nzeBiddle:
Haah ...@JahzaraAde you should help a brother with suggestions on how to get around this

Loool Nze, I'm not a dating guru o, however I'll try

Mr Delai. I find it very difficult to believe you only see a Nigerian girl once every 20-30 social encounters. Where within London do you reside in - Nigerian girls are not that scarce at all!!!

If I'm very honest with you, I cannot offer you a long list of places to try in order to meet serious Nigerian girls - these encounters usually happen by chance. So my top advice to you sir is take your desires to God, and whilst waiting, lead an active single life. Better yourself (your education, finances, social standing), get closer to God and become a worthy man for that future worthy woman. Marriage is never something you should rush into because of external or social pressures - pls take this into consideration.

If you still want a suggestion for where to meet the type of ladies you described..

Church. Especially large churches with an active Singles' Ministry. My church is a great example, we have numerous weddings between our single bethren each year, and at times two ceremonies on the same day. And as for babies... it averages to two births a week - God be praised. South London is crammed with RCCG churches and the like, just find one.

When you eventually meet an amazing lady, don't forget you yourself must be a man of substance. As an ambitious Nigerian lady myself, I don't entertain advances from all men... you've got to bring something substantial to the table.

Wishing you all the best

MzNelly:
It's not the gift that counts

jacksparrow1207:



And for the arsenal thing ehn, u can still change dear. Its never too late. Il be d happiest if u swap arsenal for chelsea

jacksparrow1207:


Actually, i wished for a draw. But i doubt if thats possible with Dimaria's red card.
Anyways, its yur lucky day

jacksparrow1207:


I hope watching d match rght now?

CharlesNneji1:


Yo smart. [s]Now I'm thinking of getting you pregnant so I will have kids that think like you.[/s]

I need to copy some of what you said here in my next article, shey you no go sue me for piracy abi?

"A girl's desire for you is not synonymous to her desire for your money"...(I'm so stealing that line)

Come here, You need chop kiss jare. I have been trying to put that same thought into writing for over a week now.
Thank you joor.

Nobody is getting anybody pregnant. Similarly, there shall be no kisses exchanged Mr...

I don't mind you incorporating my opinion into your article. Glad to be of help. I don't think you would be caught out for plagerism, as I haven't published that particular sentence in a book or an essay (yet).

Although referencing me would be appreciated (via the Vancouver system please ).

All the best with your article, I'm sure it'll be an interesting read!

Venom104:


yeah.. im just saying its easier for girls (because they choose to) to see the romantic side of a rich guy than that of a broke guy.. what the modern day girls perceive as "romantic" mostly comes with cost.. sooo...

Lol, which is a shame right?

I'm sure there are quite a few Nigerian ladies who don't equate romance with wealth.

Yet, I must stress that wealthy guys can and do get ladies easily - after all, affluence is probably the biggest predictor of a secure future. Whether this in itself is correct is a debate for another day..

Take care

jacksparrow1207:


Lol. Now thats another reason why handsome dudes marry ugly ladies; they want a lady who's got a disciplined spiritual life. A lady who's got this connection with God. You kw why? She helps compliment the dude's poor spiritual life
And pls id lk yu to divorce every relationship uv got with Arsenal

Oh wow. Have you not met beautiful ladies who are also God-fearing and spiritually grounded?
There are plenty o

I've supported Arsenal since I was 7, I refuse jump ship because things are a lil rocky with the team lol. Not a glory hunter like some ppl *cough* Man U supporters *cough*!

jacksparrow1207:


U bn playing holy lately. Whatzup with ya mate?

Lol JackSparrow, we meet again

Ah ah, you've followed me long enough to realise my religion is quite central to who I am. Or have I behaved in a contrary manner?(feel free to tell me lol)

And I saw your last mention - leave my team alone! I'm a proud supporter of the gunners

Venom104:



LOL see these girls.. its funny that 99% of the time, its the rich guys that are funny and romantic... etc etc

Horus:
Pentecostalists claim that when the Holy Spirit comes to you, you speaking in tongues, or Glossolalia. Glossolalia comes from the Greek word Glossa and it literally means, "tongue." They claim the "lord" is passing a message through them and that one may be blessed with the divine gift of speaking in tongues (languages). Yet, Pentecostalists don't speak in other tongues. Instead, they fall out on the floor and start babbling and muttering, while moaning and talking undecipherable mumbo-jumbo.

I agree with this statement. I don't care how much money a guy has. If he can't make me laugh, be romantic without spending a dime, and I don't enjoy being in his presence, all of his fortune means nothing. I make my own money and can provide for myself. I look for a man to grow old and share life with, not for the dollars.

jacksparrow1207:


Hahaha tryna get u in hot water. Lol
Hv a grt weekend too
Dnt forget to watch chelsea game

Lol I thought as much

The Chelsea game? I'm an Arsenal fan, so I probably won't watch it..

1. Sending PM/requests/message: Prior to tosin post yesterday, sending numerous PM to a lady just to break even of winning her love is arrant nonsense. Am not saying sending PM is wrong but make it little. You can imagine sending 30 PMs per day to a lady is just a show of shame. I mean for crying out loud, such guys are displaying high level of foolishness. These are the kind of guys you see their post claiming most nairaland babes are rude. Your mates are busy thinking of how to make forbes list, u are chasing... only God knows if these ladies upload their real pix.

Blackett:
You're an ambasador - with one "s".

But that's an unrecognised word bro. (I thought you were correcting a typo lol).

Thanks anyway, at least we've met halfway

Blackett:
Your dad is the main man. . . The ambassador.

Lol, alright

But why am I not alluded to as an ambassador also?

See discrimination, all because of the trivial matter of cutlery! I'm your fellow Nigerian sister o

Blackett:
Even in private? You don't use your hand?