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Hmmm...I appreciate what she is doing but timing is very important. From my point of view, I think she should have allowed Hilda cook-a-thon which is a talk of town to have subsided, atleast, probably next year before she begins her own cock-a-thon. Anyways, I wish her the best.

Please don't make that mistake else you will regret it for the rest of your life. Now that you are still young, move now. It is not just for you but for your unborn children too. Yes you can make it big in Nigeria but the chances are very slim. The probability of making it big in UK is high and fast. Unless you are probably destiny for poverty, then you are stay back and keep struggling till you make it in Nigeria. Ire o.

One thing I will say to you is this, if you forgive a woman for what she knows she is not suppose to be forgiven for, she will end up punishing you for it. Do accordingly to what she did to you. You have forgiven her but she should pay someone to take care of her mother somewhere else.

My first advice is that you take her to the hospital yourself to really confirm the pregnancy, then if she is pregnant, and she want to terminate the pregnancy, involve the elders close to you and her too. Is possible, involve the legal department to restrict her from doing so.

Sonnobax15:

Pastor just wan scatter table wey dem Zonefree don already dey shake tay tay.....

Well,the truth is that when you enter into marriage with someone whom you aren't compatible with, there's nothing on earth that'd make such marriage to last.......

Still,there are many marriages out there that are also beautiful to admire.......Even though there have been lots of ups and downs,but being able to understand each other made such marriage to come through many challenges.

For your information and Incase of next time, there is nothing like people are compatible. No one is compatible with anyone, we are all different and unique in our own ways and can never people compatible. If we are compatible, there won't be need for forgiveness in marriage, compromise, patience, understanding and etc. So let's all remove the idea of compatibility. Marriage is about two different person with the capacity to forgive, understand, compromise, unlearn and learn and any other attributes to put in the effort to make a marriage work. So marriage is not about I am compatible with someone, after all, what is the yardstick you use in measuring your compatibility with some who can change in character, attitude or whatever 5 years into the marriage. The question is that as a man or woman, do you have the qualities and ready to put in the work to sustain a marriage. If not, remain single until you are ready.

This stupid man was once Futminna lecturer o. I guess he was sacked or left voluntary for this kind of misconduct. Nawa for this man o.

It is left for you to believe, I am done arguing with people over spiritual things, all these things exist. One thing you should know is that what does not exist does not have a name, but once there is a name for it, it does exist. Enjoy your life while it last.

Why won't a man sleep? Must it be about you ladies everytime. You both had a mutual sex, why can't you also cuddle the man after sex. All I see everytime you ladies complain like this is because you are seeing yourself as being used and selfish along side. When match done finish, no need for post match, it is not easy thrusting a woman abeg

Vinnie2000:
OP, Reject her, OK?

Just how my Ex who is Married is Always Chatting me on Whatsapp!

The Truth is Many Young married ladies are NOT happy and are BORED in the Union..

They Married Men who they Dont love because of LongThroat for Money and also, Family pressure..

So what situation are you with your ex presently?

This is quite funny, how will you say you escorted an adult to toilet to ease himself, are you in your right sense at all.

lhordspy:
Just another plot to put the iranian in a bad light to the world. But the Iranian president is no coward like our African leaders that licks the feet of the Europeans.

Amanpour knows the iranian president so well, she knows he will never accept to that, so why schedule an interview with him when you know you can't dress according to the president's religious doctrine.

It was definitely planned either for clout-chasing, cheap attention seeking, or portraying the already battered image of the iranian president or iranians in general in a bad way right in the face of the world.


Thank God, Jesus wasnt around this time. This present day propaganda dishing set of medias would have made us believe he is bad just because he wont do to their bidding.


I think CNN, BBC and other european maintstream media are the problem of this world.


Modified : For everyone quoting me and coming right at me. We Nigerians are just usually unnecessarily emotional about religious sentimentalism. We are blind by religious sentiment, it doesnt even matter even if we are to be packed like a chicken inside a single bus, or be reffered to as a third-world country. As far as our colonizers are christians, and we are too.. We dont give a damn about what they do to us and how they treat us.

For goodness sake, can't you see behind your religion blindness that this was planned by CNN and Amanpour incojunction with the US to put the iranian president in a bad light in the face of the world.? You guys dont know how dirty foreign politics can get. You think it is by peter obi vs tinubu type of gbas gbos Nigeria childish politics we play here. Foreign Politics is filthy, they will always tend to want to bring you down in one way or the other.

He knows their plan.. He stood his ground, he is not a coward like our african leaders that can be bully into submission. He should get a statue, he is a man after my heart, just next to vladmir Putin.

You lack sense alot, why is the Iranian President not respecting her own religion too. Must the religion of Iranian President only be respected? You are just a fool with not future direction

studentofTruth:
Not true. It's an obvious setup, and here's why:

No matter the menstrual period, menses start coming 14 days after ovulation. And it's after the period is missed (doesn't start on the expected day) that a woman becomes concerned about pregnancy — many women won't even bother until several days later to give room for normal body variation.

So, even if she ovulated on that 30th July, she wasn't supposed to expect her menses until 13th and could only get concerned by 14th (the whole of 13th must pass because it could have been by night) if she's that sensitive. If she ovulated on the 29th, there's a chance the egg has died by 30th because eggs last 12 hours (at most 24hrs) but even at that, she would be expecting the period on 12th and would only panic and go for test by the next day, 13th (the whole of 12th must have pass because it flow at any moment) if she's that concerned.

A test done on 12th shows it was a trap, and he walked into it.

At Op, the chances of being the father is low. Nobody does a random pregnancy test 13 days after sex.

Exactly my point, most ladies do not really get concern about issue of pregnancy that quick. And looking at women menstral cycle, it is around the time she went for test she ought to have her menstral....so for me, something ia fish....abeg, take all necessary steps so that they won set you up

For me, I think she is trying to hook you. For her to do a test 13 days after you guys had sex probably means she already had a plan. From the look of things, most woman do not really take pregnancy test immediately just like that. For me, some thing is fish and for her to have the boldness to quickly tell her mother looks suspicious. You had sex 30th of July and this is already 19th of july and her mother is already mounting pressure on you....guy, look well.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Her son will take over from her.

I have been reading all your posts and from the look of things, we need to question your home training and you intellectual acumen of the African culture. Also, we need to question your mother. It is either you were train to be respectful and uphold the African culture as a woman but you refused to listen and learn or your mother is non-challant and which then follows down to you. But for now, I won't want to accept that your mum is non-challant and disrespectful with lack of manners because every good "african" woman are uphold in high esteem. So the question boils down to you, were you really trained and taught the ethics, culture and norms of what it entails to be woman or you just decided to be an animal and lack manners?

The answer is 5 for bako and the mother was 30years old then

MadamVanessa:



So for this period of months she was pregnant was she still menstruating, didn't she observed that things were changing in her body? I am confused


If at all no changes occurred in her body, and she was still menstruating, then they should keep an eyes on that baby closely, a genius has landed.

This kind of experience do occur to mostly fat ladies. It has happened to lot of ladies like that. Some even menstrate throughout the pregnancy making them ignorant of the condition.

Many people doubt juju or voodoo, but it exist 100%. If you have not experienced it before, keep quiet... Wetin you know no reach wetin you no know.

This will be really hard on you. You need to stop giving her money for a while.