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Did you leave him? He didn't know how good he had it. You don't deserve that kind of disrespect in your own home after everything you do for that worthless guy.

*facepalm* smh

Nollywood film in progress!

[quote author=deal_ordea link=topic=714817.msg8730787#msg8730787 date=1310850872]@Jackieugo: I  tend to think well into the future when it comes to most things most expecially women. This could be part of the reason I have never married - when I considered it and put on my fortune teller hat I have always seen divorce and/or much less disposable income in the future[/quote]Why so selfish? How do you expect to enter a marriage and not spend any money? What of when you start having children and have to support them? What if you or your spouse becomes ill? What about keeping a roof over your heads? What if a family member or friend was in trouble and needed to borrow money? But out of marriage also comes happy and joyous things like the fact you get to see your children grow and become thier own person. You meet more people from your spouse's side of the family that make your life better. You experience more things in life with your partner as you grow older. You build a life and make memories you cherish. The journey isn't always smooth but you take on challenges together. Yet you're only worried about finances. I'm not yet married but these are things I look forward to once I'm ready not how much money am I going to spend  

[quote author=deal_ordea link=topic=714817.msg8730722#msg8730722 date=1310850063][b]Again, I think it knows where it comes from. Women are the consummate shoppers and consumers. and in their mantra world of retail extravaganza -The CUSTOMER is ALWAYS RIGHT !' [/b]So it isn't a relationship - its f.u.c.kking customer service position, and no matter how much you do, when you do it, how you do it, how often you do it - it doesn't  matter because her perception of what is 'right' is the correct one.
And Lord help you if her friend got a better 'deal' than she is getting. She will make demands of the quick place in a frame of short time.

Lol[/quote]Yea cause women are the only consumers right? When it comes to cars, electronics, clothes, and even women, you men can be just as equally picky and competitive. So what is your point?

She should save her dignity and just walk away. That man is no good

I hope it isn't who I think it is cause I almost fell for this same trap. Anyway ndo my sister!

Wifey material!

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Why on earth would you want 5000 real friends?

Love is unselfish.

Slap yourself

Yes oh! Please stop bleaching your skin. You're only putting carcinogens on your body and it's not healthy. Being light skin is overrated. What matters more is who you are as a person and not your skin color.

Chai! This poor woman suffered. May she rest in peace

Bootystruc:
why did u wait till now to pass this message accross. at the late hour. nothing can be done now

I did not. I made the same statement on the first or second page of this thread

I still say Inked_nerd deserves to win just for her maturity and calm responses on most of her posts. This list is BS 

rofl @ flash your passport
Ah I love NL.

koolkamzzy:
SECONDED

How you doing Jackie, Longest time

Wow! How've you been Kam? Be on Yahoo later :p

Why is Inked_nerd not on this list?! Anyway I voted for iice  

While I agree with some of your points and views, I have to say the way you treated that poor girl was wrong. If you knew from the start that she wasn't intellectually compatible with you. . . why sleep with her and degrade her in such a way? And yet you're surprised at her actions when you broke it off.

Orikinla:
Is it not pathetic that majority of Nigerian girls display and portray themselves as sex objects in order to get laid to get paid in cash or kind. They are spongers posing and posturing as girlfriends and “wives”., but heaven knows they are not better than LovePeddlers. Almost every one of them sponges on one man or another and their greatest ambition is to hook a rich guy to fool for life and desperately they will do whatever they can to achieve it. But ask them what have they done to make a positive impact in life?

My dear, is it not tragic that the best assets you can offer are just your mammary glands and womanliness, without any intellectual property upstairs?
It is a waste of quality time dating you, and it is more beneficial reading a good book than forking you.

So you're too good to date and be in a relationship with such women yet can stoop down to their level and lay with them. What does that make you? Men like you aren't contributing anything to the intellectual growth of these women. Maybe you should stop chasing after them for their "assets" and praise them when they try to accomplish something for themselves. I believe that men are just at fault for creating this situation back home.

J12:
Do you really believe that you are overweight?

According to the BMI I am but in reality I'm actually healthy for my height(5'10" and have no health problems. But you know how people are when they see chubby women. They will assume you have high blood pressure, diabetes, are "slow" and gluttonous, etc then proceed to pressure you to lose weight for the wrong reasons. I'm all for losing weight to stay fit and healthy but against losing weight to "look good". I hate society 

Nope! I love it when my boo grabs and holds onto my hips when we're in public 

Cuddlemii:
Why do u jobless shits always like picking on fat people all the time. I laugh and joke too on those threads but its just dawned on me that its not fair.

Y'all should stop it. Let do our romance talk, sex talk, dirty talk, bashing etc but Lets stop disrespecting people.

If you have a way of helping them then you do that. Enough is Enough

They pick on fat people because they are insecure and lacking in something in their lives. I no go vex.

Lol she looks so unhappy

Some of us don't give a bleep about BBs and are content with whatever phone suits them. Some of us don't bleach our skin and are naturally light skinned like our mamas. Some of us don't wear fake hair and actually put ALOT of time and effort into growing our hair. But all of that is looked over and we are grouped in with every other woman. I hate generalizations. Mschew 

whobemumu:
how badly do u want to be a womanizer ?


i can be your mentor   ( teacher )

many ingredients ( not in any particular order )

time
money
lies
ability to identify easy women
ability to satisfy  their needs ( varies from woman  to woman )
ability to convince that u are  comitted  even if u are not

this list is not exhaustive  and finally

willing ness to allow other aspects of your life suffer
your  family life

finances

education

religion

health

and many others

at the end its not worth it my friend

find one that u like and stay with her

You have your work cut out for you OP

[quote author=M M M 3 link=topic=15264.msg8614710#msg8614710 date=1309347739]ok what do u need?
So i will give it 2 u. [/quote]Do you really want me to answer that? It's a pretty long list lol

Hmm. . .