just saying
Glad my bf is one of those^

Because they're generally more mature, level-headed and experienced in life

*peeks in*
Big girls have no problem getting dates. So what's with all the negativity, stereo-typing, and ignorance in this thread?

Ugh. . . When we are intellectual/act like we have sense then you men are intimidated and run away. When we act like an airhead then we aren't taken seriously. No easy being a woman. We can't win!