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joshsmarty:
https://www.nairaland.com/2901544/when-guys-stop-inviting-ladies
The same guy?

No

joshsmarty:
Everyday a guy did this a guy did that.. Wetin b ur own..

Mr man are u sure you in the right thread?

ClassCaptain:
then u probably havent lived in a female hostel ever. Anyway, i still feel u shld not have reacted that way. He definitively didnt know u wouldnt like it.

It shows that there is this kind of opinion he has about your character that will make it seem harmless taking you with him to a strip club.

Anyway, i still believe you shld, apologise , make him know you against such acts, make him apologise for taking u to such unacceptable place and make him promise not to do it again.

I think i tried

He's been calling with another number. Well i'm naughty I know that but there are other places we should have gone to. I don't know where the idea came from! I'm angry cos I have a feeling he has been going to such places, and the image I had about him has been tarnished.

Cutehector:
wat if he takes u to a strip club?

My crush would end instantly

BUTCHCASSIDY:
So he is a pervert for seeing naked women?
are U shitting me?
Is he supppsed to be turned on by naked men?
Of course he will be happy. I and any red blooded male will be

So he was right smiling ear to ear right in my presence cos he saw nake.d girls? Someone he's asking out. Hmmm guys sha

DeeTus:
Hahahaha. You're full of drama!

Cutehector:
I thought u said u liked phyno?

very much

dajoaneke:
Would you have prefered to know his hangouts and lifestyle after saying yes to him?... As for me, I support the guy 100%. If my bad habit keeps you away, you have no reason to eat my shawarma or suya and pretend we are cool.
Abeggiiii

Bad habits should be controlled, he has been living a lie all these while told me he's reserved sexually and would give me all the time and yet he took me to a strip club to turn me on! And Btw why so much emphasis on the sharwarma? did I beg him to call me out?

ClassCaptain:
He did what was right. He was open to you and didnt hide . What if he had not told u and still went there secretly to commit the act even if you guys are dating.

Probably,it was a subtle way of asking if you will be comfortable with him doing that. The best u could have done was to atleast enjoy a few minutes with him,give him one excise of leaving and comminucate your grievances to him thereafter.

Enjoy viewing my fellow naked girls around me? It wasn't a sight to behold.

QueenValerie:
He mustta lost his mind!!!!!! This got me so mad.

You needed to see the look on his face! He was so happy, such a pervert. Wanted to turn me on by all means

chigoizie7:
$
Nd ur point is?

my point is the last paragraph

kaycexx:
go back and return the sharwarma he bought for you.

Why are you sounding like a broke man?

*blushing* well my best moment was the day I came late and this very wicked senior who was tripping for me was flogging late comers seriously! When it got to my turn he just looked at me and said go my head was swelling. We later dated though I broke his heart cos of one foolish liar smh

Cutehector:
just as u get attracted to the guy, d same feelins dey hav to d same sex... dey feel irritated should a guy kiss dem or smth.

Too bad

You can imagine the rate at with conji be killing some guys! to say i'm disappointed is an understatement. I'v been friends with this guy for some months,he's been on my case and has agreed to give me all the time I need before we start dating.

I was on my own last night when he invited me to go take sharwarma somewhere around.
We were just gisting normally about life and next thing he said was he's getting really bored and there's a new place on the island he would like to take me to.

We got there, I noticed the bouncers were really fierce looking! I got scared and asked him why they had 6 hefty bouncers,he just laughed and said it's cos the place is new. He quickly paid for VIP and when they opened the door first thing I saw was a fair beautiful girl stark naked dancing holding a pole. There were about 10ladies or more completely naked, with guys having fun with them!

I didn't bother to proceed to the VIP, I left in annoyance, boarded a cab and deleted his number sharply.

A guy who takes a lady to a strip club to watch other naked ladies and probably partake in frolicking with them can never be serious in a relationship! Quote me anywhere.

They have psychological problem, if not why would a woman derive pleasure in another woman?

Pound me the witch drums
Better pray for hell not halleluyah

CaroLyner:
seems like you're desperate for marriage cause you're 35.thats why you seem to think you're in love with this guy.all i see is desperation.
If by chance he forgives you for lying, i'll advice you see him physically first before thinking of marriage.

Madam how old are you? 20 I guess! May God not let you b in her shoes, you wouldn't be typing this.

Royalblack007 I saw your name amongst the pervs sliding pms and oga tosyn2much so with all those your antagonistic threads forming holier than thou you be codedly looking for pvssy smh

vikktor:
I applied tru dia e-mail hr@spectranet.com.ng in jan dis year. I know dia for real! I wanted to kw how abt dia recruitment process....d interview if dia is test wat kind of test etc.

And the email address took you 2days to type right? According to my calender this thread was opened yesterday 25th and people have been asking how you applied u kept mute! Not until I just typed the mail address for everyone to apply which a good citizen should do without greed. You guys need to desist from selfishness, what you just typed there isn't necessary anymore! I'v displayed the email address for everyone to apply and i'm so happy I could help.

Aniekpeno11:
Op u better go o and start praying to get the job because their pay for graduates is on point. Abeg how u take apply?

They have been asking the op how he applied he kept mute but wants info. @everyone you can apply via this email hr@spectranet.com.ng

Aniekpeno11 how much is their pay? Do u know much about the company?

Smh too bad

Will this pic reduce dollar to 150? Who picture don help! Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

That's really cool, welcome to the club

refiner:
lol...I don't know oo...avnt measured it!


buh am above average in height!

DivineKayy:
No one amongst we that wrote the test feb5 has gone for 1st interview. Tuesday, Feb 16 is d date for some of us if not every1.

Have you met the executive director? Did u do a second interview? I mean after your first interview! I should have been in your set but missed the interview, i'm trying to plead for a reschedule. I went on a business trip

BadBullet:
You must be over 6ft to possess that type of confidence you are talking aboutt

I'm not up to 6ft o

refiner:
yea tall gals are sweet!

#teamtallgals...

Lol are u tall? What's your height?

misspicy:
Jadekitana HI5




Tall girls are never intimidated

Oh yes

Lezzlie:
lolz, Isn't it self evident? Women are bereft of emotional anchor and sexual fulfillment from men.

Let's deal with the coldblooded truth without seeking consolation in lies and false praise.

The vast majority of men are selfish pricks who don't give a good goddamn about pleasing women. It's basically bang and go!!!

At the risk of sounding boastful, I have had lovers now married who still bug my phone after years of marriage. My last girl shamelessly told me she was going to cheat on her hubby with me. That's a cold reality of life .

It takes more to understand women emotionally and sexually. So when the OP talks about the "emotional imprints" , blurred and vivid images jumped into my head in recollections of women who impulsively, in a swift moment of emotional free-fall , called me daddy.

And that word was humbling and deep; for in the moment that marked her essense ,she endeared me with a name which carries the weight of her progenitor!

They call you daddy? That's serious ooo! Daddy ke, you must have treated them like babies

WiLdFLame:
dat u are crushing on cutehector!

Check my signature, that's the only man I have a crush on

WiLdFLame:
yeah...she right cos shez crushing on you!
but very wrong cos u dont compare sun tzui with qui tzanghou of sui dynasty!

I'm not crushing on him, I like the way he responds maturedly in different threads.

WiLdFLame:
no and yes! why? cos 2 tins are always involved...u knw wen a lady tells u A she means B.
so its either she saying ur e-character should or shouldnt be emulated that is to say u bad!
go ask jadekitana wetin she really mean? who knows she really getting knocked up by ur love.

And what are you saying?