₦airaland Forum

jidesp:
Thanks for sharing this. But honestly, I think we see the signs we just choose to ignore them. Just an honest advice, don't be wit a man who is willing to come to your home, or know how you spend your money perhaps your financial status. Date guys who are interested in being your friends. I know i'm being subjective but the truth is when you put yourself out there as being single and search, all types of weirdo's with crazy oddities come lurking too including the type of guys you mentioned.

ciao

Even if u wearing an engagement ring, it doesn't change anything o

diva90:
This is so true. The most common question from most of these guys is "what do you do".... The moment you download your qualifications, they immediately become 'turned on'. It's so unfortunate that most men have become so lazy these days... They would rather go for a well to do woman or a big man's daughter than be submerged in a world of responsibilities. You go to many homes, women are now breadwinners, paying bills etc. Everybody wants the easy way out. The part I don't get is women who lend their boyfriends huge sums of money.... How can you take such a huge risk? guess some people only learn the hard way. As for me the words - borrow, loan, lend are non existent in my dictionary.

Smart one! Please let it remain like that lol

jidxin:
but is it d natural occupation of ladies DAT gold dig u said wat a man can do a woman can do better ...they re pro at it sha.... BTW re doz tinz real.... can guys ask those questions

They ask them 247, maybe u different.

Amelian:
Amin Jesu..!... I have to be wise or else na high bp, the golddiggers go use finish me.. it's better to be single and at peace, i will live long and age like a fine red wine, with God .. my own husband will locate me ...than to be delusional one is getting married to a fake and a con artist.

My dear U will live long too in peace and prosperity.. amen.

The wait is always worth it trust me when that time comes, you would bless God for giving u patience. A big amen to your prayer

ib22003:
i like this, but you are off track. boys who ask this questions are just the desprate once. Real gold diggers(Them Baba nla), those one will spend 2millon on your head and take back 6 million. they will have a house in lekki and have a Range Rover. We all know you ladies are quick to drop money when you feel a guy is rich

Lol that was then o, everybody don dey wise now.

You are trying too hard, go and play! We only need adults here, not advanced asslickers. Check my signature

Trapnews:
You are now confirming my statement... you know yourselves. Probably met her on the job. You are just another suffer-head posing like a rich kid. Who know you for Ogudu? Feel-amonger! Gerrarahere mehn!

freezy:
Jesus!

You are cute!

Can I buy you a drink?

thanks

RoyalBlak007:

Hey dear what is it?

ThoniaSlim:
I've got to say I understand where this poster is coming from. You can't meet a guy in Lagos now without him asking questions like where you live or work. One he-male even suggested coming to visit me at work. Like seriously? You think my office is an eatery where you can stop by anytime? I didn't bother replying him.

You can imagine! I bet he's not busy lol

Amelian:
Op, U are kinda right in some cases... another way of separating the gold diggers from the real sincere one is this:
Firstly, if U stay alone be sincere about it But U have to know his own place first. And thats where U catch the gold digging ones.. they will come up with excuses that he lives with his parents or elder brother, so coming over is kind of complicated.... really?
At your age? And yur talking trash about marriage? ..
I see.....dear, such guys? Abeg run!..cause U can't get hold of them at anytime.. they breeze into Yur life and breeze out when their plot don over ready.

Secondly, yea if U have a car as a lady. Its not Yur fault U work over the edge to be comfortable and achieve certain things in life. But if he requests for the car keys and expect U to take a bus or bike to work and back home? ... my dear run for your dear life... the gold digging is like a placard on his forehead.. for Christ sakes how inhuman can he be? And if U fall for such trick? Mehn, the babe needs to be taken for deliverance..

Thirdly, if he stylishly complains about money and ask for loan to backup his biz? Babe, U r not a bank neither are U thrift and saving commercial bank... let him know the bills too, U have piled up waiting for U to clear up in rents and other stuffs. . And say eeyah, don't worry I will always pray with U... my God will do it for U in Jesus name.. as soon as U tell him Yur own financial problems, anytime he brings his own up... trust me he won't disturb U anymore for huge sums of money..

And lastly, please don't send unclad pics no matter how.much U love him cause he will definitely use it against U.. be sensible... if he persists on unclad pics, my dear.. block him from Yur chats.. and bye bye to good riddance.. in my own case I have a reputation to protect sorry, I can't send it.. if my sexy pose with clothes In pics, are not OK with U, Abeg shift! No time to waste!.

Working class ladies shine Yur eyes and be smart, so you are not left broken emotionally and financially.. with time, the good sincere guy will come around U.. who doesn't need a dime from U but simply your company and trust.
Its well...

You will live long! This is exactly the kinda advice we need. I thought I was th only one but here's a smart lady saying the truth, the simple truth. Since when did all these become a yardstick to love someone? Once again you will live long.

Toks2008:
lol

ok take all the time u want in the world..If you know me so well..you will...

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

ireneony:
stupid girl! Calling a woman like you prostitute for cheap likes. Someone like you gives women bad reputation.
swear with your life if u re still a virgin.
Metchweer always quick to put down a fellow woman like you. You are jealous becos she is working class lady. While you u ve to open your legs for men to get tip compare to what she earn in a month.

My dear forget that asslicker! She's looking for a nairaland boyfriend desperately. I believe after wasting 20yrs in the okpo industry she has come to pitch tent here hoping to catch her class of guys. Unfortunately she wouldn't see any here, she should go to badoo to mingle with okpos her calibre. She didn't in anyway bring me down, she disgraced womanhood.

Trapnews:
This comment is typical of an OKPO. We know your type, no matter how hard you pretend... sha dont end in SHILOH!

My signature Egbon, it would help you.

Toks2008:
lol

over sure worry me...even if you are a princess of kuwait king i no send you.

I will still take care of you regardless.

Im not bragging but i dont believe a sane guy should depend on a lady for cash.

To ask woman for loan sef na war.

And btw wettin i do?

I called you but you wanted more that's too fast! One step at a time.

anigbajumo:
Nonsense!!

Is it a force to mingle with them?? Una just gat sitted and type poo,complied a fake story wif lotz of illusion just to bash nigga nd some useless mods will move it to front page......

Let high BP not kill you o, be happy.

Teespice:
mainland is fast becoming another island.

if you doubt me, check out places like gbagada.

Ofcourse my family house is in Ogudu. Mainland anytime, anyday.

warripekin:
Op my classmate and friend at the university is a classical case of what u are referring to. Right from our university days , this stingy guy know how to prey on rich girls or girls from wealthy homes. I remember when he visited me in dolphin estate after school, it took him one week to know all the pretty girls from wealthy homes. He gatecrashed theirs parties and would beg for my car to show off .He even suggested we go to bimbos singles and married program back then because they have a gathering of rich singles. He finally got married to the daughter of a former bank director in 2012. But the shocker he got after the wedding was that all that glitters are not gold since his father in law refused to release money for his business proposals to him. But through the wisdom of his wife, they built a house some where in ikorodu. Indeed, their are gold digger guys.

Omg I should give you a really wet kiss for this! Thank heavens some guys ain't biased afterall. A guy just typed this? Lemme check your moniker again, you should be number 1 on my good book.

sinistermind:
No offence to the OP but why do u girls see ursefs as victims in relationships? Because a guy is yet to post something of such doesn't exonerate ladies. A vast majority of Nigerian ladies sees nothing wrong asking a guy some of those questions above.

We were created as weaker vessels.

seangy4konji:
Broke people make the loudest of noises.

If you help a nigha when he was knacking you and later cry foul cos a flint 2000k dollars that no one heard about when his prick was like sugar then u need to pray for more money like Mariah careh,Toni Braxton and big women who take care of women without crying of such.

I feel your pain though.

Another fraudster or gigolo sighted!

Toks2008:
How i wish i could take advantage of ladies...my nature wont allow it..I AM AN ALPHA MALE.

You sure of that? well i'm not happy with you

What's that one thing?

tumababa:
nice one. i checked all your threads and realised one thing only...............

donbenedict:
is it so hard for u to ignore? Last time I checked, ur moniker wasn't attached to her comment? Wat makes u think u were the one she was referring to?


I smell guilty conscience here

Cutehector or whatever you call yourself, I noticed u always first to rush into my threads,is that a sign of boredom or joblessness? Now let's make things clear, I don't like you, your opinion is as useless as the p in psychology! Don't come here derailing my thread, I can be very friendly and the same time a thorn in your flesh! I don't mention you, I never do so i'd suggest u stop following me back to back like a Hot he-goat who smells c.unts! I believe i'm clear.

Kgdavid:
your papa must be really rich to be playing gulf o

Lol no be only gulf na table tennis.

Jonathan2787:
But girls in the entire Nigeria do what the op described on a daily basis and people said its normal, how a guy does it and it made frontpage, are those mods bribed before you make fp? I've come across threads concerning gold digging girls and it didn't make FRONTPAGE

Oooops lemme go and check! I never knew the thread made frontpage

Caringguy:
ah so much Love this jadekitana

Me love you too

BUTCHCASSIDY:
THe chickens are finally coming home to roost
what a woman can do a man can do better
For years women did the digging and other chics thought it was okay
Now it has come full circle Hahahahaha

but OP the men not only dig from the women they dig from fellow men
esp ABJ boys
U see them in the club. When they catch Ur eye they come over wanna share your booze with you
Become all chatty. If they dare know Ur house thats it. ALways coming checking Ur fridge going on your Xbox
Every weekend they have a place they want to show you. those guys know every happening club in town
The worst of them will bring their babes along. Tell the girl some sh** like you guys are cousins or close family friends
Some shameless ones willl even lie to the girl that they are the ones paying the rent and U are a squatter.

Hahaha that's quite serious, I can bet those ladies get laid in your apartment thinking it's their boos apartment. Such guys don't dream big cos their mentality is restricted to cheating others!

LORDSAMURAI:
Like seriously i have been opportune to kiss ladies from the uk,usa,south africa, spain, ghana and nigeria, but what i discovered is that NIGERIAN ladies dont know how to kiss, 90% of them are boring and disgusting kissers, they dnt even know how to french kiss, they will just pack saliva into your mouth, which is very boring and disgusting, those guys that have kissed ladies from ghana,south africa and d rest of the world will confirm it to be truth, NIGERIA ladies needs to take a lecture on how to kiss. "fact" my opinion though. "cc lalasticlala and obinoscopy can even testify that im saying the truth.

No I think u have a smelling mouth that's why! If your breath is fresh trust me any lady would eat and suck your tongue but if your mouth oozes like a face me I slap u apartment toilet in ojuelegba no babe would wanna kiss u

KingCheezyPuff:
Lady,if I didn't think you ah'ight
I'd rip you ta pieces for that last part .....
.......Nothin' still have the moniker just wanted a name change.
....wanted ta be the highest ruler!

Hahah ok then

KingCheezyPuff:
Op this piece is the best!
Dudes love callin' chicks gold diggers
But you've shown there are prospectors amongst them!!!!

My dear its what's happening now, it's all a game! Like I keep saying everybody needs to be smart, nobody wanna be played these days Btw what happened to queenvalerie moniker, this one makes you masculine.

HateU2:
that island na die . That's why I hardly roll with em.

Lol

Leriebloom:
Girls arent the only gold diggers, we have guys who play the same game of digging

Them full island living fake life.

firstking01:
This lady sha...ma quickly book space should incase the boo wey in call lalasticlala fit enter in head he con push the thing go fp....anyway, i expect my niggies in lag to come clear the air here, since i'm fully blooded ph boy

Ph guys don't have wahala as most of them ain't pretenders! But unfortunately I can't say same for lagos guys, the hustle to live big is real not minding what it would cost.